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Computers / Re: I Need A Good Laptop For Tech— Any Recommendation? by davidadenrele: 10:55am On Mar 20
Hello,

First i will recommend you buy laptops ranging from 7th Gen to 10th Gen Laptops secondly what's your budget for the laptop you want to buy?
the next will be the configuration of the laptop such as the core processor ie, Corei5, Corei7, memory size hard disk size, and so on.

You can chat me up on whatsapp or call me on 08023900627 i have good laptop that will fit for technical use.

Thanks

David.
Computers / Re: Good Laptop Within Budget Range Of 150k-170k by davidadenrele: 11:51am On Mar 16
Hello

i have American used HP Probook 640 G3, Corei5, 8gb ram memory, 256ssd harddisk size, webcam, wifi, usbport, bluetooth, backlit keyboard, hdmi will cost 180k its neat .

You can call me or chat me up on 08023900627.
Business / Re: Lagos Govt To Relocate Computer Village To Kantangowa, Abule Egba by davidadenrele: 11:26pm On Feb 17
thesicilian:

Doesn't really matter, in my opinion.
There are no special equipment or facilities at Ikeja that makes it "computer village"
Computer village is the people, not the place.

As long as government is sincere in their plans to provide another adequate location for them no problem

Adequate plans wey no make sense any responsible government will first consider the conveniences of their citizens before making such huge relocations plans afterall computer village is an ICT center that generates alot of revenue to government purse and am sure the revenue was not generated by ghost but working humans playing their civic responsibilities by seling ICT product and services make money and pay taxes to government purse and the next thing is shove a new relocation down their throat all be because you feel you don't have a enough access to monitor how they make huge revenue months after months.
Computers / Re: Please Suggest A Good Uk Used Laptop For Me by davidadenrele: 3:24am On Feb 13
I have something really good for you but your budget is a bit low.

If you would like to see the laptops pics and configuration chat me up on whatsapp 08023900627.

Thanks
David
Computers / Re: I Need A Good Laptop by davidadenrele: 9:33am On Jan 22
Hello,

If you don't mind i have HP Elite-book G5 Corei5, 256ssd hard-disk, 16gb memory, webcam, usb port, HDMI, blue tooth, back-lit keyboard, you can reach via whatsapp or call on 08023900627.

Regards

David.
Family / Re: What Should I Do by davidadenrele: 3:20pm On Jan 15
Guy,

You really amaze me suing your ex girlfriend to court will not solve the issue but will even compound it, two wrongs don't make a right, though you are not be denied access to your daughter, you have to equally understand that your ex girl friend went through alot of pain while you Japa, over seas considering her bearing the pains of 9months pregnancy all alone,, the same pregnancy you asked her to terminate, if i were you, you need to calm down talk to her appeal to her let her know that it wasn't intentional what you did it was for the good of her and her daughter let her know how sorry you were and that you are wiling to full responsibility of the girl and also help her and support her with money or open up a shop to support her for whatever she feels to do be it business or anything to support her if it were to be your junior sister would you be happy think am.
Computers / Re: Recommend Laptop For Personal Use by davidadenrele: 11:34am On Jan 12
Hello,

If you don't mind I have US used Elitebook 840 G5, Corei5. 512gb sad harddisk. 16gbram, memory "14 inches screen, Webcam, Bluetooth. wifi. hdmi, usbport, back-lit keyboard very clean.price 385k.

You can reach me via call or whatsapp on 08023900627.
Family / Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by davidadenrele: 9:08pm On Jan 11
Hello Oga,

You gave your wife 400K and she hasn't bought anything tangible and yet demanding for more, oga this year slogan naa no gree for anybody she is your wife no doubt but open your eyes, I don't expect you to be acting this naive in this hard economy 400K for a newly born baby stuffs and she is still asking for more, don't be stupid when government and even cooperate entities are cutting cost had it not been that you will soon be a proud dad of bouncing baby I for yab you well...well.

Take a stand no drop shishi haabah!! if she can't buy all that she needs from 400k including baby foos, feeding bottles, clothes you gave her my brother no send am and her mama they are obviously planning to use your money you gave them for their selfish, greedy reasons I wont say more that, 400K? you be man you try.

Congratulations in advance.




