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| What Would You Advise Him To Do? by Johndoe100(m): 1:56am On May 24, 2012 |
I was chatting with a customer (who lives abroad) and he told me what a guy in his line of business was going through. Basically this guy and his wife are both mature and the guy has been married for 2 years then his wife fell seriously ill. In the course of treating her and helping her at the hospital etc.he found out that she was born a man. She had a complete sex change operation and has lived as a woman for years before they married. The guy has separated from the wife and is contemplating a divorce. What do you think? Should he divorce the wife or stick with her even though she once had a d.ick and cannot of course have any children? For the guys, can you knowingly have sex with a woman who was once a man? |
| Re: What Would You Advise Him To Do? by SisiKill1: 2:13am On May 24, 2012 |
Lmaoo!!! JD!! JD!! Akika fada! !  No Divorce oh. . .for better for worse. Divorce is a sin. He has married him. . .her. . .shim. May God bless their union with shèmàlè babies!! Amin! 2 Likes |
| Re: What Would You Advise Him To Do? by sophy09: 2:32am On May 24, 2012 |
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| Re: What Would You Advise Him To Do? by ifyalways(f): 2:45am On May 24, 2012 |
Oh dear! He or she is getting her/ his divorce papers on that bed. You have a right to do anything to your body but you have absolutely no right to rope me in to your mess.no stopping to think through, its divorce straight off for me. |
| Re: What Would You Advise Him To Do? by femmy2010(m): 2:49am On May 24, 2012 |
A though one this is,best to take time out to think things over before reaching a decision. |
| Re: What Would You Advise Him To Do? by tpia5: 3:23am On May 24, 2012 |
always check the feet and musculature,[b]before [/b]jumping into the relationship, sheesh. lord have mercy. |
| Re: What Would You Advise Him To Do? by Ivynwa(f): 4:20am On May 24, 2012 |
Jeez! He did no wrong in divorcing him/her because the s-h-emale shouldn't have withheld such important info from a spouse. Sisi_Kill: Lmaoo!!! JD!! JD!! Akika fada! ! Hahahaha |
| Re: What Would You Advise Him To Do? by Johndoe100(m): 6:44am On May 24, 2012 |
I am surprised, not one of the women who posted here understands. The wife is now a woman just like them. She may have once been a man but now she is all woman. I expected some sympathy for her. |
| Re: What Would You Advise Him To Do? by recruitmnt: 6:49am On May 24, 2012 |
Johndoe100: I am surprised, not one of the women who posted here understands. The wife is now a woman just like them. She may have once been a man but now she is all woman. I expected some sympathy for her. Don't kill me with laugh oh, it's early mo mo 2 Likes |
| Re: What Would You Advise Him To Do? by Prime007: 10:29am On May 24, 2012 |
I can see why the husband would be bitter, that kind of info is very important. @john Maybe they don't really think she is a woman. |
| Re: What Would You Advise Him To Do? by EfemenaXY: 11:51am On May 24, 2012 |
Johndoe100: I was chatting with a customer (who lives abroad) and he told me what a guy in his line of business was going through. The heck!!! Jonny I'm seriously enjoying this thread of yours!  Johndoe100: I am surprised, not one of the women who posted here understands. The wife is now a woman just like them. She may have once been a man but now she is all woman. I expected some sympathy for her. Yeah, but we don't have an Adam's apple like him. Sorry, I mean like her. No, not him/her, I meant to say it |
| Re: What Would You Advise Him To Do? by Johndoe100(m): 12:25pm On May 24, 2012 |
Efemena_xy: I can see that you are having fun. If it was a man that was treating and mocking a woman like this you all would be up in arms. Anyway I guess that's why that thread about you people being your own worst enemy is up there. Prime007: I see, well she has all the equipment they have and even more important, she has the same emotional make up as they do. It really is very bad for people to hold the fact that she was born in the wrong body against her. You did not answer the question, can you have sex with woman like her? |
| Re: What Would You Advise Him To Do? by Nobody: 12:38pm On May 24, 2012 |
Sandalili sandalili, sandalili sandalili, sandalili sandalili sandalili sandalili I am a Doctor in my country, some of you know me well If you look me up and down, you will know that it's true |
| Re: What Would You Advise Him To Do? by jmoore(m): 12:52pm On May 24, 2012 |
It is homosexuality, that's why he wants the divorce. |
| Re: What Would You Advise Him To Do? by livapul86(m): 1:04pm On May 24, 2012 |
jennykadry: Sandalili sandalili, sandalili sandalili, sandalili sandalili sandalili sandaliliRoflmao! laugh don make hunger dey catch me. I remember this song o! Nwanyi, Isi gi o di ro okay. |
| Re: What Would You Advise Him To Do? by SisiKill1: 1:36pm On May 24, 2012 |
jennykadry: Sandalili sandalili, sandalili sandalili, sandalili sandalili sandalili sandalili Oh my God Jenny!!!!!! You just took me back. . .errr. . .a couple of years when I was 12.  Jeeedus!! I remember that song!! |
| Re: What Would You Advise Him To Do? by EfemenaXY: 2:12pm On May 24, 2012 |
