Hello everyone, thanks for ur support nd advice. If u look at my past threads, u will understand my story better. The marriage has been dissolved finally but it was after reporting my ex at min. Of justice at ALAUSA ikeja. He was asked to go nd finalize everything so that the kids welfare will be tackled. He promise to cater for the kids welfare nd finally the bride price refunded but now my ex wants us to talk. Pls should i listen to him or ignore him.

Talk about what, did he say?

@jenny he sent a text that we need to talk.

Then meet at a restaurant and talk

He has to specify what he wants to talk about first, ask him then decide if you are ready for it ie whatever it is.
Make sure you inform your family, atleast your mom where you are meeting him for the talk.
Lastly, do not promise him anything during this talk Cos "he sounded, talked, acted or looked changed "

Your marriage was not done in court because the discussion would have been done before judgment was delivered.
Go for the meeting with an elder person like your sister, uncle, or brother, and hear wat he has †☺ say. Remeber the welfare of the kid(s) Ȋ̝̊̅§ paramount.

The welfare of the kid have been taken care of, we hve moved on jst that the talk thing is wht i dont want now. I feel like ignoring him .

Why?he is still the father of your kids and the least you can do is to maintain a cordial relationship with him.

Find out what he wants to talk about and decide if its worth the trip. If you don't want to go, tell him politely that you won't come.

ujutonia: The welfare of the kid have been taken care of, we hve moved on jst that the talk thing is wht i dont want now. I feel like ignoring him .

You guys should discuss over the phone, let him buy enough airtime on the phone and you both should talk....there is no need for face-to-face discussion, at least not now! and if you are going to do any fac-to-face discussion, go with at least two people, infact two men!!...have it in an open place...say, an eatery, let the guys seat at another table and enjoy a solid lunch while you both 'talk'.