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FamilyRe: Deceived Into Marriage, Used And Dumped by inspiROHM(m): 5:34pm On Jan 03, 2015
Wendy80:
The man and his wife used ds lady to have Children believing they can't have children of their own. Unfortunately or Fortunately for them his wife conceived 4months after.
She should let her family know what she's going thru.
She should also Sue his sorry azzz, report to welfare or NGOS, there must be something she can do. sad
This is Naija Sweetie. Reality 101 is a class everyone should take. There's nothing she can do.
RomanceThere Are 2 Types Of Women In This World. by inspiROHM(op): 11:14am On Jan 03, 2015
THERE ARE 2 TYPES OF WOMEN IN THIS WORLD.
There are the minority (about 10%) who can stay in love and attracted to the same man forever, provided that man is still is good as ever or better than ever. The other 90% cannot, and most fall out of love and resent their partner within about 6 months to 36 months. For many, they just end the marriage with divorce. For some it will take longer, and for others it will be less than 48 months. The hormones running through her body that cause her to feel in love just hit the Great Wall of China, and she will never again feel physically attracted to her man. It doesn't matter how good her man is in every way, or even how earth shattering the sex has been up until then. It's an instinctive thing with these women. If you ever want to have a sex life again as a man, simply leave. because there's no way it can be fixed. Not even heavens can help the situation. The woman will probably have a future sex life if she finds another man half as good as the man, but it just won't happen with the guy because she slowly just like cancer, killed the man's confidence and sexuality.
RomanceRe: How Many Nigerian Women Can Do This? (pic) by inspiROHM(m): 6:09am On Jan 02, 2015
Lilamartedi:
White women that dress half nakeed undecided I can almost see her ass from here
And you will tell me that those that wear long Mary Amaka gown are not sluts? See where your mind went to. You are so Defeatist! Her Heart and Intentions are what matters. If I meet a Nigerian girl with that kind of attitude and I am not ready to marry her as at that time, I would quickly recommend her to a friend, brother or cousin ASAP. I've seen girls in totally covering clothes that can embarrass a prostitute with what they are capable of behind closed doors. What about the Married Women that sleep with our pastors and Rev. Fathers and even have kids for these morally bankrupt, laxity-diseased, purported men of god?
FamilyRe: Super Woman: Housewife Disarms Robbers With Hot Water by inspiROHM(m): 11:45am On Jan 01, 2015
montestic:
Sauce:http://pulse.ng/gist/super-woman-housewife-disarms-robbers-with-hot-water-id3379088.html
Does she have a grown daughter? I'd like to marry her. no be all these lousy girls and women that can't hold the family front chasing beings in trousers everywhere
RomanceRe: She Is Married But She Called Her Ex For Christmas Gift by inspiROHM(m): 9:22pm On Dec 31, 2014
pillan:
its not proper...not just a married woman but a mother too...she don suppose mature na...not like twas the ex that offered to give her the cash...no offence,but she's a runs woman
I know someone personally capable of such and you are not wrong in your definition of her as a runz woman
RomanceRe: Why Are Nigerian Girls Always Scared Of Kissing In Public? by inspiROHM(m): 8:49pm On Dec 31, 2014
voodoo85:
because her other bf could see cheesy
Exactly or some sugar daddy of hers
RomanceRe: The Lies Of The "No Sex Before Marriage" Deals. by inspiROHM(m): 8:07pm On Dec 31, 2014
There's really nothing wrong with marrying a girl that has had her fair share of sexual encounters. I would marry someone like that if she has other redeeming qualities that I consider important.

The only problem - and that has always been my biggest problem with Nigerian females - is when a girl presents a fake image of virtue and goodness. In most cases, while they are denying you sex, they are giving it to someone else somewhere, for some reason. While they are forming 'principles' or 'virtue' for you, they are giving their whorish best to some other guy somewhere. Believe it or not, this is the case 95% of the time. Yet they expect you to "trust" them enough to fall for their grand deceit by agreeing to this 'no sex before marriage' hogwash. It simply cannot work. If one person has to play the fool, no problem, as long as that person is not me.
You hit it. I know one that goes as far as butt sex but still you won't know what she is capable of. Recently she just branched out to married men
LiteratureExcerpt From AN EVENING WITH THE DEVIL; A Novel In Progress By Romeo Ohanekwu by inspiROHM(op): 11:25am On Nov 18, 2014
His name is Satan and he is also known by thirty-two other appellations. Satan was not his given name at the time of his creation, nor was it Lucifer as I and a lot of us proclaiming Christianity were led to believe. Satan is a descriptive name, which means “Adversary; Enemy; Accuser.” He came to be called Satan because he chose a life course in opposition to God. By provoking insurrection, this once trusted angel made himself Satan - an adversary and enemy of God. The appellation “Devil,” which means “Slanderer,” was also added to his description.

Satan does not stop at opposing God, he attacks us, everything about us, every day of our lives, sometimes with obviousness, sometimes with insidiousness. That is why we have evangelists, pastors, priests, reverends, bishops, archbishops and a pope. That is why we erect house fellowships, cell fellowships, worship houses, churches, temples, synagogues and cathedrals.

These men, and women recently, were enthroned by us so that they can guide us in everyday of our lives in fighting back for ourselves at the Devil. The places of worship we build are the bunkers we remember to run into when the pressures of the 'battle' becomes nigh unbearable, and when we need to fortify ourselves.

These men, and women that we elected, or who sometimes elected themselves, to be our Commanders-in Chief, encourage us within the walls of the places of worship to stand tall, call the Devil names and declare him defeated. It is very funny but not amusing when we know that a lot of us do not talk to God as we should, a lot of us do not study the Word as we should, a lot of us do not worship God in Spirit and Truth and a lot of us are still encumbered in ignoble acts that stink to high heavens. Angels must have some sort of gas masks to keep them from passing out from the stench.

