haekymbahd:
I need your advice guyz. I am a master students who never wanted to fall in love because I believe I have to look after myself/make money before going after ladies. In recent time things are beginning to change for me the money is gradually flowing in and I am living comfortable already.

A fresh student (lady) came to rent one of the vacant apartment which I stay in she didn't come from a wealthy home. In the blink of an eye we got together started doing things together like me giving her money to cook for us, she sleeps in my room then romance set in she starts manipulating me to love her I never knew it was all a game.

To be honest I knew about the red pill but I have never had a situation where I will make use of it. I fell for her I didn't even know how it happened I think when you spend a lot of time with someone and you get intimate love is bound to happen. I just fell inlove with my neighbor who happened to be a fresher. We started talking about relationships goals.

For like a month she acted nice and showed me love for me we were dating everyone around knew about it. She sleeps in my room every night.

When other returning students came because the were on holiday I realize there was a particular guy who happen to be a close friend of mine who also stays in that same house she flirts with and this affects me emotionally like while will she flirts with another guy in the same house I told her to stop that and she agreed.

There was recently a festive break in school and she went home for like 2 weeks she calls me everyday. I am someone who hardly call people even my parent when I realized she calls me 3times a day I returned the gesture by calling her too everyday I started falling I love with this girl.

To my surprise she came back from festive break and she stopped me from touching, hugging she didn't even sleep in my room again. I thought it was all because she felt she was loose when she first came or maybe she felt I am playing her but i didnt let that stop me from doing what I normally do for her like giving her money to cook for us and me trying to impress her that I love her and not there to play games, take her out to have fun. She was trying to turn me to a simp.

This girl didn't stop flirting with that friend of mine despite my warnings and she calls other guyz on phone in my presence even though she doesn't bring any home I ask who they are she claims they are just friends I felt like I was the one over reacting so I decided to calm down a bit and free her to see what she really had in mind.

Due to the fact that I have about the red pill already so I understood the games and how to play it with her. I knew i was to leave her at that point but we stay in the same house I will be seeing her everyday how possible can I use this knowledge of redpill moreover I am already inlove and I don't think I will be able to stand her bring another guy to that house I think she is trying to manipulate and control me which I don't want.


I only ask you guyz to advice is it possible for me to just leave this girl and focus on other things but we stay in the same house I feel she make me jealous by manipulating me and flirts with guys I could do the same too but I don't think I have the heart and to watch her do that to me.

The only option I have right now is to pack out of that house to avoid seeing her for good and focus on other things. The problem is I love that house and I have been there for a long time I can't believe a girl will make leave that house.

I want to ask you guyz is there a way I can stay in that house and ignore her but I don't wish to leave despite the fact that she will want to make me feel jealous by flirting with other guys I think she has gotten the upperhand over me right now cos I have fallen inlove already.

I feel like I am okay financially and I can get any girl of my choice but I don't think I can stand her bring another guy to that house she stays opposite of my room.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Let’s be peaceful, Tinubu isn’t responsible for the current situation of the country, he’ll turn everything around and Nigerians shall smile again . Please stay out of trouble and shun violence

Flettyboy:

Thanks so much brother. Those bolded words were the exact same thing my colleague at work told me when I explained to him.
In fact he even said sometimes, those kinds of people are sometimes referred to as anchors of great tidings or harbingers of calamities depends on what purpose GOD wants that person to serve in one’s life. I asked my neighbor with scope regarding if the statement is something true which he confirmed it is but are just not easy to spot, identified or go with.
I have loved before, and I did with all my heart but what ended it? Disappointment.
So right now, whole lots of factors are making me find it hard making a decision about this lady coz it’s a very distinct feelings. But I’ll give it a lot of thoughts.
Thanks a lot, I appreciate

Flettyboy:

About the body count, I can make do with that, reason I’d because even the ones that aren’t into hook ups could be worse at times.

As for the child’s father’s whereabouts, the only information she has on that was that he left Nigeria for Ghana, and the child was conceived during her secondary school days - unprotected sex from two naive persons.

