Keepamsafe:
Please help. Im in a big Dilemma.

The single spinster who is my neighbor brought food for me again last night, but left angrily with the food after knocking and noticing there was a girl in the room with me.

I just greeted her this Sunday Morning, and she ignored my greeting.

Do you think i owe her an apology? What do I do? Does she have any rights to be angry with me cos she overheard another woman in my room? Please help

Im in a dilemma. help please.
OAM4J Mynd44 Rocktation Nlfpmod Seun Dominique lalasticlala help for wider opinion please

Jokerman:
Guess what?
Motherland Nigeria carried 1,411 people too. About 87% of them APC registered members all fully paid by the FG using govt funds. A country in DEBT.
Even wealthy countries did not gather people to #Cop28 using their Govt funds the way Nigeria did.
How can a broke nation be spending more money than a wealthy one.

Take a look at the names the FG FUNDED with Nigeria’s money:
“Gilbert Ramez Chagoury: Confidante of Mr President”

“Mr Oluwaseyi Afolabi Tinubu: Management Staff”

What is their damn business there?
Why are we so wasteful and you’re telling the Nigeria people to tie their belts that the nation is poor when you’re spending our money frivolously.

Copied: @SerahIrahim

Benwallt:
Should could be the one to improve the air quality in Anambra

Brokendad:
I got into a relationship with a 22 year old girl who's turning 23 by January.

Along the line, she got pregnant. We kept the pregnancy away from her people until after four months.

I have already made a visit to her family to register my interest in marrying the girl and have asked for date for introduction and traditional marriage.

But when she told the mother that she's pregnant, the first question the mother asked her is if she had told me.

When she said yes, the mother was shouting at her that why did she tell me. The mother didn't know that I was with the daughter when she made that call.

Few days after, the mother asked her to return home. A day before the girl left, I have already registered her for antenatal. But I remember when I was paying for the antenatal, the girl asked me not to waste my money.

I didn't know that she has already agreed with the mother to kill and remove a four months old pregnancy.

Immediately the mother learnt that she was pregnant, she asked her to cut all communications with me or she will lay a curse on her.

So, every other communication we were having, the mum didn't know about it.

She left Lagos on Wednesday and today, the mother called me that the baby in her daughter's womb is dead due to stress that the girl was going through while in Lagos. That no one was attending to her, bla bla bla. Not knowing that I have been taking the girl to the hospital all along. She said that they are waiting for a doctor to evacuate the baby.

I feel so terrible right now. This girl is the first daughter and the first to have anything to do with marriage and child bearing. The mother has the gut to kill the first unborn child that was coming into their family.

The mother didn't know that I have all the evidence with me. That I have the test results and the scan results. The baby was doing very well as at the scan we did a day before she left.

I told her that I am willing to take responsibility for her and the child. I am capable. I am willing to marry her. Why then does the mother still go ahead to terminate a 4 months old pregnancy?

The mother attends mountain of fire church. So, I don't know if it's the shame of what people will say about a supposedly murderous Christian home.

I told her that she can remain in Lagos until she delivers if she doesn't want anyone to know that she took in but no, the mother wants to soil her hands in blood.

From my chat with the girl, she's preparing to undergo the abortion. So, it's like the mum called me ahead to inform me that they are about to take the child off her womb. Somebody that a baby died in her womb wouldn't be strong enough to be replying me WhatsApp messages.

I am tempted to take a legal action

money121:
We must learn a lesson in hard way

E pain Am

Rich4god:
Am lending my voice to this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7922406/wife-why-life-women-complicated#127165126

A couple of days back, my wife put to bed using CS. Initially we had a baby before, I a know how complicated and painful the pregnancy and childbirth was.

Now I was in the theatre during the CS and I saw first hand how someone's abdomen was sliced open and the baby pulled out. I also saw how doctors were putting their hands into someone's abdomen and how they finally stitched her up. It wasn't an easy sight to behold. Right now, she's recovering, but the pain she's passing through is much.