Valoromega:
We are currently expecting our first child , she should give birth within a this month.

She has requested money for baby things and I have given her over 400k but she hasn’t both the basic things she needs. She usually go with her mom to the market to get the things but they haven’t even both the things the baby will need in the hospital.
They went and bought baby wardrobe even though we already had baby wardrobe that was given to us on our wedding , she also both baby duvet without buying bed , the clothes she bought was for a month old baby , she didn’t even buy the first wear the baby would use , so far I haven’t even seen anything tangible she has bought with 400k plus I’ve given her, she hasn’t even bought the things she needs after delivery .

I don’t know if it’s her mom that’s telling her to buy those things, the mom doesn’t even care where the money comes from , she just demands that we buy this and that .

I was thinking the money I gave her would be enough to buy the most basic things she and the baby needs , now she’s demanding more
Family / Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by davidadenrele: 4:56am On Dec 01, 2023
Hello,

The fact that a man is divorced does not make him an evil man, as humans situation and circumstances can make us victims of life challenges am sure the said man would have informed your sister what transpired, and am also sure your sister would have done her thorough investigation If the man he's about to get married to he's speaking the truth and he's anything to believe however your mum has every right to her own opinion as a mother I will advised your sister to humbly go to your mum and inquire more what are your mum fears and reasons sometimes what an Elder sees while sitting a young child can never see it, even if he climbs an iroko tree let your sister tread carefully the words of an Elder are words of wisdom your mum could have seen or notice something your sister didn't see or notice because she's in love, it can be spiritual and it can be something that would save and help your sister before she regret getting married to the man in question above all pray for your sister and commit her into God's hand its well.
Family / Re: Christmas Gift For My Daughters by davidadenrele: 4:33pm On Nov 29, 2023
Hello Sir,

May God bless you and continue to lift your hands up financially Amen, i appreciate the fact that you want to make it up to your kids that was a good thing to do, however i have my reservation buying gifts and stuffs for your kids at Christmas to make them happy is a beautiful thing i will advise you take caution don't forget to also remember that after Christmas they will resume school in January, in January most Fathers and Men are on high blood pressure to pay school fees and meet up demands of their kids school fees, please be wise buy what you can afford work a with mid simple budget for instance you can take them to beaches, exotic parks, amusement parks nice eateries buy them clothing or gifts that's not too..too expensive so you wont have to be on high blood pressure come January 2024, i was embarrassed when i wanted to buy kids clothing at a popular stores for my neice and nephew last month for their birthdays when i was told one peice of kids T-shirt is 25k at Ikeja shopping mall and i was what's happening to us in Nigeria kids, before you end up spending so much to please your kids save much for their school in January i pray that may we all hardworking MEN and Fathers never find it difficult to pay our children school fees come January 2024 Amen the world economy and Nigeria really needs prayers.





oliverwrites:
My daughters ( 3 of them ) have been through a lot this year. They are not used to daddy not being around ( Me and their mother are currently separated but I am hoping she would change and we would be back together ), so far the seem to be coping fine but I want to make this Christmas an awesome one for them and need gift ideas.

Please give me gift ideas.

I have a budget of 200k for each of them. This includes 100k each for their clothes and shoes for Christmas and New year.

And another 100k to buy them gifts they will like. They all have ulesson tablets so tablets are not options.

They are 7, 4 and 3.
Computers / Re: My HP Notebook Turns On And Off Repeatedly! Please Help! by davidadenrele: 5:53pm On Nov 24, 2023
Hello
The issue with your laptop could either be a motherboard issue or a memory issue get a good laptop engineer that would help you fix the issue it's not all entirely mean that because someone had the similar issue get a good laptop engineer.

To buy a new motherboard now cost a lot of money my 2cent advice.
Computers / Re: Pls Seniors Help Before They Scam Me by davidadenrele: 3:34pm On Nov 20, 2023
Hello did you want my candid opinion don't buy Corei3 system instead add more to your budget and get any Hp Elitebook with G3, G4 series or Hp Probook G3 or G4 series Corei5, request for laptops series of 7th to 8th Gen which is still with the most recent laptops that would meet with up with processor speed, rugghead to last for work and assignments it will be used lastly avoid laptop with normal harddisk as times goes on you will be frustrated with your laptop slowing down crashing or having one issue or the other give your self a peace of mind buy getting laptop with SDD harddisk and a good high memory as well as laptop with good battery life and backlit keyboard, hdmi and blue tooth my 2 cent piece of advice.