jennykadry: Sandalili sandalili, sandalili sandalili, sandalili sandalili sandalili sandalili Jenny wetin dey do you naw?? We're having averrrrrryyyyy serious discussion here about Now I wan play "panya" - & t'is all yer fault! |
| Re: What Would You Advise Him To Do? by bisi16(m): 2:48pm On May 24, 2012 |
Sisi_Kill: Lmaoo!!! JD!! JD!! Akika fada! ! U're totally on point joor! Divorce shim... Lol |
| Re: What Would You Advise Him To Do? by Johndoe100(m): 3:17pm On May 24, 2012 |
^^^ I knew it was only a matter of time b4 the other winches arived. Now lets see how your evil plays out. @jmoore She is a woman, not a man. |
| Re: What Would You Advise Him To Do? by Tgirl4real(f): 3:35pm On May 24, 2012 |
Johndoe100: I was chatting with a customer (who lives abroad) and he told me what a guy in his line of business was going through. Na wa o o o Oga, this question shouldn't be coming from you o. You know the answer now Na for better for worse o |
| Re: What Would You Advise Him To Do? by tasandra: 3:44pm On May 24, 2012 |
Soooo funny allow me think 1st b4,i reply |
| Re: What Would You Advise Him To Do? by Tgirl4real(f): 3:46pm On May 24, 2012 |
The post really got me cracking up esp coming from JohnDoe. Seriously now, I do pity the transgendered. I can imagine the stigma and depression he/she goes through before the operation. The surgery must have given her (since he/she chose to be her) a true essence. Wait o!!! Seems I am not getting you right. Why did he change the sex in the first place? Has he/she been living happily as a woman? To answer your question, Na divorce o. As a man I can't stand d thought of being intimate with another man  |
| Re: What Would You Advise Him To Do? by Tgirl4real(f): 3:50pm On May 24, 2012 |
Johndoe100: Do you actually consider her a woman  Johndoe100: Are you saying she has boobis like a woman |
| Re: What Would You Advise Him To Do? by Johndoe100(m): 4:54pm On May 24, 2012 |
Tgirl4real: Look at these and judge for yourself. How many of your pals look this good, even though they were born women. These were all men at a point in their lives. |
| Re: What Would You Advise Him To Do? by Tgirl4real(f): 5:23pm On May 24, 2012 |
Ok. May I ask what motivated them to change their sex ? **** They look good though  |
| Re: What Would You Advise Him To Do? by jmoore(m): 5:31pm On May 24, 2012 |
Johndoe100: ^^^ I knew it was only a matter of time b4 the other winches arived. Now lets see how your evil plays out. @jmoore She is a woman, not a man. What defines a man? Don't even start what you will not finish. Born a woman,always a woman. Born a man always a man. Those picture you posted are all artificially manipulated by cosmetic surgery. If the real women whom you said are not good looking as the artificial ones were to go for a cosmetic surgery they will look better therefore your comment is irrelevant. |
| Re: What Would You Advise Him To Do? by SisiKill1: 5:32pm On May 24, 2012 |
Johndoe100:If they look like that JD, why is your friend complaining? I mean these sheeemales are better looking than many women I know. I say your friend should be happy with what he has. . .how many men can brag about having a partner who can work two equipments very well. He can never complain that his wife can't please him because before she became a woman, she was. . .well she was like him and must know what turns a man on. Lucky Chap, that one!! |
| Re: What Would You Advise Him To Do? by Nobody: 5:40pm On May 24, 2012 |
| Re: What Would You Advise Him To Do? by iaabc(f): 5:50pm On May 24, 2012 |
Sisi_Kill: Lmaoo!!! JD!! JD!! Akika fada! ! |
| Re: What Would You Advise Him To Do? by moremi2008(m): 5:51pm On May 24, 2012 |
The woman was dishonest about her ability to satisfy a very fundamental reason why many men get married: procreation. That's enough grounds for a divorce. However, the man really needs to check his motives for wanting a divorce. Is it because he was deceived? Or because he is disgusted at fact that he is married to a woman who used to be a man? Or because the woman can't have kids? He saw something in her that made him propose; those things are still the same. Either way, he has every right to seek a divorce and I hope he is a bit more careful next time. As for me, I think I am smart and experienced enough to know the difference between a real p*ssy and a reconstructed one. There are just too many tell-tale signs. I can never fall for that trick! Never! Besides I hear these women have to inject themselves with hormones for the rest of their lives! I would have caught her a few times injecting herself! If all else fails, my mum nah real prayer warrior! Holy Ghost fire go push out the truth before I walk an ex-man down the altar! God forbid bad thing oh! |
| Re: What Would You Advise Him To Do? by Johndoe100(m): 6:29pm On May 24, 2012 |
@jmoore Being a man or woman is not written in stone. You can change your sex. Stop being so dogmatic. |
| Re: What Would You Advise Him To Do? by jmoore(m): 6:42pm On May 24, 2012 |
Johndoe100: @jmoore If you are sure of your own advice why post the problem here? Common sense is no longer common in this 21st century. |
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