We lie to ourselves about a lot of things. Especially after we declare and accept Jesus Christ as our Saviour, saying that His blood has been spilt for our sins and washes them away and we are yet to desist from persisting in sin. A lot of us do not know, even I did not know, that our sinful acts after all declarations, pledges and acceptances put Jesus through the excruciating agony of crucifixion all over again. Satan showed me exactly where this and many others that turned my blood cold are in the bible. Very few of the men, and women, in whom we repose all our trust to guide us on the route to the Book of Life ever show us that. As for me, I don't remember being shown such at any point in my life. After taking trust from us they go ahead and take our blood, sweat and tears and tell us it is used to support God's work.  Another lie is that a lot of us think that becoming Christians makes us immune from attack by the devil. If you read the parable of the sower again (I believe you must have read it a lot of times before, especially as a child because it is the most popular of all the parables) we were clearly taught that Satan would come and take away what has been seeded in our hearts.

See, it is true that at the end of it all that Satan and his faithfuls, both the knowing and the unknowing will be destroyed but going by the numbers he is actually a better soul winner than all the clergy men, and women in the world put together. If this is not true, then tell me why is the other parabolic road wide? That begs the question, is he really losing? Deducing from everything he and I discussed, whether you believe it or not, I don't think he is losing. Personal opinion, you might say. Dust off the clouds of sentiments about you and you will not need further proof.

Let me reveal to you some things Satan said to me during the interview. He said he is always at church before the preacher is in the pulpit or a member is in the pew. He went on to say that he comes to hinder the sower, to impoverish the soil, and to corrupt the seed. He told me that most of the times, he is not directly involved in all these. His movements and methods pass us by every moment and we never notice them. That is because he has this rare ability to get others to do his work and execute his machinations. But here is the frightening part, he said uses these tactics only when courage and faith are in the pulpit, and zeal and prayer are in the pew. How does he do it? He works by counterfeit. He flourishes in making something as close to the original as possible and, thereby, breaking the force and value of the genuine. But if he finds dead ritualism in the pulpit and live liberalism in the pew, he is not hassled because such situations are of no peril and therefore no consequence to him.

Recently Satan is very happy with himself. Why? You will ask. I will tell you. He has been able to achieve one thing insidiously; materialization of churches. Let me explain further; man now lives for bread alone, the world is now bigger than heaven to a lot of us (even when we hate to admit it), and he has been able to make time more interesting than eternity. Let me make you understand how deep the foxhole goes. We think Satan's supreme objective is to destroy the church, no, all he wants is just control of the church and he has it. He has been able to divert the divine purpose of the church. He did this in the most subtle way so that there would be no startling change and nothing to shock or alarm. You think I am lying, don't you? Well, these days a lot of our churches are referred to as strong because their membership is large, they are socially and most times politically positioned and possess financial resources. Our churches are perceived as powerful because ability, learning, and eloquence fill the pulpits, and the pews are filled by fashion, intelligence, money, and influence. Seriously? Are you not seeing that the very worms of worldliness are fattening themselves by nibbling away at us Christians?

There is still hope. He is not so happy. In fact he is most times plagued with disappointments in himself because there are Christians, he mentioned, that are resistant to his wiles and beguiles to levels that has been exceptionally discouraging. The ones that worship in Spirit and in Truth, he said. He said those ones are specially marked enemies of his. He went on to reveal that he can fight these Christians because they are very few in number. Population disadvantage. Well he never fights fair so what was I expecting? He went on to tell me that he makes the lives of these specially marked ones an intense lifelong warfare, hoping that for a period as brief as what it takes to blink an eye, to break their consentient resolve. He showed me a glimpse of what these specially marked ones face; a ferocious battle, moreover, waged by the third most powerful being created (and yet we underestimate him in every way we humanly can), an invisible adversary, who is ever alert, and ever seeking to entrap, deceive, and intent on ruin. Unrestrained by sentiments that soften and move human or divine hearts, he goes after those enemies of his with no pity and no sympathy. Many of us are on his side in this battle for souls and within that many, much more of us are oblivious of where we are encamped.

We zealously believe in the men, and women of the priestly class, take to their ways and words more serious than any other person's and we think we have won? I thought as hard as you are thinking now. This question, the very last statement he made is what really scares me and I ask you; are these men, and women with their ways and teachings, and edifices keeping Satan out of our lives, or the other way round?
RomanceBetween The Woman He Is In Lust With And The Woman He Is In Love With by inspiROHM(op):
The Difference Between The Woman He is in Lust With And The Woman He is in Love With

1. The woman he is in LUST with is his BOOTY call.
When he wants to have sex in ways he can't with a normal woman, he always knows she will oblige him.

2. The woman he is in LOVE with he'll make sacrifices for
That means doing things that he wouldn't normally want to do. Because, well, he loves her.

3. The woman he is in LUST with can do whatever she wants
He doesn't need to worry about how she's doing or what's she's up to.

4. The woman he is in LOVE with gets him worried
The more he falls for her the more he wants to protect her. If she doesn't call or isn't responding to his texts, no doubt, he'll show concern.

5. The woman he is in LUST with is a TROPHY
She is just an addition to his to his collection of conquests soon to get bored with.

6. The woman he is in LOVE with is special
He always has a big cheesy grin on his face when he introduces her to new people and he'll make sure they all know her name. Why? Because he wants them to appreciate her as much as he does.

7. The woman he is in LUST with is a convenience
She typically has very little expectations (that's casual sex for you). So for him it's really GREAT. Especially if he's busy with his CAREER. No emotions, no money, MINIMAL if not ZERO investment. Not a bad deal, eh? What other thing comes to mind when you hear the word convenience? Yeah you were not wrong.

8. The woman he is in LOVE with gets surprises
When a guy's in love he likes to shower her with gifts. And not because women love material things (OK, just a little bit). But because he wants to see her happy! Nothing is more gratifying than making your woman smile.

9. The woman he is in LUST with doesn't need to be his type
When it comes to sleeping around its true what they say; 'pussy has no face'.

10. The woman he is in LOVE with is his dream girl
He thinks she's the hottest thing in town. Even her stretch marks DON'T matter. Though they make her self-conscious, those places they are the very places he kisses most (wink).

11. The woman he is in LUST with only gets one thing
It's a mutual agreement (at least HE thinks it is). If she wants to have sex he has no problem fulfilling her needs - vice versa. It's that simple. NO LONG THING.