It's not a must you take it. if you are interested in any of the above laptop mentioned call me on 08023900627 or whatsapp.

holarmylekan:
I want to get this hp g72 pc
Core i3 8gb ram
500gb rom
Very neat and I have seen it personally
Hw much does it worth

And what about dell E6330 core i7, 8gb ram , 500

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Computers / Re: My PC Is Malfunctioning by davidadenrele: 6:48pm On Nov 18, 2023
Do you want to tell you the truth your system need upgraded first the present issue you have has to do with your OS your system is serious infected with a virus most likely a Trojan virus according to your description of issue of files and software deleting itself, to achieve you need to first get a genuine windows 10 OS, secondly upgrade your system memory to achieve a fast and useful system.

Find a good system engineer that would help achieve this but please insist in buying genuine windows 10 OS.

All the best.

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Music/Radio / Re: Nigerians Have Bought The American Market - Ghanaian Music Executive (video) by davidadenrele: 5:22pm On Nov 18, 2023
Ghanaians can be so insecure just recently they claimed Nigerians artifical hair and wigs business men and women has taken over their business, they protest that Nigerians should leave their business alone, it didn't end there shop owners in Ghana claimed Nigerians are hijacking their potential customers what do Ghanians want exactly to this end it was so bad Nigerians shop owners were asked to pay in dollars to registered their business and open shop in Ghana, it was so bad that they even claimed they invented Afrobeat with all sorts of nonsense history to back their claims that our Legendary Baba Fela came to Ghana to borrow their beats and metaphose it to Afrobeat, and now this is another useless claim to say we bought over the American music industry when out our own artists where going global promoting shows and selling out tickets to 02 Arena to promote Afrobeats to the world they didn't see it coming we would someday dominate the Grammy awards and now that our hardwork has paved way the next thing is to beef Nigerians out of Jeslousy, envy and bad Belle Ghana wake up and promote your own artiste and stop this blame game to get cheap attention it's our time and nothing will stop it infact we are going to dectact the game for a long time you ain't see nothing yet.

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Foreign Affairs / Re: Osama Bin Laden's Letter To America Goes Viral by davidadenrele: 5:25pm On Nov 16, 2023
You lied go read your history Isreal will remain and i mean nothing will destroy Isreal except God allowed it let's put biblical prophecies aside Isreal is a nation backed by God no how the challenges they face they will come out triumphantly for peace to reign in Palastine, Palestine's must deny hamas and reject anything that has to do with Hamas as government in Palastine if they don't sorry will be there history.

How could a very wicked few terrorist group of religious fanatics called Hamas hold a whole country ransome causing genocide using humans as defensive shields in war with Isreal.


Are Palastines not tired of losing so many people to bombshell and misles as result of attack by Hamas on Isreal.
Biodun556:
Israel is a pseudo entity. It will sooner or later be dismantled.
Travel / Re: Nigerian Man Narrates His Ordeal After Wife Went Into Labour At Toronto Airport by davidadenrele: 9:52pm On Nov 09, 2023
I read this story and i can deduce some fact, and mistake by the OP

Based on my little experience as frequent traveler as a Nigerian information is paramount before you leave the shores of this country, first we must realize we have a battered image as Nigerians secondly this OP made a huge mistake you are traveling to Canada as a tourist and you are going with a heavily pregnant woman and kids what is he thinking? those he think immigration officers in Canada are fools immigration officers in Canada and US are well trained and are using the psychological means to scrutinized and any individual especially Africans coming into Canada. immediately they sight you they obviously know you have no intentions of going back........to your country habah!! he wont be the first immigrant to pass through that same Airport they have dealt with different kinds of cases dealing with immigrants on daily basis although i pity the heavily pregnant wife that had to go stress and painful labor to give birth on emergency all the name of interrogating the husband on their true intention of coming to Canada.

Before you traveled to Canada as a Nigerians its imperative to ask questions from friends who are currently residing in Canada some Airports are not advisable to pass through as a first timer comig to Canada OR US, just as its not advisable for a first timer to pass through Heathrow Airport, as a first timer traveling to UK reasons? immediately they sight you as a black person they set you aside and interrogate you like hell, your mission, your purpose, how many days do you intend to spend and so on.

