HalimaSadiya:
Kalau dear, ke fa

Kalau. Yaya karatu?

HalimaSadiya:
Kawa kwana biyu

Kwana dubu dari. Ya kike?

Omotayor123:
I love the concluding part. Nice contribution dear.

Thanks hon

ademasta:

You have been so positive in your counter comment, yet it's still never made a "wrong" right.

In as much as I can concur with some few part of your post, I still refuse to be totally convinced.
Did you just say "change"? Must you change to bad just because we are in the era of change? Must civilization make us slaves to what we have once said" bye bye" to? Probably you must have forgotten we were once unclad and we rejoice in it, but later we were exposed to wearing clothes which made us look humans. Now we are going back to the old age. The same civilization that brought us out of darkness is still dragging us back in to it and you people keep watching and defending it.

As per the virginity, it concerns ladies more than guys. If ladies are well trained and not being cheap, guys wouldn't have been taken advantage.

My advice ma, which even the Bible supports, is "train your child the way he/she should go, and when he/she is old he will not depart from it".

Please stop being a subscriber to "we are in the world of change"....

God bless you

I don't think you get my point.

It is what it is. You can't change it,they aren't children;they knw what they are doing. Practise your own decency and let them be.
Learn what you can from them and face front.
Virginity affects girls more? I'm shook that you still think like that in that in this day and age

Toks2008:


Inasmuch as I respect the decision of some ladies not wanting to put up a dp I just wonder how a guy will just send a PM to an anonymous entity.

This is not about dating or romance but it just sounds strange for me to hook up with a lady I have no idea of how she looks....what if she is a robot.

LOL.! True. Others get attracted to the mind of the lady. Putting up a display pic draws unwanted attention;every Tom,Dick and Harry feels obligated to assess it

Its the stereotype,especially in our society that men should always provide. A lot of people get threatened by things that are different from the status-quo.
Its possible the man isn't even bothered but people whom it doesn't concern are
It doesn't matter whether or not she earns six figures,a proud woman is a proud woman and a humble woman is humble.
There are women who earn a whole lot more than men. Does this mean they shouldn't get married? Just find you a good woman,if you do that;you wouldnt need to worry bout respect.


To women:Never Ever deflate yourself to make him feel good. It's not your responsibity to preserve his ego,its his. If you have it,don't pretend or wait on him-do it for yourself

ademasta:

Turning gay doesn't solve the problem ma... But ladies going naked doesn't make them more beautiful either.

Its the same people that condemn that you see online,liking the pics of naked chicks and following.
Its not the ladies,its the times. The world is changing,people and systems change as well. Sometimes in good ways,othertimes in bad.
You don't have to appreciate it,just face your front.
So its only ladies that lose virginity,guys don't? Or do the ladies lose it to insects?

Toks2008:


Lol! that is a way of saying "make we see your pics small"

Oh. I prefer the anonymity. I did put it up at a point tho

Toks2008:


Another masquerade spotted. ..

Really? Masquerade? What on God's green earth does that even mean?

I should be worried if i'm above 25 and single? I'm shook

This was supposed to be an interesting topic,till you all decided to turn it to a museum for imbeciles

Personally,I wouldn't marry anyone my fam don't consent to. Its hard but I love them like that.
I also wouldn't marry a man if his fam members don't like me. It isnor by force. I cannot come and die. I don't believe in 'coping' or 'managing','one day,they will change'.
Thirdly,we're Africans;when you marry someone(esp as a lady),you marry his family and culture and traditions too. For this reason,I think it is best if you marry into a culture you totally understand and appreciate. So they won't pull a 'dazz how we do in our place' on you.

12inches1:
Honestly, any man that cannot make his family understand that he has the right to marry anyone he loves and has chosen to marry is still immature and not ready for marriage.

You think African mothers want to hear that one. After they 'carried you for nine months'.

My girl's melanin be popping. Such a boo thang

joseph1832:
Then press away. I believe by the time sleep comes knocking, you'll be swimming with ideas...

I believe in you, you know.

LOL. Was going to comment on your diary thread,I was denied permission. Whatever that means

joseph1832:
Yep. Have a busy day tomorrow. Still planning my strategy(ies)...

Really? Your brain dey hot be that. I have a busy day tmrw too. Unfortunately.the only strategy i have mapped out is pressing phone

proudafrogal:


no Islamic country is a good. place for a woman.
women have no rights. they placed permanently under the guardianship of a male relative.

I really admire your confidence and esteem. Its not an easy feat to come and display this level of ignorance and folly publicly

joseph1832:
Okey dokey.

