TisaBone: and all of you men on nairaland say that women are gold diggers. I must admit, it was mighty tempting, but he told me his age and i flipped. at 23, a 34 year old man is way too old for me. but for some reason i feel like i did something wrong, or that i should have given him a chance. but at the same time, this gives me the strength to resist other men. I can always tell them "look, i turned down a guy who was pushing a mercedes, what makes you think that I would put up with your mess?"

on the other hand im scolding myself. What is wrong with me!!! I feel like im self sabotaging or something.

The man was probably stingy

So because a guy driving a Benz,is toasting you and come out here just to open a thread about it? U no get work abeg comot for road make I pass jare

Idowuogbo: na wa o!

@23 dis gal is opening a thread talking about wot exactly? Na2day! so if buggati stop for u wetin u go do? open website to discuss ur experience abi? SMH!

^Next time Shake Yo drum sized jugzzz

So because a guy driving a Benz,is toasting you then u came out here just to open a thread about it? U no get work abeg comot for road make I pass jare

Idowuogbo: na wa o!

@23 dis gal is opening a thread talking about wot exactly? Na2day! so if buggati stop for u wetin u go do? open website to discuss ur experience abi? SMH!

lmao!

swiftycool: Its ok to feel special with what uve done but seriously as Slimyem or what's the name of that one who calls d men in her life on Nairaland (especially swiftycool) weasels said; its really no biggie. I know a couple of Naija girls who have turned down young men with private jets and yatchs. Even my fine 28yr old cousin was turned down severally though politely even with his all his 2008-2011 porshe Suvs and properties by a simple yabatech girl despite his honest intentions for a full year in Naija till he gave up.

Some girls are really well cultured and principled while some just aren't, only those who aren't would see passing an old guy with a benz as a great achievement imo.

Fixed!!!!!

I will be dumb to comment on this thread

Is dis suppose τ̅o be an achievement? Ahhh †ЂΞ world of women is so bleeped!

You did the right thing babby....Benz is too old class and zaps Fuel..If he is driving a range Bleep him plss **kisses**

@poster: I think you missed an opportunity. You never judge a book by the cover and you must stop working with the assumption that most men who are much older are always up to some mischief. There is no big deal if he came in a benz or a keke napep what matters is if you can be friends with the brother. Furthermore, you must no like every guy that comes your way and I must commend you for that. But next time try and get the person better without letting down your guard. Who knows he might just be the person. Looking for someone your age might not always work because men who are within your age bracket might turn out to be immature and. Insecure. Well I wish you the best, just follow your heart.

When you are 28, you will be looking for a guy riding BAJAJ......... Mtcheeeeeew

TisaBone: and all of you men on nairaland say that women are gold diggers. I must admit, it was mighty tempting, but he told me his age and i flipped. at 23, a 34 year old man is way too old for me. but for some reason i feel like i did something wrong, or that i should have given him a chance. but at the same time, this gives me the strength to resist other men. I can always tell them "look, i turned down a guy who was pushing a mercedes, what makes you think that I would put up with your mess?"

on the other hand im scolding myself. What is wrong with me!!! I feel like im self sabotaging or something.

get out from the mastur.bating business and follow who know road!

@poster what kind of Mercedes? 190? 230? G Class? You didn't specify o!!

TisaBone: and all of you men on nairaland say that women are gold diggers. I must admit, it was mighty tempting, but he told me his age and i flipped. at 23, a 34 year old man is way too old for me. but for some reason i feel like i did something wrong, or that i should have given him a chance. but at the same time, this gives me the strength to resist other men. I can always tell them "look, i turned down a guy who was pushing a mercedes, what makes you think that I would put up with your mess?"

on the other hand im scolding myself. What is wrong with me!!! I feel like im self sabotaging or something.

[size=13pt] Well, your stance is a BIT commendable[/size]

ArQueBusieR: It reeks of [size=14pt]honourificabilitudinity[/size].

PLS HELP ME WITH THE PRONUNCIATION OF THAT WORD

what a dumb thread. . . on many accounts

1. What is the big deal with the age difference? 11 years? So?

2. Plus Benz-driving makes him a millionaire or what? Dint realize there were still people that fall for that [i]s[/i]hit

3. After all that, you now come and open thread about it?

4. Plus. . . it made home page? Wth? I guess the mod was been sarcastic when he/she did that.

5. And I just wasted 3 mins typing this

At 23, you feel that a 34 year old guy is "too old" for you? What planet are you from? Lol. Don't worry, you'd soon get to 34 yourself, perhaps still single, and then you would be (desperately) happy to find even a 60 year old suitor.

She is probably ugly and insecure. Grls turn down guys with rolls and range sports and many big cars and here you are talking about benz which could be a 1980 model flat boot or 190. Dont feel like you achieved anything. Since the car is a factor here, you will probably fall for a bigger car irrespective of the age behind the wheel. How you know his age is still missing. At 23 you think you are a kid. Wait for another 7 years and come back here. We will be waiting.

Tolulop001: what a dumb thread. . . on many accounts

1. What is the big deal with the age difference? 11 years? So?

2. Plus Benz-driving makes him a millionaire or what? Dint realize there were still people that fall for that [i]s[/i]hit

3. After all that, you now come and open thread about it?

4. Plus. . . it made home page? Wth? I guess the mod was been sarcastic when he/she did that.

5. And I just wasted 3 mins typing this

Lol. Than you jare. That's all.

Another Nigerian girl who is an I-D-I-O-T gets her 15 minutes of fame on Nairaland homepage.

@TisaBone,
You could have sought your advice from your mum,aunt,elder sister or better your pastor or his wife.
I also noted some level of arrogance which is unchristain.
U despises men older than you by say over 7 years and do not give room to whatever God wants for you.
You said you a very very pretty girl? By whose standard? Who is not?
African American? What about it?
Do you have to tell the world of your decision to remain celibate till you marry?
It should be a vow b/w you and God with commensurate reward for obeying God.
Next time think through a topic b4 posting it.

na poverty complex dey worry u, wetin be benz 190.

op probably has hope in sum oda guy (fiance, boyfriend)
besides, what u did is what every girl does some other day..
stop feeling like a 5tup1d hot chique

No offence but r u seriously proud of your self for turnin down a benz suitor? Or is it because of his age. Whichever, his car or / and age is not a qualification for marriage. Provided he's not dirt poor or wheel chair old don't come and tell us here

Very interesting!!!! Since you like guys your age, what are u then doing with Kieth Sweat's pic as your display pic U for put whizkid pic

You are not serious with yourself.Soon you will start visiting MFM and Redemption Camp with these prayer points.
1.Any person hindering my marriage what are you waiting for,fall down and die
2.My husband locate me by fire in Jesus name.
3.Every spirit of delay in my marriage die by fire.

May i advise you to call the man and apologise before it is too late.

yanga make som1 mess-up now som1 is regretting! kai i swear money na bad tin

And op, you seriously think this is laudable? Hmm. Where on earth do you live that you think turning down the advances of a benz pusher is a feat? And you're 23?? Oh my! When I get to your age, I don't want to think like you, amen. I'm sure the benz sef is not 4matic or anything Behind.

OK=2=NV:

I give you just 7years and you will be chasing after everything from 50yr old pot bellied men to midget sized dwarfs

Gbam!

Was it a straight engine benz 200?

U did nt specify da class of benzo.i would say u did good if it was a 190.bt ud be outta ur mind if it was an E350 series.