financial instability.

let's see the picture of the dread.

Messi1:
Two ladies rejected me in different occasions simply because I'm naturally dreaded.


I wanted to cut it but people say if I cut it I will die.

Only him (TINUBU) or with that thief that look like superman(Atiku). two thieves.

Coolsperm:
Obi is by far better than Tinubu in any way

i think this is the best words you really need to hear.. no cap.

samuelson06:
I sense conflict: Your story doesn't reflect you. You sound like an intelligent person but tell a story of a foolish person.

You can't sound the way you do, and be messing things up with your life. I don't see any correlation and as such I don't believe your story.

But if at all you think you are right, let the woman go so you can face your life as a single person. She's doing you a favor. Don't use someone's child to console your present circumstances. I can understand how hustlers can pound on a woman like they are the source of their troubles. Let her go so you can save, pay your debts, and improve your life.

Everyone has a right to association and they can choose to leave when they want the moment they find out the relationship isn't serving their interest. Let her go. She has every right to stay or leave.

No tangible means of livelihood, but you got married. Now, the chips are down and you are wailing. Is that how to plan to succeed or you were planning to fail? So, what exactly do you want? Manner from heaven? No!

Look, no man has any right to get married when they're earning below 100k naira. Stop inviting poverty into your life. It's easy to fall in life but hard to rise. Right now, you must accept your situation and stop this self-pity.

Sit down and plan your life. Disregard your age and gain some stamina before looking for another woman because this one is probably leaving and may not return.

I see you like an intelligent chap. Get in touch let's work out something. But I have a feeling you are not sincere. If ever you are, let's talk. I can promise it's going to make sense to you. Every big thing starts small. Don't be afraid to start all over again.

What about it? Can we see ur face?

CreepyBlackpool:
My face.

I pray they don't inherit my face

Are u a Virgo ♍️ person?

Beebah2000:
I am too shy in public
I dey hardly tell people my mind, I go stay dey look but my mind dey rap.
And I think too much. Jeez.....

You must be a bastard child, in short a unless one.
Firstly, have u confirm his tribe before coming here to spit shit.

Entprys:
But why do our people like misbehaving like this ?
Hausa man can't do this.

Neither will Igbo.
Only we.
Se won fi se wa ni ?

Take it easy bro. Your comment here is too harsh.

zexy2030:

This is the reason you can't make a good decision, foolish things becloud your senses. I pity u, if how you approach life, is being used to a pattern. You don't even have Idea of who u r chatting with. I wish u d best. Maybe others will advice you, as for me, I feel u r self opinionated, advicing you is a waste of effort. Because you won't listen.

hell fire is definitely your home.

i wish every gullible ones would see this and have sense.

DominusPrime:
Nothing will come out of it as usual.

You see why you have to be deluded to support pdp or apc?

Atiku took down his condemnation of this barbaric killing simply because he was threatened by Northern youths via his political ambition. And you people really believe he is contesting because he really wants to 'unite Nigeria'.

If at this stage in the history of Nigeria you still support one politician or party believing that he is coming to make things better, and without being paid for it then you need to have your head examined.

he is not finished manh... the loan he took could probably be a sacrifice in winning the lady's heart.

bmdmix14:
U took loan to take a girl out. Lol u are finish

bro... we are just in the same shoe...
having no stable income or job would definitely deprive you from having a true love or relationship.my ordeal.

Zanzibar1:
I have come here to raise this issue because i believe someone must have passed through what i am going through at the moment.

There is this Lady i met in March, she is super classy and has all the curves and looks like a model. What brought us together was just a friendly convo and a friendly tease that i admire her nails and since then she has been all over me.
She asked me if i lived alone and i told her i currently stay with a friend because i just relocated to the city based on job hunting levels. She asked what my plan was and i told her that i would like to first get an apartment while i sort out other things.

I don't know what exactly she does for a living although she said she sells women hairs, bags and shoes. I have actually seen her post them on her whatsapp. What surprise me the most was that she doesn't deny me access to her phone. This made me to loosen my grip a bit regarding my phone privacy ... Then one day, she saw a loan app message requesting me to pay my outstanding debt, she asked me how come and i told her the truth that i was seriously broke and i wanted to take her out. I wanted the two of us to go swim together and have fun. And that was why i took the loan. She frowned and asked why i was stressing myself to impress her .
She transfered some money to me to offset the debt. it all happened like juju. i am still trying to wrap my head around that.

I am trying my best to fit in with her but something is really off somewhere. I don't want to assume i know entirely what she does for a living but then, i have grown to really admire her. I wouldn't want to call it love but all my thoughts are always about her nowadays. Like 4 days ago i questioned her about some friends of hers i saw on her icloud and since then she has been giving me tough time.

