BluntBoy:


Yes, my love. I like to see the positives, so I would say she pushed me to be better in at least one way (maybe, not a good way). My desire had been to be just a pastor I didn't care for money or luxury. I just wanted to preach. But after my experience, I knew I had to work for money. Perhaps, God is not happy that the selfless boy of that time is now selfish. Because now, I don't do anything for free. My dad has been playing organ for 26 years now, and until recently, he was doing it for free until the church placed him on a salary by force. I wanted to do the same too. I was doing virtually everything for free in my local church back then. Playing the piano, interpreting, sweeping church, composing songs but not anymore. Now, if I must play the piano in my local church, my wage must be at least 15k per Sundays. After all, there are now billionaire pastors.

I pray u get a good wife bro cos u deserve it.after all pains u went thru, dont end up wit a useless woman who lack focus and spend her life on a stupid thing of past DAT ended 5 month ago.

darlenese:
my husband cooks , wash , cleans , drives me everywhere and anywhere , he has never complained because he knows being a father and a husband is not by sitting in the palour and holding remote because u have provided money .

all these new husbands of these days have no idea what marriage is all about .

as for your ex - u have no business calling her for anything , a man never makes ordinary friendship with a woman especially an ex .

ur husband cook and clean and wash.den wat exactly are u useful for in ur marriage? gush is ur hubby now ur houseboy.I wish ur mum in law can see wat u type here.

CHoccolaTE:



So she should still cook daily and wash for him and do other things a woman is supposed to do at home and also be providing money for him at the same time as Co breadwinner?

As for the rest of your post about beating women, I hope you give your daughters husband the same advice.

so becos a woman got a job she shld stop been a true wife and a real woman. how do some of u nairaland girls even think? u for say she shld remove her womb as she got a job now is she married to her job DAT dey can sack her anytime.its not a curse DAT why most of u end up as baby mama cos no man will take ur rubbish. ave seen rich women dat make millions in officr who still Cook and take care of thier hubby. na ur type u got a maid and begin to suffer someone child cos u cant take care of ur shit.
I will train my daughters to be well behave and submit to thier hubby at all times. if dey misbehave, thier hubby know wat to do.

Pavore9:

Meaning of what?

dats choleric

Jodha:



It takes discipline to stop dearie....
Yhu have to try to cleanse yhur thoughts....the thought of anything sexual is what will push yhu to watch porn...

Draw closer to God...read yhur bible....
Always occupy yhur mind... avoid being idle and alone...
It'll help

who release u from cell

sacx:


Sisisi nor do again o

is internet let her say wat she like cos in real life she wont try it.

sisisioge:




But Jakande, why are you so daft bayi? Why not fvcking leave me alone! Screw you assssszhole!

smiles I live u alone a long time ago misrable and frustrated

juiicii:
I married last year. My wife is a choleric just like myself.she is the type that will not tolerate mistakes from me, if i don't keep things in their position, then hell will let loose,she hardly 'respects' me, she behaves independently and when i threaten divorce, she will say i should do it fast, because of her attitude i hardly give her money, when she demands for money, i will ask her, what of your salary, she will tell me that its my responsibility to give her money for somethings irrespective of her personal earnings. Meanwhile she never brings any money on the table for the family upkeep, i foot the bills :rentage,food,nepa, etc. I stopped buying clothes, etc for her since she put up those attitudes that piss me off. Infact i just don't love her again, we argue a lot except i just lock myself up in one room which is my new method now. Pls experienced advice needed

u are d man of d house u need to proove DAT.how can u have a wife who refuse to respect u and shout at u.do she still Cook or wash for u.do u still sex each oda. u paid her brideprice so u are in control.I think she is wicked she got her own money yet want to keep collecting from u. I think u mess up from d start of d marriage wen u start to collect rubbish from her have u ever dicipline her before? I keep saying it is bad to beat woman but is necessary sometimes. d way I see it she dont respect ur family.guy next time u quarell u dicipline her not too much to injure her did u know as shes crying u walk out for like 10 mins.
then u come back and apologized to her.she will still be forming. u now beg her well.she will accept.explain to her why u beat and DAT u feel sad for doing DAT.u take her to eatry later.and have mind blowing sex wen u get back.ur family will be stronger.pls dont listen to anyone who say u shd divorce ur wife. send ur email bro I wish we can chat inboxly

Pavore9:
Two Cholerics? Fireworks!

