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Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by denny4ril: 11:40pm On Jul 19, 2012
grin if you are a man of true worth, a man of integrity and value, ladies will pursue you...car or no car otherwise, you will pursue them. grin and beg for a ride angry
Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by acidtalk: 11:43pm On Jul 19, 2012
mannet: Well am a staunch reader & member of this group though I don't usually comment anyhow or post rubbish,I think some people should learn courtesy,attitude & manners,when a topic is posted for u to comment,u try as much as possible to to comment reasonably without insultive words or languages; when u insult at a slightest post it means something is Fundamentally wrong with u and u need to check ur life physically & spiritually over & over again...take note Sexkillz;I've diligently observed dat 95% of all ur post on this forum is either insult or empty brags which will eventually lead u no where in life,please it's high time u change ur attitude & also to similar kids like him,although am sure ur reply to my observation will be anoda insult instead of taking time to reflect on urself,but I don't care cos I've made my observation & have advised u like a brother.takia
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God bless you for this.
We have fasted and prayer for him all to no avail.
He has a big problem but fails to realize it.
He is just frustrated.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by acidtalk: 11:46pm On Jul 19, 2012
sexkillz: ^My online personality is not a reflection of who i am in the real world. I don't care about online reputations, so you may wanna roll up your advice, and shove it!

No offence, and spoken like a brother as well. . .

You can never be a calm and respectful man in the real world and then be a terror online.
It is just not possible.

Your personailty online shows the kind of person you are in life.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by Nobody: 12:08am On Jul 20, 2012
grin grin
Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by mannet(m): 12:12am On Jul 20, 2012
sexkillz: ^My online personality is not a reflection of who i am in the real world. I don't care about online reputations, so you may wanna roll up your advice, and shove it!

No offence, and spoken like a brother as well. . .

Well now I see that u truly don't want to change and I see also that u're not sincere with ur life,how can ur online personality be different from the real u; out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh/ hand writes,or express ursef,also by their fruits we shall no them. With the way u talk seriously am very much convinced now that u have a problem.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by acidtalk: 12:16am On Jul 20, 2012
mannet:

Well now I see that u truly don't want to change and I see also that u're not sincere with ur life,how can ur online personality be different from the real u; out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh/ hand writes,or express ursef,also by their fruits we shall no them. With the way u talk seriously am very much convinced now that u have a problem.

You are so correct.
It has been medically proven that he has a problem.
Even seun have spent alot on getting him one of the best psychiatrist in Nigeria, all to no avail.

He is being deceived by the fake praises those girls shower on him after those his silly comments.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by mrkels(m): 1:18am On Jul 20, 2012
acidtalk:
You are so correct.
It has been medically proven that he has a problem.
Even seun have spent alot on getting him one of the best psychiatrist in Nigeria, all to no avail.

He is being deceived by the fake praises those girls shower on him after those his silly comments.
Just let him be even though sometimes he talks anyhow. Its all part of the annonymous thingy. I Thank God nigerians do not feel depressed easily and are not sucidal like most whites, hell I have seen people kill themselves because of people like sexkillz online, Some people can be that useless. There was this time I was cyber bombed in a I hate justin bieber forum where I spoke positively about him, and the replies? Some1 said that being a black already means I was a failure in life...just imagine, and that was the mildest insult I received that day. People like him need to change but then again,he can't harm us nigerians because we do not let it get to our bone. And about the topic, well dunno what to say, dated one back in the days. And it didn't even last, she was a control freak. It may not be intimidation, but most guys just get a 2nd thought about the whole thing.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by kalufelix(m): 2:23am On Jul 20, 2012
sexkillz: Another lopsided myopic generalization. . .

Which Nigerian Guys? How many Nigerian Guys? A quick look at that topic would have any visitor think that is the norm with Nigerian Guys. Is it the Nigerian guys with cars or without cars that are intimidated by ladies in cars?

Inferiority complex is really a marrafuker. . .