12. The woman he LOVES drives him crazy (in a BIG way)
This guy is so high on love that when they're together he can't keep his hands off her. Hugs, kisses, PDA? He. Wants. It. All.

13. The woman he is in LUST with is temporary
In time, he'll lose interest and find a new f*ck buddy. That's just the way it goes. It's all about physical gratification.

14. The woman he is in LOVE with is his FUTURE
HE CAN'T IMAGINE LIFE WITHOUT HER. WHEREVER SHE IS, IS HOME.
PoliticsGaddaffi Was The Most Benevolent Leader Africa Ever Had: His Last Formal Speech by inspiROHM(op): 9:32pm On Aug 20, 2014
In the name of Allah, the beneficent, the merciful…

For 40 years, or was it longer, I can’t remember, I did all I could to give people houses, hospitals, schools, and when they were hungry, I gave them food. I even made Benghazi into farmland from the desert, I stood up to attacks from that cowboy Ronald Reagan, when he killed my adopted orphaned daughter, he was trying to kill me, instead he killed that poor innocent child. Then I helped my brothers and sisters from Africa with money for the African Union.

I did all I could to help people Understand the concept of real democracy, where people’s committees ran our country. But that was never enough, as some told me, even people who had 10 room homes, new suits and furniture, were never satisfied, as selfish as they were they wanted more. They told Americans and other visitors, that they needed "democracy" and "freedom" never realizing it was a cut throat system, where the biggest dog eats the rest, but they were enchanted with those words, never realizing that in America, there was no free medicine, no free hospitals, no free housing, no free education and no free food, except when people had to beg or go to long lines to get soup.

No, no matter what I did, it was never enough for some, but for others, they knew I was the son of Gamal Abdel Nasser, the only true Arab and Muslim leader we’ve had since Salah-al-Deen, when he claimed the Suez Canal for his people, as I claimed Libya, for my people, it was his footsteps I tried to follow, to keep my people free from colonial domination – from thieves who would steal from us.

Now, I am under attack by the biggest force in military history, my little African son, Obama wants to kill me, to take away the freedom of our country, to take away our free housing, our free medicine, our free education, our free food, and replace it with American style thievery, called "capitalism" ,but all of us in the Third World know what that means, it means corporations run the countries, run the world, and the people suffer.

So, there is no alternative for me, I must make my stand, and if Allah wishes, I shall die by following His path, the path that has made our country rich with farmland, with food and health, and even allowed us to help our African and Arab brothers and sisters.

I do not wish to die, but if it comes to that, to save this land, my people, all the thousands who are all my children, then so be it.
Let this testament be my voice to the world, that I stood up to crusader attacks of NATO, stood up to cruelty, stoop up to betrayal, stood up to the West and its colonialist ambitions, and that I stood with my African brothers, my true Arab and Muslim brothers, as a beacon of light.

When others were building castles, I lived in a modest house, and in a tent. I never forgot my youth in Sirte, I did not spend our national treasury foolishly, and like Salah-al-Deen, our great Muslim leader, who rescued Jerusalem for Islam, I took little for myself…

In the West, some have called me "mad", "crazy", but they know the truth yet continue to lie, they know that our land is independent and free, not in the colonial grip, that my vision, my path, is, and has been clear and for my people and that I will fight to my last breath to keep us free, may Allah almighty help us to remain faithful and free".

My brothers and sisters let's start loving more of each other and stop killing each other cause Europe America and other western world will never want to see sunshine of Africans.
RomanceRe: Dear Future Husband by inspiROHM(m):
What if that future husband is not of the same religious denomination with you? A girl dumped my friend because this reason many months ago. Suddenly recently she sends him romantic text messages. This guy dated that girl for 3 years and no sex. Beat that.

What if he does not have a university degree but strangely he is a really smart dude that is even self-employed and doing OK at his job or business? We do look at the wrappings which could be weather beaten with time, but inside the wrappings which we sometimes choose not to look at is the real deal. Life's glittering trappings has a way of throwing bright beams of light directly at our eyes, blinding us (for a time with SCALES until they fall off).

What if that future husband you crave is not of the same tribe with you, or is of a tribe your family or even you would not touch with a 100 foot pole? Not everything works the way we plan. A Fulani nurse some years ago in Adamawa state had a very deep crush for my Igbo friend who would have nothing to do with her. He still speaks of his regret at rejecting Subaka (Her name; it means SUNRISE. Yes she is darn beautiful).

What if that guy who will appreciate your good heart is the very one you rejected because he is too good looking, too bad looking, not really good at dressing up, you meet all the time in different places and he smiles but you return a blank stare because your stalker alert light has gone from GREEN to AMBER (next up is RED). What if he is that guy you prefer he should be in the friend zone always, is that guy that works in a restaurant that served you food and drinks, is that guy you are a year or two older than? Google about these people Edward VIII and Wallis Simpson. These are the characters in the greatest and untold love story of the 20th Century. That Edward VIII was a King of the English Empire but he abdicated that throne (Was he high on something or something was high on him? Yes LOVE, TRUE LOVE.) for he love of Wallis Simpson.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2522883/Items-belonging-Edward-VIII-Wallis-Simpson-rare-insight-lives.html

http://history1900s.about.com/od/1930s/a/kingedward.htm

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wallis_Simpson

Read these pensively. Life is what happens when we are busy doing another thing.
RomanceRe: Dear Future Husband by inspiROHM(m):
How do you do now? I hope better. Try some small exercises just before going to bed, if it doesn't work, pick up good inspirational book. It works for me maybe it will for you. I sleep only three hours a night maximum. I am used to that. See I will not offer pity cause it will never get you anywhere. In fact it will be destructive rather than constructive. I will only offer encouragement. First rule about life; Never expect things to work the way you plan. First rule about relationships; Always insist on a long-term relationships going somewhere from the onset. That way you get rid of the Cock-roaches. It works both ways for the Hen-roaches. First rule about Male-Female interaction; Always listen, always listen, not only to words but also to the divergent meaning of those spoken words and also the unspoken words. The unspoken ones are the ones that should attract and keep your attention most. I really listen because I know that the more quiet I am, the more I hear. I have had my own fair share of Heartbreaks, The last one forced me to go on 7 year hiatus. Yes I had to do that at the risk of being labelled homosexual, monk, freak. Did I give a flying fart of a damn about it? NO! I did it because I needed some answers I knew no one but myself could ever find and did I find those answers? YES. Here they are;

1: IT HAPPENED! Yes your heart was broken but never let it amputate the love you have in store. Male-roaches and Female-roaches get squished in the end. I tried in all my relationships to keep patching the holes till I couldn't anymore. At the end I rose like the Phoenix from the ashes of the heartbreak wiser and stronger and more loving and most important guiltless. Before God and Man I tried. If the next boyfriend or girlfriend of the Male-roach or Female-roach scolds or attacks them physically I will be the first thing they remember. Four of my five exes at one time or the other expressed interest at continuing from where we stopped. You are smart enough to guess my response.

