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Family / Re: Am I Being Selfish & Wicked Here? by lebete3000: 10:25pm On Feb 27, 2022
Cutehector:
Please you are not a wicked person. If he cannot appreciate the 3k, then he should go fcvk himself.


Honestly everyone has their own personal issues, and anyone who tries to make you feel bad for even trying to help should go and get the money by themselves.

Person wey I dey stay for hin house dey use hin utilities for free?!

You be odaran cheesy
Family / Re: Am I Being Selfish & Wicked Here? by lebete3000: 10:24pm On Feb 27, 2022
dayoscape:
Personally I think you haven't done anything wrong...
It's just your conscience judging you...and that's good...it shows you're a good person...a good person that already have plans for his money...some people no get conscience reach that level...
I understand you bro

If I were you
What I'll do in this situation is to go and withdraw that 3k and give him and not even think of collecting it back.
That alone will clear my conscience
I wish you the best man

He didn't even respond me on Whatsapp when I offered him that. He knew I was lying, thinking Im just being a wicked person who has a lot of money to part with...
Family / Re: Am I Being Selfish & Wicked Here? by lebete3000: 10:22pm On Feb 27, 2022
Kennyprince:



Well , you are not really wicked but I guess u were considering those factors you mentioned.

About your salary that u are expecting, kindly use a thousand naira in your account, change your ATM card and enjoy this months salary while u pay your apps whenever u are pleased.

Apps shd not kill us abeg!!!

I can choose to do that, but I can actually settle my debts with my salary. Though I'll have no savings, but it's better cleared off jarey...
Family / Re: Am I Being Selfish & Wicked Here? by lebete3000: 10:20pm On Feb 27, 2022
dawnomike:
To me, you simply gave out what you could part with... It is a lesson I have learnt the hard way over time.
You did the right thing

You mean lying to him 3k was the last cash on me was a wise move, being the last cash I could part with?
Family / Re: Am I Being Selfish & Wicked Here? by lebete3000: 10:19pm On Feb 27, 2022
chatinent:
You didn't lie. Yes, you had a total of N17k in your account but what you have to give is N3k. Case closed.

Didn't say it or meant it like that though, I made him believe 3k was the last cash on me.
I then later offered to borrow him the 3k. He didn't respond.
Family / Re: Am I Being Selfish & Wicked Here? by lebete3000: 10:16pm On Feb 27, 2022
Richy4:
The question is

<<<Are u living with him free of charge?
<<<Do you contribute towards the up keep like electricity, water, food etc..?

If you don't pay your way in that house, and u couldn't assist him,... Then I have no words for you
sad

I contribute nothing actually. But I'm planning to move to the quarters given to me, and I have only 17k on me to survive, with enough debts on my head...

Mind you I'll be using my blanket as mattress in this new apartment, as I need to build myself back up, coupled with the fact I wasn't sure if the money would be returned by tomorrow or not...

That's my predicament...
Family / Re: Am I Being Selfish & Wicked Here? by lebete3000: 6:04pm On Feb 27, 2022
dawnomike:
The die has been cast... Take your mind of it

Hmm, would try to do that. Thanks.

But what is your honest personal assessment of me from my write-up so far?

I'm just curious.
Family / Re: Am I Being Selfish & Wicked Here? by lebete3000: 5:40pm On Feb 27, 2022
dawnomike:
As i said earlier, nothing bad in giving what you could spare. I just hope he is not aware that you had 18k

No he is not, but from the guilt on my face, and the fact that I've stayed in a hotel for 2days (#2,500/day), he knows I'm lying about having only 3k left on me.

I should have told him I could only spare him 3k though, that would have been better.

Now I don't know how to put it to him undecided
Family / Re: Am I Being Selfish & Wicked Here? by lebete3000: 5:36pm On Feb 27, 2022
ramaju:
Telling you that you are guilty or not makes no sense without hearing from your guy, but you know that everybody has conscience. Is your conscience pricking you? Nothing judges us better than our conscience.

Ofcourse my conscience hurts me like hell, but is not a great judge all the time.

Looking closely at this situation you'll understand why.

We all lie sometimes for safety & the right reasons, doesn't mean our conscience still won't prick us, except those whose conscience have already been seared with hot iron.

In this situation, I'm in survival mode. Would have been a different case if his mom had an emergency and I don't.

