blaise26abj: These comments show that Nigerians ( both men and women) need to change their mindset about marriage . You have not heard the full story , most people are already pointing accusing fingers at the wife . Why must it always be the wife that is at fault if a man abandons his home ? A woman gives birth to triplets or twins , the man takes off . Is that her fault too ?
We all should not be in a haste to point fingers at anyone until you have all the facts .
People assumed bc she did not make a complete ,some supported her though
Confidencemama: My husband left home in Lagos since June and has refused to return, he doesn't pick my calls if i use another number to call him once he hears my voice, he shout at me that he is no more interested in the marriage, that he has moved on and that I should never call his line again then he will end the call, he blocked me on what's app, face book and currently he is in a relationship with a girl in benin, just that I don't know his exact address where he moved to.
You just told us a half story,even a mad man won't behave like your husband .what led to this?was there a misunderstanding?
Kokaine: bro I have the videos ooh.. You will run if you watch it. Soldiers are decimating the bandits alive. As in... Cutting hands, cutting legs cutting ears. Its not a video to watch abeg. Only vampires can watch it
Limassol: That's debatable if not baseless. There are no conclusive evidence to back such claims. Infact multiple studies/ health authorities have pointed to artificial sweetners being a better option than sugar, it may even have some benefits. Nonetheless, people are urged only to take it in moderation. That said, Stop scorning people you barely know for no good reason, it makes you look so stupid and immature.
Oga you're senseless, apsertate is worse than sugar,now kee ya sef
SlayerForever: [s]After our Eternal Leader, Ikemba Ojukwu returned from exile, THIS very huge crowd went to welcome him in Aba. After the welcoming, some intellectuals of those days convinced him that he will easily win election, if he go for Governor of then Anambra state, consisting of today's Anambra and Enugwu states. Ojukwu contested, and even in his own beloved Nnewi he couldn't even win.
Fulani used Jim Nwobodo to rig him out. He was in a political dilemma. He couldn't start another war, a few years after returning From exile, because the international community will call him a sore loser & a war monger. They'll probably use the ICC at the Hague to arrest him.
Fast forward 2007, Same intellectuals came again with Chekwas Okorie, and persuaded Ojukwu to try politics again. He formed APGA and contested for President. Peter Obi contested for Governor. Plan then was that MASSOB will be doing their thing with Uwazuruike, and Dim Ojukwu will be leading the fight thru politics. Ojukwu was beginning to feel sick then but he went thru the plan. Even our leader Mazi Nnamdi Kanu was in APGA then. He's friends with Chekwas Okorie.
The Same rubbish argument you see Otellectuals peddling today, "IPOB should use their clout and try politics" & all that shit was used on Ojukwu! Again, Ojukwu lost to Yar'Adua in Anambra State. In Nnewi gom gom, Ojukwu lost. That was when they finished him. After that he retired from politics. They even rigged out Peter Obi with Ngige. Many of you didn't know that Ojukwu had to accost the judge of the Peter Obi Vs Ngige election tribunal during recess before he delivered his final judgement.
Ojukwu threatened him with a pistol that he would start another war if the judge tried to abort justice that day. A DSS agent was made to make a call to Aso rock, Obasanjo spoke with Ojukwu. APGA's mandate was restored and the rest is history. Today Chekwas Okorie is in APC, Ngige is APC. Peter Obi whom threatened to start another war on his behalf is in PDP. All of them are worms from the same puddle.
Some of you Otellectuals from the East don't even understand the country you live in. All you do is to overrate yourselves with the stupid English you speak, then you label IPOB members uncouth & uneducated, because you think you're better than them. Perhaps because you reside abroad and have a few dollars in Ur pocket?! Onye iberibe!
Ikechukwu Ka Dibia Onyeji[/s]
Afonja find something meaningful with your life and leave igbos to do their thing
Umahi advocated for igbo presidency ,they abused him and said they didn't need it.Now Uzodimma has come to say he doesn't believe on igbo presidency,this should actually make ipok happy but yet as usual they're neither here nor there,no ideology. It must be so terrible to be an ipok
33bandit: I've found a phone without sim.with a cracked screen ..I still have it ,ah go dash girl soon sha
I've found slippers ..I gave it out to one hausa boy I met .. Someone forgot some paint buckets ,I sold those .I've no use for them ... Little ones like caps baby clothes etc..I dash it out
Sonnobax15: Op, first of all,kudos to that nigha of yours...In fact,na that kind of best friend guyman suppose get....
Well,110k has just saved you from the future trauma....And this whole story should serve as a lesson to any man who thinks marrying a virgin is a sure way to escape from women's promiscuity and their endless wahala .
Las las, banny wey go cheat go cheat...So fvck virginity
But op,just reason your son and just try forgive her....