2: Never let your pains change change you. That way you get what you want in life. All you have to do is wait and it will just come to you. Even if it gets to ten years before it finally arrives it Finally ARRIVED. Ten years is long enough for something good. There is an unfathomable difference between LONG ENOUGH AND TOO LONG.

3: I found my MYSELF, I am adept at programming and I am learning Ruby, my 5th programming language after which I will move to learning Rails, another programming language. Look within you, there must be something you like doing. It seems you are a good writer. HIT IT!!! Stain your hands and clothes with ink but write something, anything or and I love cartoons and animation movies and playing computer games. There are hidden lessons and messages I get from them that compasses me through this TSUNAMI we call life. So find something you like and do it!!!
RomanceRe: He Need Advice-he Caught His Girlfriend Making Love With Another Man by inspiROHM(m): 9:23pm On May 19, 2013
lorretta u: a yahoo boy in far away switzerland whom she probably intends to use as a mugu and change her line when he comes to nigeria is what you're giving yourself headache about.keep snooping.u never ready be happy.#not that I like what she's doing anyway.but if u put yourself in d same category with the little yahoo boy,see as u lose value in her eyes.and trust me,nothing is gonna happen between them
Lorretta, I do understand where you are coming from but. I am very advanced intellectually. Right now the very lady whom you said and I quote nothing will happen btw her and the yahoo boy is lashing a CATHOLIC PRIEST. Every friday she leaves her place of work and goes to the priest's parish. How did I know? 3 mins and a name is all I need and any facebook account, any email account is bared to me, calls and smses are intercepted and from a priest? So raunchy the pope will have a heart attack
RomanceRe: Please Give This Search For Mr. Right A Befitting Title by inspiROHM(m): 7:32am On Apr 20, 2013
The title should be; Been Around The World I, I, I, looking for my babe ---- A song by Lisa Stanfield
RomanceRe: He Need Advice-he Caught His Girlfriend Making Love With Another Man by inspiROHM(m): 1:50pm On Mar 21, 2013
obo389: huh
I doubt dis gist joor!
In dis 21st century,gurls wil alow their guys knw their paroles nt2tlk of catchn thm knackn anodr man?
Thy ve gone hyper o!!Thm no dey catch breeze
My dear friend, I have never believed in secrets under sun. I know how I caught my three exes and waited for them to drop the H-Bomb on me but to their shock I absorbed the three blasts because of the power of foreknowledge and I.T. And like one post here was titled they became violent. One of them went as far as scattering things in my house. Silently watched her. When she was through, I replaced everything just the way they were. What did I do, REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY, Reading ANATOMY OF FEMALE POWER BY CHINWEIZU and Phone freaking. Ten minutes with you phone is all I need and you ain't safe no more. I do not talk much, and I hate confronting them verbally when the infidelity is discovered, why because then every third word out of their mouths will be a lie. I simply lay their dirty linens before them. Even the one I just started dating has a yahoo boy on the side based in Switzerland. She met him on Facebook (world gone global..., and tiny). She lied to me it was her cousin. As I'm talking now the guy's bio-data is with me. They are not even from the same town. Till today she does not know I have foreknowledge of what is to come. Just being prepared anyway.
ComputersRe: Hw Do I Unlock My Toshiba.coz I Av Passworded My Bios by inspiROHM(m): 7:31pm On Nov 09, 2012
Boot it up and check if it shows you any number that looks like some sort of serial number and send it to inspirohm@gmail.com. Also look under it, copy and send to me any serial number you see. Is the motherboard generic as in Insyde H2O or Pheonix. Send me what ever info you can gather related to numbers from it and I can help you for free.
ComputersRe: Intel Vs Amd Which Do You Prefer and why. Cast Your Vote by inspiROHM(m): 9:18pm On Jun 22, 2012
You all running mouth on Intel drinking the Haterade check this monster out AMD FX-8150 Zambezi 3.6GHz Socket AM3+ 125W Eight-Core Desktop Processor on google. This thing devours anything you throw at it you can even find all the pieces. I have been using AMDs for like 10 years and never had I experienced the heat thing. This BEAST overclock to 4.7GHz when you do not use the stock fan just combine it with a good cooling fan like mine, a Thermaltake CLP0554 80mm Sleeve CPU Cooler and this thing runs at an amazing 45 degrees centigrade. Plays all games maxed out. See crysis in its jaw dropping glory. I had to stop and admire the jungle scenery... Need I tell you, it is twice as powerful as a Core i7 and less than half the price
WebmastersRe: How To Create A Scratch Card Powered Registration With Joomla by inspiROHM(m): 2:33pm On May 15, 2011
@Ilosiwaju, I sent a mail to your ilosiwaju@ymail.com. Please I have been looking for a script like JRPassphrase Pro to no avail. Can you send me a copy of yours? My email address is inspirohm@gmail.com. My number is 08058744334. Send me an SMS, I'll call you back. Thank you for your anticipated response.
RomanceRe: My Girl Friend Is In A Mess So Called Love, Plz Nairalanders Help Her Out by inspiROHM(m): 12:56am On Mar 11, 2010
The thing wey dey sweet pass, na im dey kill pass. Your friend had according to an ancient Bini proverb swallowed a long bamboo stick, so from then on she will always be standing even while asleep. Pity. Avarice can bring the very decay to our flesh while we live. Only God knows what he injected into her. I bet she would not be able to muster the courage to tell her parents or brothers if there are any cos a lot has been compromised.
RomanceRe: Help: She Is Messing Up Ma Brain! by inspiROHM(m): 12:43am On Mar 11, 2010
Wait! Wait!! Wait!!! What did I hear you say? Messing with your head? Guy you are the one that is high on her drug that she inherited from Eve and learnt from Delilah. Wake up from the hallucination and glance at reality. Right now she is suffering from low self esteem because her ex-boyfriend kicked her not to the curb but to the waste bin where she belongs. Never condescend as low as being a dog going back to its vomit as she has made herself a bitch going back to her vomit. Girls suffering the emotional trauma she is going through always seek out the perfect victim; an ex that is not hooked. She knows very well that since you are not hooked that she could play with your emotions. Give her a dead pan reception each time she shows up.(Dead pan reception is the kind of reception Idi Amin of Uganda gave out when the body of any of his gruesomely murdered victims was found and the news brought to him; expressionless, flat face with a look like the Siberian winter).