I still feel extremely terrible though.
Family / Re: Am I Being Selfish & Wicked Here? by lebete3000: 5:33pm On Feb 27, 2022
dawnomike:
You were wrong to have lied... But, the 3k was what you cud spare so there wàs nothing bad in that

I know I was wrong to lie, but telling the truth in this situation won't have helped me in any way. It would have worsened my situation I think.

Cos the guy would end up pressuring me to borrow him, and at the end of the day I'll get stranded if I bulge or hated instantly if I don't.

He himself pro doesn't have money, as he said his transfers are not working, meanwhile the bank is not too faraway to withdraw cash from.

His mom was supposed to be leaving today, but he's told his mom to stay that he'll take her out tonight.

Something makes me feel he's testing me sef or he's waiting for some money- I don't know.

But the level wey I dey now, na only myself I fit becom indebted for, except it's a life threatening emergency which is not here.

I just really pray out friendship doesn't go sour after this... embarassed

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Family / Am I Being Selfish & Wicked Here? by lebete3000: 5:13pm On Feb 27, 2022
Hello guys, dunno if I should post this here or not.

I've been squatting with my guy for 2/12 now and he has been a very good & excellent guy to me.

Not once has he showed me any attitude since living with him.

However something happened this afternoon which I feel terribly guilty of.

He urgently needs 10k to help give to his mom who came visiting him for like 3days but I lied to him that I only have 3k, meanwhile I have a total of like 17k in my account.

Now before you cut off my head, let me tell you about my predicament. I'm actually working working but that money is something I've planned to use to relocate and manage myself in the new apartment someone leased to me for free. I'll actually be using my blanket asmy bed there. I've exhausted all the loan apps on my phone, and the salary I'm even waiting for would read minus once it enters, in servicing those loans.

I'm not re sure when this my guy would return the money, as I'm in a precarious situation here, and don't want to keep add up loans or begg from colleagues when I need the cash badly, and I won't want to start disturbing someone who's helped me for free for 2/12.

This is money I can actually dash him if I were boxed up as I've done to a friend who housed me for 1week before- I fsshed him 10k when I was leaving for his help, even though it's very small compared to the help he rendered me then.

I'm however feeling very guilty I lied to him, but if I tell him the truth and don't help him, Ill be like a villain as people rarely understand anything.

I need to leave his place not because I know the sacrifice he's made for me, and I need to move into that apartment quickly so as not to miss it.

I know how he really needs his privacy as it's just a self-contained apartment, and apart from that, I also need my privacy to think we'll, as I can only do that when I'm alone, which is almost impossible in his apartment.

Guys please send your candid opinion about me.

Am I a wicked person?

Thank you.

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Crime / Re: Police Pulled Our Bus Over, Arrested Two Boys And Told Us to Go - Twitter User by lebete3000: 6:35pm On Feb 20, 2022
Rubbiish:
Una & the driver no try
We saw a thread like this on the abuja okene road, both the driver & passengers stayed till the issue was resolved and the policemen even got sacked. Una no try for not even identifying the station they came from

You wan compare cowardly Yorubas with Abuja people?
Celebrities / Re: Bobrisky Goes For Commercial Flight After Bragging About Flying Strictly Private by lebete3000: 9:33pm On Feb 19, 2022
kenzysmith:
Money wey go dey this man account no go pass 35 million

How much dey your own?
Sports / Re: What To Know About Blessing Okagbare's 10-year-ban For Antidoping Violations by lebete3000: 8:42pm On Feb 19, 2022
backbencher:
Excellent update, and also an introduction to microdosing...

Modified
1.EPO is not meant to be taken by healthy people. (The only time I have seen EPO being given is in patients with chronic kidney disease...EPO is produced in the kidney and helps stimulate red blood cell production. Patients with kidney disease have to take it, or they may become anemic, especially those on dialysis).

EPO is used as a doping agent because more red cells=more oxygen carriers (rbc work by carrying oxygen)=better stamina. Surprised that sprinters take it...it was long distance runners who took it usually.

2.As for HGH



SAUCE.

Regarding HGH, the only prominent athlete who took HGH legitimately was Leo Messi...because he had an actual medical condition that meant he had to take it. (growth disorder). As for if it helped his performance....no one can say. besides he most likely had stopped using it once he became an adult.

Thanks man for the heads up.

Between HGH & Testosterone, which is better for a man who is looking to have hairy beards, deep masculine voice and a masculine body to take, and can you explain why?

