gbagyiza:


There r some doors n opportunities that will not open until you r married. I have come across some business opportunities that don't go to unmarried folks. They r afraid to bring you in because they don't trust you as a single person, meaning you can sabotage n even runaway with something valuable when the opportunity appear. A friend was denied a particular job opportunity simply because he was not married at that age. They told him face to face that at his age he is not married, they did not employ him because they felt he is not a responsible person. When you have a family our society look at you with a particular level of trust than a single person.

And so?

You will go and marry for these prospective opportunities?

TheArchangel:
After ranting, they will still end up getting married and will continue the rants.

Women gains nothing from marriage.


Marriage strips a woman everything she has... Her name, family, friends, preference even careers.

Next life, maybe a sperm bank will do the honors.

Start now!!!

Marriage is overrated and archaic!

MrNipplesLover:
anytime I think about marrying some day, my heart beats faster with 1500w bass, my balls ring louder than a church bell.


how I wish I could just have a baby mama that I won't even need to have her in my house as a wife.


nothing sweeter than living as/like a bachelor.



as una dey see me so, I no like wahala for my life.

110%

I have done it for 20 years.......I'm looking younger all the time!

cnonyechi:


Don't mind him. I had an uncle who died single, it took us 4days to realise he was dead. Old, single and childless

His problem was poverty not absence of marriage.

drlateef:



The biggest mistake is to marry an irreligious and non-submissive wife. As Muslims we are expected to provide for our wives, not expecting her to provide for us. I am sure your post is directed at non-muslims.

Is anybody holding you?

Travel bro, most Muslim countries and societies are disintergrating at an alarming rate. Most Islamic countries are dirt poor!

scokoro:
No... I beg to disagree. I have seen people who started off as working classes but ended up as broke couples. I have also seen those whose marriage buttered their bread. That suitor that drives a Ferrari that you are melting for, could be driving his last car... ( I am not saying things change for the worse always) Though there are no hard and fast rules to marriage and its associated problems, I would solemnly advice anyone to look at for qualities that you could bear when the chips are down. For instance, If you are the talking type, remember, couples talk and waive hunger requests. Have it at the back of your mind that certain big things which you enjoy mostly may not be around after some years of entering the marriage room. Bodily curves and built would certainly disappear at some point; money sometimes may not be around for the most part, due to the arrival of the babies and other family dependencies. Marriage, may be societal norm but it is also a way of life in this part of the world. Some day you would wish to have someone who would sing for you, dance for you, play with you and take you for a walk. Discouraging people from marrying is not my idea of helping people fulfill theirr destinies. Afterall, no one gets into school to aim to finish with a third class but when life knocks there has to be an answer. The answer you give can be determining to go along with patience, forgiveness, charity (love) kindness and above all, endurance. It is these qualities that would make you be celebrated and for the world to continue with good people like you. How many descendants of Adolf Hitler do you know in the world?

What is your point?
You love marriage abi? Then stay for your lane bro!

gypsey:
The biggest mistake is getting married atall. who da hell gets married thesedays, Marriage is an ancient, stressful, depressing and achaic institution where one is tied to the hips with one emotional, selfish, self righteous, argumentative and obnoxious human. who da hell wants to be tied down for years with one smelly one sized vagina? when there are hundreds more different sizes, shapes and colours of vaginas out there, who da hell wants to be starring at the same bloody face, the same bad breath every morning? the same flat bottom? the same big bottom? the same large/small or medium breast, the same fat/slim individual.. all in the name of marriage. tueh!!



I am have been married twice, divorced twice, separated before and still single now. I know.

Correct guy!

bluefilm:


Nwanne, mechie gi onu osiso.

I say shut up.

Since when did men start making their wives earning potential their topmost criterion in choosing a partner?

That is the job for women to do.

As a man, your own job is to earn more and more money so that you can have as many women as you want.

That is the natural order.

I know an idiot when I see one!

don89:
Majority of a mans stress in life come from marriage related issues ,check well .

100%

Kingspin:
I hope you understand the whole truth about life and hustle. Rich and poor.

Her bullet hit you!

Pe le, ndo!

Starting a family without any financial security?

incogni2o:


Legitimate Companionship and Intimacy.

Children that give you happiness

Your head no correct!

Votukpa:


You're father was supposed to teach you this:

A woman isn't supposed to contribute in the sense of what you expressed. Stop looking for a woman who will contribute economically in your home.

Men are more beautiful and complete than women because we don't need them like they need us. Behold real beauty when a man gives his wife everything she needs and he doesn't need anything from her except her devotion and cooperation.

If any man feels he needs a woman to contribute in his home then he isn't ready to marry yet.

A man who is rich in every way doesn't require riches from a woman.

He is not only '(al)ready made', he is GODREADYMADE.

Oooops RUBBISH!

Entitlement mentality!

Akinbahm:


The biggest mistake in marriage for both party now is to marry who doesn't give him/her peace of mind irrespective of what both brings to the table...

Alaye, when you are ready you will give yourself peace of mind!

Michelle55:

That's not the biggest mistake huncle..
What if she's working and not supporting the home front in any way?
What if all the responsibilities still falls on you as the man despite having a working class wife?
What if she doesn't encourage nor inspires you to soar higher than you were before ?
What if she doesn't give you the maximum peace of mind you deserve as a man?
What if all she does is spend all her earnings on herself, buying the latest bags and clothes and attending high societal functions and not caring to acknowledge your presence in her life?
Trust me, there's a lot to marriage than meets the eyes.
Just ask your maker for direction when you want to settle down.
She might be working yet feels entitled to your money..
Marriage is 50/50... All hands must be on deck to ensure the smooth sailing of the homefront.