An inexperienced friend of mine came with same problem to me and I gave him the same advice I will give to you; pay no attention to her, she wants to visit her hurt on you. If you doubt it you will end up getting Kitty-Cat. whipped and whimpering like a wet puppy. She is taunting you but if you ignore her and face your PC, PS3 or Super Sport 3 or some other thing that in your solitude give you some sort of near-nirvana joy (playing GOd of War does that for me), letting her know that if she dares interrupt you in your own private fun you will let out all the demons of HADES on her through you, believe me she will know better than not to stop. Girls? They know when the line has been drawn without being told emphatically unless it is the foolhardy ones.
RomanceRe: How To Make Him Fall In Love With You… Truths And Tricks by inspiROHM(m): 7:53pm On Feb 20, 2010
Play hard-to-get!

This is an old trick that never goes out of fashion! Make him jealous; don’t answer all his phone calls, and don’t be always available for him. Hang out with other guys too – let him believe you have many admirers. Men are competitive by nature, so he’ll fight for your attention. As soon as he does, he’ll start wondering: “Why am I jealous? Am I so interested in this girl?” You’ll know you have won his heart…



There is this thing about me,  I used to think that a girl that displays such as above is the sweet sweet sweet,  To my shock, the three girls I dated that played hard to get cheated on me. Ironically, the one that played hard to get most, (it took me close to a year to get this girl to date me and in the two years I dated her I made love to her only once!!!) cheated on me three different times, three different men. After I went on a 6 year hiatus from women, on going back to try the dating game again, the following happened; the first girl tried the HARD TO GET gimmick. I instantly I lost interest in her without giving it second thoughts. The second girl,  well the second girl got friendly with me smoothly and some weeks later she told me of a Air Force officer she met at a wedding, that he calls her and talks to to her for like hours on his MTN contract line phone. Not only that, she went ahead to flash him before me and and giggling as the man at the other end was talking to her. She did that in the middle of a date!!! Probably a way of telling me that my 5 and 10 minute calls are nothing and that someone does a better job. Up until now I am yet to fathom why she pulled that stunt on me but I never felt the need to bother finding out. She followed me to my house that night but I told her I would be out through out the night for night browsing in a nearby cafe. I am a Web Site Designer by profession. The passion was killed anyway. I had to lug my M17x Alienware to the cafe and simply played Resident Evil 5 game all night. Whenever I am tensed, I play my FPS games or my RPGs. Playing games makes me focus.  Well the third girl made it so hard on me that I started avoiding them again until a youth corper from Delta came along. This one is different; no stress, very friendly, open-minded, nothing to hide, although does not take shit, even leaves her phone with me (can you beat that? A NIGERIAN GIRL!!!) honest to fault even when I asked of her age she went ahead to tell me. I don't know why but something keeps telling me that day I sleep with this girl that day I don mess up so I don't lay down opportunities for it no matter how slight. She enjoys my company as much as I do hers and most times sits quietly beside me while I work. Believe me the first thirty minutes of meeting this lady you must appreciate her. I did and my guys are green. All I had to do was be honest to myself as to what I want in a woman and she met like 95% of them. Pragmatically, 5% ain't much so maturity would not let me look hard at it. Of all I have ever come across, she was selected unanimously to be the flag bearer of my heart.
RomanceRe: How To Make Him Fall In Love With You… Truths And Tricks by inspiROHM(m): 7:45pm On Feb 20, 2010
[table]Play hard-to-get!

This is an old trick that never goes out of fashion! Make him jealous; don’t answer all his phone calls, and don’t be always available for him. Hang out with other guys too – let him believe you have many admirers. Men are competitive by nature, so he’ll fight for your attention. As soon as he does, he’ll start wondering: “Why am I jealous? Am I so interested in this girl?” You’ll know you have won his heart…[/table]