Lately, she told me point blank that if i cant get my own apartment, she'll have to stop dating me. she said she is ready to even pay part of the money involved but a nigga got nothing to afford even a face me and face you room. I have tried my best to explain to her how i am even surviving and how broke i am to get a 150k self con. She keeps saying i am going to get a job and ill be fine, that i am a man and i will certainly raise the money if she as a lady can raise part of it.

I dont know why she believes so much in that tho cuz i have been very opened to her. My mind has been filled up and i dont have anyone to share it with thats why i brought it here. i have my doubts about her but i love her.

Please pardon any typos, i am writing this straight from my heart

wow.. i thought Buhari said there is no vacant for any federal job.
bro.. please come and show me the way. i'm dying here.

fortz007:
Good evening fam. I believe everyone’s doing okay. Please I’m caught in a dilemma. I have up to 5m and i have two options.
1. Get a high paying fed job
2. Go for msc programme in canada.
I believe everyone’s mature enough here to share their candid opinion.
I’ll be reading the comments. Thank you!

not again

Na only you waka kom!

MrOON:
The annual Salary of the President of Nigeria is N14058820.00k.

In 4 years, it would be N56,235,280.00k.

So why would anyone apply for a Job with N100M just to earn N56,235,280.00k

ok.
please, what are the step you took in processing your visa?

Rubyventures:



Yes , get a car to driving.

No ideal please. i would advise you to visit their office or site for further clarification.

canafirstson:
Hi Everyone,

Does anyone know how long it takes to get a passport from the Abuja embassy for a visitor's visa?

Thanks,

It is all about grace, not the music.

SIMONEKPA7:

So Na so Portable take blow with one Singles

No lines have been blocked but were barred. please, let's try and know the difference.

Qpid5:
You don't know what's going on.. over 70m lines have been blocked. They don block his line, no two ways about that..
Link una NIN una no gree.. when them tell you say Nigeria is not for you, you didn't realize it

definitely your prayer has not been answer if this ain't the kind of government your prayed for.
PUSH... Pray Until Something Happen.

gbengene1234:
Commissioning a new Terminal when the masses can't even afford the current flight tickets... This government isn't the kind of change we prayed for...

it among the poorest country listed.check ham again.

Wonk:
Osun State no dey there?

Lol

bro go and have a bench... i can count numbers of time you drop game for me to bet, unfortunately, they failed.
i beg go relax mbok.

vrendev:
Omooo

lol. [color=#000099][/color]

ValCon888:
Her vagina is like Aladdin's magic lamp.
Just rub it and it will grant you your wish.

Op please add graphic photos next time.
That cum-encrusted glass cup looks like something out of a horror movie.

My laptop HP Intel corei3 is having some keys malfunctions.. Key H,G window key, " key and some others keys.. Please what might be the cause?

The dude should be thankful to God for the free accommodation, if not, na double wahala.

odinson1:
Men una mumu sha

When we keep telling you People not to get married, you'll call us broke,immature frustrated and all other sorts of nonsense.

You got married to Parasite who's Sucking you dry, draining the very life force you have. If you don't cut off that leech,she will drain you till you become a shell of your former self.

But seriously guys, lets reason it this way. The money he has been giving to his wife all these while,if he didn't get married and have children now,he would probably have used it to open a business,have investments or Get a new house or something like that. Now a woman has tied him down and It's now stopping him from progressing.

All he cares about are his wife and his children,they are all Liabilities to him. This is why men are advised to have a good job and a nice comfortable apartment first before getting married. You know why? It is because you will most likely get married to A Parasite who will Make you stagnant,it would be almost impossible for you to get past this financial struggle except you get a better job with better pay.

Men! Run away from a marriage that will stop you from Achieving greatness. Having children is not an achievement,it is normally biological for one to procreate,so there is no big deal about it. Having a wife and children when you are not financially stable,will only drag you down and make you stagnant!

And also, DON'T EVER GET MARRIED TO A BROKE LAZY WOMAN! They are Parasites whose only Objective is to latch on to you, and suck out your energy,time,resources and peace of mind.




@the bolded,A good woman? Really?

She and her children eats 3 square meals, while his mother only eats once. You call that a good woman? Wait answer this instead,would she have done same to her own Mother?

And what if he has no wife/gf, probably trying to get himself one by accessing the lady.
75% of guys/men drinks beer �, I see no wrong in that.

Fiscus105:


And if he choose not to drink beer and satisfy with his own wife/gf ?

Hit me up on WhatsApp for a serious relationship... No scum �.... 08027519290.