Nothing like fck virginity,cases of cheating involving them is still far far less than the oloshos you beta males marry and keep im the house
Justanonymous: Ok I never wanted to share this with anyone else ( my Best friend and neighbor knows) till I decide on what to do with her but an earlier thread on nairaland today about this same paternity issue that I read ( Papa ijeoma) is making me pen this down and due to the insensitive nature of the issue I had to create a new account because she is also in nairaland like me
Me and my lady ( we aren't married but engaged) never hide anything from one another, she knows the password to my phone's and I likewise her's but we never picked each other's call or read a text that isn't meant for the person that owns the phone
But everything changed 7 weeks ago when a text came through to her phone from a number she saved with a different name but in that text the person Said " you can't give my son to that small boy, he is my son and when I get back home I would come collect him"
She was taking her bath and her phone rang repeatedly and almost immediately when the last call stopped then a text came in, and because I was close to it something told me hey man take the phone to meet her maybe it's her work place calling her and as I picked up the phone i unlocked it and just was innocently playing with the phone and walking to the bathroom when I opened the text and when I read it I was broken, so so broken. I opened her WhatsApp for the first time in almost 3 year's of been together and I read the message her and her " man friend" have been sharing, mhen what do ladies want? Why do you have to cheat on a man that loves you? Where is the sacred pure love our parents shared
I won't advice anyone to check their partners phone but at times it could save you
Immediately I read that text I lost my head but I didn't tell her or confront her with it, I was hating my son ( yes he is mine), wasn't eaten at home, but that wasn't who I'm, I'm better than that
Gosh I loved that girl, still love her, I deflowered her, I just couldn't wrap my heads round it for the first 3 or 5 day's, she knew something was off but I just couldn't tell her, I couldn't carry my son and then I told my older neighbor and he advised me, prayed with me and told me to be calm
He suggested we did a DNA test and I checked through nairaland and got a center and when I heard the price gosh ( 110k) I said I wasn't gonna do it and he asked me how much I had and I said like 190k and he said isn't it better to know the paternity of your son with 110k than train him with far more?
I went for the DNA test and God that 23 days I had to wait was the longest of my life and when the results came out and I was texted by the center in Allen Avenue God lol my heart was pounding, I told my best friend everything and he wanted to go throw her out of the house but I told him all I needed was his support in the center Incase I collapse lol
And when I was given the envelope my god my hands were shaking, I was sweating under an air conditioner my friend took the results and opened it and smiled and yelled and said he is yours bro and I took the results and thank God he was my son, gosh I cried hahahahaha, I was crying like mad
While me And my friend was going home he was asking me what I wanted to do with my lady and I said I don't know and 2 weeks after I still don't know I swear
I love her, oh my God I still love her but I feel so much anger and bitterness in my heart towards her and now I direct all my love to my son
We haven't made love in 6 weeks and she is complaining and crying, called my Mom to report me and my Mom is asking why I just told her I don't feel like it
I can't throw her out because her parents are late but I keep on asking my self what happened, where did I go wrong that would make her cheat on me till her " Man friend" thinks she has a son for him, I try for this girl I swear do, yes we aren't rich but come on, she uses an iPhone while I still use an Android, I make sure she doesn't lack anything her single friends has, yes we are young, she is 25 while I'm 28 but I try for her and treat her like a wife because we share a child
What do women really want, I know why the comedian Nedu couldn't tell anyone about his wife given him another man's kid it's because of the shame involve, no one knows about this than my neighbor and my friend and of course you now reading it, I would keep her and see if the next 6 months I can feel what I felt for her just a few months back which was real and genuine love and if I can't feel that way I would Respectfully tell her everything and no one else would know as I would keep her shame because she is a good girl, I know she is but I just couldn't imagine why she did what she did
Ladies please be like our parents so you don't give your husband a child that isn't his and that's the DNA results
Goodnight
It makes no sense withholding your findings,keep dying in silence thinking it is maturity.
complexBoss12: there is no electric pole close to my village, not to talk of the village itself
But look on the bright side, according to my Dad, during the Civil war, they lived their normal life, bc the war didn't get to the village. So anything War in Nigeria, I simply enter village.
imagine this economic sabotage and nonsense happening in SE now
God will forever bless Wike,most people were criticising him then but you can now in retrospect see that he did the right thing in Rivers.Imagine how SE people are suffering and smiling in the hands of ipob of which their leaders are in Europe enjoying good things while they suffer lmao
we all read about the LGA in Ondo(okitipupa) that hasn't seen light since the past 14 years.The funny thing is that most towns/LGAs across Nigeria are in this table even though it may not have been as long or maybe a bit longer.This is an awareness thread,who knows the leaders from those areas could be reading this. The pattern is this,state the town , LGA and the state . Example: Okitipupa, Okitipupa LGA, Ondo state.
No bashing or insults.Lets create the awareness guys
Family / Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by Ikwerelastborn: 11:02am On Sep 13, 2021 
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