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RomanceRe: I'm Broken Wat Do I Do, Its Few Months To My Engagement by Assalaam(f): 4:11pm On Jun 01, 2012
@poster, ''a stitch in time saves nine'' according to the word of the elders, pls let him be because ''the end might not justify the means'' aword they say is enough for the wise
FamilyRe: Today Is Children's Day: Say Something To The Kids by Assalaam(f): 7:26am On May 27, 2012
Happy children day to you all....
NYSCRe: How Relevant Is NYSC NIM? by Assalaam(f): 11:44am On May 26, 2012
talk2dhanny: NIM is very useful and is indeed an additional boost to your CV especially if you are pursuing a career in management. Outside the field of mgt, say finance, insurance, banking etc...companies do not exactly regard it for the knowledge u acquired from NIM but for d fact that you belong to a professional body (very important).
I studied Agric Econs and am about pursuing MSc. Management in Unilag. One of d requirements for that course for those that wern't graduates of management (or a similar field) is NIM. Chck out unilags postgraduate site Msc. Mgt to confirm.
this is true but i thnk what they are requesting for is associate member certificate and not graduate member cert. Giving to corpers meaning that you still need to progresss in the institute(NIM) to make it more useful.
NYSCRe: How Relevant Is NYSC NIM? by Assalaam(f): 8:22am On May 22, 2012
jaydude: please has any one upgraded from graduate member to associate? please how does one go about that?
the asssociate membership stage has eight subject and as a graduate in relevant field u are to register for four papers and pay exemption fee to be exempted in four courses they are doing at graduate level. So taking the course as a corper just gives the advantage of not paying the exemption fee and writing the remaining four paper straight after paying. I think there exams is normally march and september
FamilyRe: Am I Supposed To Pay For My Wedding? by Assalaam(f): 11:11am On May 04, 2012
@poster, pls be wise when doing it because it can turn to another thing b4 u know it. Im a living example, i took up everything both rent and the wedding expenses because he was having challenges with his work then and the preparation was in pipeline. Infact, the main reason while i did those things is because i dont want my family to see him and his family as poor because it will reduce the respect they command(which i built anyway) but to my surprise its this family of his that told him that its desperacy that made me to do those thing and he believe them(which still baffles me till today) and b4 i know it all what i have been working for years b4 knowing him and even during the period just end. Im just getting use to the reality, so my sister be wise and moderate when doing it especially as it concern wedding ceremony. Dont let them take ur generosity for something else because i dont think there is anything that hurt like it.
HealthRe: My Pre-eclampsia Story. by Assalaam(f): 1:44pm On Apr 26, 2012
@afad, im so sorry for the loss and i pray that your family will be compensated fully in all way by GOD. Pls take good care of your wiffy like u've been doing and i know GOD will continue to be with both of you. Infact, i cant help but cry.......
RomanceRe: Why Guys Don't Value Nice Girls by Assalaam(f): 7:18pm On Apr 18, 2012
bakila: Sorry o,












But you are not nice, you should have wished him the best for ever and ever no matte what.
ok ooooo, so if i want to be nice shld i wish myself bad. Im not wishing anybody bad, i just want GOD to reward us all and that one is sure because its GOD promise.
RomanceRe: Is It Necessary To Date Before Marriage? by Assalaam(f): 8:20am On Apr 03, 2012
oraclefemi: I have been dating a girl for 7 years now ...still yet i dont know her enough and never will. all i can say is that once you can tolerate someones imperfections then you can live with them , sometimes the problem is from us and we dont know and we act all like she is the problem, if you like date 100yrs , you can never understand a woman totally, tolerance is the word
truth of the matter because its not how long you date that determine the success of the marriage but the willingness of the two parties involve to make it succeed. Its the willingness that will make them to tolerate and overlook each other flaws.
