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Just read up to half and couldnt cope any longer. Learn to write to point

Ngokafor: ..I totally agree with you,i think his reasons are purely selfish..cos e be like sey the goodies he expects from an older brother who is working has dwindled significantly..ehyah!

u r entitled to ur own opinion. But i beg of u, lets just assume dt wt i wrote is the truth (no selfish reasons) wt can i do

softsparkyy: Eyaaaah op, I understand that feeling, looking at your elder brother misbehaving and distancing himself from his real family just because of a woman.

It's painful but honestly there is nothing you can do about it. The more you try to separate them the more whatever that is holding him holds him stronger.

Let him be.One day he will definitely come back to his senses.

tnx for ur advice n wisdom. U r among those that understand the issue at hand. I woneer y everyone is crucifying me.

The whole advice boils down to the fact that I should let them be. God knws am jst concerned about his future happiness. I promise to always remember them in prayers n let them be

Mintayo: Personally,i don't see this as love. To me,any love that will seperate someone from family and relatives is not love. Plus something is wrong somewhere.
Op my advise for you are these:
do a check on the girl without ur brother knowing,i mean background check,find out where she is from,her family members,her friends,who she moves with,trust me you will definately find out something. Also take time to watch the girl closely without ur brother knowing,infact you can get closer to the girl and find out everything abt here. Then tell your parents,your brother is about to take a decision of a lifetime.
And finally,pray for your brother,he needs alot of it.

check what again? I knw where she is from. Am only concerned with the incompatibility in their genotype.

for those asking, I am a guy. U guys don't get it, My problem is not that they are in love. Where am concerned is that under normal circumstance they cannot marry because of the incompatibility in there genotype. they r both AS. God knows I am not bothered when they started despite the alienation. How can they marry in this situation. My brother was looking for a wife before he met this gal

My fellow nairalanders, am writing this bc I want to lessen the load that has been pressing down my heart for long now by pouring out to its entirety wt has been transpiring between me and my only brother and I earnestly wish u help me out on wt to do.

I am a fresh graduate hoping to serve come Nov and .mmy brother came back from service in 2011, luckily for him, he got a job with WAEC, immediately after serving. He rented a one room apartment n I visited him in 2012 when I did my industrial training. During my stay, I noticed he doesn't allow our relatives n friends to visit us which became more pronounced when he got a girl friend called Ada. Ada started to visit us gradually till she now visits on daily basis. It became serious dt from daily visiting she started sleeping over and later started living with us. Landlord and the wife complained and quarrelled wt my brother over her sleeping with us but nothing changed. The landlord even slapped my brother amidst a quarrel and the wife once abused the girl but she wouldn't learn her lessons. My brother later relocated to a new apartment ( a room and parlour) abandoning a remaining 6months in the old apartment. The girl moved in with him.

Before I now visit, I v to write an application letter giving him like two weeks notice talk more of any other relative or friend visiting. My Dad only visited once and it was an uphill task bc he has to keep postponing it to avoid Dad knowing about the girl he is harbouring likewise when my mum once visited. Each time I visited from sch, the gal must be there with her clothes and shoes all over the wardrobe. All these gave me little worry until he started talking about marrying the girl.

Though l didn't like d idea, I kept silent over the issue. When I thought God has answered my prayers was the day he to told me that their genotype did not match after they did a genotype test not knowing dt things will become worse. The intimacy started like never before despite d test. I had to confront him one day concerning d girl, giving him several reasons why he should let go of the girl like:

1. Risk of pregnancy and abortion.

2. D girl will prevent him from finding a wife since he said he wants to marry.

3. His reputation n dt of the family will be dragged to the mud.

4. His spiritual life is in jeopardy as he no longer prays since the girl came into his life unlike before

5. Dt the gal has alienated him from our relatives and friends.

6. He is spending on the wrong person and so many other reasons.

After, he insisted that he knows wt he is doing, in fact I should stop telling him dt he is ready to bear the consequences if anything goes wrong. He celebrated his 30th birthday last month, he is not too financially buoyant, he has many family responsibilities but is wasting his future with a stranger.