Thanks amigos!
Sports / Re: What To Know About Blessing Okagbare's 10-year-ban For Antidoping Violations by lebete3000: 8:38pm On Feb 19, 2022
EXLOVER:
This right here reminds me of my crush Marion Jones

Seems Jamaicans are the only ones that don't dope...
Food / Re: Oyinbo Baby Relishes Eba & Okro Soup (Video, Photos) by lebete3000: 1:34pm On Feb 16, 2022
Bignuell:
There is nothing good about okra and eba, man, you need to be strip of your citizenship grin grin

The food is good, but this particular food might not, cos the cook might be bad.
Food / Re: Oyinbo Baby Relishes Eba & Okro Soup (Video, Photos) by lebete3000: 1:28pm On Feb 16, 2022
philme87:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H6Mo9l2nHAM

A hilarious moment showing when a woman fed a white kid with eba and okro has been captured on camera, with reactions making waves.

The kid, who appeared to have enjoyed the meal couldn’t let go the hand of the woman that fed him in the viral video.

Meanwhile, funny reactions were triggered on social media as Nigerians bragged about how delicious meal made the little boy forget where he is from.

@Oga Mastar said, “If he chop this one for 1 month, he nor dey go fit chop those their tasteless food again.”

@Nick Chidex: “I will give him more than okoro,yam with red oil.”

@Rendd: “Better food, e go make you forget say you be white.”

I'm sure there's nothing good about the food, the pikin na just glutton, nothing else.
Crime / Re: 94-Year-Old Woman Beheaded In Ekiti State by lebete3000: 5:58am On Feb 16, 2022
Emergingnation3:
Unknown persons behead 94-year-old woman in Ekiti



https://dailypost.ng/2022/02/15/unknown-persons-behead-94-year-old-woman-in-ekiti/?amp=1

When I said that Yorubas have taken over from Igbos in rituals, person say na lie.

Yoruba na majorly yahoo rituals, while Igbos are majorly cocaine pushers and kidnappers...
Career / Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by lebete3000: 5:43pm On Feb 15, 2022
Yankeeboy02:
I just want to share my story to the world.
When I graduated, I was so blessed that I didn’t hurt for job, before I got one. I was working in the bank and was paid well, within a year I rented an apartment and got married, things was falling in place and I felt on top of the world before I started gambling, how I started it, I can’t explain. I lost all my reisources and money within two years, I was sacked eventually and life became worst for me.
I got another job and promised my wife, family and kids to be a responsible father, but the urge for gambling keep coming, I couldn’t control the urge, I lost the job again.
My wife believed am a good man, but I see myself like am cursed and it is not that am getting money from the gambling.
I am sick and tired of life, I am a failure, sometimes I feel like committing suicide, I have brought shame to my family and kids.
Please I need help, am jobless, money can’t stay in my hand, I will go to gambling shop and lavish it.
Am I cursed, I need help

My own na alcohol wan finish me...
Politics / Re: Osinbajo Sings Ruger’s 'Dior'. Elumelu, Others Stunned At Summit (Video) by lebete3000: 2:03am On Feb 14, 2022
Travel / Re: My Travails, My Exodus and Life in the U.S by lebete3000: 12:45am On Feb 13, 2022
brightalo1010:


My girlfriend traveled to the USA last year 26th 2021, her story has been positive.

Before you talk negative about usa the best advice should be to tell people the secrets of how to survive there which is simply getting work permit and other necessary documents and more importantly SSN with all these you're the one to be doing shakara for work.

If you ever mention to her and her 3 other siblings that usa is hard they'll stone you even security work they're doing as they're waiting for school results is paying better,

The point is that lazy people should avoid going to AMERICA, People with no proper contact should stay off usa,

She sent 1k usd for me despite not staying upto a year there.

My own be say I'm entering that country called USA California because my girlfriend has said a whole lots of positive things about that country.

Abeg shed more light on the contact stuff...
Romance / Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by lebete3000: 12:17pm On Feb 10, 2022
missimelda01:
Try not to have sex with the next girl you meet, find other non-sexual ways to build intimacy and you'll continue to find her interesting.

Won't he eventually have sex with her one day?
Sports / Re: Lionel Messi Records His First Goal Of 2022 by lebete3000: 7:40am On Feb 07, 2022
obembet:


https://twitter.com/goal/status/1490420901493547014?t=DCQUlFeN8RVY1h0HkmuY9w&s=19

Instead of talking about Mbappe's massive contribution to the goal, and his superb solo strike that sealed the match, na Messi una go still masturbate to. That goal was even meant to be Mbappe's.
I no blame the poor lady for wanting to leave, his departure would really expose Messi's yansh l swear.
Can't wait to get that white no7 PSG jersey...

