https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rqoLr06WG98&feature=related

God loves you
it is not worth it impressing any 'man'
Just be yourself and stay close to God.

[/quote][quote author=pinky lady link=topic=282108.msg4005520#msg4005520 date=1244628526]
why is it that the issue of virginity is so much attached to the girls?

what about the guys?

seconded.
most nl guys are sexist. Ahn ahn. Are men better than women? neither do they possess 2 heads. so it's o.k for a guy not to be a virgin but not the case for ladies? Is good for the goose not also good for the gander??

styl-plus should be on the list too. I'm a big fan tho. but it takes them ages to bring something out. Their last album wasn't what i was rily expecting. Although it's not completely bad. I'm hopeful they will realise soon how they are gradually are falling.
As for terry, dude is good oo. but i have only heard 3 of his tracks. For some reason, i feel there are only few nigerian artistes that end up producing
album(s). Most of them are *hit and run*

Anyone know what's up with six foot plus?

[/quote][quote author=oyinda. link=topic=280928.msg4002474#msg4002474 date=1244577555]
yeah I wish them success in all their endeavors but I wish they kept on doing music part time at least as well

I spoke to b-easy about this. And he simply said it's time to put their degrees into use. I think it's a very commendable decision. They have worked hard to gain those degrees. so, it makes a whole lotta sense to make proper use of it. As regards part-time music, it wouldn't work well. Career and music doesn't rily go too well. One will definately be at the expense of the other. I think they've decided what is just right for them. As for their music, it was definately worth it while it lasted !

[/quote][quote author=sosanyabee link=topic=280928.msg4000123#msg4000123 date=1244552325]
im sure u guys know im like their biggest fan, and i am also blessed to happen to know one or two of them personally.

B-eazy actually just graduated from Law School in yankee (or jand) last week. The dude has a Bsc, Msc. and LLB now. he’s officially a Lawyer. Muyo (Jor Jor ) runs a massive Mining and IT company in Abuja called Mirecsolutions (http://www.mirecsolutionsinc.com) , and their CEO Oluwadiddy aka MR. VEDA is doing something real massive in computer manufacturing (http://www.veda.com.ng)……

i spoke to one of them over the weekend (b-eazy aka biola). these boys are very humble even though they really have a lot to write home about, and i am proud of their contributions to naija music, their stuff was fun and cool. lets offer our goodwill to the boys of Amplifyd, even though i wish they hung around a bit more.

seconded
The boys are really humble. Had d chance to speak with 2 of them. Anywayz, i'm rily gonna miss them coz i'm a big fan too. Notwithstanding, i wish them all the best in their careers. Well personally, i think having a career matters, Music is just a plus(and it's very often unpredictable) . I'm really proud of them

whoever adviced her to sing did a very bad job. BORING SONG,

I'm not advocating for gays neither will i condemn them. I'm a christain and i know that from the religious angle it's wrong. like i have said there's every possibility of people born gay. But as much as genes determine who we are, we still have a degree of freedom to choose between right and wrong. It could be hard "yes" So anyone with gay tendencies who knows that it is wrong can choose to fight it.
I dunno how relevant this scenerio is. Is like saying why did God not sanction pre-marital sex when he knows we have hormones and sometimes get the feeling. Yet alot of people engage in this and feel it's norm. You have a choice not to answer to your hormones or genes "SELF CONTROL". It is quite hard and it does take alot of practice.

C2H5OH:

there's really no proof because these are indeterminable decisions that people make later on in their lives. you can't prove that a baby will grow up to rape people, or become a murderer, etc . . . unless of course you have found some rare cases that i don't know of
copycatting western practices? who knows ehn
oh you are making the bold statement that they are diseased people. is that why you are comparing them with such?i wouldn't say they don't contribute to making the world a better place. i don't deny them as people. i just refuse to accept that they are born gay until you show me your socks

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Maybe you should have read my first post clearly before making conclusions. Just take a chill pill and digest this article .

Theory One
What is the nature concept?
In relation to homosexuality, the nature concept explores the possibility of a specific gene or combination of genes present at the time of birth that genetically predispose people to homosexuality. In other words, some people are born gay.