But on the dialysis, that’s the main reason why I’m so lost. The doctor said it’s treatable. And management is much efficient. But I don’t know how true this is.
I don’t know love could be so powerful this much that it’s hook-winding my mind right now.

viki84:
In 2019, I met this lady during lockdown in the school where I graduated, she was in her 100 level as at the time I met her, I liked her, she was a church girl then, we went on several dates before we started dating officially in 2020. I deflowered her and then, we were very serious and committed in our relationship. Things started moving from there, during our courting, I found out that our sex vibes & libido were not on the same level. I had higher libido than her. Straight down to 2021, we went for several adventures, luxury vacation and all that lovey stuff. I had never checked her phone for one day because I trusted her, I finally decided to do that when I became suspicious of her attitude. I found out that she was texting several guys and telling some that she was single. Some invited her to dates, I also found out that she visited her ex sometime. Since then, my trust for her dwindled because I was 100% faithful. I had a feeling that I was being played. I apprehended her and she deleted the conversations which she had on WhatsApp with them. Later on she pleaded that she was sorry, that she was carried away. Same thing repeated after several months. Since then, I never took her serious from my mind, she visits me severally as I moved to another state. I decided to become unserious too as I do not want anyone to play me. I started living my own lifestyle, I met 2 girls which I took as my side piece and the vibes which they have been giving me, I have never got that from my so called girlfriend. The later of the girl lived in my street which I met recently as my girlfriend traveled, I explained what transpired between me and my girlfriend, she asked me if I still have communication ties with my so called girlfriend which I admitted to have. I'm actually in a confused state right now because the girl I just met lives a few walks down my street and I have enjoyed the positive vibes she has given me recently. But the issue is that, I do not want her to feel bad when she sees me and my girlfriend walking down the street. Guys advise me... If you were in the same shoes, what would you do? Meanwhile, my girlfriend wants an extravagant lifestyle which I paused recently to see her actions, but the girl I just met is just the opposite. Please I need your candid advice

Asgard13:
Till we start seeing igbos in Osun ogun akure oyo Ekiti

Till then lagos remains Nigeria cosmopolitan area

Why Yoruba people no replicate Lagos in their Mushroom states they call farms

Atimes .. this Sophisticators sound very primitive..

So make we give Yoruba position for Anambra Enugu imo ebonyi Abia

Na only one day this people go get sense by force

Yoruba and dia Yorubatic reasoning ..Una owe Lagos dem Dey help Una Dey develop am .. how Una don take develop oyo Osun and the rest

Every Yoruba man na lagosian .. but will deny their poverty stricken .. chronic hunger ravaged states

Why are yoruba people not proud of those their states and dia villages ..

Na Lagos dem wan die put

Tomorrow dem go develop Akure finish.. na so dem go jump claim am

Why dem never go develop Ekiti and ilorin oyo osogbo

Common sense dey expensive

Infact Lagos remains no man’s land ..

Soon very soon e go clear for their eyes ..e no far again ..

Either igbo man takes over Lagos or the go buy 3 Yoruba states .. with the rate the states are gradually being emptied in Lagos

Na time

15 years from today

Jennyclay:
Uber kwa? Biko, don't put someone's daughter in poverty. I will also leave you in the relationship if I found out that you're Uber driver. How much are you even making a day that you're bragging .

You cannot deceive us with all these audio millions you're quoting up there, you better go and work hard. Is it Love she will eat in the relationship ? Haba!

God Abeg o!

Wealthyonos:
Even your English shows you're not educated. My advice is, 'go back to school'.���

lhordspy:
The world shouldnt cry foul....

It is just putin giving the US the taste of their own medicine.

We all know the US are known for poisoning the mind of other countries citizen, using US green-card as leverages for classified secret leaking and anti-government activities....

They did it in iraq, Libya, syria, afghanistan and of recent russia too... Mr Nalvany comes to mind, the US-seduced Russian who wanted causing chaos in Russia and bringing Putin government down.

Thank God Russia was so quick to jail the traitor on account of treason.

My Oga is a piece of advice be mindful of what you say or write online concerning US security foreign policies just in case you find yourself applying for US visa in future mind you they now check your profile and comment online at the point of interview before you are equally served a taste of your own social media goofed!! hope you are not offended, a friend was denied recently for a social media goofed concerning a comment he made against US security policies in Libya.

NaMe4:
No sense in this talk

In a Country where poorly trained and criminally-minded and even fake police officers abound, the right to self-defense cannot be taken away.

They should be more concerned about the increasing number of 'officers' flouting orders and instructions from the IG by the minute, checking phones, extorting commuters and setting up illegal checkpoints. He's here telling citizens to be sitting ducks in the hands of criminal elements in the force.

Which sane policeman goes about slapping people?
It's even the police who should exhibit high level of training and restraint in the face of provocation.