Learn to speak for yourself, dammit!
yhu gotta wake up 2 some realities man. We knw dia ar no clear facts nd figures wen pple say tins such as nigerian guy, nigerian babe and all d rest of dem. But hey! we all knw dis is 9ja nd we knw hw its been done here
Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by childluck(m): 4:36am On Jul 20, 2012
acidtalk:

Thought very few. But some ladies don't care about them being of higher and better status than you.

They are even willing to give you but there major concern if for you never to toy with their hearts or appear as a gold digger.

They will appreciate to the extreme the little gift you give them.
OP. What is the percentage of ladies in this category of yours? What is their age bracket? Ordinarily ehn, a lady with a car believes she is better than you without it social status wise. If her's is better then no biggie. Ladies love cars no be small!
Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by honeric01(m): 5:24am On Jul 20, 2012
childluck: OP. What is the percentage of ladies in this category of yours? What is their age bracket? Ordinarily ehn, a lady with a car believes she is better than you without it social status wise. If her's is better then no biggie. Ladies love cars no be small!

Ladies know cars? i thought that was for men?
Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by Password77(m): 6:35am On Jul 20, 2012
sexkillz: ^My online personality is not a reflection of who i am in the real world. I don't care about online reputations, so you may wanna roll up your advice, and shove it!

No offence, and spoken like a brother as well. . .
*yawns* story... NEXT!
Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by RuuDie(m): 6:49am On Jul 20, 2012
On the real, its very hard not to feel intimidated especially if where you are and come from is far from picture-perfect!

For me, I won't mince words, I generally avoid such dames except if they show interest. . .call it a complex or whatever; but at the very least, it saves me a world of hassles!
Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by 28octo: 7:08am On Jul 20, 2012
Princeparix:
checkout EBEMMA'S post
first let me make smthng clear, I dn't have a car.

Fat lady,slim,shor,dark ,rich,poor etc... One thing stands... Its d fact they all have a heart,blood..that qualifies them as humans.

Car?....that one nor join
Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by jba203: 8:19am On Jul 20, 2012
Almost every single body has a car in South Africa. Oh, another thing, I have never seen any African migrat driving good
Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by Nobody: 9:38am On Jul 20, 2012
One thing about internet conversation or debate is the fact that you don't see the commentors to know their age bracket, personality, etc. But if we can be honest, we are Nigerians & not europeans or americans, so to say in our culture, men are positioned to be on top, while the women follow as help or say assistance, but modern culture has swap things anyway. Speaking from reality, Nigerian guys (who owns no car, or average income earners, etc) tend to avoid ladies with car cos they themselves don't even have the male-courage that is required as a pre-requisite to wooing a lady with such stuffs. we cannot come online to pretend, lets say the truth, how many times have u as a guy without a car seen a lady driving a car & went to approach her for friendship or date? to start with, what will even be the meeting point? when most ladies that own car tend to portray themselves like goddess. its only guys that own cars that have assess & courage to approach ladies with cars in Nigeria except on very rare occasions whereby the lady with car showed full interest in the guy to boost his ego & make him complete the chase, else, Nigerian guys that have no car, or with low-income tend to avoid ladies with cars for several obvious reasons including: avoidance of being let down or humiliated, avoidance of being tagged a GOLD-DIGGER, avoidance of being intimidated or controlled, avoidance of being let down cos most ladies with cars tend to snub guys without cars cos they see them as failures & third class men, who are not worthy of their companionship or love. so guys step up your ego, your attraction, your etc, etc by working hard & praying hard & being honest in life & making the right male friends so that u can succeed financially in life becos without it in Nigeria, you are a failure when it has to do with having your dream woman. cheers!

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by omar22(m): 9:41am On Jul 20, 2012
sexkillz: If ladies in cars intimidate you, say so. Don't generalize and spew blah. . .



SPOT ON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by acidtalk: 10:07am On Jul 20, 2012
@Ruudie and @DailyNew,

Thanks so much for the honesty and word facts.