To me, this is the highest form of sacrifice that someone can give for the family.

So to the men and husband out there..... before you ask your wife to be "what she is bringing to table", kindly think about the sacrifice they make in bringing your children to the world.

Penguin2:
Look at these fools….

Elections are over, your urine dispensing drug lord has been rigged in, why not concentrate on showing Nigerians how he’s performing the magic you lots swore he was gonna perform rather than still campaigning against Peter Obi?

Are you lots still afraid of Peter Obi even after your Criminal INEC took his victory and gave to Tinubu and the Supreme Court stamped the robbery?

By now you all should have known that none of these tomfoolery will remove even one supporter from Peter Obi.

Organize election again today and your urine dispenser will still write results to stop Obi.

Meanwhile, Obi was governor of Anambra State about 10 years ago; is a road constructed about 10 years ago supposed to last forever?

And let’s assume Obi didn’t construct the road, what did Obiano do for 8 years?

What has Soludo been doing for close to 2 years now?

Make una try get sense nah or are you lots incapable of it?

immortalcrown:
Virginity is for a healthy relationship with God, not to guarantee anything in marriage. But people think is just for pride in marriage.

But virginity should not be underrated. It is not easy for an adult to keep virginity. A virgin with a bad character is better than a person who equally has a bad character and was deflowered before marriage. A well-mannered virgin is better than a well-mannered person that has been deflowered outside marriage. Please, I am not talking about those who lost their virginities through rape.

Now, let me say the bitter truth. Any person who chooses to marry someone that is so committed to the hip-hop industry is not decent in thoughts and actions. So, I am not surprised by this guy's wife. Argue with your keyboard.

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. The year is gradually coming to an end. So, what have you achieved?

Toluabigr8:
That building was owned by a Yoruba man,

Stop playing politics with everything.

Any small thing Igbo Igbo,

If the building collapses now, you will be the first to blame the government

PuZZyNegro:
I traveled from Lagos to Port Harcourt to see my future in laws family. My girl wasn't around as she's still in Lagos schooling.

I went there with a family member and got them some items like shortcake biscuits and juice.

They offered us food and we ate. After the meeting and normal questioning, we were set to go when surprisingly, this people brought out two loaves of bread and gave us. I told them that the food we ate was enough, that we don't need the bread.

We haven't even gone far when my girl started texting me on WhatsApp angrily asking me why I rejected her mother's gift. That she gave it out of love, this and that.

I told her that bread is the wrongest gift the mother could give me. I am supposed to buy them bread and not the one way round. I intentionally refused to buy bread for them because I assumed bread is an everyday food that people buy and eat, so I decided to go with the package biscuits instead and here they are offering me bread.

If it were something produced locally by them like coconut or something, I can understand but bread?

Please, did I do anything wrong rejecting the bread?

Jokerman:
So EFCC cannot asrest naval officers??

And why are naval officers doing 419? Is the country that bad?

Keepamsafe:
For two weeks now, my next door neighbor who is a young single lady has been constantly bringing different meals for me after cooking.
Please note: I have never asked her for food before, as I cook at home and enjoy doing my things myself.

The second time she brought me a meal she wore a skimpy dress. I didn’t mind tho, I just told her she is a very good cook and I enjoyed the first meal. Since then, she’s been bringing different dishes to me now. Sometimes she even calls to know if im back from work that she’s cooking something.

Also note, I have never given her any money for this meals she’s been giving me.

My question now is, should I continue eating? do I have anything to be scared of? Could there be another motives behind this her kindness? Or maybe im over thinking?

Advise please.

File Photo for illustration

Againstallodds:
Eat food and forget about intention. Abi you won marry her

kingsways:
I see miscarriage of justice here ..


Is it not the same Court of Appeal that said nomination of candidates is a pre-election matter and a prerogative of the parties?


The most important issue in an election is: who scored the highest number of votes??

