These people are yet to be real. One of them is being held and no single one of them being a feather has said anything. Nigeria is still the same because celebs take crumbs from their table. Make dem no worry posterity will judge. Their children will reap their silence. Hypocrites!

Please where do I plant kisses for you. I have existed enough to see my mom and older women generations to know that the joys of motherhood or womanhood is not death sentence but a woman gracious to herself and live long enough for her children. I am not for suffer head o If I am also bringing coin of the realm to the table my dear, we will share responsibilities.

AntiBrutus:
Anything that can be outsourced, I will gladly do that, so far there is money and I get good results.

I wonder how family women in Lagos cope. I thought I love cooking, Not in Lagos.

These women wake up early in the morning, prepare kids for school, package their lunchbox, rush off to work, do their best to be productive at work, starts rushing back home, struggles for bus, buys petty things for the home in traffic, gets home exhausted, probably fixes dinner again, serves Oga, serves children, enters room, Oga still expects her to position yansh like a single lady with no responsibility...next morning she is up again.
Yet you wonder why the wife looks older?

The ones at the office were always sleeping. You will hear, "my baby refused to sleep all through the night, I think he is teething". I asked them, why don't you take this stress off you? I can't be working, earning in 6digits and still suffer myself like this naw. Do, I want to die and have a man remarry before my casket sinks into the ground?

Surprisingly, they said NO!

It made me realize another thing, Naija women love accolades more than anything. They rather do these things, be stressed out, so that their husbands can call them superwoman. They also need it for emotional blackmail. They wouldn't want anyone (this includes their husband and kids) to think they have motherhood easy.

That is why paintings of a black woman most times looks like suffer. Kid at the back, another in the hand; basin on the head and they are trekking to God knows where . This is a Naija man's definition of wife material. This is what Naija women have perfected the act of pretending to be.

Anyway, not me. I outsourced almost every fcking thing. Sometimes I meet my buddy at Eko hotel roundabout. From there we go for dinner. He drops me home, I bathe and sleep!

I make money to make my life easier. I would only do these things if they are very convenient for me. No one should expect me to perform magic in same 24hrs he has, when we both do a 9-5.

If you go and kill yourself, he would remarry and she wouldn't even have to boil water. Look at Regina, getting customized cars weekly. After Ned's first wife spent all her productive years going to market and pounding akpu .

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My own is something should be done to unoccupied homes in Abuja. It sad. People want to rent but it's not affordable causing waste.

This life sha.

They were out of their minds. Most of our actions and decisions depends on what largely controls us but we fail to be sure if we are in the right state of mind.

Fadomero:
never put your trust on women, the best is to cheat on them

You're a product of your background. Whatever you utter shows your altar.

Jason007:
there's no gift like the gift of companionship. ...

Sincerely, you just said my my mind. I enjoy it a lot wedding na formality.

Sunnymatey:
ls that how they clean dirty gutter in ur village? By swimming inside it. Some women ll never learn.

So if you know my village, it's enough reason to decipher that my comment was orchestrated by my village. How sad. Mtscheww.

You people have started again with your nonsense inconclusive reports. Where did you get ypur multiple reports from? What if she was trying to clean the gutters? Everything you attach to rotuals and sex jeez no sense of reasoning beyond sex. One idiot was asking why olori of Ofe ain't pregnant yet. Do you people reason at all? Oga o

Sincerely, I feel we are cowards. Someone is being harassed unjustly and everyone is staring some is to poat online what happens so fighting back. Imagine if the people around stood up and fought and this act is replicated everywhere, I don't think they will continue.

pillarmaria:
I don't know why I feel everybody commenting on this thread is a coward.

We shall still wail over this issue tomorrow, why don't we just take the bull by the horn, imagine if we all unite and stage a full week massive protest and shutdown all over the country, trust me FSARS would be reformed by force.

Imagine if 20 able bodied men had accosted the SARS operative for bullying and harasing the young man, Shit wouldn't have happened.

Sad! I dont know her though. Rip and may the family be comforted.

visijo:
This world is not our world my sister,you dump a guy because he cheated and get a guy who was dumped because of cheating,and claim you moved on..that's cross lmultiplication.

Funniest comment I have heard in a long while. Lol

I though you needed to use warm water to mix the yeast.