"One problem with people of this temperament is that they struggle to accept anything perceived as criticism. If they are criticized or even simply opposed, they will confront people and try to dominate those who they received criticism from. They will try to win through loudness and intimidation"

I suggest you both go for couples therapy.

wat de meaning of DAT?

Genea:

is me in d room

Preshy561:
Thanks dear. Wish you the best

thanks my beauty

sisisioge:


Na wa for all of una fa! If its not wife wahala, it would be husband trouble! Why? No happily ever after tale? Make una let us hear word biko!

Mean while, I dont know what to type regarding your issue...apologies

when u see a guy who want to love and tresure ur heart u begin to play wit him.u ask if his fine.if his rich or can speak English den u miss it.why a girl who is more wise and despirate see d man and marry him.dey are in love and live happily forever why ur in pains.

dangotesmummy:
I said what I said
Unapologetically

u talk too much

genea if u forget me I wont i still wish u a happy new year

wen it come to culture I think IBO are d best I wish all my lovely IBO a happy new year. refiner cococandy preshy561 nwanyiawkaetiti biafranbushboy dollyjoy twaci ireneony laveda

lilwetdick:
this is just nonsense

this what i hate to read, the pity and emotional game, the story that everything can end just in a day.

getting rich and going broke is a process, it just not start and end in a day

but how can you be earning 30k and be in marriage.

i cant allow a man earning 30k to marry my sister..simple as abc

may god purnish u

Toks2008:


My question still remains.
" what if you marry a rich guy and then he goes broke?"

Being broke is very relative. It is ok to be broke and I don't even believe any guy is lazy cos your idea of making money might differ from his.

I think ladies should focus on making their own money so that they can be with a guy for the right reason.

God bless u

pocohantas:
Two things that get men emotional;
Jibes at- 1) Their financial capability 2) Sexual prowess, be it duration or dick size
No exceptions

not all women are good in bed

Daeylar:
All your posts on this thread. Especially this. Perfect.

how is ur baby dear.she must be a big girl now. ave not seen u in d rooms for long.i hope u are fine.merry Christmas

ednut1:
egbon ode. All those wey don do rituals this year they caught. None look rich or even get money

common sence u no get. did it worked ? didnt u see dey catch dem b4 dey did it.

adewumiopeyemi:
you must be stupid for quoting me

is abomination broda ode. no enter 2020 with ur foolishness please. fooo.ol at 40

before u call any guy broke make sure u also add to d relationship not just ur Toto and sex.cos ladies feel dey dont need to hussle thier money since d guy sleep with dem.

ImaIma1:


Is there anything I say that you like? Apparently, we don't agree on any issue

dont say DAT dear. u know I care a lot.I have Neva insulted u or use bad words on u.but we are friends DAT why I see wat I think is wrong I tell u. I dont disagree wit all u put.

Ladyhippolyta88:
*yawns*


Mumunaries this thread now lacks content warris going on. no more interesting news again. She is slowly fading ooo

is ur life noe about bbnaija as if u are useless witout it.

ImaIma1:


Fortunately or unfortunately, it doesn't work that way. A man can marry a struggling lady and set her up with a job, business, etc. However, it doesn't work that way for men because they are seen as the major breadwinner. Besides, a man's pride won't let him

mama baby I dont like dis

Makydebbie ur a Ghana girl is dis right

safarigirl:
she died from internal bleeding, read before you comment.

Some of you will just come online to spread ignorance. With internal bleeding, sometimes there is no outward injury at all.

but it dont look like she will die. cos in d pix she look so full of life and not even crying from pains

adewumiopeyemi:
Ok bro

use ur sence and give good advise

Cutehector:
lol.. Abeg I no dey for online brouhaha. Just fashi the boy.

make person dey foolish and Neva want to change is bad.

adewumiopeyemi:

Me idiot
Then
What
Will
You call
Your self

Rotten fowl

Walking dead

I Neva know u are a useless person.I Neva know why u Neva gree get sence after all dese years.DAT why I advise u not drop ur foolishness before next year. may god purnish u.omo ale