Someone whom the people have voted for and who scored the highest number of votes should not be disdqualified based on some flimsy reason as party membership because it's a given that the party would not have sponsored him if he wasnt their member. To disqualify the person who scored the highest number of votes automatically leads to grave injustice because someone whom the people didnt vote for and who didnt win would then be declared the winner

Politicstoday:
Supreme Court of justice should check it and interpret it well.

peretei2024:
My fellow Nairalanders,

Please help me look into this before I swing into action so people will not say am a bad man.

Yesterday being Sunday, I decided to use my car on Uber so to make extra income. There is this lady I picked( 1:13pm) from Egbeda to Command road and the fare happens to be #4,500.

Actually when we got to her final destination, it was her boyfriend who came out to do the transfer, and he show me the receipt of the transfer but I never got the money, so immediately I throw his attention that I didn't receive the money because the account I actually gave him was Opay, and Opay doesn't waste time to receive money . So the guy told me he doesn't have any money again that the only money he had was what they removed from his account. So I should wait till 6pm if I didn't get the money then I should let him know, and at that moment I don't have any fuel to move around again but because I don't want to look wicked, so I decided to give him that respect.

Around 6pm, I chatted the guy and he said how come I have not gotten the money. So he said he call his bank and get bank to me, at that moment I was already hot big time. So he didn't get bank to me, I had to chat him again after 10mins. He then replied that the bank said they will reverse back the money to his account after 24hrs that I should wait because he doesn't have 1kobo on him. At that point I knew these people are looking for my trouble. I actually have the link to arrest them without going to his house. I have link to the Commissioner of Police Lagos State, I only pity them because they will parade them as scammers and it going to be a big case.

At about 8pm last night( yesterday..12th November, 2023) , this same guy who claims he doesn't have 1kobo in his account, placed a request on the app to get a driver, I immediately screenshot it from the app and share with them only the lady to reply me that Im harassing her with my messages. She said the guy is going to bank this morning and once the bank confirm that the money hasn't left the bank that they will resend the money back to me. She even called me a thief by saying"" who knows if the money is not with me sef ""

Please guys advice me, should I get them arrested? Am trying to take this seriously so this Country will be a safe place for everyone

Please I need a matured advice.

ggood:
Anger is bad, some of this girl's can't afford what they destroy in a man's house. my neighbor and his babe use to fight like mad people, until when the girl destroy properties and Appliances that's when she will be calm.

360clips:
Met a cutie yesterday and we liked each other. Went to the back room and made out for two hrs straight no cap! We were tonguing and smooching for two hours straight! My mouth is so sore right now.

HeatSeeker:


This reminds me of the 2005 - 2007 period when banks were declaring stupendous profits yearly. It wasn't until 2008 that everything scattered and we then knew it was all a sham. Make we dey look.

Feintline:
Records are created to be broken.
That is why tinubu and his criminal gang are breaking every record of institution, economy and country collaspe set by buhari.

mrvitalis:

First Lady is not recognized by the Constitution

How is that difficult to get

Obi is the only candidate that campaigned on issue and even the devil knows that

Peter532:
I don't know if I should be angry or just smile and take it as it is. This is someone that I fed, I clothed despite us being closed friends since we were kids. He knows everything about me that my parents don't even know till dates..We could go to a gathering together and I will be the one ordering and paying for everything we bought even recently because I always acted like the big bro and he accepted I guess .. Just last week I saw it on his status about is house opening invite. I later got a dm from him that same evening telling me about it that I should come through.
It came as a surprise I admit, even though I know he was doing quite well for himself. I know some will call it entitlement mentality but since I considered we were close like a brother we even ate from same plate last 2weeks, I thought I should have known atleast.









Note: I noticed so many people will come in here to call me names, even some accusing me to be someone with bad motives and sort I smile. Not everyone has a evil mindset like you or some persons you know, It's just that when you expect so much from people you hold very close to your heart you might get disappointed and it hurts badly.

Especially when you know you can't do that same thing to that person. I only brought it out here because I wanted to know maybe I'm overreacting because I feel a deep level of betrayal but hey I am happy for him and I will attend the house opening tomorrow.

