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Politics / Re: Abia: We’re Cutting Down Cost Of Governance – Governor Otti by lolaluv1(f): 1:30pm On Oct 30, 2023
Capable leader!
Just like he led Diamond Bank to mega growth...

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Investment / Re: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by lolaluv1(f): 12:32pm On Oct 23, 2023
megawealth01:
AccessBank and Courtville has given me baddest CREDIT ALERTS this morning... My head ooooooi

What did courteville pay for?
Career / Re: My Boss Calls Me All The Time. by lolaluv1(f): 10:16am On Oct 04, 2023
Opanka44:


Wow.. I have sent a PM

I don't access to the email registered to my NL account at the moment. Please leave your email and I will reach out to you.

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Career / Re: My Boss Calls Me All The Time. by lolaluv1(f): 7:02am On Oct 03, 2023
Opanka44:
Good day my beautiful people here. Nairaland is my Family because I don't have a physical/Blood-related family and I believe I'll get the appropriate counsel here.

So, I work as a teacher of Mathematics in a Private School. The school is almost 3years since it's establishment while I'm over 2years working there.

My Employers(Husband & wife) are the Best you can ever have as far as the teaching job is concerned. They pay on time and are easygoing people. However, almost all the staff(42 staff) aren't happy with the fact that they give parents and students more concern at the detriment of the staff. As in, you can't get into a conflict with a learner or parent & ever expect to win the case even when it is obvious you're Right.

They allow the parents to decide what goes on in the school. And this isn't going down well with many of the staff. Parents moan a lot when u give them such chance. At a point I had to tell my boss that I was resigning, but he pleaded with me to stay and I stayed. But I'm really getting fed up.

The other thing is his incessant and unsolicited calls. I've worked in Eight schools in four different states of this country & I hate to be friends with my employers cos I have learnt a lot based on my previous experiences.

Such relationship doesn't end well cos I'm always at the receiving end. Truth is, I love the sch so much. The pay is not even up to 40k but I bless God. Aside doing my job, I also advise him on way forward as regards the sch. I even won the Best teacher's award last session.

I feel really uncomfortable with the way he calls me everyday even on weekends and odd hours. I no longer have my Privacy. He calls for very trivial reasons and it's about what I should do, how parents are complaining about some particular issues.

You hardly get applause for been dedicated to work. He is so quick to criticize, but never gives credit when he should. No matter how perfect you are at your job, once there's one little stain on it, it has dented every other good deeds. It's really so demoralizing and we the staff are not happy. There's no staff there that isn't hardworking, so why not overlook a few mistakes? I understand it's Business but his staff are also humans.

At times, I will have to either put off my two phones or put the phones on DND so as to avoid his calls. He has all my three lines. I had to stylishly ask some other close colleagues of mine if they also received such numerous calls form our Boss, but they said No.

So why is mine different?

if you can teach mathematics online to an adult 1 hour per week, either through Zoom or Teams, provide your email address on this thread and I'll contact you so we can discuss further.

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Science/Technology / Re: Do You Check Weather Forecasts To Plan For Your Day? by lolaluv1(f): 12:58pm On Oct 01, 2023
Yes I do.
Education / Re: UK Female Student Kicks Out Male Nigerian Flatmate For Asking If She's A Virgin by lolaluv1(f): 8:31am On Oct 01, 2023
It is how a lot of Nigerians are looking for ways to justify the action of asking a housemate if she is a virgin.

Y'all have no knowledge of boundaries or basic decency. Even if it is a trap by the hunter as claimed, a wise deer knows how to jump and pass. But no, these ones think plenty 'Engrish' will save them, after all, "what was she saying to make him comfortable ". SMH.

Omo, jail will be overflowing if all these people find themselves in saner societies.

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Romance / Re: Why A Woman Should Not Wait Too Long To Marry Or Settle Down? by lolaluv1(f): 9:26pm On Jul 06, 2023
Abi1985:
Except a woman has made up her mind that she does not want to have kids. Having children at a fertile age is key. Please do not wait too long to settle down or marry. It is not easy for many women after the age of 35 to 40s to conceive children. It is very possible for a woman to have children in her 40s and even 50s but the chances are not high compared to a woman in her 20s.