Presently Canada is dealing with a lot immigration issues their plans to bring documented migrants with skills and professional expertise has been truncated by many migrants coming into Canada illegally using visitors visa and other illegal issued visas to claimed asylum despite various path ways to help assist and support legal migrants willing to come to Canada to earn a living ,get a work permit and so on most of our so called traveling agents has mislead Nigerians into using visitors visas to travel to Canada giving them false hopes and on unrealistic assurance of getting a job seeking for asylum and turning their visitors visas into work permit via flag pooling.

Am so sorry for any Nigerians who wants to travel to any foreign country right now without doing a proper research may have themselves to blame especially knowing which Airport to pass through and the Airport no to pass through don't be fooled most of this so called traveling agent lied to Nigerians just to swindle them of their hand earned money its very obvious the OP has ulterior motive which is if the wife could give birth in Canada that will assure them of permanent resident that willbe guarantee citizenship we are Nigerians so we know how we do our runs. unfortunately things have changed all over the world inflation is all over the world most countries can't afford to take in illegal immigrants Germany plans to deport 14,000.00 Fourteen Thousand Nigerians asylum seekers, illegal migrants and those with illegal traveling document in Germany.

Before you Japa please enure you have all the necessary information about the host country you are going to avoid been deported.

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Celebrities / Re: I’m Being Pressured To Get Married – Yemi Alade Cries Out by davidadenrele: 9:54am On Nov 09, 2023
If i had the opportunity i will set up a blind date for Falz the Badh Guy and Yemi Alade i felt pained that rumors of dating affairs between Falz and Simi back then were all rumors after all and not something serious before Adekunle Gold came into the picture Yemi Alade you must marry oooo!!!
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I Just Applied For Nigerian Police Force by davidadenrele: 4:53pm On Nov 02, 2023
Dilijingsly:
Pray for to be shortlisted

I pray you are shortlisted, but i have my reservation with all the demands Nigerian Police Force are asking from government good welfare package, ideal and sustainable remuneration, HMO, insurance of police personnel while on duty, gratuities, pension, training of officers and personnel and all other meaningful benefits you are hoping to be shortlisted to Nigeria Police Force!! aaaah!! may the peace be of God that passeth all human understanding be with you and help you Amen.

Think am well ooo my 20cent piece of advice, no vex ooo!!
Career / Re: House, I Am Confused by davidadenrele: 5:18am On Oct 13, 2023
There's no difference between Ikota and Ajah aside that one is nearer to road junction than the other, except your mind is made up, you can't eat your cake and have it, its either you face Ajah and bear the consequence or you stayed in Ikoyi or VI and pay so much, have you discuss with your babe what's her response? if am in your shoes my best option left if i want to avoid 3rd mainland bridge wahala would be either Iponri, and Alaka estate close areas to costain bridge and marina.

Remember you have a budget before you start been selective what matters now is which road network is closer and which area wil help with your budget.

Saviourplease:


Thank you Dave!

I have the same fear about Ajah.

How about Ikota? Do you think it is okay?

I want to avoid 3 mainland bridge traffic and wahala

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Career / Re: House, I Am Confused by davidadenrele: 3:18pm On Oct 12, 2023
Hello,

Sorry you are seriously under pressure, however you've go to take things easy if you asked me your salary is a good one what you need now is the accommodation closest to your office, have you tried Adekunle and Yaba environments, if you asked me Ajah is a no!!no!! Ajah traffic and Agungi Lekki road can be very unpredictable coupled with all this flooding in that environs i lived in Ajah before and i can tell you for free Ajah is not the best option for you now, you don't need to rent a 2 bed apartment it's only you naa bros, except you insist on 2 bed room apartment may be because you are settling down, trust me you will get something reasonable in Adekunle, Yaba, Onike area this area are the closest to VI, Dolphin Estate or Ikoyi would have been a good option as well but am not sure you will be able to afford it.