What if people are born gay?
Gay advocates say proving there is a gay gene will provide "wider social acceptance and better protection against discrimination," as Neil Swidey writes in his article, "What Makes People Gay?" Proving that being gay is not a choice means that discrimination against gays becomes a matter of civil rights.

Opinions:

"You can't 'make' someone gay no more than you can 'make' someone straight. Of course environmental factors affect our sexuality. You just can't generalize these types of things. Ultimately what you end up doing is trying to figure out how to stop it-- like it's a disease or something--instead of trying to help people ACCEPT themselves for who they are and help nurture them into healthy relationships."

Theory Two


What is the nurture concept?
We're all influenced by our environment, but to what extent? The nurture concept of homosexuality argues that social, parental and environmental variables influence a person's homosexuality. A nurtured gay person is one that is "made" gay.

What if people are made gay?
For some time, the notion of an overbearing mother or an absent father or even sexual abuse were thought to be catalyst of future gay people. If the root of homosexuality does not lie within DNA, then the nurture concept implies people have a choice whether to be gay or not be gay. Many ex-gay reparative therapy groups believe that homosexuality can be reversed or "repaired". Some religious organizations also believe that the concept of Adam and Eve (or one man, one woman), provides an absolute explanation that homosexuality is unnatural.

Opinions:

"Might any of these factors (in the life of someone male) contribute towards giving him a gay disposition, or at least make him more inclined to seek the love of men? An alcoholic parent, mother or father; A cold parent, mother or father; Having been in a boys boarding school since about 12/13."



Resolution
Can the origin of same gender loving feelings be absolute? Does it lay within the complexities of the beginning of man or the development of society?

If homosexuality is indeed a product of a special genome (I dare not say a flawed one), then will that lead to predetermination by expecting parents at the time the baby's sex is revealed? I envision some parents being excited to hear the sexual makeup of their fetus while others seek to "repair" the gay gene. Lawmakers would be obligated to protect gay people, just as any other group of individuals with a predetermined genetic makeup. The religious implications would be widespread and increase the growing list of religious organizations that welcome gay members.

The concept of a homemade gay person cannot be ignored either. Is there a consistent pattern between a person's parental or environmental influences and their sexuality? Does the explanation of homosexuality lie within Paul Ewald's theory that homosexuality is a virus or the reparative therapy model that a traumatic life situation planted the seed of choice? Some debate that homosexuality is not deserving of natural rights since it has not been proven that being gay is indeed the same as any other born characteristic.

Or, is it possible that being gay is a combination of both nature and nurture? Imagine a person that is born gay, but their same gender feelings are either perpetuated or (not perpetuated) by their environment. If this were indeed the case, homosexuality would only be an issue of if or when one comes out of the closet.

Either scenario, researchers will continue to hunt for the origin of homosexuality. Many avenues have been explored, from isolating DNA to observing gay animals, but as of yet, no one absolute explanation of homosexuality has been found. And even if it were, would society accept it?

[/quote][quote author=C2H5OH link=topic=279591.msg3979060#msg3979060 date=1244152856]
is an adult having sex with a child a natural form of pleasure?
the ones that have dedicated their whole professional lives to finding out if gay genes exist.  suddenly we have this person here telling us it does.  to them she is a lifesaver.  with that proof handy, this topic would be owned!

I'm not gonna argue with you. You can choose to believe in whatever. it's quite obvious you know nothing about what's going on in research, It has been confirmed by scientific experts, so this is not just my theory. This is what i have been learning at school and i have proof concerning this concerning issue as well.