Whatever you sign can be unsigned!!!

Whatever you marry can be unmarried!!!

luvlyADESUWA:


My brother, you might be typing this out of frustration, but i tell you "it's very good to marry, it sweeter when u marry a good woman" It is BEST when both of you are working and contributing to the home.

The end shall tell, old age is NOT what any man prays to live without a wife by his side...
#fact

Another female propaganda! Save us the bloody sermon!

MelaninSkinGirl:
Studies show married men are happier and live longer than their single/divorced/widowed counterparts. Single/Widowed/Divorced men are more depressed and suicidal than their married counterparts.

On the other hand, studies show that Single women live longer than their married counterparts, they also retain their figures and beauty longer than their married counterparts.

These studies show that the main benefactors of marriage is the Men. Make of that what you want!!!

TOTAL CAPITAL RUBBISH !!!!

Davash222:
That's not the biggest mistake..

The biggest mistake is to marry a Nigerian girl.

Olorun oba!!!

9jaDoomCountry:
What of Lagos.



Will the frog eye of Bourdillon ever agree?

Shut up leave Lagos out of your misery.

Kudos to my Biafran brothers...…..this needs to be replicated across the country!!!

Thiefs dem!!!

My utmost respect for Bola Ahmed Tinubu but if I was baba, I will sharply rescind the pension payments and return that state building he bought back to the state government. I hope baba listens oooo!

Oka4:
As good as this move is, there might be an alterior motive to it. TRUST NIGERIAN POLITICIANS AT YOUR OWN PERIL

Another idiotic cynic!! Keep your negativity to yourself ……….unhelpful stupe!

kessling:
E no go last. The speaker will become the governor and 'normalcy ' will return

SICK B*ST&RD!!!!!!

Cynics like you are unhelpful and should just keep your bloody hopeless mouth SHUT!!!!

Best news ever from Biafraland!!!

madridsta007:


Only idiots know who idiots are.
I’m sure you agree with this basic truth.

Anuofia, get lost!

LadyGCrueDKilaB:
lol come and grope me so I'd show you how in charge of my emotions I am

Come and grope you?

No, thank you!

Oloun ma je!

eni4real:
You are mixing it up..

Girls will always marry earlier than guys.
Just because you are not ready does not mean someone else is not ready!!

Girls usually don't have to be financially capable for marriage before they get wedded.

It is one of the gift of nature to them!!

You will continue to hustle until you feel ready for marriage responsibilities!!! But girls will get someone who is ready to take up as many financial responsibility to make a stable family!!

(Woe unto that woman that disrespect such a husband tho )

Money is deciding factor here ... If, as a guy, you are rich at 22, you may settle down sef

This is why there is so much poverty and too many under nourished suffering children in the land.

A woman who doesn't have any skill or income is neither ready nor suitable for marriage. And if they marry, over time they get abused or ultimately divorced! You can see it abound in society.

madridsta007:


Marriage is dependent on many variables. One key variable is the economy of the country.
In a growing economy, there would be marriages.
In a recessional economy, there would be less marriages. It is that simple.

When Nigerians were campaigning and chanting "Change" in 2015, I was laughing in my corner. Obviously, the fact that Buhari was a kingpin in bringing in recession and economic downturn was not new; this is clear in Nigeria's past history. However, it appeared that Nigerians didnt realise enough what the consequence of economic disaster would be.
You think there would be Owambes as you had it prior to 2015?

We shouldnt just blame the men. The blame should lie at the feet of those who brought in this regime on Nigerians.

Idiot, don't mess up the thread with your half baked political and economic knowledge. Aniofia!

MMotimo:


Looking good, I saw what you did a few pages back You dodged "the garbage truck."

Dyt
I salute your courage. That emotional /mental strength to leave is in short supply for women all over the world, rich or poor, who are victims of abuse

The abuse gets worse. When a relationship is over believe me it's over!

Goldie16:
Because, many of them are broke. WOMEN HUSTLE!!!

This is the main reason!

Fucking useless broke women - they infect you with their wretchedness!

Abuse them but the mofos will refuse to leave. Nobody wants to marry a Nigerian woman abroad now. Annoying, dependent piece of misery!

LadyGCrueDKilaB:
lol come and grope me so I'd show you how in charge of my emotions I am

I was not raised in poverty in Nigeria. I don't have a need to grope you cause I have solid self control. In poor countries men feel entitled to sex but in richer countries men are very wary of women and very selective. I am willing to bet I wouldn't give you a 2nd look if I see you.

Joshbass:
Just 11days into the marriage and she was already refusing to give her husband sex... That's not a good sign at all.. What then is the definition of Honey moon??.. SMH.. I'm really disappointed..

Idiot, have you asked if the poor girl has eaten?

Werey go dey wan Bleep woman wey una never give food.

LadyGCrueDKilaB:
play with my feelings, mental health and emotions? nah I'd rather kill you

Foolish woman, go and learn self control. Put yourself in charge of your own feelings, mental health and emotions. Your responsibility to yourself!

Why is the yamlegged iyanmirin Biafran man driving our BRT?

This is the reason these poverty striken igbos are abandoning their ancestral land for RAGOS.

We need to send them all BACK!!!! To their rotten Nnewi.

VickyRotex:


Says Alhaja Chinyere.
Akoi lafia? se ewa alright?

Se iyanla iya e wa alright?