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Nairaland / General / Re: What’s That Thing You Can’t Turn Down No Matter How Angry You Are? by lebete3000: 11:44pm On Feb 06, 2022
Omicron007:
We all have our moments of happiness and sadness.

However, when you get angry or annoyed, what's that one thing you cannot turn down if it is offered to you on a platter?

I know you would ask for mine.
Well, no matter how sad or depressed I am, I don't think I can ever turn down "Bread and Sardines."

Head...

Share yours, I'll be in the comment section to read your comments.
Nairaland / General / Re: What’s That Thing You Can’t Turn Down No Matter How Angry You Are? by lebete3000: 11:44pm On Feb 06, 2022
Yemlizzy:
Shawarma or pizza for me embarassed embarassed

Head nko?
Events / Re: Obasanjo Receives Kegites Club Of Nigeria by lebete3000: 6:57pm On Feb 06, 2022
dMomenTographer:
The Kegites Club (Egbe Elemu) of Nigeria pays courtesy visit to their Eternal Grand Patron, Chief Olusegun Obasanjo in Abeokuta Ogun State.

The group also presented to Baba, their plans to celebrate the Former President's 85th birthday, coming up on the 5th of March 2022.

Experience the moments through my lens...

#TheMomenTographer
#DanielSync

Abeg where I fit see emu shack this evening for Ado?
Celebrities / Re: Davido's Son, Ifeanyi's Diamond Neck Piece Got Fans Talking by lebete3000: 9:11am On Feb 06, 2022
Be careful before them harvest your son neck oh...

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Celebrities / Re: Man Complains About Hanks Anuku's 'Pitiable Living Condition' (Video) by lebete3000: 8:41am On Feb 06, 2022
Afrogist247:
A Nigerian has recorded what he described as a sad development of life of an Actor who once moved and shook the Nigerian Movie scene, Hanks Anuku.

The Guy said he saw the Actor outside a place at 3am and Nigerians have reacted to this that this may not mean anything.

But for some, after watching the video, they fthink something is missing.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mt1sgpVkigg

Source: GossipmillTV

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CZmO-dlIIMt/?utm_medium=copy_link


E fit dey do movie shoot for there...
Sports / Re: Team Nigeria Wins Best Fashion At The Beijing Winter Olympic 2022 by lebete3000: 7:57am On Feb 06, 2022
ibibiogrl:
The Best Uniforms at the 2022 Winter Olympics Opening Ceremonies.
Nigeria
Team Nigeria blended tradition with practicality when choosing their uniforms. The delegates represented their country wearing green and white uniforms, each sporting a head wrap. The uniforms were created by black-owned sports apparel brand Actively Black.
The parade of nations in the Winter Olympics is really the parade of puffers. Unlike the Summer Games, cold weather means less room for fashion.
Still, some countries tried their best
Accessories were the easiest way for most countries to stand out. The Nigerian athletes eschewed beanies and bobble knits for traditional wrap hats.
SOURCE;
People Magazine:
https://images.app./hSbxp1wxLyP9gUZz9
The New York Times:
https://images.app./nEFV9U2gRBnS1qq16

They know we won't win anything else, so they just console us with that...
Romance / Re: How Waist Bead Caused Fight Between My Girlfriend And I by lebete3000: 4:22am On Feb 04, 2022
YinkaOlusesi:
Some women mumu no be small

You know this and yet you never stop to mumu for them.

Mumu wey dey call another person mumu, you're a mumu man!
Sports / Re: Cameroon Vs Egypt: AFCON 2021 Semi-Finals: . (1 - 3) pen On 3rd Feb 2022 by lebete3000: 1:38am On Feb 04, 2022
enohoefe:


My brother , going through the comments section I dey weak. Black Africans are the real racists. God knows why he kept us underdeveloped. Every little thing is about color color even when the other color don’t give a hoot about us. Even as Nigerians , the color discrimination is still a sorry case. What is wrong with black skin people? Can you guys for once just enjoy anything without putting point to color,? You did well by reminding him of this event cos I don’t understand these sets of black skin humans

Bros I dey tell you ba... despite the whole passion I have for this country, I'll have to leave because everyone sees me as a potential maga just for being light in complexion. Everyone just wants to rip me off...
It's so appalling meen.

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