Then why he doin all these?wetin dwy sup wit dis naija boy?
He even said he will Block me everywhere n wont tell me when he jst vanish from my life outta d blue.so i told him he can do it But
It will be him Who will miss me n regret cos see,i been helping him in hardship for past 6 months.i even sent some 50usd 2 nigeria 4 his mom when she was at hospital.now plannin 2 surprise him 4 his bday abt drivin licence course paid so dat he can easily drive here I europe.
Then he was just quiet 2me...And said u r just oyinbo i neva met,u jst dey vex me
I dnt care abt d money,is notin2me cos im happy 2help him ok?but why he doin all these

Pls my bf is angry wit me 4 being friends with blacks (both men and women),why all these?
I just love Africa n its ppl since I turned 18.even is been my dream 2 open school in Africa for children n setup some business 4my guy n help.his family- all because of love.
I know also why I stopped being so close to white guys tho I have some oyibo male friends But just few.yet I have many white gal friends.
My bf complainin why I dont have male friends from usa Or Germany But all about me is black n Africa,dat Im so into Naija food,naija languages,naija music n clothes.where did I go wrong?Im faithful lover and my child is also half afro so wetin dey sup?
He also says dat all.his friends Who dey with white girls these oyibo ladies dnt even smile at anybody Or greet any1.
I remember some months back he was vex cos one girl he introduced me to said she can plait hair 4my pikin n i wanted 2 book appointment Wit d girl But my guy was so angry dat last last dat girl didnt do my child hair.
Pls.tell me what up.wit dis guy cos I didnt mean no harm,he say i only make him angry n he fails 2 understand me.so i told him dat He shuld try 2 accept d way Im instead of tryin 2 understand me cos I know he my everytin n i wont cheat But why he doin all these 2me even if I talk Or socialise with afro ladies...

Lol pls no insults.but Who u consider 2be loose here?man Or a girl?

I have 2 questions to GUYS only...But no hatin pls,only sincere replies

1.if ur gf say she found u boo no.2 as a bday gift how would u feel n Wat uld u tink of ur gf no1?

2.if a guy says thanks 2 his gf for finding wife no2 for him n wanna kno more abt dat new person what conclusions shall d main gf come to?

Heu guys,

I been in rship Wit this guy for 6 months but he no wanna introduce me to his dad and siblings.
He say is enough he introduced me 2 one of his cousins n his mom.but when I asked him today abt his dad he said he will not do so cos his dad will ask me only for money since Im white girl.
And he said his siblings i dnt need to be introduced to them cos they are in naija n dat I make him vex by askin him their names.and he says he neva ask me abt my mom Or my cousins names though he tlked to them few times on fon.
What Im i supposed 2 do?Im confused...I thought African people care abt family stuff

No he isnt wealthy...Wat is tokunbo girl?and tear rubber virgin?

@DONTRULE

is not jst abt sex cos He is even the one Who dont wanna knack 2 much n always sayin he wanna take me 2 Naija n marry me n have pikin as he tink of settling down now n wanna start a family...

@NEUDUDE

Wat makes u tink he is wealthy?E no be true...He isnt n even if he is then Wat wealth Or poverty has 2 do Wit his attitude?

Merch abeg ooo...I didnt come here 2 give Or take insults...

@ADVANCE-DNA

Why attention givin choking?is long distance rship not abt communication and tlkin more?cos I used 2believe its the only ting we have 4now since we cant meet any time soon...
I only point out dat He behave weird cos I neva experienced such from anybody whom I dated.
N I dnt tink he isnt a talking type cos i know he like bein on fb Or whatsapp alot.jst dat it hurts when he threaten 2 Block me Or leave me if I ask him any question.
So how Im I supposed 2 know him better?

@DABONNY:
Ok how come obsession?is it bad 2 know his work timetable?look,we r far away ok?i guess if we lived in same area such issues wuldnt be a problem cos when i used 2visit him i didnt ask such though i see notin wrong in knowin when he comes home 2give him food 2 eat asap he reach house.one more point,how will I kno when can we talk when I dnt know when he is free.am not tryin 2 control him.pls dnt misunderstand me.but we are far apart so I miss him n would love 2 tlk 2 him.4me i dnt have wahala Wit sharing Wit him when I close 4rom work Or if I wanna be alone Or Im busy i wont be angry wit him.