There is this thing about me, I used to think that a girl that displays such as above is the sweet sweet sweet, To my shock, the three girls I dated that played hard to get cheated on me. Ironically, the one that played hard to get most, (it took me close to a year to get this girl to date me and in the two years I dated her I made love to her only once!!!) cheated on me three different times, three different men. After I went on a 6 year hiatus from women, on going back to try the dating game again, the following happened; the first girl tried the HARD TO GET gimmick. I instantly I lost interest in her without giving it second thoughts. The second girl, well the second girl got friendly with me smoothly and some weeks later she told me of a Air Force officer she met at a wedding, that he calls her and talks to to her for like hours on his MTN contract line phone. Not only that, she went ahead to flash him before me and and giggling as the man at the other end was talking to her. She did that in the middle of a date!!! Probably a way of telling me that my 5 and 10 minute calls are nothing and that someone does a better job. Up until now I am yet to fathom why she pulled that stunt on me but I never felt the need to bother finding out. She followed me to my house that night but I told her I would be out through out the night for night browsing in a nearby cafe. I am a Web Site Designer by profession. The passion was killed anyway. I had to lug my M17x Alienware to the cafe and simply played Resident Evil 5 game all night. Whenever I am tensed, I play my FPS games or my RPGs. Playing games makes me focus. Well the third girl made it so hard on me that I started avoiding them again until a youth corper from Delta came along. This one is different; no stress, very friendly, open-minded, nothing to hide, although does not take shit, even leaves her phone with me (can you beat that? A NIGERIAN GIRL!!!) honest to fault even when I asked of her age she went ahead to tell me. I don't know why but something keeps telling me that day I sleep with this girl that day I don mess up so I don't lay down opportunities for it no matter how slight. She enjoys my company as much as I do hers and most times sits quietly beside me while I work. Believe me the first thirty minutes of meeting this lady you must appreciate her. I did and my guys are green. All I had to do was be honest to myself as to what I want in a woman and she met like 95% of them. Pragmatically, 5% ain't much so maturity would not let me look hard at it. Of all I have ever come across, she was selected unanimously to be the flag bearer of my heart.
RomanceRe: Ladies, Would You Go To Bed With A Man On Your First Date? by inspiROHM(m): 12:50pm On Feb 19, 2010
Whether he sees you as a ho, a biatch, a slut, an easy lay the the next day is his mindset. To comment on such mindset; it is primitive, backward and is still in the stone age, only that the body bearing such a mind has somehow travelled through time by some explainable means to the 21st Century. Come on this is the 21st Century! the loving, doting, charming girl humanly and womanly responded to what she saw, what she heard and ultimately what she felt. KINI BIG DEAL? ABEG!!! At a period I was down and laden with heartbreak after my second girlfriend ended our relationship a day after the first time I slept with her (ironically that was two years into the relationship, precisely December 4th 2003) a neighbour's friend, a lady became friends with me. anytime she visited her friend, my neighbour and she was not around, she will step into my apartment and watch movies while waiting for my neighbour. One day we got talking and sex was picked up as topic. To cut the story short, we revealed to each other our bedroom fantasies during the discussion and found out that we were compatible. She invited me over to her place. By Nine PM that night. I thought she was joking but I still accepted the invitation. On my way to her place I pick some Walls ice cream, yes, that one that comes with some chocolate. When I got to her place and knocked on the door, she asked me in and on stepping in, she was wearing a wine coloured short nightie. even at that point I never took the tryst serious. She served me better ofe onugbu (bitter-leaf soup) and eba. After clearing the plates and doing the dishes, she came and sat on my lap. Nairalanders, it was at this point that I took the lady serious; but not because she sat on my lap but because through my trousers I could feel that she had nothing underneath the nightie. She opened the ice cream fed me some and fed herself some. lifted herself from my lap took my hand and gently pulled me to the bedroom. She laid back on the bed and tipped over the ice cream bowl, letting some pour on her nightie and her body. Tongue-bathing is what I give to any woman I know is unselfish and would appreciate it and I let her have my greatest hits. She showed me the way to the 'subway' by tipping some more of the ice cream on her, surely I went down the subway and took her train on a (tongue) ride that got her CHOOOOOOOOOO_CHOOOOOOOOOOO!!! Later she reciprocated everything I did to her. During the main course of our 'love-meal' which lasted for like 45 mins (that is excluding the pre-intimacy which lasted like 20 mins) at intervals I would still go down the 'subway' and 'grease' the engines just so to prevent a 'knock' cos' wahala go dey if it happens. We had each other twice that night. My opinion or views of her was not in any slight way altered, not even till today
RomanceRe: I Saw My Best Friend's Husband Kissing Another Girl by inspiROHM(m): 11:02am On Feb 18, 2010
Most peeps will say I am chauvinistic or bitter after my post but I am not. Poster thread very, very, very carefully. For the the man involved in this matter to introduce his participes criminis (Partner in Crime) to you without fear, remorse of some sort, then something is there between your best friend and her husband that you are not seeing. I hate adultery/cheating/double-dealing to my very bone marrow. The three relationships I had before I signed off women since December 4th 2003 till date were ended on basis of infidelity on the side of the girls. In fact the last one cheated on me three times. God is not silly and cannot be mocked. I found out to my shock that  God forgives us our sins but the immediate consequences thereof can never be escaped. All those girls involved with me are going through exactly what you friend is going through now in fact one of them lived in a hostel close to a hotel in Awka, Anambra State where her husband takes different girls to sleep with  and on two occasions she saw the husband  driving into the hotel with different girls and complained to her mates (who later squealed to me). She was about 6 months pregnant and so would not as of that time think about confronting LOVER BOY AND THE HO. Honestly I felt pity for her but so long as she had become someone's wife there was no way I could call her to sympathize with her. Naturally I cannot date a girl I know that has a boyfriend (though I have friends that do it shamelessly) so married women are off limits to me. The other two would sometimes call and complain to me all the things they were going through at the hands of their husbands. I simply told them to take heart. One of them would accept my condolences but the other one  after some more calls and talk, flared and said is that all I had to say, that couldn't I say something nicer to her. I was infuriated but in my dead-pan nature (which hides my true emotions from others as I am hardly taken by surprise) I told her that anything more from me would amount to adultery of the mind and I would not let myself be that opium with which she would escape from the reality of the choices that she made for herself. Poster your friend has only two choices if you tell her or she finds out; end the marriage or start screwing around too like the husband. I am just being PRAGMATIC. I prefer the bitter truth which I know girls run away from and swallow lies hook line and sinker. I am not asserting but have you looked into you friend's past if she rolled in the hay with husbands and made their wives cry in the dead of the night. Let me tell you, it is a vicious cycle and another shocker which will cause an uproar here but it is a hard hitting fact: I have male friends that are married, the sleep around with girls and these know know that these guys are married but where money is a motivating factor, conscience and caution is flung with the left hand, backwards and to the winds. Now these girls expect to have husbands that will be true and faithful to them but the law of 'whatever goes around comes around' always comes knocking on the door. One of my male friends separated from his wife three moths into marriage, moved to another flat in the same town and was sleeping with three different girls every week. This same guy ended the marriage right before me over a the phone on the 4th of January 2007, exactly two days before the first anniversary of the wedding!. It goes the other way round too. I have seen men whose wives sleep around with anything that looks like it is male. In fact a married woman in the town I grew up in got pregnant for a catholic priest!!! Yes it is true. The man found out about paternity of his supposed third child like 3 years after its birth. There was nothing he could do about it because for Catholics, abortion and divorce are out of the question. But knowing the average Nigerian man, if his past is clean and he did not touch somebody's wife or make another man's heart break painfully then even angel Gabriel going on his knees to make him reconsider any drastic action he might want to take will fall on deaf ears. My advice to peeps is that if you know what you are doing now is bad do desist from it so that such will not come to you and even if it does, heavens will never mark you guilty for any action you take pursuant to being the innocent party to a case of infidelity.
EducationThe Jamb Registrar "boss" Cannot See Beyond His Nose by inspiROHM(op): 8:48pm On Jan 25, 2010
It surprises me at the type of leaders and policy makers we have in our Nigeria. Look at the ignominy of Professor Dibu Ojerinde, the purported educationist (or so it seems) and head of Joint Admissions and Matriculation Board is so blind to know that more than ninety percent (90%) of his 2009 candidates are still expecting their admissions into the universities as many institutions are yet to release the lists of successfully admitted students and he is threatening to end 2010 UTME registration on 29th of January 2010.