Like Yoruba proverb do say... Person wey get head no get cap.
Why many guys are out there in search of a serious relationship(just like me) , but the right girl won't show up.. Only for the right girl to up end her relationship with un serious dude.
Mind you, you still can find ur companion, never say ur done with men �

GurlFriend:
I see a bunch of threads here created by guys who see nothing good in the women folk, but if I start writing about the evils that men commit, the mods may move the thread to the literature section.

My Experience

I am pretty, well kept and groomed and at an age where although I may not be a spring chick, I am still young enough to attract attention from guys in their early 20s who have no qualms about toasting their elder sister's age mates. I have had my fair share lovers but I am currently sworn off men till such a time I recover from the trauma of my latest experience in the hands of the 'ejaculating gender.'

My now ex, let's call him Kingsley was supposed to be a godsent. He is fair, heavily bearded, handsome and a single father. He is also terrible in bed. TERRIBLE. He doesn't last more than 4 minutes, and once he reaches the four minutes mark, he spurts his disgusting seed into the condom and goes limp for the rest of the time with him. Even if I squeeze and massage his small member like bitter leave, he will remain limp like golden penny noodles.

That did not stop me from giving two years of my life to him because I genuinely loved him and felt I could cope with the terrible sex; man shall not live by nacks alone. I had met his family, he had met mine, we were literally 5 and 6. We fixed the wedding for January 8 next year. I'm looking at the stupid IV as I'm typing this.

So we closed for the year at my work place on December 24th and I decided to spend the evening with him. We had agreed that no more nights over till the wedding since it was barely a month away, so we might as well start living right before God. None the less, I had closed by 2pm, I didn't look forward to spending the whole evening in my hot apartment alone so I, against better judgement went to his place and let myself in. His line of work doesn't give him the luxury of closing early like me, so the apartment was also empty but he has a generator and AC.

I settled in, began watching movies on his laptop. I don't know the devil that pushed me to leave the film I was watching to start snooping through his files. In my two years of dating I have never gone through his phone or PC because if you cherish your peace of mind, never snoop through your partner's devices otherwise you will see things. What you are looking for, you will find it.

He has this folder in his laptop called 'Don Quixote.exe' which I see all the time. I asked him what it was some time back and he casually said they are program files and if I mess with them, I will disorganize his laptop. The same devil I had earlier mentioned pushed me to open Don Quixote, and behold, what did I see?

Gay porn. Man nacking man. Woman nacking woman. My fiance is gay, I think. Or bi-sexual. I don't know. My hands are shaking again.

I'm so hurt. Photos upon photos of homosexual and lesbian contents. But this is not where the story ends.

After the initial shock of these disgusting photos, I was confused, shocked, disappointed. I quickly shut down the laptop, prepared dinner (Indomie) and cried myself to sleep on the bed because I'm a very emotional person. I took Lexotan so I could sleep.

Around 10, I think, Kingley came back. He didn't know I was in the house because I left the lights off. He, however didn't come back alone. He came back with a guest. A male guest. I know this dude is his lover because I know him from the office and I have always been suspicious of his sexuality. What kind of masculine man wears purple skinny jeans and wiggles his bum when he thinks no one is watching? I also saw a TikTok video of this guy dancing, wiggling his bum and twirling his dreadlocks?

That is the colleague Kingley brought home by 10 in the night.

Anyway, Kingley walked into the bedroom, saw me and the guilt written all over his face made me ask him who was in the parlour with him after hearing another male voice. When he couldn't give a coherent answer, I went to the parlour and saw Uncle Purple Skinny jeans. Now added to the gay porn I discovered in his laptop, you will not blame me for having a meltdown. I yelled, screamed, cussed, threw his ring into the toilet and flushed it. I ordered Uber to my parents house that night and spent 25th chopping breakfast with tears.

Two years, with a bi-sexual man. Or maybe he is gay himself. I don't know. He has been begging me not to expose him to his family, but it's too late. I have told my family and they intend to formally let his family know that their daughter cannot marry a 'confused' man, as my father says.

What do men want?! Two years of my life, plus all the wedding expenses, gone down the drain. I am so heart broken and humiliated.

I don't want to say men are scum because I have a wonderful father and loving brothers, so I will leave it. I'm done with men.

This is devastating...... Na when or how person go come fit see a good girl without doing all this shit

Aww!... Love ur matured response, after the insult and all the guy had said here.

Odewaleadesoye:

I understand you.
My name is known everywhere.
Why do I need to hide my name?
Even my username is my name.
Merely typing that username online will give you my details.
I only posted my name and other details were cancelled out.
Thanks for your observation.

Food is getting ready for the terrorist .. �