Utonne:


If i cross the 5th month without ppr. I’ll order gcms notes. Tried calling on mon but i couldnt get to speak with an agent cos of high volume of calls

By 24 of this month mine will have clocked 5 months post AOR.
I intend to call them on the 25th, and order noted afterwards too.

Do you know if majority of the AUG 24th AOR people have gotten PPr?

DO NOT GIVE THEM THE MONEY! Grow a spine, and stop being such a puppet!

The fact that they are your parents doesn't give them the right to your life's savings, so better stand up to them now and tell them you don't have the money.
They should manage the monthly stipend you send them, somebody that can't pay back 500 pounds won't pay 20000 pounds, and there will be nothing you an do about it.

kk2003:
This message is valid till March 2019.

Paid assistance?

Valerie47:
May God almighty punish all the girls ruining their fellow women marriage. Amen. Hungry bitchess.

Maybe it’s the men God should be punishing, since the side chicks didn’t take any vows to stay faithful to the wives.

If you’re in this situation, better evaluate your life. So that you don’t end up like the ambitionless woman up there that wants to die because her husband doesn’t want her again.
As she has nothing going for her na, if you don’t have man that’s the end of the world, even to the detriment of the innocent children she selfishly brought into the toxic marriage she always knew she was in.

I don’t pity weak women, they irritate me.

The guy is a Nigerian.

Utonne:


We dey here o. The wait is truly something else. Almost 5 months Post AOR. The only movement was moving to IP2 on November 23. Been there since no new update. I agreed with myself that i wasnt gonna obsess about this application or order gcms or call cic. But here i am, thinking i just might

I guess we can’t even really do much until we exceed the official estimated processing time.

I’m just praying it doesn’t get to that, keeping fingers crossed.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yU2kndW_jPU

My fellow AUG 24TH AOR, how far your applications?

@Utonne
@HRgirl
and others

Has the ministry been moving? This wait is something else.

JoannaSedley:
You never jam Nigerian princes and their skewed advise.

Here, this warped excuse of a human specie is telling the wrongee to pet and powder the wronger when the wronger was even coarsed to accept his mistakes.

I have seen things. I have......

As in eh! I’m shocked.

emeraldknytt:

In the mean time, do your duties as a wife, prepare his favorite meals, prepare the bath for his shower when he comes home, offer him massages and help him trim his nails while having a gist with him about absolutely anything and please, don't tie wrapper around the house. Rekindling your love starts from the petty little things until it becomes a routine for him and he can't do without that routine. God will help you stabilize your Home. [/color]

Are you kidding me?

Unfortunately you're not married to him, you were living with your boyfriend and he has moved out.

You already bear all financial cost, and you said the love you had for him is fading, so do you want him back just so you can cover shame by marrying?

You're a single mother now, just adjust your life accordingly. Kpele.

Just discovering this means you haven’t been active in your son’s education, it’s not just woman’s work.

For your peace of mind you can have him checked out by professionals.
If you haven’t been allowing him interact with kids his age apart from when at school, maybe you should reconsider.

They do not know what awaits them outside service.

Labour market will teach them that it's not by who first go service.

Jobless youth!

wristbangle:


I know of a keke rider who have started building his house after Mowe - Ibafo and this is one year he has been using his keke.

Majority of this Keke peeps earn salary some C-Level executives don't take home on monthly basis. They make atleast 300k per month after tax, thug, fuel, and other miscellaneous deductions.

Don't let us go to uber or taxify discussion. There is dignity in lagos. Better to get one's hand dirty to sweating at old age. Enough said!

Are you minding all these ones that type without thinking.

Most Keke drivers earn more than all these 150k graduate salaries monthly, after operational cost o.

Lots of people look at it as work that is beneath them, but these people they look down on can afford to pay their monthly salaries.

It's not by wearing suit amd tie.

larrygal:
plwase can anyone recommend any online material source for ielts or if you have any material you can share

What happened to the ones already shared on this thread and previous threads, or the Ielts thread, or google?

Learn to help yourself.

prestigiouslady:


Sincerely...and my own dad has just three kids..

Just imagine.

ImaIma1:


I hate that attitude of taking and taking and never giving. They wouldn't have felt that way about your mum if they were also comfortable but it is because their eyes were on your father's money.

And your cousins should keep the malice with their parents who were not able to give them the kind of lives they wanted and not with you guys.

It is better to help once in a while and encourage everyone to make their own money instead of acting like their saviour.

Na so life be.

I used to be so jealous of my friends and their cousins, all forward thinking people.

My own relatives spent all their time and money going from church to church looking for imagined enemies and destiny destroyers, while doing nothing to better themselves.

Every kind of job was beneath them, the story is long sha. Poster should just be careful.

ImaIma1:


Wow! Your dad really sacrificed himself for them. I t is not easy to surrounded by people who feel they are entitled to your wealth. But these men do not see it. They feel they are helping. Once ina while, they should learn to say "i don't have". Their lives will be better for it

if only the men and women that are sole providers to their families will learn to create a budget and stick to it.