May be he was in suspended animation when almost all the universities in Nigeria went on strike for more than four months in 2009. He never knew that such action slowed down the programmes of the afflicted universities. Now he is more interested in conducting exams without matriculations. Probably the board has become JOINT EXAMINATIONS CONDUCTING BOARD (JECOB) instead of admissions and matriculations.

Please those that are close to that man should kindly reach him (if he has obtained resuscitation from the suspended animation) through phone or otherwise and and rekindle his human conscience as he is sending a lot parents to untimely grave from "JAMB PRESSURE" while a lot of Nigerian children have their dreams for a better tomorrow vampirically sucked off them slowly but surely by the very Board called JAMB, which they so much rely on for tomorrow's smiles.
RomanceRe: A Day 2 Wed,caught Her Cheating,what Will U Do. by inspiROHM(m): 10:39am On Jan 09, 2010
Do not say it never happens. I have a stupid male colleague in Anambra State who went on a menage a trois (triple sin) on the bachelors night, a classmate of mine actually slept with her boyfriend a night to her traditional wedding. They called it "PARTING Zap".  Infact an ex wanted me to keep sleeping with her even when she was wearing her engagement ring. I declined and she asked me why, saying "have we not been doing that before I got engaged, besides he is far away in South Africa." and I replied "I just don't want another to bump nasty with my fiancee  or wife that is all." She said she did not understand what I meant by that statement and I replied that if I sleep with her then another man will sleep with my fiancee or wife and even if i get to know about the incident, deep inside me I would be reconciling the event of sleeping with her with the present event of another man sleeping with my fiancee/wife as karma.

I desire a situation where even God will not find my reaction to my wife or fiancee sleeping with another excessive cause in such situation, I must be honest, I would not be able to predict myself.
GamingRe: The Best Game You've Ever Played by inspiROHM(m): 9:32pm On Dec 09, 2009
@ 9jaganja

how in the world could you play Crysis on yellow dog linux? It was built strictly for windows platform. For you to get the best of this game, your system or whatever you have must be equipped with direct x 9.0c or direct x 10  which I know never comes with linux so who is hyping here? The VGA card of the system must not be any less than 784 MB for you to even get a stable 30fps (frame rates per second) display with a full HD resolution like 1280 x 1024 pixels, which is not even the best. Try CRYSIS in the above resolution with 60fps-90fps with my card ATI HD4970, you will pick your jaw from the floor throughout the gameplay.

9jaganja, I first used the linux OS of the Red Hat distribution before I knew or touched any Windows OS. I know the Linux principles down to command line interface and the midnight commander very well.  So to install a windows based software you have to have a strong affiliation with the linux command line interface and the midnight commander.

For you to  even try what you just said, you have to virtualize Windows XP which is mighty slow on PS3. Alternatively you have to install WINE in your Yellow Dog Linux.

9jaganja THERE IS NO EXISTING WINE INSTALLATION FOR YELLOW DOG LINUX > http://www.winehq.org/download/ THIS MEANS THAT CRYSIS NEVER INSTALLED ON YOUR PS3. SO YOU WERE SIMPLY LYING TO GET MY ATTENTION WHICH I  APPLAUD YOU CAUSE YOU ACTUALLY DID GET MY ATTENTION. EVEN IF YOU INSTALLED WINE BY HOOK OR CROOK WHICH I KNOW LINUX DOES NOT TAKE HOOK OR CROOK, YOU CAN NEVER RUN CRYSIS ON PS3 CAUSE THE GRAPHICS PROCESSING UNIT CANNOT HANDLE DIRECT X 9 NOT TO TALK OF DIRECT X 10 GAMES LIKE CRYSIS. DIRECT X 9 AND DIRECT X 10 CAN NEVER RUN WITH THE GPU (GRAPHICS PROCESSOR UNIT) OF PS3. THIS IS BECAUSE THE 3D COMPUTER GRAPHICS API SOFTWARE USED IN THE PS3 IS LibGCM and PSGL, BASED ON OpenGL ES AND NVIDIA'S CG. THAT MEANS DIRECT X 9/10 BASED GAMES ARE OUT OF THE QUESTION.

EVERYONE THAT TRIED VIRTUALIZING WINDOWS IN YELLOW DOG INSTALLED IN PS3 RECORDED A DISASTER. THE PS3 OPERATING SYSTEM WHICH IS PLAYSTATION 3 SYSTEM SOFTWARE WAS NEVER OPTIMIZED TO HANDLE SUCH A BOMB AS CRYSIS. TRY YOUR 3 KOBO LIES SOMEWHERE ELSE; WHO KNOWS THE GULLIBLE DOGS WILL GOBBLE EVERY SCRAP YOU THROW AT THEM.
SportsWwe Two Time Champion Wrestler Umaga Dies! by inspiROHM(op): 11:25am On Dec 06, 2009
WWE Two time champion wrestler Umaga dies!



Eki “Eddie” Fatu died in Houston on Friday after a massive heart attack, adding to a long list of professional wrestlers who died by the age of 40.