Dedicate a time, one or two weekends you will get something okay within Adekunle, Yaba and Onike as per the building project in the village you've tried sort yourself out first don't go and die before your time, due to pressure to please family members you will be surprised they will roof that same house you are worried about if your enemy die today, Mobadh that we all are mourning today who are those enjoying all what the poor guy laboured for? borrow yourself sense,your peace of mind comes first before anyone!! my 2cent piece of advice.


Saviourplease:
Good evening house.

I am in a dilemma and I need advice on what to do.

A bit of background about myself: I am a 29 years only child from a very poor background. I work for an IT firm which i joined in 2019 as a graduate trainee.

My total income is around 490k (400k from main job, 90k from a writing side gig).

My challenge:
Recently, My host have told me to look for my accommodation and I have been searching for houses. Unfortunately, the places closer to my places of work is expensive.

I work in VI and the cheapest mini flat I have seen in close vicinity is 1.2M at Ajah.

I also have have a building project I am undertaking in the village that is at roofing stage and my parents have been pressuring me to settle down as the only child.

My dilemma is this, If i go for the house at Ajah, it will eat a bulk of my savings, thereby making it impossible for me to complete the building project or even start the process of settling down.

If I go for a cheaper but farer location, I will be spending more time in traffic.

Please, how do I manage this?







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Romance / Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by davidadenrele: 4:34pm On Oct 11, 2023
Hello,

My candid 50cent advice stylish move on she's not your kind of woman it's not a bad idea wanting to buy an expensive phone if one can afford it, but a situation where someone would be emotionally blackmailing you at most times to buy iPhone 12 Promax today, bone straight hair tomorrow, leggings and expensive jewelry and clothing to match owambe parties just to show off to her friends that her boyfriends cares @31 bro, stylish reverse your legs and Japaa!! mundane things are her priorities, what's your assurance that after buying this or that she won't leave for a yahoo guy tomorrow who can afford to buy her a car, once beaten twice shy.

Shalom!!





Godoverevery:
Am currently in a relationship with a 31yr old lady for about 2 month now.
She want to buy iPhone 12pro max and she doesn't have the total money.
She has being complaining about how her phone (techno phantom) isn't good enough for pictures and videos bla bla bla from the time we met.

In my last relationship I actually helped my ex get iPhone Xsmas, she didn't have the total money aswell and I added about 55k to get it for her which I later regret with every blood in me and now the same scenario is happening again.

I actually advise her to get a lesser iPhone which her money can buy but she is adamant she want iPhone 12promax just to show off to other ladies in her office.

She expecting me to help her get the phone and add the remaining balance.
From my calculations she is about 70k-80k short of the money to get the phone and honestly I don't have a dime to give cos only a foolish idiot will make the same mistake thrice.

She emotionally blackmailing me and I can't take it anymore.......at 31yrs I expect more understanding and more important priorities.


Politics / Re: People Who Spoke Tinubu Into Power Are Embarrassed – Segun Sowunmi by davidadenrele: 8:02am On Oct 07, 2023
Iam not one of them by the grace of God but have been overseas couple of times on a visit you need to visit Frankfurt Airport in Germany, Fumicino Airport to see the look on immigration office face when they sight you holding Nigerian green passport, this is just a tip of the iceberg compared to what we will experience if you to show your creditentials as a Nigerian applying for a job overseas.

Funflipper:


It will be a good so that the hypocrites who claim to be saints will all be fished out. You have nothing to worry about if you are not one of them.
Travel / Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by davidadenrele: 3:24am On Oct 07, 2023
Hello Sir,

Disclaimer iam not a Traveling Consultant or Agent but a passionate reader on Nairaland if i may advise yo sir, your good friend discouraging you wasn't doing so out of hatred but bitter truth and concerned, if i may guess your age you should be close to your fifties, am in the same age bracket as you, one thing I know is age is not a barrier in US or Canada, except if you have clocked up to 60yrs, at such you are not employable due to health challenges, but if you are close to your 50's or in your 50's you will need to have a skill in high demand in US or Canada, Canada just recently invited 1,000 transport personnel for permanent resident express entry programme
https://www.cicnews.com/2023/09/breaking-canada-holds-first-express-entry-draw-in-over-one-month-0936891.html#gs.6mnig3

What do you do for a living? If you don't have any skills then forget about going abroad you might regret your decision truly but if you have a skill or you are currently in a job, you might need to add more skills to the skills you have just to make sure you have an advantage even if you will need to learn skills about mechanized farming it won't be a bad idea am been honest with you.