Most people on this forum tend to paint a story/life they are not worth fitting into thereby just satisfying the "day dreaming ego".

You both spoke well.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by Melahou(m): 10:27am On Jul 20, 2012
u only feel intimidated if u want 2...
2 me car is not a luxury but a necessity...
i may ve d moni 2 buy a car but may not ve d need 4 it
at d moment...
Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by doublecross(m): 11:41am On Jul 20, 2012
one thin all guys should try to attain in life is a standard education up to higher level. if this is achieved, then no guy would ever be intimidated by a lady with ride. infact, the lady would mean absolutely nothing to the guy.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by Annie1: 12:30pm On Jul 20, 2012
PPL offended with sexkillz comments, need to take a chill pill. or drink something

Life is not that serious haba , He curse anybody for this post? he's just been sarcastic and you guys are getting offended

Its called Dry Humour folks..

I wonder how you cope in the real world

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by Benemond(m): 1:02pm On Jul 20, 2012
tongue
Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by Annie1: 1:19pm On Jul 20, 2012
Melahou: u only feel intimidated if u want 2...
2 me car is not a luxury but a necessity...
i may ve d moni 2 buy a car but may not ve d need 4 it
at d moment...

Gbam ! its a neccessity..

But i get the whole naija mentality, ITS VIEWED AS A LUXURY(imagine the comment , that my almara is better than urs, seriously WTF??)

Personally,i will prefer him to drive,its just more convenient for both of us.. but will i date someone that doesnt? OfCourse !!.. as long as the attraction ,connection, mental compatibility is there.

These are material thingz, that can come n go at any time.!

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by Princeparix(m): 1:41pm On Jul 20, 2012
28octo :

first let me make smthng clear, I dn't have a car.

Fat lady,slim,shor,dark ,rich,poor etc... One thing stands... Its d fact they all have a heart,blood..that qualifies them as humans.

Car?....that one nor join
Am not saying dat love dnt exist between such classes>love has notin to do wit it<.
Undastand my view of tins please; such circumstances are rare is this damn modern world of ours.=SINCERELY I CAN TELL YOU DAT LOVE IS NO LONGER BLIND BT OPEN WIT TOUCHES
Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by Mynd44: 10:03pm On Jul 20, 2012
honeric01: Intimated? No but repackage myself? yes..

She will turn to my personal driver ;p;
Bad guy
Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by acidtalk: 10:46pm On Jul 20, 2012
Mynd_44:
Bad guy

really a very bad guy
Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by Nobody: 7:09am On Jul 21, 2012
Mr..Cork:
well, 98.7% of homebased educated Nigerian guys are usually bus conductors or Street traders... which is why they are usually intimidated by female drivers (its truee) undecided

You're wrong and stup.id. You must have been drunk or stoned when you dreamt up that percentage.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by Mynd44: 8:22am On Jul 21, 2012
ROSSIKE:

You're wrong and stup.id. You must have been drunk or stoned when you dreamt up that percentage.
He lives in a parallel universe don't blame him
Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by Heymus(m): 10:15am On Jul 21, 2012
ROSSIKE:

You're wrong and stup.id. You must have been drunk or stoned when you dreamt up that percentage.
That is just what he is. He doesn't even av any gud point,let me tel you, conductors don't even send you and ur car.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by Mynd44: 10:54am On Jul 21, 2012
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Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by acidtalk: 4:52pm On Jul 21, 2012
Heymus: That is just what he is. He doesn't even av any gud point,let me tel you, conductors don't even send you and ur car.

Conductor that will threaten to bash your ride if you forcefully drag road space with him.

Ignore 190. He is a re*tard.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by Mynd44: 8:40pm On Jul 21, 2012
Not when I am driving with a mobile police escort van being and in front of me they would
Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Intimidated By A Lady With A Car by Heymus(m): 9:18am On Jul 22, 2012
acidtalk:

Conductor that will threaten to bash your ride if you forcefully drag road space with him.

Ignore 190. He is a re*tard.
na so nah. Mybroda

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