Yea some people are[b] born gay[/b]. It is in the genes. That's why NATURE AND NURTURE pose a very big argument in the world of science. The truth is nature and nurture works together, but we don't know the extent or how much one works over the other. Like someone said earlier on this thread, if you do alot of reading on science you would have come across the fact that our genes plays a significant role on who we turn out to be( even for silly things like DIVORCE, STEALING and MURDER). I'm not ignoring the fact that there are environmental factors that contribute as well. We don't choose our genes, we simply act based on the genes expressed. In a kind of way, (As much as genes play a significant role, you can choose not to be a victim. But, this is really hard because it takes alot of practice and determination). Of which, most people cannot do. It is really hard to change who you are. I guess this is where faith/religion comes in. Even if you have gay tendencies and you know it's wrong you can still choose not to go that way by praying, seeking counselling, self control etc. But this will only work for people who admit that they are vulnerable and need help.

she's a very pwetty woman. I admire her alot(no homo)

DIVERSITY deserved to win, however, i think flawless deserved a third place not julian

I'm too excited, Diversity won. How on earth did julian get a third place? I feel bad for flawless. I think they deserved a third place. They did well in their performance too

sound sultan
lanre skenti
alaye
twin x

pls i need
Like play- kelly handsome
excuse me- alaye ft 9ice
nkan a se e- lanre skenti

landwin:


Now,Listen up you fool,I have been ignoring you, but you keep frolicking around me and my comments,being a kanu fan doesn't mean I would like to marry him you idiot,it simply means someone admiring someone who has given so much to his society and a patriot to his country and hail someone who doesn't sit back behind his cheap computer to talk Poo. like you do.


Dumb bitch.

Naija men too like food
This subject is based on the individuals involved. Since when did cooking become a basis for choosing a wife If you love her enough and you feel you can't pull up with eating outside, employ or chef or simply get her to learn how to cook. But really, a woman who doesn't know how to cook doesn't mean she will necessarily be a bad wife.
This is not subject to women only, women are not slaves in marriage, they are helpers. I feel a man must know how to cook too. I must have read somewhere on this thread saying women have to wash clothes, cook, bla bla bla who says a men are immune to house chores
I was told by my mum, that when we were little, my dad cooked and washes clothes when she's not around. He does have a job, but when he's less busy he feels he needs to help, as a woman cannot tear herself into 1001 pieces  

i think she's still pretty tho. I av seen her in a couple of movies without make-up,not dat bad . And she's also an incredibly talented actress. She knows how to interprete roles. I love to see her cry in movies, it touches me

new boyfriend

me thinks, she's pretty tho. but she needs to take it easy on the make up. Sometimes it's just obviously too much, esp d eyebrows and the lipstick. The first pic got me really cracking up. The tights she had on that outfit was so out of place . I think she pulls off native very well tho, she looks good in them

how hard is it to marry one (or all) of his baby mammas Btw who is he fooling, is he implying that he's only using and dumpingh those women

At most £10-£15 in a month(too lazy to start listing). I'm just a bit suprised that d poster can actually use all dose . Even cleansing my face each night takes some energy out of me, but i just av too. Sometimes, i just feel like, i can't be bothered . My advice is more is less, you really don't need to go thru dat much stress

House of denim ripped jeans.

You should be smart enuf to know dat u shouldn't do such things with a person who's not ur boyfriend (especially behind closed doors). Anything can happen love! You got yourself into it, no one forced you. Not that i'm acknowledging wat the guy did either

Very gay if you ask me(Even when you're not, people tend to misinterprete the outfit for gayness ). I prefer guys in normal jeans

[/quote][quote author=wholex link=topic=267052.msg3796520#msg3796520 date=1240998350]
i like the guy , but the way he talk about canabies and flaunts it in the video is too bad for him,

lets pray for him

i thot cannabis/marijuana was illegal y would someone flaunt that in a video? he should b arrested

Not easily broken by Bishop t.d jakes
nice one

I believe everyone has a right to his/her privacy. so poster, sexual status is a personal issue and not your business. I'm more than 90% sure that she's not gay, she looks like a person with a very good morale, and i totally love her. But nothwithstanding, pls lets learn to appreciate people's privacy, celebrity or not. you could be misleading other people by your judgements. personally, i don't like to discuss other people's sexuality, coz it's not my business!

i v played lagos party ova 50 times today . I'm sure it's gonna b las giddi's anthem 4 d yr

won tan e, o lon tan candle

i need DANCE by jedi ft javextra.  I 2 like dat song, anyone who has it should pls help a sister out!