If you can do please do don't be afraid to take a step forward life is about taking a risk, but make sure you learn a skill in demand that can give you an edge check out more info on www.cicnews.com all the best.

wwwkaycom:
THIS STORY IS ACTUALLY FROM A FRIEND, HE SENT IT TO A WHATSAPP PLATFORM WE BELONG TO. I AM SEEKING ADVISE AND ASSISTANCE FOR HIM HERE PLEASE

My childhood friend is based in Texas, USA. He traveled out 12 years ago. Actually I work with government in Nigeria with a salary of 180k per month. It is becoming increasingly tough to take care of family responsibilities so early this year, I started making moves to relocate to US or Canada. But the issues surrounding japa are quite enormous so I reached out to my friend to seek his advise, suggestions and possibly financial loan which I will pay back. He gave me some important reasons why I shouldn't migrate. He spoke about my age, no technical skill, finances, leaving known for unknown and difficulties faced by new comers in America. I didn't agree with these reasons even though he sounded genuine. I left him and started making other moves but eventually realized I still needed him. 8 months later, I spoke with him again, he repeated the same reasons why I shouldn't relocate. I am not 50 yet, I know a 56 year old man who relocated to Canada late last year and today his family members have started faring well here in Nigeria. Infact, his son who is presently rounding off his NYSC will be moving by march next year so what is the fuss about my age? I have made up my mind to stop seeking his support and carry my cross myself. Please my people, can you link me with people or organisations that can offer genuine services towards JAPA on this platform or elsewhere?
Thank you all.

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Politics / Re: People Who Spoke Tinubu Into Power Are Embarrassed – Segun Sowunmi by davidadenrele: 2:58am On Oct 07, 2023
Honestly my brother our scrutiny and suspicion while applying for jobs from Europeans countries and US, Canada, UK will more be will be higher than iPhone 15 promax, I feel sorry for those applying for remote jobs.
Jostoman:
I feel ashamed to be a nigeria now.

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Romance / Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by davidadenrele: 7:00pm On Oct 03, 2023
Hello Brotherly,

Give yourself a break, don't be too hard on yourself you are a good guy with an open conscience buy you've to sit down and ask yourself a serious life decision question.

Your girlfriend do you truly really....really love her? not all relationship will leads to marriage however am not saying you should break your gals heart but we have to define where the relationship will end you know the answer i guess.

Your bestie feels you both should take your friendship to another level, she has known you for years she feels safe been with you, she believe you both have shared alot and it will be easy to step up your friendship to something serious, her relationship with her current boyfriend seems to be missing some ingredient and you happened to tick all, the boxes with the right ingredient and qualities reason why you see her flashing you with cuddles and kisses.

You have to make a lifetime decision here or else you could end regretting if you let her go if your girl friend tick all boxes then let her go focus on your relationship if not don't let your beastie go sit her down ask her what exactly does she want a fling or a serious relationship that will leads to marriage only God can tell which of the two gals you will marry.



StylesX:
She was the first girl I ever had amorous feelings for, I was in secondary school then, I asked her out with all the courage my being could muster, and she turned me down, we stayed friends for over 10years, I would try to move on, and it would work for a while and all the feelings will come back all over again especially when I see her, I don't see her often as she lives in another state.

We both did well for ourselves, I concentrated on making myself a better guy, worked hard to make something of myself, she did the same, and over the years we were just friends and I went ahead and dated only 4 girls, I don't womanize, I realized I always looked for her in every girl I dated, and I mostly dated girls that looked like her, I have been lucky with love in the sense that all the girls I dated loved me, I'm currently in a relationship with a decent girl too.

