Loyalty comes from respect regardless of white or black or Asian etc. She obviously has no self respect. Plus, how many men cheat on their women and treat their own like dirt?

This video must be fake or he brought friend to record LOL.

LOL

I think he's Polish maybe... his accent sounds from
Slavic influence not Hispanic

This is horrible .... I just don't have words for such cruelty..... no one is above or mightier than another

He is not a man but a disgusting evil monster for being able to do that to another human. Anyone laughing about the video is no better. The same goes for the disgusting videographer and others bystanding and watching or involved in any way. I could barely watch a few seconds.

bejeiodus:
Nigerians and their voyeuristic behavior. Why did they UnCloth the woman and left the man with his clothes on?

So they can catch a free look LOL

jahstech:

Good evening bro, is really heart warming to see people like you still exist.

Your situation is quite painful because we all claim to worship God and because we do so to the best of our abilities, we expect God to have our back in return. The problem in this reasoning is the fact that people don't have a clear picture of God's way of doing things, hence many questions if God really exist and if he does why he doesn't care about our pains and concern. Most times this prompt the question "Is God uncaring and hard-hearted?"

To get more insight, I would want you to find the answer to this question: "Why do bad things happen to good people?"

As for your question on faith, from the little I know, if I should replace faith with other words I would instead use CONFIDENCE, TRUST, FIRM PERSUASION.

So in more simple terms, Faith can be defined as the basis for hope and evidence for conviction concerning something you don't see.

For Christians, the entire word of God, the Bible is a basis for Faith. Faith is based on concrete evidence.

No one on earth can deny he has faith, the person who may conderm faith as useless has faith one way or another, he may has faith in friends, scientists do have faith in the principles, he bases his new experiments on past discoveries, the farmer who plants has faith that given the right conditions his crops would blossom.

So in all, genuine and true faith is needed to worship God. (John 3:36, Hebrew 11:6). Faith is not static but grows as one comes to know and love God more (2Thessa 1:3).

It is not strange that people question the reason why one should have faith, funny enough, the bible itself said: "Faith is not the possession of all people" (2Thessa 3:2).

Finally, your Faith moves you to action, hence it is said that Faith without works is dead, (James 2:21-26).

I really like how you explained faith. Thank you for sharing.

When there's a will, there's a way..... If the beater recognizes his (or her) wrongs, the beater will stop, repent, and do everything possible to change. Also, there are some key behaviors people should take care of:

#1 Anger Management - keep emotions in check and let annoyances roll off your shoulders
#2 Respect - respect yourself and your husband/wife
#3 Loyalty - is not just about fidelity, it's about not turning on your partner because you're upset or having a bad day.
#4 Trust - when we get into a relationship or marry, we trust each other to be safe with each other, to not harm each other. Don't brake that trust!
#5 Communication - remember we have verbal and non-verbal communication.... our words and actions can hurt very much, sometimes can hurt more than a beating. So, mind your words, be gentle with how you say things and how you treat each other.
#6 Love - remember this is the person you love.... focus on loving and let the negatives go.

Flashh:

You're getting me wrong ma'am.

I am not encouraging violence in a relationship/marriage. I am only trying to prove a clear point. I will never lay my hands on my wife/girlfriend.

Get me right. What I'm against is with folks on here who are concluding its the man's fault for their breakup which they have no idea about what happened between them. It wasn't stated somewhere that the man assaulted her.

The breakup might be from anybody, not just the man alone. She might just decide to call it a quit for no genuine reason.

Thank you for the clarification.. nd my apologies for the misinterpretation. Happy to see you wont lay a hand on your girlfriend/wife. Don't ever tolerate her laying a hand on you either. It is never acceptable.

So, what are your thoughts on how couples treat each other with words? Sometimes a word is more hurtful than a slap.

True, no one ever knows the truth behind a couple's breakup. Can't blame just the man or the woman because a lot of times both people didn't communicate properly.

Lately, all the talk about violence in relationships on here is getting stupider....

Flashh:

It's so obvious you're trying to tell me you don't care who's at fault, the women are always right.

Wonderful!

Don't mind if I jump in here.....

Hitting is NEVER right!! When angry, walk away, cool down, and leave the problem that got you upset to be talked about later.

Nothing is ever justified to get violent.

Bad bad idea, just don't do it! Leave work for working.

Jazzlite:
astounding sense of humor.... seems you have been overchopped....

Naaaaaaa... Maybe you have

uduak2016:
I feel sorry for today's men...you are dating and marrying leftovers

Leftovers berra than ghosts ..... Haha.. JK

MizMyColi:
I think it's pretty normal for someone who has forged very strong familial bonds with their relation.

This might sound harsh
But you need to go tough in love.