Jewessgratitud3:
Nice move. Bamboo sticks are very strong and durable. It will last. House na house. After all na pako oyinbo take dey build their house.

Kachidubem:
I dont understand....you were paid 90k plus dollars... about 100 million naira for a show... you didn't turn up...

You are now saying, even if you return the money , you will give it to charity organization not the people who paid you...

Is this not madness at it peak.

I'm a fan of davido, but sincerely...I don't believe in most of his audio donations we can't verify.

Why not return the money back to the organisers... you claimed you just made 1 million dollars in Australia na.

Na WA o.

iCauseTrouble:
Gbolahan Olanrewaju

BentizilL0:

This is the hypocrisy I hate...
I read Achebe before Soyinka or chimanda...
You need to understand that you can't be dragging a respected son of Yoruba and expect them to respect your own son dead or alive...

You mention Soyinka, they mentioned Achebe. You came here writing rubbish with victim mentality... Mention chimanda would've been a great disrespect to Soyinka..

tamdun:
You wonder why these two Chinua Achebe and Chimamanda didn’t get Nobel prize… Well it’s because hack writers like them were accused with evidence of plagiarism.

The title of “Things Fall Apart, the center cannot hold” is taken from the poem “The Second Coming,” which was written by the Irish poet William Butler Yeats in 1919, after the end of the First World War and during the Irish civil war which followed independence.

Achebe is like that Jamb girl that cheated and tried to bully her way to win an award. That’s why he was envious of Prof Soyinka Nobel prize.
Tueh 🤧

Search “Things fall apart William Butler Yeats” on Twitter or any media platform and you will see Europeans referencing that phrase to the Rightful poet” he went further to even copy the character in the original version.

In 1996 Giwa submitted her book to the Uk library, In 1998, Chinua Achebe received Giwa’s manuscript Book “Sade” to Heinamman Nigeria Limited where he was the board of directors. Few years along the line @ChimamandaReal whom is very close to Chinua Achebe and supposedly lives with him got inspired.

https://twitter.com/dipoaina1/status/1707269311377601012?t=F3AhO4F-L1Suewo0QYH48Q&s=19

guobe:
I always love helping people and felt it will be better I empower individuals instead of doing giveaways which will not yield any meaningful impact at the end of the day.
I came up with an empowerment of 100,000 naira and expected the money to move from one individual to the other.
The first person to benefit was Mr Dexcelin and he said he was good at garri processing.He was initially given the sum of 100,000 naira transfer I did but some couple of days later he said he was stalk and would need 10,000 naira for transportation which I first sent 10,000 naira to him but network bank issues occurred and I sent another 10,000 naira to him again which he received and claimed he didn't receive the first 10,000 naira.
To cut the story short this Dexcelin stopped communicating with me and his phone went unreachable.
A couple of weeks later he claimed he received that 10,000 naira and he has used the money to buy a phone.
Couple of days later Mr Dexcelin blocked me on whatsapp and through phone.
I had to tell a police inspector to call him and when the police inspector called him and told him to pay me back my money.
Mr Dexcelin called me and promised to pay me in 2 days time and in 2 days time Mr Dexcelin did not pay me and blocked me and blocked the police inspector also.
This necessitated me using my connect to track him down as he was tracked and arrested at Portharcourt yesterday.
You can now see the way people use in blocking the way of other people. It is well.

inoki247:



And aw did u you know they don't compensate people in other states and at the same time how did you know they were not ask for C Of O You Guy's are free to defend your own that's how hypocrite behave....

Hypocrite keh. LOL. Let me screenshot the part for you and assume you didn't ignore it on purpose. Be acting like you have not been following the news in Lagos.

https://www.premiumtimesng.com/regional/ssouth-west/267673-road-construction-lagos-govt-pays-n11-85-billion-as-compensation.html?tztc=1

Ikaeniyan0:
Just imagine is happening in Lagos

The Governor claimed to have paid the people whose buildings will be destroyed, why were some people shedding tears again?

Some buildings still have valuables in them sef