BayMc:



"a woman's treasure is her pussy".
as a woman, so what you treasure most and deem fit to offer in a relationship is exclusively your "pussy" alone and nothing else?

I never said its the only thing she can offer. It is the thing she treasures the most tho.

Why didn't you ask about the guy's money? Why not ask what else a guy can offer

khingTony:



In other words, all ladies are oloshos. Even though they try their best to deny it

Interpret it whichever way you like. One way or the other you have to spend money on a women you're having sex with if you wanna keep her happy. Even married women demonstrate this when they treat their husbands extra special when his salary just gets paid

Havesomesense:


Exactly how the lady that spent few days with me is feeling,
tho i gave her shelter and food plus my house is very comfortable

Nothing wrong in getting her something nice now and then. Could be as easy as going on an evening stroll and buying treats.

Lol @ gave her shelter. Is she expected to sleep outside before? That doesn't count. Plus courtesy demands that when you invite a guest over, whether male or female, you offer them food. So technically you did nothing special

Lol. Swears. That bridge scares me too. The ancient city of Atlantis always enters my mind when I'm on it

Understand this. A guy's treasure is his money and a woman's treasure is her pussy. Relationships are a game of exchange. If you want her to share her treasure with you, you must be ready to share yours as well, if not one party will feel cheated and unloved.

Consider this hypothetical situation. You're spending money on your girlfriend,yet she refuses to have sex with you. Definitely you will feel like she's just using you and saving her pussy for another guy. In the same vein, if a girl is fúcking a guy who isn't spending money on her in one way or the other, she will definitely feel like he's just using her. Its that simple.

Emperormartin:

We were young and in primary Schools. He use to hide when doing it. We didn't have much option then. But now we've grown. He's still doing it...and we don't smoke!!!
We just want to help him

I doubt there's anything you can do. He's been doing it for many years. Its very difficult, if not impossible, to teach an old dog new tricks

PotatoSalad:

Ok. Had my last malt in 2017

You prefer sodas?

Kapilta:
I 'on need your command before i do that Tianna. I mean i always do and s*** is always great.

Geez. Your anus must be quite worn out by now

PotatoSalad:

Why do you guys like malt?

Was given to me. Didn't buy it

Kapilta:
Typical Nigerian. Nice name, empty skull. Ki'la ti se yi si oluwa.

Go fúck yourself

I think my favorite moment with my dad was when we traveled together from warri to ore alone. I was worried it would be boring cos he would be driving and I didn't know what we would talk about for like 3 hours. We bought food, he talked a lot about his past, gave advice and I thoroughly enjoyed the trip. He has changed a lot since then tho.

You're right. Only wives cheat. All Nigerian husbands are faithful

I made the first one and my landlady gifted me the second

Happy new year you guys

Priam:


Funny enough, it's your fellow women that do these things more to each other than men do.

The question is, why do it at all? Why the hate?

baralatie:

kamala is not an alpha at all.
her case is an example of a co alition.
people get together to form a union whereby all members of that union contribute to survival of that union!
without coalition she is useless!

for her ass to be considered an alpha there must in existent other mature females who are members of her social community who became docile and ineffective because of her.this is not her case.
her case is the coalition consisting of other members of the group who are push her as an agenda to sustain the group.a group where she cannot push anybody around(coalition)

Who is the Leader of the group? Who did the union members choose to represent them? An Alpha is a leader. Kamala is a leader, which makes her an Alpha

tnerro1:


If a lady says I worked hard to get to where I am, ok no problem but when she says I got where I am because am an Alpha female, ehen, wat is dat? Story

Lmao. Sir, a true Alpha male or female does not announce this status. It is something that is observed by their followers and mentees. Their status is marked by their distinct characters/personalities/attitudes

Obviously they would never brag that they lead while others follow.

The way people's accounts are getting wiped nowadays is scary o. What's up na. I believe some bank staff have now turned to criminals and yahoo boys
have upgraded their tools

Someone will now start contemplating storing all their cash at home

tnerro1:


She got no “masculine “ traits, and no “bit of femininity “. All she’s got is a huge dose of femininity, that she uses at every opportunity she can find to get ahead

Lol okay

tnerro1:


Kamala got to where she is because a man allowed her to. Hope u are not forgetting that important part of the “ Alpha female “ stuff you are pushing

Like I said, an Alpha female possesses a bit of femininity which she uses in conjunction with her masculine traits to get ahead. Kamala did just that

pansophist:


Well, a woman should have a lot of sex with her husband, and if that criteria is not met, then the continuity of that relationship should be questioned. A woman's first responsibility is her home, pleasing her husband and sex is part of it. Afterall, the man is meeting her own responsibilities as well, so why not she?

And no, I don't know what you mean by "alpha "woman" but a true alpha woman is not a woman that photocopies a man's masculinity and doesnt reign in her femininity. RisenPhoenix1 has given a good explanation of what an alpha woman is. Anything apart from that is nothing but an example of a corrupt woman. A feminine man is not alpha, and a masculine woman is not alpha either.

I agree with your first paragraph, but not the second.

An Alpha female is a leader. A very confident woman and highly motivated individual. She competes with both men and women. She possesses some femininity but not a lot. She possesses masculinity as well because she needs it to get ahead in the economic and political world. She leads, others follow.