While scolding her might sound like an option, it might turn out to be counter productive.

First, stop indulging and petting her.
I'm sure you've told her by now that she is now married to you, and that both of you need to be strong both mentally and emotionally for each other to build your lives.

If you have had this pep talk with her, and she is still tearing up.
Permit her to go to her house.
Tell her to stay as long as she likes and she shouldn't return until you come for her.

This sounds brutal, but it seems an efficient way to cure that unwanted spirit in her.

Very sensible advice indeed. The first step in marriage is showing patience and understanding by knowing when to give your spouse space and time to figure things out. Nothing good is gained by force.

davseun2ta:
packet

Tomato

omooba969:
I still can not understand the kind of desperation that will drive a man to take another person's life just to take over their possessions & then expect to live in peace.

Surely, NO PEACE for the wicked!

Nigerian Youth!

Taking easy way out is a delusion because people become prisoners of their own actions. Sadly, such lessons are learned the hard bitter way by the perpetrators. Hard work is much more rewarding.

Okijajuju1:
So basically, for you to upgrade your Diploma to a Bachelor of Science, you must to still go university.


OP, thanks for sharing what we already knew.

But what if I want to downgrade my BSC to HND, which year will I start from in the Polytechnic? Or will I be admitted as the Provost?



Okija Juju^TM.. _{Agu ji egbe 1 of Igboland.}

Haha, you funny re: downgrade. That would be very interesting lol.

davseun2ta:
yachts

Shrimp

Mologi post =42988655:
God save the boy....the thing for break ni....


Suger mummy turn pepper mummy....

LOL @ pepper mummy

Wow, this game is still ongoing?

Toasty

realjoker:
wetin concern president with cultist blowing up pipeline. hope say u no b robbot, because am very sure u dont have the capacity to read and comprehend, jumping upandan posting rubbish just to garner likes and gain cheap popularity.

Some people make me laugh.. Why is it so important to get bunch of likes? LOL

That's like walking down the road and waving at people expecting them to wave back

Islie:



http://www.cknnigeria.com/2016/02/brutality-in-ogun-school10-year-old-boy.html

I would break the teacher's arms

This teacher must be dull and lacking intelligence needed to do her job properly. Students do much better with praise and encouragement.

HapyOne:
... our technology is based on Man's perspectives of reality for example for those that believe in ghost, spirits and those kind of things , our current technology can't detect them nor find them. So imagine the if those kind of beings are the ones in other planets, we might not be able to detect them.

I think the universe is too big just for one set of life.
I know we are not alone.

I really like your idea that "our technology is based on man's perspectives" and what you're saying makes sense. I read a lot about possiblity of existence of life elsewhere in the universe but never thought from your angle. That makes me think - this means we limit ourselves by our own imagination.

Considering how far mankind has advanced with technology, imagine how much farher we would get if we did not limit our imagination.

wirinet:


If Iran can survive all these years under sanctions without exporting crude at all, then low oil prices should not be a concern at all.

The question is, how was Iran able to survive and indeed thrive without exporting crude? How were they able to fund exports? How were they able to stabilize their currency?

I think Nigeria should go and take lessons from Iran on how to survive without oil.

Only if smart people were allowed a chance at leadership..... I wonder if some research would uncover their survival skills .

CharleyCharley:
Nairaland has been downgraded to a "blog-repost-website"

No more intellectual stuff gracing the front page.

If its not olamide today, its dija tomorrow. The day after that, threads that would promote ethno-tribal exchange of insults

Make I no talk before them go ban me

Ssshhhh.... I heard nothing, saw nothing

scaredy:
Thaxs for the advise and kind words.I was expecting a bashing but was ready to take it so long as someone will advise me too. Its not as if I dnt love my husband its hard to not love him , but I want the shame to go. I feel the private is more important. He carries me like a princess that's why I want to give him the best too and I want to start with not being ashamed.

Stories like Beauty and the Beast teach us that external looks do not matter when we truly love someone. Be proud of his inner beauty, which is much more handsome than external looks. Also, maybe encourage a lil change of style to complement his inner beauty. Like a nice gift of a different shirt, for example.

pulsa:
. .

I am all for self-education and learning the truth propagandists do not want us to know. I am with you on how crazy it is African nations do not support each other. What happened recently in SA was horrid. If African countries were to unite and support each other it would be a very interesting turn of events. The West has done well with its divide and conquer strategy- so all it should take is to unite and surpass past conquests.

