younglleo:

gayism is not natural!
stop making it seem right cus u all are gay!
gayism is not right!
religion apart

Yeah...it was a joke. Calm down the fûck down.

bepositive11:


If you look at a man and woman, they are naturally built to mate and have offsprings.

Man and man or woman and woman are not naturally built to have offsprings.

You can't compare being straight to being gay. They're not the same naturally or shall I say biologically

Gay is not natural

You need to calm down. I was clearly joking. I don't need a biology lesson from a random on the internet.

This could be period blood for all we know. Everyone, not everything is meant to be on the internet o.

bepositive11:


How do people become gay?

The same way people become straight!

brosom:
Gayism is gratually creeping in in the minds/hearts of many, making it look normal, but shiitt ain't normal.

How can I unseen what I just saw

Help a brother

Baba, weren't you the one who clicked on the thread? Abeg, don't act as if someone forced you in here lol

What are people trying to prove when they do things like this? Whatever happened to keeping certain aspects of your life private? Oh, that's right. We want validation from strangers on the internet. Smh.

OP, my question is why do you keep expecting sêx when you spend money on women? The woman has her own issues but I'm going to be focusing on you since you asked. First, you need to get your mindset away from this mentality. If you spend money on someone, it doesn't mean you're entitled to something in exchange. It makes the giving conditional and transactional. Give the amount that you won't have to think about later.

Second, what kind of relationship do you or do you want to have with this woman? A FWB? A serious relationship? Or just a one-night stand? I think your expectations for the direction of the relationship (as well as her own) should have been discussed before you invited her to visit you. Just by talking about these things, you'd be surprised where people's minds are. To her, she may just consider you a "friend" and nothing more. If you had made your intentions clear from the beginning (not implied), you would now know whether to continue with her or end things amicably.

Finally, you're not a simp. You're just a person who misjudged a situation. It's happened to the best of us. Just next time, be clear and upfront. Good luck.

silentvoice:
This appearance has been on my private part for as long as I can remember. It doesn't itch except when I shave on some occasions. I'm a 23 years female and not sexually active, is there a way for me to clear this? Does anyone have experience on what this is? I also keep having reoccurring boils close to my vagina

OP, you just have shaving bumps. It might be ingrown hairs that can't get out (hence the bumps). Both women and men get them all the time. The usual culprit is probably that you're using a razor with blunt blades. Make sure that you replace your razors after every 3 to 5 uses. Make sure you're using shaving cream when you shave, it doesn't matter the brand. I would also recommend using men's razors and not women's razors. They're sharper, last longer, are more durable because men's hair is tougher, and they leave a smoother finish on the skin, regardless of whether a person is a man or woman. Good luck.

I know it may not seem like it but it's better. Can you imagine being 20 years into marriage with this woman talking about celebrities and BBNaija? Focus on your job, hobbies, friends, and when you're ready, dating. And soon enough, you'll find your intellectual equal. Good luck.

Just give the amount you can forget about, that's what I do. If you give and are still thinking about it later, you gave too much. Also, OP, you keep going on and on about how nice you are to women and how kind you are. No offense but a word of advice: please stop doing that. Guys who go on and on about how nice they are usually have some issues or are not as nice as they claim to be. Let your actions do the talking.

What kind of mattress are you sleeping on? Firm Soft? Foam? Springs? And what is your sleeping position like? On your back, side, stomach, or fetal position?

Wow. This write-up didn't go in the direction I thought it would.

Telegram234:
There is something Nigeria ladies dont understand.
The western culture they are trying to copy.
Both the responsibilities of the household is shared.
The bills, and the care..
The man may pay for house rent, health and school bills but the wife will pay for water bills, light bills, food bills.
The bills are spilted equally.
The husband pays 50% and the remaining 50% goes to the wife.
If it is that way, then I agree the future is female.

Not equally but equitably. I say this because what if one spouse earns significantly more than the other spouse? It wouldn't make sense for spouse A to pay $15k in bills if their annual salary is $30k a year. I agree with everything else you said though. Western cultures seem to embrace a more give and take relationship, trying to share things and create balance. People in Nigeria seem too concerned with following certain gender roles (when it suits them) and bragging in front of their friends about how they lead their marriages.

You know what else is annoying? Men who urinate in public and then expect me to shake hands or snap figures with them when they were just touching their dirty dícks. Yuck.

OP, how many women are you watching go to the bathroom in a bucket? You talk as if you're standing right there when it happens or they come to your home to do it.

Wait. Was Thursday the first time you had relations? If so, how could she know she's pregnant a week later? Sometimes, it can take a woman eight weeks before she knows.

