@ Bennyraz:

There are ways of dealing with difficult situations.... wacking her face is not an ideal one.
It shows an inherent lack of communication skills.
Throwing your fist is less cerebral than employing mental faculties to bring about desired change.

The essence here is not ..........
Accepting her disobedience (if that was the case) ......
but having an effective means of correcting it!!!!

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zsd

Mynd_44:
So you are saying you would slap your bride to be right in the church? Please dude, some thing are signs of being mentally unfit than being in control

oh oh.. well, suit urself. I knw wat i'm saying.

bennyraz: oh oh.. well, suit urself. I knw wat i'm saying.

I don't

@DOe Eyed. Some women are stubborn(she goats) and in order to deal wit dem, u dnt take trash. While sum r gentle (she-sheeps) for the goats, u dnt spare d rod, if not, u might spoil the child(woman) while 4 d sheeps, they do u bidden. Over time, most women have a troublesome nature and u have to show them u're true trouble maker for them 2 respect u. If two metals jam, one must bend for one

Mynd_44:
I don't

jst a quick one.. Is life an easy ride?

bennyraz: jst a quick one.. Is life an easy ride?

"Life is what you make it"
Nas

Gdluck dear

@ Bennyraz.....
She-goat or She-sheep.....
That gives u no right to turn her into a punching bag.

If her wahala was too much, leave am je je: and face una corner.

Shikena.
.

doe-eyed:
Gdluck dear

@ Bennyraz.....
She-goat or She-sheep.....
That gives u no right to turn her into a punching bag.

If her wahala was too much, leave am je je: and face una corner.

Shikena.
.

Sent you a mail.

@doe-eye. There's a different btw slap and punch.. If her wahala is too much, my own wahala go double. I wud neva tolerate a disobedient woman and i will do everything within my reach to teach her to be humble and respectful.. You see, that's why i would take a critical look at any woman i would date, if she can't be decoded to my taste, i will simply leave her. And if she can be decoded, i will surely employ my masculine powers in my quest

Mynd_44:
"Life is what you make it"
Nas

Life is a b1tch. Nas

bennyraz: Life is a b1tch. Nas

But must you make that"biatch" with violence?

fluid26: An epic? A real man? Dude, I am not an advocate of rude behaviour or any woman-inclined vice. However, such violent behaviour on his WEDDING DAY does not depict him as a man. He is a lunatic...and should be treated as one.

To begin with, NO MARRIAGE! Shut down everything with immediate effect!

Secondly, sue him for all he is worth...for aggressive behaviour and mental torture.

Literary giants and paper tigers.
I fancy your grammar composed from ineffective brain.
You really want to end a marriage that took you almost a year to plan because of minor disagreement?
You must be an underage in maturity

"...for this reason a MAN will leave father and mother and cleave to his wife..."

First off, mariage is for adults. Real adults. Mental, emotional and phsycological adults. Too many kids are getting married these days, kids who assume that "for better and for worse as long as you both shall live so help me God" is a phrase that has no meaning once the reception party starts.

Your marriage is what you make it. You want peace and bliss, give it even if your spouse isn't. You want a wrestling match, join the WWE.

No 1 reason for fights in marriages ; They both deceived each other, and after wedding found out that it was all a lie.cunny man die cunny man bury am. The first rule to peace in a marriage is truth, tell each other the truth at courtship before wedding or your spouse might feel short-chaged after it. My pastor normally say, if you sneak into church to find meet a good woman, you will meet a lady that sneaked into the same church to meet a good man, and if I am the priest, nothwistanding I will marry you guys lol

^^^Now that's funny! I need to know that pastor.

samfibby: My neighbors just got married, a lot of money and time went into the preparation, couldnt attend the wedding. Guess what? They come home after the wedding and they start fighting, cursing and quarelling. Is this what marriage is suppose to be like. Right now, i am scared stiff of anything called marriage. It is suppose to be merry, merry, and all that, no wonder a lot of marriages are crumbling like cookies these days.

The difference is clear, blink and move on. maybe na the babe sponsor the marriage.