Please my name should not be mentioned. My boyfriend said he needs a break and when I asked him why he said because we are moving too fast.

Please am yet to understand what that means. Could it mean he's no longer interested in me or what?

Please advice from matured pals. Thanks.

if you've had sex chances are he is moving on. plus if you dont konw his family and friends that pepper to the soup. but then he may just need breathing space if you are always in his face

This is the one of those times u shd blv a guy and play along.

If a guy says he needs a break for any reason, don't even argue or beg. Just give him a break and a verrrrry long brk. Also don't wait for him to come back to renew d relationship. At this time 190's advice will come in handy. Move on to d back up. If he comes back, u can accept him if u want but don't go jumping into his hands.

The last thing u shd do is to go worry urself why he needs d break. He may or may not be honest abt it and frankly its non of ur biz. Whenever he sorts himself and comes back, u can always say welcome to mummy or kick his sorry arse to d curbs.

Another time u shd blv guys is when they say the are not ready for a relationship or that they no longer love u

IM0...For him to have asked you out in the first place is a plus meanin he was interested in u! But now he can't say so for sure anymore prolly cos u aren't giving him breathing space, thus making ur love choking and this situation can be rili irritating to guys even if they love u hence he demanded for a break to have a re-think and figure out exactly wat he needs.

giv more details, babe!
lik hw long uve bin 2geda, hw intimate u guys are n stuff lik dat
den we can look into d calabash n interpret d "we nid to av a break" tori!

I meet him 4 month ago, we are both a corper serving in the same same.although we av a little corel before and we just settle some weeks back before he finally said he is no more intrested without any excuss

Op
Have u giving him d P word

If NO give him,

If YES live him & come 2 ME am FREE

kitty kat: This is the one of those times u shd blv a guy and play along.

If a guy says he needs a break for any reason, don't even argue or beg. Just give him a break and a verrrrry long brk. Also don't wait for him to come back to renew d relationship. At this time 190's advice will come in handy. Move on to d back up. If he comes back, u can accept him if u want but don't go jumping into his hands.

The last thing u shd do is to go worry urself why he needs d break. He may or may not be honest abt it and frankly its non of ur biz. Whenever he sorts himself and comes back, u can always say welcome to mummy or kick his sorry arse to d curbs.

Another time u shd blv guys is when they say the are not ready for a relationship or that they no longer love u

Gbam I'm so proud of yuh

Maryspeck: I meet him 4 month ago, we are both a corper serving in the same same.although we av a little corel before and we just settle some weeks back before he finally said he is no more intrested without any excuss

Good heavens. . . *shudder*

@op, no offence intended dear, but are you sure you are a graduate? Your atrocious grammar points to the contrary

Unbelievable,190 is all grown up!!

So? Giv him 1 nww

Maryspeck: I meet him 4 month ago, we are both a corper serving in the same same.although we av a little corel before and we just settle some weeks back before he finally said he is no more intrested without any excuss

A month? I can see why the guy wants to slow down. This is all moving too fast and he needs time to breath so that he does not make a wrong choice

Oh my!!!... Kitty Katty has said d right thing. One thing she failed to say again is dat, dat the guy comes bak 2 u doesnt mean he wants u bak 4 good. May as well jst nid 2 drill ur well.

U get?... He nids space?. Def, its poseeible, perhaps he has a lot going on, bt damn! A guy wudnt say dat 2 a lady he loves Slimyem wat do u think?... A guy loves u hook, line & sinker... Wit ur troubles & shortcomings... If he rily loves u he shudnt be asking for a breakup bt to correct u or tell u to not... I mean find a way to reverse, stop, avoid wat makes him think u'r goin too fast. Hope u get?.

This is my advice, dnt beg, say u understand, chill for a while, watch his calls, his shots, and be wise... Use d time space to watch him like a cobra in her hiding. If he comes bak, evaluate his motive... If he doesnt, pls dnt beg... U'r nt the pproblem... Just move on... Show some interest in a guy u like, dnt linger around, dnt jump on him. Life goes on.

Just learn from ur past & better ur future cos he may just want out.

In my opinion, he wants out.

Maryspeck: I meet him 4 month ago, we are both a corper serving in the same same.although we av a little corel before and we just settle some weeks back before he finally said he is no more intrested without any excuss

In other words, he wants to move on. You should so the same.

Listen to this op

tellwisdom: Sweerie, i knw wat u gurls are capable of-----Im so sure u must have been whispering marriage into his ears

So have you been?

@mary u shuld undastand dt, we guys sumtimes tins jus cum up in mine. Dt we our self dnt undastand if he says he dnt wnt, den dnt push it, jus let it go

Maryspeck: I meet him 4 month ago, we are both a corper serving in the same same.although we av a little corel before and we just settle some weeks back before he finally said he is no more intrested without any excuss

₪☹ hard feelings o!
1.What "corel" is it corel draw?
2."We are both a corper"
3."Serving in the same same"

Are you really a graduate or ure just faking it?

As for me, the day any guy will tell me 'Sweetheart, I need a break" is the day he can go jump into the lagoon for all I care.

I agree with kittykat, just let him be and don't go begging. That could irritate him the more. Just let him know you appreciate him and you are willing to give him the space he so desire.

Most NYSC boys enter into relationship on camp just to satisfy their sexual urges. What is meant to be will be.

Most galz during service year enter into a relationship with the goal of permanent catch....
So their sub-conscious desire just takes over once a guy shows interest.
Just to add to the great 'voices' on ur case.
Why did U get into this relationship?
If ur answer differs (wit his) plz stop worrying ur already worried soul on him....

yemstok:

₪☹ hard feelings o!
1.What "corel" is it corel draw?
2."We are both a corper"
3."Serving in the same same"

Are you really a graduate or ure just faking it?

Lmaooo!!!!

Damn... See finishing

Puss¥ cat has said it all...girls should learn to differentiate between love , sex and money.....@op ur story aint complete

I think some guys are just scared of commitment. I don't know your case, but maybe he feels that he just needs some space. Some people are like that. It doesn't necessarily mean he's not interested in you. But unlike a lot of gals, guys usually don't have the same need to enter a serious relationship too fast.. Tho I'm a girl myself, I believe guys are better than girls at still holding on to their other priorities, interests or whatever - instead of just sacrificing EVERYTHING for their relationship. Not saying that this is always the case, but it's just how I usually see it.

He said he has had enough. What else is the OP waiting for, his wedding IV to another girl?

Tomoria: I think some guys are just scared of commitment. I don't know your case, but maybe he feels that he just needs some space.

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most guy are scared of committment and not some guys.

OP,
free de guy and remove yur mind from de affair, move on and dont try to beg

He needs a break?
Then give him a break sis>time would surely tell
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