So fast forward to last week, she came visiting all of a sudden, haven't seen her for over two years and here she is, we connected and spent time like best friends, shared and talked about our lives and joked about how she put me in friend zone in the past, throughout her stay she stayed in my apartment, we slept in same bed and everything yet nothing happened, she kept talking about how I am a good guy that most guys will sleep with a girl that come under their roof, sometimes she would change her clothes in my presence and I won't make any move, she said being a good guy was what she hated about me back then, that she thought I was weak, and now that she's matured she sees that quality differently now, I didn't read meaning to any of this as I have zeroed out the thought of anything happening between us for years until she started doing strange things, like kissing me without warning, cuddling at night and pressing me to her Bossom etc,

One night she did that and I got aroused, I lost control and we got intimate, it was intense, but before we could have actual sex I came to my senses and made her stop, it was super awkward, we didn't talk about it because she has a partner and I do too, I thought we'd just pretend nothing happened and move on so we wouldn't sabotage our relationships, then the next day we were alone at home in my living room, she wore my Tshirt with undies and we were binge watching movies, suddenly she started kissing and touching me, and I lost it again and this time we had passionate sex, she left the next day, and ever since then I've been confused and guilt ridden, she told me it was a mistake she rejected me in the past that we can still start something if I want, that she is ready to be with me, but I wasn't buying it, I am confused because a part of me feel something fishy is up, and the other part wanted her but I don't know how to tell my girlfriend nor do I want to hurt my girlfriend, I don't love her like I loved this old time crush of mine, but she is a loyal girlfriend and I can't look her in the eyes since the sex thing happened, and every nerve in my body is telling me to confess and ask for forgiveness or keep quiet and move on with my life, what do I do?
Romance / Re: Did My Sister F*ck Up? by davidadenrele: 3:09am On Oct 01, 2023
Oga,

Bone no be everything wey eye see mouth talk, you should even thank God she's on Tinder, what if you lo on to codedruns.com and you find her pics what would you do, all I can tell you is to talk to her but don't be direct she's old enough to make her own decisions, I don't support the runs but I guess is part of survival runs some girls do.
Family / Re: Should I Call Off My New Relationship Because Of This?? by davidadenrele: 4:14pm On Sep 14, 2023
Hello Aunty,

Please for God sake Jaapaa!! to many red flags this guy no be born again, but born against, if you allow this guy enter your Jerusalem you are done for, avoid him like a plague, excommunicate him in in all aspect he's is liar and green serpent, a wolf in sheep clothing you barely know him and he's already talking about you cooking for him and having sex with him konji na bastard!! what in God's name people do sometimes just have their way? O ga ooo!!

I don talk my own.
Romance / Re: In A Dilemma Right Now, Please Advise by davidadenrele: 4:38pm On Sep 08, 2023
Hello,

Let her go before you develop high BP trust is a fundamental part of a relationship, if you take her back you would definitely hurt yourself the more, let her go there are a lot of good babes out there give love another chance with someone worth your trust,effort and care.

My 50cent piece of advice.

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Properties / Re: The Families Who Sold Land To Me Wants Their Cut. by davidadenrele: 5:38pm On Sep 06, 2023
Hello,

I honestly don't expect you to be asking question on what to do? You definitely need to consult a lawyer, expect you want the so called families to exploits you and take advantage of your rights, consult a lawyer asap and also get the attention of the police, which one be percentage on the land you bought with your own hard earned money, do the needful before its too late.

All the best.
Family / Re: My Woman Wants A Blood Covenant by davidadenrele: 3:43pm On Sep 05, 2023
Hello,

Blood oath abi what did i hear you say? i beg you take your papa and mama beg you, avoid the blood oath of a thing it's spiritual and can be complicated beyond what you can control, if she loves you let her be patience she doesn't have to be this desperate, what will be will be sat her down and let her know you love but you wont subscribe to blood oath of a thing beside its forbidden in your family.

I hope this will convince her avoid blood oath like a plague.
Politics / Re: Sanwo-Olu Visits First Lady, Oluremi Tinubu by davidadenrele: 5:01pm On Aug 30, 2023
DenreleDave:
Namesake

Davidadenrele.. I greet you ooo

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I salute you too my Bro God bless you and bless me too we go make am by God grace hopefully we go meet in person someday. grin grin cool cheesy cheesy grin
Computers / Re: Which Of These Two Laptops Would You Buy? by davidadenrele: 6:35am On Aug 29, 2023
Hello,

Avoid Lenovo for now the reasons been that Lenovo part and accessories are quite expensive, and since you buying it for your neice who seems to be an end user the best product to buy would be the Dell or preferably in my own advice an HP.

Be it Dell or HP is better servicing of any of this product is guaranteed their part and accessories is readily available in the market and are affordable too.

All the best

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