The 36-year old Fatu, who achieved his greatest fame in recent years as a star in the industry-leading World Wrestling Entertainment under the name “Umaga,” was found unconscious in his Spring, TX living room by his wife, who had him rushed to the hospital. Fatu had a second heart attack in the hospital before he died.

Fatu, who was memorable for his distinct facial tattoos, comes from a large family of Samoan wrestlers who have influenced the business for several generations, beginning with his uncles, the brother combination of Afa and Sika Anoi’a, who formed a successful act known as “The Wild Samoans” in the 1970s and ’80s. The most famous member of the clan is cousin Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson, who left wrestling for Hollywood fame.

Fatu’s career peak came in 2007, as he co-headlined Wrestlemania 23 in Detroit, a card that received a ton of publicity for a storyline involving WWE owner Vince McMahon and Donald Trump. But his run at the top was short-lived, and he was released from his WWE contract on June 8 when he refused to go into rehab after a second violation of the WWE’s drug policy.

Fatu had recently returned from an independent wrestling tour of Australia when he was stricken.

“On behalf of my family, the Anoa’i and Fatu family, we are devastated and shocked by the loss of our Eki,” Afa Anoa’i told the Wrestling Observer. Our son, nephew, brother, cousin, husband, father. Our hearts are broken, and words can’t express what each of us are feeling. It is so comforting to know how loved Eki is by his family, peers, friends, and most of all his fans.”

A staggering number of young pro wrestlers have died over the past 10 years, leading some to believe the industry has a curse. Among the most notorious cases were Chris Benoit, 40, who committed suicide in Georgia in 2007 after murdering his wife, Nancy, and son Daniel; Eddie Guerrero, 38, who died of a heart attack in 2005 in a Minnesota hotel room; and Owen Hart, 33, who died in Kansas City in 1999 after a stunt went awry during a live television shoot. In March, another former WWE wrestler, Andrew “Test” Martin, 34, died after an Oxycontin overdose.
GamingRe: The Best Game You've Ever Played by inspiROHM(m): 5:02am On Dec 01, 2009
Jeez!!!! haven't any of you guys tried CRYSIS; a ground breaking and the most graphically intense game ever built. The graphics requirements is so intense that it could not be ported to the console. Play Station 3 of all consoles could not handle CRYSIS. So intense you need like 1 Gig dedicated VGA card (not windows vista allocated), 4 gig DDR2 RAM and a Corei7 or AMD Phemon II X4 processor to actually enjoy the game. Anything less the system will simply hang and jeez on my logitech 5.1 you actually hear an enemy approach from behind! It was actually encoded in 5.1 Dolby digital and if you do not have a 5.1 digital capable audio card like creative series, it will switch back to stereo automatically. Wow!! welcome to the lushest and most beautiful jungle you have ever seen in a game. The A.I. and wide area of choice of movement is out of this world. How you solve the levels or get by enemies or bring them down are up to you. The game rewards good military strategy. Hmm my character Prophet died like 113 times before i could cross the second mission. By then i had mastered the game. Shoot at trees and the leaves actually fall off and the branches get chopped off by the bullets coming from your SCAR rifle. I just bought CRYSIS WARHEAD the sequel to CRYSIS. Thoroughly engaging game.

Preview a captured scene from CRYSIS http://www.thekoalition.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/crysis068.jpg

Legacy of KAIN: I love it deeply involving storyline and numbing puzzles, once rated the greates story ever told for a game
RESIDENT EVIL 4: try killing zombies that are smart and fast. I just beat it in the hardest, professional level and i was awarded a big, beautiful laser-gun free of charge
Devil May Cry 3: just beat it last week. good game.
NEED FOR SPEED CARBON: anytime anyday my game
NYSCRe: Family Of Slain Corps Member Rejects N2m by inspiROHM(m): 6:05am On Oct 15, 2009
Have any of us looked into the bloody truth? Has any of us read through history very well? Did you notice that Igbos were very complacent to this topic? Ojukwu saw this all before the 1967 war. These South-southerners were among the very people, including the Niger-Deltans that are raising storms in tea cups over oil and compensations the support he needed to send the Northerners scurrying away with their tails between their legs . Can you all look into Ojukwu's reaction when Saro-Wiwa was slain? He was complacent. The Niger-Deltans brewing trouble now and the South-southerners like old Crossriver and Rivers State refused to support Ojukwu after he humbly came and begged them almost on his knees to support him. They were like he is IGBO and will overtake everything. Now who overtook everything? Was it not the people clamouring for the God forsaken "ONE NIGERIA" Abuja as we all know was built from the scratch with oil money and yet the people that own the land from which the oil was taken never get a kobo EVEN TILL THIS MOMENT!!! I have never been to Abuja but the pictures of Abuja that I was on this Nairaland knocked me off my seat. I could not believe that this is part of the "One Nigeria!!!" I thought it was 'Photoshopped'. It took another person, a friend of mine that has visited Abuja to get me convinced that this is Abuja. Abuja that had rendered a lot of our brothers and sisters homeless for the sake of MASTERPLAN. This same Abuja, hiiiiiiisssssssissssssssssssssssss. Let me leave it out. We all know how the rest of the Nation looks like. Look closely to the situation, who deserves the amnesty money? The militants or the people of Niger-Delta as a whole? These criminals are treated like kings and EVEN GIVEN SPECIAL AND HEAVY SECURITY DETAIL LIKE TOMPOLO!!! HAAAAAAAAAAABAAAAAAAAAAAA!!! When will we stop being stupid and see the Northerners as forever using our heads? Is it not the ruling class that must have advised the Presidency on steps to take silence the ajitators with bribery? Amnesty my yansh!!! Is the money going to the Niger-Deltans as a whole as it is supposed to, for developing them as supposed to, to compensate for polluting their environment? We all know what answer stares us back in the face. I expect to be pursued with scathing replies and remarks but who should bloody care? Me? Nooo waaaay!!!
ComputersRe: I Need An Original Windows Xp Os. [urgently] by inspiROHM(m): 3:45am On Sep 17, 2008
or send ya email addy to 08039563944 as text message. i wil reply within 3 day

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