Hope this doesn't take you by major surprise but I am not African. I stem from a very blended cultural background and don't have one nation/ethnicity to claim as my own. Please keep supporting African feminism as I am sure there is a great feminine force right where you are .

pulsa:
. so in other words support us and get our funds and military protection, and if you don't we won't fund you. wow to be frank I never looked at it in those terms, but even at that they also had to a large extent and still have the (God gave us this, and therefore it is ours) syndrome, irrespective of who once owned it, which saw them invoke "tera nullis" to claim Australia and the Americas continent, so what I'm in essence saying is the churches ;people who saw something wrong with their colonization would have been in the extreme minority, I mean were they not bringing civilization and knowledge of an almighty God to the Babarian africans, so what if they killed off and enslaved some of them, it was all for the greater good.

Well yes they needed an excuse for their self entitlement. They applied the greater good excuse when slaughtering the natives of the lands they conquered and pioneered. They called them barbarians too. Best way to make bad actions look good is by labeling people as Barbarians, Heathens, etc. and vilifying them. My favorite excuse is saying they didn't know better and playing the naïve card which makes me the angriest.

We need more education of historical facts to open people's eyes to the realities of the truth many choose to ignore. I think, so long as the need to believe is the driving factor of the masses, politics will play religions against each other. Faith should be a personal venture, not a great show of how many will join.

Has anyone ever wondered why it is so important to convert as many people as possible to Catholic, or Baptist, or Jahova or Muslim, or many other religions and their denominations? It seems we have many large competitors. Why is that? What does the majority win? The greatest tithes and monuments? Power? Both?

Constantine was a brilliant political strategist....

pulsa:
. exactly what I have always thought, why did they not stay and preach to their people who were killing Africans and exploiting Africa, why did they need to preach to those same Africans who were being killed and exploited.

Those were the same kind of people who conquered North, Central, and South American continents by slaughtering and breaking their Native inhabitants. Christianity did not follow the words of its own Bible because the majority of how it was spread was through slaughter and conquest. Religion is the most evil of all evils because it has caused the most death and continues today. To answer your question- in my opinion, because the biggest tithe donors to the churches of colonists were the masters who hired the ships that were sent to Africa. The small churches who may have been against what was being done were overrun by giants.

pulsa:
. European missionaries who came with military forces, ask any old person you know they practiced intense cleansing of traditionalist, discriminated against them and put down insurrections which sought to change the status quo as they like it.

My problem with religious missionaries is how they feel it is OK to spread the Word while surrounded by suffering. That is not any gods work. Where is the general compassion to help improve bad situations? There might be some who feed and donate time and labor, but they do these with alterior motive. In my opinion, missions are another way to continue colonialization by conversion of the masses to the religion they are spreading.

mrintelligent:

1. No
2. My work is too stressful that I hardly remember to eat at times
3. I dnt drink water as such. It is now that I'm trying to drink much water
4. Not all the time
5. A little
6.it varries. Sad at times, and normal at times too
7. Not much energy
8. No No

Thanks.

Your answers are showing that stress is interfering with your life. You have to make taking care of you your number one priority. Think of yourself as a business you are trying to build up and make successful. Invest time in yourself by taking time to relax when off work, do something to free your mind of all the stress (even simple things like taking a walk for 20 - 30 minutes), try to eat regularly, keep trying to drink water more regularly, and find ways to keep yourself as little stressed as possible. Whatever happens at work is not personal - it's business. So, don't take it personal and forget it when you walk out the door everyday.

Cheers

Make a list of the following questions and depending on how you answer, you might realize you should see a doctor.
1. Do you get plenty of sleep?
2. How are your eating habits? How often do you eat and what do you eat?
3. Do you stay hydrated? Are you drinking enough water?
4. Do you have headaches? How often? What type? Do you stumble, lose your balance, feel numbness or tingling?
5. Are you able to think clearly, solve problems, calculate numbers?
6. How are your moods? Are you sad? Angry? Irritable? Feeling weak?
7. How is your energy level?
8. Do you take medicine, drugs, or alcohol?

Take your time to think about what the answers are to these questions. Some things can be fixed, such as our habits. But, other things that are out of our control may require medical attention.

Hope this helps. Most importantly - no stress!!

khenykhey:
Every pastor has a prophecy.

But not all are the same. If they'd spoken in unison from different parts of the world, I would have agreed.

For I think God could not have been saying different things about the same year to different people.****

My honest thought is, pastors are humans like You and me. Worship God like you have been taught and not fall Mugu for anybody. why would you accept negativity because someone said so?

ronu e daada my friend!
Happy New Year

Here is the formula (in my opinion) as to what causes different prophesies and such. One of the problems is that everyone has their own interpretation of what they think they saw. Then comes the issue of how the misinterpreted information is presented. Lastly, comes the scheme of what kind of alterior motive exists behind the message or prophecy. That leaves us with one conclusion - don't believe what we hear.

One more thought - some prophesies are probably a fabrication of imaginative story tellers .

Blessed New Year!!