Still awake?

proudafrogal:


the problem is that when a woman is unfortunate enough to marry a religious man. when such atrocities occur these two evil books the bible and the Koran is used to manipulate the woman to accept the bullshit. because those books where written by men in favour of men. just go through threads in the family section or Islamic section you will notice this. so yes the religion plays a huge part.

Okay then. Have a nice day

joseph1832:
LOL. I'm willing to give it a try. You know I have a nack for always wanting to impress.

So, name the place and time?

LOL. Let me think about it

alBHAGDADI:
Na wah for you o.

The bible says wives Shouls submit to their husbands, it didn't say husbands Shoukd beat their wives. So, stop trying to find a correlation between the Bible and Quran in that issue, cos the Quran and hadith prescribe wife beating SD normal.

As for Muslims, they are all the same as long as they follow the Quran. A gentle Muslim will beat his wife as soon as he finds it in the Quran as something permissible. BTW, you haven't refuted the Quran verse that prescribes wife beating.

Quran (4:34) - "Men are the maintainers of women because Allah has made some of them to excel others and because they spend out of their property; the good women are therefore obedient, guarding the unseen as Allah has guarded; and (as to) those on whose part you fear desertion, admonish them, and leave them alone in the sleeping-places and beat them; then if they obey you, do not seek a way against them; surely Allah is High, Great."

Quran (38:44) - "And take in your hand a green branch and beat her with it, and do not break your oath..."

Abu Dawud (2142) - "The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: A man will not be asked as to why he beat his wife."




Ephesians 5:25

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her

Colosians 3:19

Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.

So there are no Christian men who beat their wives? And all Muslims beat their wives? A man who will abuse his wife is gon abuse his wife regardless of what is written in the book.

joseph1832:
LOL. Yea I am. I can work wonders with my lips, tongue, fingers and who know...

Oh really. You do know I lowkey have a degree in sexology,right? You wanna impress the sexpert?

joseph1832:
LMAO! You're a tease hahn. Still being evasive about letting me tease and please you? You'd love it, I guarantee it.

LOOL! Who? tease? Not me. You're confident of your abilities,aren't ya?

joseph1832:
How about you counsel me for free?

Haha! Nah,you gotta pay for my services bruv.
I only do for free pathetic cases

joseph1832:
It's easy to say when you're not the one wearing the shoe.

LOL. Really,he needs to let it go. I could counsel him for free if it will help

How humans can carry so much hatred is perplexing!!!
The Bible commanded wives to submit to husbands as to the Lord,thereby making the husband a demi-god in his wive's sight,but you won't see that because "your Jehovah is supreme." Did the Bible not state that Adam would "RULE" over Eve? You won't talk about that.
The Bible also doesn't recognize rape. Yes. It took its time to state how the bodies of the couple didn't belong to themselves but to one another. Isn't it obvious what its saying in 'the woman hath no power over her own body'? But ofcourse,you can't question your God so you come to hate and try to riducule another's belief.
Inter-religious marriages happen on both sides. Daily,Christians are on the lookout to convert someone to Christianity but now a Muslim brother tries to convert his wife and its a bad thing. I bet you woulda been glad if the sister converts the man instead. Because na only una get religion
Lastly,you see that generalisation,about all muslims being liars? That had you breakin g a holy commandment,"Thou shalt bear no false witness" and you did coz you surely haven't met 'all' muslims.

Take a chill pill. I don't know which Muslim bro took your girl,but you have got to let it go.

LOL!! On behalf of the Northern(Hausa)*rolls eyes* women,I'd like to correct a misconception.
We know where the 'promised land' is and can get there ourselves. We don't necc show it. Afterall,'always say/show less than you know.

joseph1832:
LMAO!. You're bae.

I know durh.*flicks weave and pops gum*.

discoprophet:


Hahahha. Some end up buying jewelries that look like dog leash

I'm telling you

joseph1832:
Is that so? Well, why don't you let me find out and be the judge of that? LOL.

LOL. you know I don't roll like that. I could hook you up with a man-loving sistur.*tongue out*.
HAPPY SUNDAY

joseph1832:
Well as long as I get to see you bounce un top of me, I honestly don't mind panting and wimpering. Shows you know how to ride a broda. LOL.

Lol. I'm sucha lazy chick. No energy to bounce.
I'm like literally the definition of the 'boring housewife.'

joseph1832:
Now I'm curious what you'd do to me, don't tell me I'll grin after you're done with me?

Nah. You'd be panting and wimpering