RomanceRe: Why Guys Don't Value Nice Girls by Assalaam(f): 7:57am On Mar 25, 2012
janejive: I can categorically say am a nice girl, b4 I got married guys I hv dated always feel am pretending, is she really dis nice, cooking? Cleaning, washing etc, they never appreciated me, they thot it ws a gimmick 2 tie them down in marriage, then I met Husband, b4 we got married, I did nothing 4 him, didn't even get gifts, didn't cook @ his house never washed his boxers I just didn't do anything. He was surprised now we live alone 2geda, when I come up with meals it surprises him, he said he thot am an ajeborta. Dats it, Guys are scared of nice girls dat shows love, affection care the whole package. When u over care for them in a relationship they grow a big head.
thats the truth my sister, so are so lucky u learnt your own lesson in time, in my own case, after everything(which i hate mentioning because it hurts) i was accused of luring him with my money and using jazz on him. Till this moment i still find it difficult to believe he could say those thing with his mouth. Anyway, i've hand everything to GOD and im sure HE will reward everybody accordingly.
RomanceRe: Why Guys Don't Value Nice Girls by Assalaam(f): 7:54am On Mar 25, 2012
janejive: I can categorically say am a nice girl, b4 I got married guys I hv dated always feel am pretending, is she really dis nice, cooking? Cleaning, washing etc, they never appreciated me, they thot it ws a gimmick 2 tie them down in marriage, then I met Husband, b4 we got married, I did nothing 4 him, didn't even get gifts, didn't cook @ his house never washed his boxers I just didn't do anything. He was surprised now we live alone 2geda, when I come up with meals it surprises him, he said he thot am an ajeborta. Dats it, Guys are scared of nice girls dat shows love, affection care the whole package. When u over care for them in a relationship they grow a big head.
thats the truth my sister, so are so lucky u learnt your own lesson in time, in my own case, after everything(which i hate mentioning because it hurts) i was accused of luring him with my money and using jazz on him. Till this moment i still find it difficult to believe he could say those thing with his mouth. Anyway, i've hand everything to GOD and im sure HE will reward everybody accordingly.
FamilyRe: How Was Your First Year Of Marriage? by Assalaam(f): 4:13pm On Mar 23, 2012
Infact, i dont know where to start from because im just month into it and a full disc cant hold the experience.
CelebritiesRe: Late MC Loph’s Fiancee Gives Birth To Baby Boy by Assalaam(f): 4:03pm On Mar 23, 2012
Good news, congratulation to the family and welcome to the destiny boy.
TravelRe: Why Do Foreign Embassies Reject Our Nigerian Traditional Weddings? by Assalaam(f): 3:57pm On Mar 23, 2012
jobfront: the traditional bangles given to me by my father-in-law and mother-in-law, plus pics, and several other cultural and traditional evidences should be able to convince them that i am married to the lady. i dont want a girl who never knew how i suffered to mke money and wealth to come tomorrow to claim my sufferings in the name of being my wife. she will only enjoy my wealth when she stays with me, if i die, she gets nothing cos she must be a suspec, so that she will be praying for me to live long life and not planning to kill me to inherit my wealth.
typical nigerian men thinking, i dont know what pple like you take women for. Its only GOD that can save women from this mess.
PoliticsRe: FG To Reduce Salaries Of Public Servants by Assalaam(f): 3:43pm On Mar 23, 2012
Sorry oooo, im just confused with pple responses here. Pls the word '' public servant'' refers to who, is it the political office holders or govt workers?
PoliticsRe: Ibb Is Sick and admitted by Assalaam(f): 11:42am On Nov 11, 2011
lagerwhenindoubt:
IBB then Tinubu then Rita Dominic grin grin grin grin grin
haba, whats her offence, anyway try to be considerate.
RomanceRe: Will You Marry Who You Are Currently Dating? by Assalaam(f): 6:51pm On Nov 07, 2011
sunnshyn:
If I do, I'll b miserable for life. So NO.
so what are you waiting for,

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