How much were they paid to carry out this deadly act? God you're just so merciful.

Thank you so much for this post. I had to bookmark it because it's a timely piece. I was about to be jaded (new word for me) and to think I didn't want to read the post. I am grateful I did. God bless you for the post.

Moreoffaith:
Gone are the days when our parents report us to our teachers so they can beat the hell out of us,

Who born you well to go home and report your teacher? Na to chop additional cane if you try am

But now parents encourage their kids to do whatever they like..

It's getting worse to the extent that students now exchange words with their teachers. The parents are not helping matters. The world should just end because the diaster waiting to happen will be terrible.

Welldone ik! Go and do exploit.

sisitito01:
This isn't for people who stay indoors all day. God epp my life.

I tell you. Lol or some of us that work into night no social life. I

Where are the likes and share people that were disturbing us here. Nonsense and ingredients. Our youths are simply keypad warriors. All they know is rant on social media while their future slips off their hands by old men who only think of their bellies.
Make una continue tribal and religious wars na.

Nice and good business. I hope there's continuity plan.

I wish him a successful show.

Happy birthday snake man

If they like postpone till next year, power must change hand. Shikena. I had to put my pvc under my pillow lol no time for wahala.

ERCROSS:

Broh, the masses are gaining that power already. That power lies in the hand of you and I. There is no godfather anywhere that can single-handedly determine the next president of our great nation. If people like you refuse to go out to vote, you're giving that power back to godfathers.

Don't bother yourself replying some people. I think the Media has done enough publicity on politics awareness. So if these few decide to be deviant just know there are meant to be black sheeps.

You couldn't have said it any better. I am who I am because of my mom. The patrichal system especially in the west is a failed one.only few men take care of their children without being polygamous. I am tolling my mom's line. Infacr, I have thought of having my own house before getting married anyhow I must be independent so help me God.

ibkayee:
Can’t emphasise the importance of a woman having her own money enough, even if your husband is ok with fully taking care of you, still have something you can fall back on.

It’s empowering, self fufilling, it brings independence, multiple streams of income won’t hurt the household, you’re less of a liability, if your guy falls on bad times you can step in and help, being entirely reliant on your guy can open doors for misbehaviour (cheating, abuse, etc)

There was a recent story of one peanut head Nigerian man who destroyed a business he helped his wife build because he felt she was becoming ‘too proud’. When you have your own, if things go wrong you will have more options

So many reasons

Isaactop9:
after watching the debate yesterday, I had a renewed hope for Nigeria. I have always believed that Mr Moghalu is a kind of visionary leader we need in this country.
When I ask youths around me who they feel is capable of leading Nigeria at this point, some say Moghalu, some say Sowore, some say Durotoye, some say Ezekwesili but sadly they end up saying they can't vote for them and when I ask why, they say they just have the feeling that they can't win the election. This decision amongst youths is really saddening, knowing that we have the solution right before our eyes and we still choose to go the wrong direction.
Let us come out as youths and vote for these young leaders enmass and leave these old visionless leaders that have destroyed the future of this country just for their own selfish interests, even if we try and they don't win but we've passed a message that it's no longer as usual

God bless you for this. I have made up my mind to vote for Kingsley and stand by it. I just pray he continues. If the youths can vote this man if not winning the message is clear.

Larryslim:

So Because of election,people should not come out and have fun again?
Thank God you said thier hard earned money,no be your papa hard earned money!
Because you dont do something,doesnt mean you should condemn it!

Do you read at all to understand? Oh from d look of u, u are a kid. Enjoy.

Tundeobama:

You mumu die no country of the world citizens who can afford it don't pay to get thrilled and entertained by music movie or sport its very cheaper here.why would you be ranting on how people spend thier money poverty is sickness.

I dont get. Why do you have to insult someone to drive home a point. Are u sick or something?

benratigan3:
you see Nigerian youths, paying so much money to listen to CD played while the artist jump on stage miming but election day these fools will leave the affair of the nation on the old thief political elite, doing the e no consign me thing while these same artist perform for these politicians or are out of the country doing the e no consign me Thing on election day

Thank you. D tin just tire me. See how they came put enmass, paid with their hard earned money and still beat traffic to just be there damning consequences from crowded show. We're definitely not yet serious. I