Oreofepeters:
for other reason, may I know it?

flimsy excuse

Oreofepeters:
For now you gotta stop the feeling of insecurity, trust me some things are better unseen....
Men hate being over jealous the more you try to find out the more his heart depart from you.
Besides he's not yet your husband hence it doesn't worth the stress...

I'm sure you couldn't sleep well at night for you to wake up so early on sunday morning to type this......

Church sef you won't go..

lol... I slept well... I couldn't go to church for other reasons..... thanks... I'll try to detach emotionally

DreamersVille24:


Okay.

I'll quote you with my digits in one of your more obscure posts cos some demons don follow us come here lol.

haha... okay

tosyne2much:
Looks like a serial player.. It's very obvious

It's been a while, how are you doing

DreamersVille24:

Okay.
So how can I reach You?
Should I drop my digits or would you rather drop yours?
Are you on Twitter?

I'm not on twitter
drop yours,

Oreofepeters:
Whenever she call him in your presence, tell him to answer the call...

He doesn't seem to trust you.

that's when he says she is not important and he calls back to call her

JONNYSPUTE:
.. You have no right to go through his phone because he is not yet your husband same way he can't go through yours until you become his wife. Is this not what you girls wanted?.Both of you are free to Bleep around until you become husband and wife.

Generalization.

GrabHisBalls:
By calling that lady; you were unintentionally fighting for him. Imagine if she hadn't given the vague reply of asking him; it would've been something else. You just don't do that, and hey, he isn't your husband. I know you love him, and he said he loves you too, but how can you tell if he truly loves you? How can you even tell if he'll end up with you? Since you don't have answers to those questions, don't call other women asking questions.

Noted... thanks

GrabHisBalls:
You're very naive and the kind of girl who fights over men.

On no account should you take your boyfriend's phone to call another lady simply because you think they're dating. That's something you talk to your boyfriend about. I've been in same situation, but guess what I did? I ignored. My principle is, once I catch you red handed; there's no us again...I walk away with my pride intact 'cause fighting would reduce you.

I can't fight over a man.. it was just a simple question and that was it.

Thanks

DreamersVille24:


Hey...

I'd like to be friends with you offline...if you're cool with that let me know.

I'm a cool guy with a great sense of humour so you got nothing to worry about...

And that's me on the dp...

no problem

IamD18:

I said he is not your husband, stop disturbing and monitoring his calls until he's fully yours.

this isn't good enough but I've heard you

DreamersVille24:


Well you should start doing yours too and see his reaction.

When a call comes in pretend you have to move away to talk, act fishy and all... if he doesn't budge then know it's time to walk away...if he protests then tell him that's how you've been feeling since and he must stop whatever he has with the other babe if he still wants you...

They can't be just platonic friends and he can't talk to her I your presence.

Just start withdrawing emotionally from that relationship to save yourself from heartache.

Can I send you a pm?

Thanks for your contribution.... I'll try this

I can't access the email I used in registering

IamD18:
You have no right to monitor and question his calls. He is not your husband.

lol... come up with something better

DreamersVille24:


Are you guys involved intimately?

If not then that babe is his go to when he needs a woman's touch.

we are.... so what's the excuse

MJBOLT:

he's not telling you the whole truth,which probably means he's cheating

he's not telling the whole truth

Pubichairs:
you are just snitching miss, he's dating u...make him no get female friends? he might get tired of your shit ..if u complain much..

I'm not against him having female friends, I have male friends as well. Why can't he answer their calls when he's with me or why can't he tell me about them? I tell him stories about my male and female friends

Good morning house, I'm sorry for typing this on a Sunday morning.

There's this lady that is always calling my boyfriend. He told me not to bother about her that she is not important.

He doesn't answer her calls whenever he's with me but I got to know he always calls her back immediately he leaves.

One day, we were in his house when her calls started coming in. He went with his phone to ease himself and I overheard him talking on the phone. I got hold of his phone and called the lady, I wanted to know the relationship between them and she insisted I ask him after I told her we are dating.

After that call, the calls reduced for a while but there are now back to what it was.

Whenever I complain, boify says I shouldn't bother about the people around him that his feelings for me Is what matters.

I'm not comfortable with the calls, I feel hurt and tired of the situation.

Am I paranoid? or are my reservations justified.?
What do you suggest I do?

All the comments above me

Maybe the relationship isn't defined.
She might not trust the OP.
Something is wrong with that relationship.

That assertion is a joke.

happy birthday to you

Not bad if she is mature and knows what she wants.

Maybe the pastor went diabolic on the woman's marriage to prove he is a Man of God.

Beautiful... Happy married life

beautiful, Happy married life to them.