An example of an Alpha female is Kamala Harris, the new VP elect of USA

Cc: baralatie

baralatie:

there is nothing called alpha women.
it is either independent,co alition or coorperative

There is. There's a difference between being an Alpha female and being an independent woman

Only few men can handle Alpha women. The ones who can, can only do it for a short time. In the long run, they start feeling emasculated and less manly cos the woman doesn't really need their help with anything. She won't even have much time to have sex with them either cos she'll be busy with work a lot.

I'm not saying women shouldn't have careers tho.

Titi03:



Hmm, you are right on this one.. it's quite disappointing that men aren't fighting for Don Davis the same way women are.. I wish they would channel their energy more on things that matter tbh. I've aggressively and consistently used my relatively large platform on twitter to lend my voice to #JusticeForDonDavis and sadly I've seen more women do the same than men.

But back to the topic, I tend to approach things on a level playing field - I do not support what women of this generation have turned feminism into and I don't agree that traditional roles of cooking and cleaning should be classified as "slavery". Every gender has it's own responsibilities - call me a "defender of men" all you want.

Like I said in my reply before this one, not all women feel that way. You don't feel that way and neither do I...there are tons of ladies who reason the same way but are in the minority. There's nothing we can do about Nigerian feminism or misogyny tho

Titi03:




I disagree.

Men have always known what they want and have always been able to express it freely up until recent times.

We know what they want but we shame them for it, that's why they no longer say it - out of fear of being branded misogynists.

We now live in a time where women can freely admit what they want in a man; (provision and resources) while men are no longer allowed to have any standards.

They say they don't want fat women - oh that's body shaming!
They say they like fair ladies - that's colourism!
They say they want a housewife - that's oppression!
They say they want a woman who can cook - oh I'm not your maid!

See the problem here?

The thing that you don't realise is that the same way there are certain men who enjoy washing their women's undies and making breakfast for them in bed is also the same way there are girls who enjoy pampering their men and taking care of their men like babies. But we're all forced by society to act differently in public.

Its just a fraction of Nigerian women who are "feminists". The rest of us have nothing against them saying what they want. And many men still do it

Seems you don't know what misogyny means. Its men's hatred for women like the way they do when they slut shame us, age shame us, marriage and barren shame us etc. So what excuse do you have against those ones oh ye defender of men?

Modified: titi03 you see that screenshot I attached? It was created by a mature man. What he said is a fact. Where is the energy they usually display when women are raped for no fault of theirs? Why aren't they all clamouring for justice for Don Davis with that same energy? They hate us and its true. They love it when we're hurt. Obviously there'll be some angry women

LINTUNE:
understand his point, we are talking about gf here not wife, everyone knows that being a housewife alone is enough contribution to.any home, no sensible man would complain about his "house wife" not contributing anything....he was talking about girlfriends, being in a relationship with an average nigerian gal, are u trying to say, as gf, gals are only expected to offer sex..

I don't know if you people think I'm speaking French. I understand that the duties of a wife and a girlfriend are different. I'm saying since the woman isn't married to you, what exactly do you people want her to bring to the table. That's the question no man here can seem to answer

Just see all of them above me typing trash, yet all their preeqs will stand like iroko trees if the girl is in front of them

Unik3030:
like seriously it all depends on the individuals involved, different strokes for different folks but the basis is that a lady can b of value(any good definition goes well depending on d guy) n at d same time b submissive

Many guys never give satisfying answers to the question. Apart from money and sex, most guys don't know what they want in a woman.

Unik3030:
don't get it twisted,that a woman is submissive doesn't mean she doesn't bring things to the table....it's possible,read about alakija interview n u will understand better.

Though I am a kinda guy that doesn't really care about societal standings on some issues but I believe people define happiness in different ways n we should always learn to live with our choices irrespective of the consequences

Okay. What I'd like to know are the things men want women to bring to the table tho. Someone here said money, food, shelter and protection. Is that your stance too?

Draslo:
I just hope to God that they don't sell this vaccine because nothing is impossible in this country.


We already know the elite and their families will be the first to have access to it because they have the money to jump the queue.


You can imagine. That process of 'approval' will definitely cost hundreds of millions by our corrupt standards.

Lol if they could make many people pay for the test, they might make us pay for vaccine as well. Nothing is free in Nigeria, not even palliatives

Why are many politicians suddenly catching this thing all over again?

Titi03:


You don't need a "census" to face reality madam,
How many wives in your environment are solely responsible for chores and childcare in their homes?
Even those who don't have maids have at least one live-in relative who helps out around the house. Don't be silly.

Lady, why are you talking out of point? The person I originally quoted said that most men today want submissive wives who don't bother about pursuing degrees and careers. That men want a woman who will do everything they say, clean, cook, birth kids, basically a home maker. And I said that women need to pursue their degrees and careers so that they can "bring something to the table apart from their vaginas" as most Nigerian men claim. So why are you fixated on number of women using maids?

To be very honest, in my current location and the city I lived in before now, housemaids were not common. So calm down with your exaggeration. Wives use maids, yes. But not majority of Nigerian women. How many can even afford it presently?