Kingcalls:


Really?? The way the society is designed, home and abroad...when u are broke, u are worthless

No, sir/madam. No matter where I've gone, it seems that the first criteria for being considered worthless is being black. You are always considered less than when black. The other things are secondary. But we can agree to disagree.

owobokiri:
This is as a result of massive logging by Asian proxies in the middle belt and the South. Massive logging is also going on in the Cameroon. These elephants are being pressured out of there hatbitats by these Asian businesses who pay Africans to loot down everything in sight. Wouldn't be surprised if the elephant s gone by now since the huge tusks are badly needed is Asia..

It honestly makes me wonder when everyone has stolen Nigeria's natural resources and our leaders and people have stolen all the money, what's going to be left? It's seriously worrying.

Kingcalls:


Just like a man is judged by society by his pockets and same not with women...so both gender have their acceptance and non acceptance

Even though it's not fair that some men get judged for their financial buoyancy, you're trying to create a false equivalency. Please don't. The worse thing a man will be called is broke. It will not be attributed to his worth and value as a person.

The issue with this body count thing is that it's a double standard. Generally speaking, it's okay for a guy to have slept with many people. Some of them even have the luxury of forgetting who they've slept with. But women, whose value as a person is seen through how conservative or how promiscuous she is, her looks, body type, level of attractiveness, and how many sêx partners she's had, there is always a need to hide this information to ensure she receives validation from friends, potential love interests, or significant others.

Either tell her the truth or let her go. If she isn't meant for you then she's not meant for you. All of us have our own standards.

You both are wasting each other's time. You're fundamentally not compatible on religious grounds. And the breakup is going to hurt. If you love her AND respect her, do the breakup in person, not over the phone and definitely not through text. Explain to her that you don't see a path forward for the both of you because of the aforementioned reason. Let her know clearly and plainly that you have no intention of changing your faith, that being Muslim (I'm assuming) is part of your identity, just like her being Christian is part her identity.

Like I said, it's going to hurt. But give her the respect to break up with her in person. If she's a secure woman, she'll be hurt but she'll move on. Good luck.

Kobojunkie:
I didn't say he bad-mouthed them either. Neither am I reading anything into your post. Simply wondering why you are not preaching to those who bad-mouth Nigerian women instead of criticizing OP for praising Brazilian women, assuming you truly care about Nigerian women being praised that is.

First, I didn't criticize him. And second, if you're so interested in where I focus my comments on NL, you can look at my previous posts. I've had plenty to say to both men and women.

Kobojunkie:
How? The Op does not live in Nigeria and has not, to my knowledge at least, bad-mouthed Nigerian women. So how did I prove your point?

I didn't say he bad-mouthed Nigerian women. You're reading things in my original post that I did not say.

walkbrazil4k:


I am a Nigerian and I live in Brazil and on nairaland you would see every one praising different women, American, Canadian and others,I am blogging about Brazil so it would be wrong if I don't mention their wonderful women and yes Brazilian women date Nigerians and many Nigerians are married to Brazilian women and Brazil has over 14m black people and in a state in Brazil yoruba is the official language now you understand me, so I have the right to praise Brazilian women on here and I am even opening up a thread for Brazilian women to post pictures and videos

I didn't say you didn't have the right to praise Brazilian women. You're clearly going to do what you want and it's obvious more of these threads are coming. You're just another guy in a long list of men who do this on this site.

Kobojunkie:
Wouldn't this preaching be more effective is given to the Nigerian men, many of who currently see their woman are objects to to ruled over and not as humans deserving of equal respect in the same Nigeria they live in?

Yes, you just proved my point.

Soulsymbol99:
This Tems is jst moving in silence, no unnecessary noise and she no expose her body oooo especially her heavy backside

Are you sure? There are plenty of pictures of her "presenting" herself. Just because she isn't half-naked doesn't mean she isn't like other people who seek validation from online strangers by showing off their bodies.

walkbrazil4k:


Lol, no woman is superior[b] I just think the conditions of the country of birth matters alot [/b]and I am focusing on Brazilian women because I love Brazil and I love Brazilian women thats all

I agree with the bolded. But OP, what do you think will happen when you come to a Nigerian site and pour compliments on Brazilian women and how much you love Brazil? Nigeria is not perfect, God knows. But I think all of us should be looking for ways to uplift and honor ourselves because no one else is going to do for us, and I know for sure Brazilian women are not concerned about or uplifting us. Just my two cents.

Because having no funds is something some men can blame on outside circumstances (e.g. corruption, lack of jobs, etc). and therefore save their ego. It's almost impossible for some men to believe a woman does not want them because she doesn't find them physically attractive or there's little to no spark.

This is just equality, plain and simple. Both men and women cannot pick and choose equal treatment when it's convenient for them. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.

It's only a matter of time before OP starts another thread about why Brazilian women are superior to Nigerian women. Calling it now.

Does she have herpes? Because in the third picture, Regina looks like she has herpes on her upper lip.