Now he says he was trying to setup everyone up so that they won't depend on him but he went about it the wrong way, and ended up enabling lots of them.
I still have cousins that don't talk to me because they felt we(i and my siblings) had better lives than they did.

One time that my dad got my mum a brand new SUV and they travelled with it, the rumors and gossip that went round that period was something else. They all talked about how my mum wants to finish their brother's money, yet from childhood till now non of my father's relatives have ever bought evn 5 naira biscuit for any of us.
All they do is take.

okunfemm:



THANKS FOR THE INFO, PLS CAN U HELP WITH SOME OF THE SCHOOLS, REQUIREMENT AND HOW TO APPLY. THANKS

if you can't find out simple information like this on your own by using the internet, how then do you intend to survive during your studies abroad?

And you're a graduate o.

apple has a niche market, their target audience will buy their products.

Most of the people complaining here probably don't even use their iphones for more than text, call and pics.

Apple ecosystem is not going anywhere anytime soon, so if it is not for you go and buy tecno and infinity you're their target audience.

smslive2:
I welcome myself officially to this thread!
PPR - Jan 3rd
COPR Issued - Jan 4th
Application Approved - Jan 5th
COPR Delivered - Jan 8th

Landing - LOADING

Wow! See speed.

WoodcrestMayor:
Hey guys!!!
I’ve been away for a very long long time. Landing gist is stale considering the fact that I touched down in May 2018…8months ago.
Selah!!!

Thank you for the update and insight.
I wish you the best.

These resources will help women considering going into trades especially, but it can be beneficial to the male folks too.


Most of the information are targeted at the women in Ontario, but the bolded provides resources on other provinces as well for women interested in construction.


http://www.careersinconstruction.ca/en/why-construction/opportunities-women/organizations-help-women-get-started-construction-trades

http://www.earnwhileyoulearn.ca

http://www.careersinconstruction.ca/en/careers/career-finder

https://www.ontario.ca/page/start-apprenticeship

https://www.collegeoftrades.ca/resources-for-women

https://www.ontariocolleges.ca/en/apply/skilled-trades/women

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bababode825:
Hello All,

Honestly, I am personally sad about what this platform is turning to. This was my to go place when I was planning for Canada but it is gradually turning into a battlefield filled with insults. @Newmum and several others have expressed same. Where is the love? Where is the maturity?

If only the Nigerians you’re trying to help could read.

Barryston:
Well I don't see him as a terrible person...and I think emotion got the better of me..I just stated my mind ooo I didn't intend anything but you know how ielts can make you seek for help...I was just concerned at the time...and I was not helped.

It’s all understandable, because getting helped from him when you asked for it is your right.

Unfortunately it will never end, people like these are usually very entitled.

My father was the only educated and successful one in his family too, in fact he trained himself in school because his father felt spending money on getting an education when he could go learn a trade was a waste of money.

But he finished school and became successful and the leeches he call family came to suck him dry.
His siblings kept breeding and dumping in the village for him to train, burials, marriages of his sisters Nko?

My quiet mum became a nag because she talked all the time, and his family hated her and called her a witch that has come to steal their brother.
I saw all this growing up and it made me decide never to marry into a family with poverty stricken uneducated in-laws, they are the worst kind of mistake you will make.

You people will never be able to set money aside for any project, because something must always come up. While you’re doing family planning, they are breeding everyday because they know that you will always help even if it’s out of shame.

My father retired from the civil service at a very senior level with practically nothing compared to the people on same level with him at work, except for the properties and the houses my mother made him build and buy using fight and quarrel.
Most times when they save up for a big project, family problem will come and he will sometimes hide and spend that money without even informing my mum, lots of opportunities were missed out on because of family wahala.

All those his siblings that he spent a life time buying trucks, starting businesses and sending abroad not one of them really amounted to anything.
You won’t believe that he still fends for some of them from his pension till date. So my dear, your husband is enabling not helping and he won’t be able to stop.

Just make your own plans for yourself and your kids, and stop using your money to do things that he should do.

finalboss:
sire can you prove this ?

He can’t because he’s stupid. Worst part is majority of the Nigerian population is made up of stupid people like him, they will breed and pass down the stupidity.

They believe juju exists, but they didn’t use it against the white man when they came. Neither can they use it now against the politicians robbing the country blind.

They have nothing better to do than waste time praying against imaginary enemies, and blame relatives and village people for every single bad thing happening in their lives.

You’re not coherent.

If you die the world will move on, nothing changes.

Do whatever pleases you.

Part 1 is not yet closed, why is there a part 2?

AZeD1:


Every time Jesus talked about giving, he talked about giving to the poor not to Pastors.

They will never see that part of the Bible.

Poster, sha collect your car.

Your husband won’t change, he will get smarter. The only good that comes out of this is that now you know the kind of man you married.

Treat yourself like a baby girl, don’t do suffer head in marriage based on love, you guys can repair your marriage without you flying bike, and if you have excess cash use it to spoil yourself.

A man that loves you won’t even allow you bike while he drives.
Growing up when my dad has to change one of the cars and we had just one car for a period, it was my mum using it. He used public transportation except for when we had to go out as a family.
I don’t know where men of these days learnt all these strange behaviors that they exhibit.