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Martinez39s:
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Martinez39s:
Na dem. Male ego is a weakness and vulnerability in the intersexual game, especially in the hands of a woman. Male ego, if piqued, makes a man stubborn and impervious to sound correction. Male ego can make a man angry, vindictive and bitter at you even when you are clearly right.

I remember some cases years back when I usually advise simps who were being stupidly played by their girlfriends, many of them wouldn't admit they fuçked up and that they acted weak. Some would defend themselves with "I am not weak, I am a street guy. Warri-born", "I am an alpha, people around me know," etc. Some will be claiming OG on top. Lol. Even simps want to cling to the alpha title; male ego won't let men admit that they are weak or have been played by a woman like a fool. This happened with a certain guy on front page, years back, who simped big time and was still claim streets (I can't find the thread yet).

I also remember a certain DonaldKiñg10 was still claiming alpha after he simped big time for a girl he disvirgined. This girl brutally dealt with him, but he was still claiming alpha. Someone notified us of his story here and a female (QùinModah) who was secretly butthurt by how DonaldKiñg10 sorted his revenge opened a thread on this issue. CAPSLOCKED and MJBOLT can remember this story. I had to go to the ashewo thread to give him some red pill advice; I just had to help a brother. Here is a link to QùinModah's thread where she copied and pasted DonaldKiñg's story.

https://www.nairaland.com/6311441/donaldking10-actions-towards-wrong

DonaldKiñg's story:

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Martinez39s:
My guy, his elder brother is in the soup. Only lesson of hard knocks, brutal hard knocks can humble that one.

DieRich5:
I swr, I don't do shit again with anyone in my life my senior sis do me dis shit.
Her husband put her outside wit her 4 children and 1yr old baby among @9pm, so I told her to come slp in ma house and I vex go dere house @3am b4 he run go work......... once I Dy vex I Dy do shit I wan fvck am up put am for hospital (he's way older than me, like 10yrs) I don't really give a shit for my sis na her 1yr baby move me fear no let am come outside so i break alot of glass window ND the man call his mother say I wan kill am and I bring boys come too I was the only one dere ; so family com talk I was not dere cus I don go my house I weak when I saw Dem laughing ND she calling him "baby" food is already I just turn go my house, I swr I'm not putting hand for her mata or any lover infact Nigerian mata. Las Las the man ND his family Dy fear me now. Nobody ain't telling me shit about dere mata

CaveAdullam:
1. You cannot correct an adult. Any adult that changes his way is as a result of his own volition, bitter experiences, and hard lessons learnt. It's extremely difficult to talk an adult from his former position to another. For this reason, argument is mostly futile, except in rare cases where the mental well-being of your audience is sacrosanct or when your opponent is more proficient and intelligent than you.

2. A man in love is never wrong. He will rather whip himself rather than introspect if he is touring the right or wrong route. A man beclouded by romance sees his partner as his god.

3. Oneitis is your brother's problem probably. Perhaps, the woman in question might have helped him in one or two ways in the past, hence, the need for her to always get validated in line with her narcissistic behaviour.

4. Your brother is a weak dude. He has failed to set limits from the onset, and if he eventually resume duty and his schedule gets altered, of course definitely, people will start screaming "men don't care whether a woman started from the scratch with them, they will hit other women when they become nouveau riche". Of course, true. However, not knowing that this one here is one high in narcissism, and without investigating the characters of these women in question.

5. Probably, that woman is also spinning plates, because it is difficult for women, not to even talk of 21st century women to stick to a man in his broke stage. Highest they do is fvck that man and keep him around should in case he experience a breakthrough or deem fit as a h0e retirement plan.

6. Your brother got a good job, now if he is interested in the blossoming of the relationship, he must start vetting her covertly and stealthily. Because his kind of job can make his partner mimic submissiveness and other lovey-dovey affectations. He must raise boundaries and set limits. However, this is difficult and almost impossible, but this he must do if he's interested in the relationship. Or, better still, start from a more fertile foundation by choosing another woman.

7. Managing a personality disorder like narcissism is difficult for the sufferer and caretaker, if your brother is weak there is need for him to develop on his dominance and confident level not only because of women but with people and society at large, or else, he will be dangled like a pendulum bob. Women, whether humble or belligerent cannot be handled by weak men!

8. You might end up engaging in a minor vendetta with him if you continually insists on his character and that of his spouse. So, better be careful "so that two lovebirds nor go come use you settle matter on top bed".

Be wise!

Thanks.

ObinnaValentine:
Do you have sisters that are fierce? If yes tell them..the rest they say is history :

sajmark:
I talked about my elder brother's tribulation few posts back and I ended it saying "I watch 'em in 3d" because you can never successfully advice him or make him change his ways of doing things except he is willing.
There are two great teachers in life: EXPERIENCE and FORESIGHT.
EXPERIENCE teaches harshly,
brutally, while FORESIGHT teaches gently, patiently, pleasingly.
thanks to threads like this a lot of young men like me and you are learning by foresight,
sadly the only way that my brother and yours will learn is through experience.

luminouz:
I offer counselling for a fee. It composes of theory and practical approaches. I can add some spiritual approach too, for a fee(in case,he ate some Vegetables).

Daniel058:
Innocent people should stop these Dreadlocks of a thing ..

You can't dress like an armed Robber and expect to be treated like innocent person.


If am a police officer,Army or Sars, once you are on Dreadlocks, you are a suspect story no dey that 1

Why Dreadlocks when it will neither Make you Rich nor successful .

All smokers and guys on Dreadlocks are suspect and I will shoot them anyhow..yes nah!



Modified

29 mention , with only one person supporting me, all the curses and insult should Go back to the wisher and their supporters.

Why confusing security men ?


If I employ you and i see that disgusting thing you call tattoo in ur body ,I will fire you, if you smoke, do Dreadlocks you are fired! ...all smokers are not thieves but all thieves smokes!.. am a Christian and hate all that, I can't work for God and still support Satan Biko!


Am a biafran , Nwabakaliki for goodness sake ,I can't come and Kee myself for hating evil

Liliantalks:
How true this ? well to me , very true



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Jarizod:
[color=#679267] What's an Alikiba..is it related to an alligator [/color]

Jarizod:
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HERSLEY:
Hmmmm wat we[i] pray for

ihatebuhari:
wished it was me



dumb woman

dollyjoy:
Good evening people

Just thought we could have some nice time despite all the shít going down this section.

As the topic says, what do you admire about the opposite sex? What's that thing that when you see you can't get your eyes off him/her?

Even though i Wouldn't want to be a male if given the chance, there are things i really admire in them. Let me just let you guys on one attribute that I admire in guys

i admire their bears and also when a guy has deep voice.

Let's hear yours

Pandorabox:
Beyonce won when Adele is there. I guess sex sells in this generation.

HalimaSadiya:
Oh no don't worry about it Yes things have gotten really bad and it's unfortunate and thanks you are also a good person.

HalimaSadiya:
I could say the same "a typical Christian does not care what his fellow brother in faith does even if it's wrong" how can you generalise like that ? Personally , I would call anyone out on their attitude Muslim or not why can't we all be tolerant and continue praying for peace you have that "conquer and divide" mentality and it's not healthy just my opinion.