Apawa: I met this guy when i was jus 18yr.we had a good relationship for 8years. He's nt handsome bt hav a gud heart dat makes him a lady's man. We had our ups and down as couples do n people think we might end up together. There re times i spend nites alone in his house while waiting for him bt he,s busy in d arms of older women. When ever i confront him he tells me the truth bt men as they are wil never repent. I on my side had being very sincere during the 8yrs. My greatest pain was that we had 2 abortion and the third broke de carmel's back was wen he abandon me wit 7months pregnancy. I was heart broken n had a premature labor. At dat time of pains i swore he wil know no peace. My boyfriend is married twice witout any child nd no peace. I dnt know where to find him when i had of his pligt. Am feelin responsible,though am married wit four children. What do u nairalanders think

Mynd_44: I would not be surprised if the motive behind those thread is that she misses the guy and would not mind getting back in bed with him

chidyhels:
get bck 2 such guy? GODFORBID..she happy wit her 4 kids already

Idowuogbo: Haaaaa! Babe na karma dey do d guy o! Forget all dis stunts about d curse

Listen! he dey reap wetin hin sow, say a silent prayer wey u dey and if dat doesn't set him free, den na stronger winch dey dat mata.

pattybf: hmm! I was going to write something like dis b4 i found this post, i went through a similar situation.

In my case, my ex & I started when we were both young,he wasnt handsome bt had a very good heart & very generous.we dated 4 many yrs, had 3 abortions & even lived 2gether. Den he decided 2 travel out bt little did i know he was going to get rid of me @ dat point. Immediately he left, a cousin of his moved, b4 i cld ask what? Or if get in touch with him, i had already been thrown out of d hse wt all my things(includg clothes), dis happened in surulere, d only family i had lived in ojodu i cried all d way 2 dat place on dat fateful day. after 3yrs he came back wtout lookg 4 me, i heard of his arrival & went 2 see him bt he dismissed me sayg his family wont allow him to marry me. Dat day i left crying & cursing him with d abortions he convinced me saying we would marry proper & ve many children, den i also remembered all d chances i lost bc of him, in 1999 dec, de last time we traveled home together,suitors came 4 me, wt family & wine bt i rejectd them cos i had someone.
After dat incident, d next thing i heard was his marriage plans, i felt so bad but there was nothing i cld do than 2 curse him again, infact i ask God 2 take away children & happiness from'his marriage.2yrs after, i got married & now i ve a son bt his stil childless.he actually approached me 4days after my wedding.
initially i didnt giv him audince, den he went 2 see my Godparents, he said he was willing to settle 4 all dat i lost & to
earn my 4givness. I named a priced bt he neva did anything abt it,even though he calls &spends hrs on my phone,[size=15pt]he neva even directly asked 4'my 4giveness. i dont know if my curse is really workg [/size]
Bt i would like 2 see he's remosreful of dat he put me through cos even though it has been yrs, it still hurts!

ATMC: idowuogbo!!

charles424: Its disheartening hearing this,you don't need to curse anyone for not marrying you.
Sometimes what we want in life is below Gods plan for our life.If you are both destined to marry each other he won't ever leave you.But God has being showing you so many things to tell you,you are not meant for him but you ignore.So you payed dearly for it,
Now you went to do judgement on your own,that's not right,If you force yourself on him,do you know what would have happen to you?
Go and look for him and uncurse him immediately,to remove what will eventually happen to you too.I pray you do that immediately so that peace will reign in your life.Leave judgement unto Almighty God.

DONkollione: just pray for the guy!

charles424:
Its disheartening hearing this,you don't need to curse anyone for not marrying you.
Sometimes what we want in life is below Gods plan for our life.If you are both destined to marry each other he won't ever leave you.But God has being showing you so many things to tell you,you are not meant for him but you ignore.So you payed dearly for it,
Now you went to do judgement on your own,that's not right,If you force yourself on him,do you know what would have happen to you?
Go and look for him and uncurse him immediately,to remove what will eventually happen to you too.I pray you do that immediately so that peace will reign in your life.Leave judgement unto Almighty God.

Apawa:
I met this guy when i was jus 18yr.we had a good relationship for 8years. He's nt handsome bt hav a gud heart dat makes him a lady's man. We had our ups and down as couples do n people think we might end up together. There re times i spend nites alone in his house while waiting for him bt he,s busy in d arms of older women. When ever i confront him he tells me the truth bt men as they are wil never repent. I on my side had being very sincere during the 8yrs. My greatest pain was that we had 2 abortion and the third broke de carmel's back was wen he abandon me wit 7months pregnancy. I was heart broken n had a premature labor. At dat time of pains i swore he wil know no peace. My boyfriend is married twice witout any child nd no peace. I dnt know where to find him when i had of his pligt. Am feelin responsible,though am married wit four children. What do u nairalanders think