Should a woman marry a madman or have a baby with an irresponsible man because one wants to have kids? Definitely no.


Do not fall into the category of a woman who is so focused on her careers or degree that she ignore to date or ignore life after work. That PhD can wait if you already have a Master.

I knew it would be a 'man'. Your mate just created Threads, which will soon be worth billions. And here you are, browbeating women to go into marriage...
Politics / Re: Governor Alex Otti Meets With President Tinubu (Photo) by lolaluv1(f): 9:00pm On Jun 10, 2023
Alex Otti made an impact in my life, and I will forever pray for him to do well anywhere he goes or whatever he lays his hand upon.

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Investment / Re: Mutual Funds by lolaluv1(f): 10:00pm On Apr 03, 2023
igbizen:
Stanbic MMF is becoming too slow in updating account. This is evening already and weekend returns have not be updated. Even to reinvest earnings for the month of March is yet to be done.
@emmasoft and ponzihater what is happening? This is unlike stanbic

Reinvest profit for March? I thought they are supposed to pay quarterly profits made up of January, February and March?
Celebrities / Re: Davido Spotted At His Cousin, Nikos Babii's Birthday Party by lolaluv1(f): 7:50pm On Mar 17, 2023
What is that in the bottle in his hand?
Investment / Re: Mutual Funds by lolaluv1(f): 10:58pm On Mar 15, 2023
emmasoft:


There is no problem, they just changed their method of dividend payment/reinvestment.

Before now dividend we're reinvested randomly but from this year January they decided to make it a monthly affairs.

You can check to see that your capital has increased by the accrued interest for February.

Generally MMF pay/reinvest interest quarterly but IBTC operates this monthly model of monthly payment.

Thank you. I calculated it and it was just as you suggested...

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Investment / Re: Mutual Funds by lolaluv1(f): 2:45pm On Mar 03, 2023
What is happening with Stanbic MMF? The January profit was liquidated, and now February profit too. But none of this was paid to me.
Is it reinvested or what?

Now even the daily returns that used to be uploaded is no longer showing.

Please who has information about them? I just want to have a possible explanation before I do them an email...
Crime / Re: 32-year-old Ifeanyi Stabbed To Death In Umuahia, Body Dumped In FMC (poster) by lolaluv1(f): 10:42am On Feb 11, 2023
Life, and the finality of death. It hurts to see people full of life, lie down so helplessly in death.
Rest in peace.
Health / Re: Infection Wants To Kill Me Help! by lolaluv1(f): 5:22pm On Feb 10, 2023
Since December, you are still on this same matter!

Sebi you will not go to a hospital? I am sorry for you.
Music/Radio / Re: How Nigerian Rappers Can Bounce Back In 2023: Written By Amechi Okoli by lolaluv1(f): 10:08pm On Dec 28, 2022
faceLAGOS:


Sorry for digressing.

I can sell snow to an Eskimo & even shoes to someone without legs. smiley

Don’t ask me how because it’s one of my strengths & wouldn’t want to share it anyhow

grin

It's not by empty boast sir. tongue cheesy
Music/Radio / Re: How Nigerian Rappers Can Bounce Back In 2023: Written By Amechi Okoli by lolaluv1(f): 9:41pm On Dec 28, 2022
Everything in life is time and season. Even in the US, real HipHop is not really mainstream anymore. It is more of drill, mumbling for the males and puccy lyrics for the females.
And again, the US might not really be receptive to our HipHop the way they were to Afrobeats. Afrobeats is our product and we took it to them. Hiphop is theirs, and how do you sell snow to an Eskimo?

Also, all the rappers you mentioned are older and accomplished. All that edge and hunger they blaze with early in their career mellows down with age. Personally, I can't compare the Olamide of 2014 to the Olamide of 2022. Production is better, but baba Don dey belleful and e dey show for the voice (I still love him though).
At the end of the day, when it is the turn of Nigerian Hiphop, they will shine irrespective of what they do or not.