Hello...
Can someone tell me why all these,whats goin on?
My long distance bf told me last week dat He finish work at 9am cos He works only morning hours.
So I used to talk 2 him only afta his work and b4 He gets home 2 rest a bit.
But when I called him around 10am assuming He closed from work n based on what He told me he was so angry with me cos of my call n said he is still at work.
Then I asked him 2 tell me his work schedule so I know when we can talk.but he got vex n he said 'Wat kinda qst be dis,dont call me until u hear from me'.
4 real i dnt understand dis guy,ive neva been Wit some1 like him.sometimes i feel im even wrong 2ask him any personal qst jst 2 know n understand him.but he says dat he neva ask me qsts abt me...whats goin on?

Hmmm ok I hear u

Ok so u mean I shuld 4get am??there aint no luv from his side?

The issue is i think I passed dat stage in my life of clubbing every weekend,i already have a pikin But dey Wit dis guy in long distance rship.
Is killin me dat every weekend he go out 2 naija club n yea he drink quite much beer(like 7 bottles every day).cos 4me I only go club Wit him when we meet n i dnt drink at all.
Im afraid if I voice out my feelings he go say i try 2 control am n be jst vex wit me.
On top of dat Im 2000 km away from him...
I cant Stop cryin cos yesterday afternoon when I asked him abt his weekend plans he neva replied me wella,he only said everywhere good n jst dismissed my qst.
Then later at 9t I happened 2 see am n his homeboy in my dream dat they were Wit some girls in d club n when dis mornin I told my guy abt it he say my dreams vex am n i should stop dreamin such dreams.but I cant program ma dreams,can I?
And yea Wat make me also worried is dat he say he wanna tink of future 4 us so I shuldnt come visit him 4 his bday next month.
Yet he will be goin out every weekend 2 club,spend on shayo n do money shower there when is some celebration there.
Wetin dey sup Wit dat boy?
I no dey fine,jst dunno wetin I go do...

Hmm guys,why fightin under my post?I was thinkin ill get some response instead of 419 posts n fights lol,

Hmmmm...My long distance bf go clubbing every saturday...even 2day i asked him in d afternoon abt his plans for weekend but he only said everywhere good n neva given me any specific response.
Do u guys tink he will change this lifestyle if we have baby?

Ok I hear u...thx

Hey guys
I wanna ask a question.my boyfriend knows that theres some guy whom i dnt like yet still he is hitting on me.
So knowing dat, my bf said I should scam the other guy and also make him send me recharge card for mobile phone.bf also told me dat if the guy do it i should send the rechsrge card to my bf and after scamming the other guy to share money together.
What u guys tink abt my boyfriend move?and why is he askin me to do dat?of cos I know He wants money.but is there any other motive behind his movement?

Hey guys,my guy tried 2call me 2day n i wasnt able 2pick cos was busy.when later on I had chance 2do dat I tried 2reach him 2wice n he was angry dat I called 2wice.and he said he dnt want me 2call him more than once if he no pick.why all these?if it was other way round I wuldnt be vex 4 such tin.
Why all these ?

Hmmm Im not Nigerian n not even African...

Hey guys....

I have a problem here dat ive neva experienced in ma whole life Wit any guy...
Theres this man ive been with 4 some months now,I used 2 help him financially but he was neva happy with amount of money i was givin him.
3 weeks ago i promised him dat I wanna do sometin nice 4 his family n send some amount 4 Xmas.but unfortunately many issues came up n i cant do it anymore.
Then he vex with me n he says if I dont send him d money until so so date he will Block me everywhere n leave me...
How 2 deal with him so he knows i no be mumu...

Hello

Can any1 teach me esan language with emphasis on uromi dialect?I wuld appreciate

Thanks a lot...can you teach me ur language?I wanna surprise am cause he neva taught me.and tell me more about social etiquette in ishan.thanx

Hello everyone,boyfriend barely call me some sweet words.instead he mostly call me oyibo or oyibo pepe.shall I b concerned?

Hmmm ok But then why would he feel bad if I do it?

Hello,Ive been dating Uromi man for past few months and I noticed he dey easily vex wit me for many things.and the only way he calm down is when I go on my knees n say sorry.but the other day he said if I kneel down for him it make him feel bad.
Can somebody tell me if a woman kneel for man as a sign of apology Or respect is seen aa a taboo in Uromi?