They have lived for over two years now, they now bath together, he helps the girl in cooking and atimes cooks for her, he accepts anything she says and live his life to please the girl only (she recommends the movie to be watched), she takes call from her other suitors in his presence but my brother cannot. What a world!

I happen to be the only person that knows wt is happening, not even my parents are aware. Am confused. Could it be that they want to take the risk and get married or my brother is just wasting his time waiting for her to get married before he starts looking for a wife.

My parents r hoping dt soonest their son will marry. I don't knw wt to do n whom to seek advice from. I love my brother so much and wouldn't want anything to go wrong in his life. I don't even want people to knw wt he is doing so as not to v problem wt him or taint his image. I solicit for ur help pls

this write up just gave me the zeal n enthusiasm to keep learning my plumbing work as I await my service November. well said

I dont think d said guy is sane. No sane human being will kil n chop into pieces his dad over a mere case as was stated. Its either he is psychologically not fit or bewitched n thus needs help from a psychiatrist or a true man of God. RIP to the deceased. Wonders they say shall never cease

manny4life: I don't know how this pain feels like because I haven't lost anyone but I can imagine what it is when I was close to losing my mom last December. I am sorry to all that have suffered great losses to the hands of death because it is the worst experience for anyone. For those feeling hurt and pain, the GOD I believe in will uplift your spirit and chart your course with new hope, he will give you reason to smile...Amen.

likewise me. I tnk God bc I'v nt sufered in d wickd hand of death. I always share d pain wt ma frend dt lost dia lovd ones n pray God to gv dm fortitude to bear d irreparable loss

My Lovely Dad.
I always hav thrillin sensation each time I rememba u r my Dad.

Though atimes we v problems bt dt does nt mean I dnt luv u.

I LOVE YOU

Nawa for this water o. Are we safe in this country.
God help us o

No doubt all u guyz dt commented earlier on are guilty of d above offence and dts y u r attacking me of being gay.
4 ur informatn, I v my lvly gf wu wl ever mak sure I put on a clean underwear.
To hell wit wt u n wt u say abt me.

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This story is utter madness

berem: ori e need lati la igi mo lo ri! Lol

@acidosis,since you are the poster I will surely say the truth.mine was 16-20yrs.met my first boyfriend at 20 and we eventually got married 6yrs later.

una try o. 6yrs of courtship

I wil miss the way he alwayz shapes his mouth while talking.
RIP MAN

Rocktation: How dare they do that? Didn't they know that he's 'Omotola's' husby? H
ehe.

and soo?

Helo peeps. Am mew here, my location is Anambra, Awka to be precise. I hope it wil all be fun with u guys.
Catch ya

Let me draw our minds to one thing that alwayz gets me pissed off.
It is so disgusting and shameful when I see guys that claim big boys on a dirty stinking boxers.
I dn't need to tell us that there are some guys that stay on one boxers and one singlet 4 over one week and even more.
What baffles me most is that, it is this same set of guys that will be washing there dirty linnings outside in the name of sagging.
Atimes I wonder if these guys really have girl friends because mine will not allow me to wear a pair of boxers for just two days.
I think its high time these guys were adviced.

Pls can someone tel me wt z special abt dis HTC phones and d price

wetin d guy wan go do there 4 chrisake? He has gotten fame already now. MUMU

Mine z “mark 7:33-35
diz wia he cured a stammerer by spiting and touchin d tongue. After he said“Ephphatha” meaning “be opened”
I like dis so much because am a stammerer and am hopin dt one day I wil receive d same miracle.
AMEN

::Andrew:::
more than a verse but i love it.

And they said unto Jesus, This woman was caught commiting adultery and moses commanded us to stone such a woman to death
what is your say on this? Jesus bent down and wrote on the ground with his finger and said onto them, let him that has no
sin cast the first stone and they disappeard one by one. Jesus said to the woman go and sin no more.

Dnt try to justify ur life or fornication bro.
U had beta repent

dozydre: Na today i know say u be alien mr ibu, ur blood na blue abi

dont mind him. He doesn't know wt he is saying

no more of ma regular beans and pap

Nnaa I tire 4 dis kain price hyk on beans.
D worse is dat beans z aimost d only means d poor get protein