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Computers / Re: Can Information Be Retrieved From Laptop With Motherboard Damage by lolaluv1(f): 6:30pm On Dec 06, 2022
Cgy1:
Info are on your hard drive not motherboard

Thanks.
Crime / Re: Missing Chukwunonso John Chukwujekwu Found Dead In Bauchi Hotel Room by lolaluv1(f): 12:56pm On Dec 02, 2022
Always let your spouse know about your movements. "I am coming" is not an address.
May his soul rest peacefully.

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Romance / Re: Beautiful Pre-Wedding Pictures Of A Nairalander by lolaluv1(f): 12:53pm On Dec 02, 2022
Younglins. Happy married life!
Computers / Re: Can Information Be Retrieved From Laptop With Motherboard Damage by lolaluv1(f): 12:44pm On Nov 24, 2022
Thank you both!
Computers / Can Information Be Retrieved From Laptop With Motherboard Damage by lolaluv1(f): 5:13pm On Nov 21, 2022
Can information be retrieved in the case of a laptop with motherboard damage?
I have important files on the laptop.
Romance / Re: What Does This Picture Remind You Of, Indomie Generation Will Not Understand !!! by lolaluv1(f): 6:23pm On Nov 05, 2022
I remember how Hamisu (my crush) and Adinoyi used to carry rechargeable lamp around those days during IJMB.

Time flies.
Travel / Re: Married Guys That Relocated To The UK, Whats Your Experience by lolaluv1(f): 6:22pm On Oct 29, 2022
kbower:
Hi Nlanders

We all know no marriage is all that smooth and rosey, we all that are in it have challenges here and there, and for almost 11 years now, out of tolerance, ruggedity, minding my business in terms of taking care of the family have always been something that has held my marriage down, because the majority of the issue I have with my wife have always been issues of trust, transparency, accountability, respect and loyalty.

Some people will say with these things I have listed, that I may be asking for too much, but I can tell whoever would reason that way that it's not too much because am a responsible father/husband that have never for once strayed the family in anyway that will make me lack any of the above stated qualities a man can enjoy from a wife.

Why am I here? Ok.. After enduring so much for 11 years, we are relocating to the UK, she is the main applicant, myself and the 3 children are dependants, she traveled first, leaving myself and the 3 kids behind until she can secure accommodation b4 we leave.

I have heard about countless incidences of how SOME women treat their husbands and the POWER zoned to women in that country which makes it almost impossible for a man with a wife that gives him constant problem to be able to thrive in that country.

I just want to state three peculiar incidences that occured during her 1month stay over there that is already making me feel I have alot to face over there, though I know my God is bigger than anything, I just want people that are over there, or people that are experienced here and all over who are capable of handing a good advise for me on getting there to know how I can fare and withstand what is to come.

Based on the above from the major incidences I have experienced with her, first two weeks of being there, she had gone to check a house b4 heading to school, on her way back to school, she claimed she didn't take enough money and going back home might not be possible, I asked how she would wanna go about it
and she replied saying I will borrow money from Mr Mike, a man she just met at school on her first day of registration. I was like that's wrong, you don't form familiarity with someone you just met in another man's country, I said I will call a friend in liverpool to send you money and you could get your train ticket. She fumed, but I stood my ground and said that's how its going to be. I have asked her to collect a friends account details, since she has not opened an account yet, she said when her class finishes by 8.30pm she'll request details from her friend so the money can be sent. Fast forward to closing period, I messaged her to send me details, she ignored, I called ad she said nobody has an account that I should not worry she will sort herself, I was now like you just got to that country, u have no friends that u know too well to rely on, I am ur hubby and I opened a way for u to get money easily, yet u didn't make any effort to redeem the opportunity, omo she hung up on me then later called back that she gathered few pennies she had to get the ticket, I was now like why didn't u just say this instead of putting me on pressure over how to get money to convey u all the way from london to Luton, over an hour journey at night.

Secondly, on her next school day, she had previously told me prior to her closing hours that her data has finished and she's using schools wifi, that the moment she steps out from school to head home, she won't be having access to internet, etc WhatsApp and all of that, but importantly was to make use of GPS google map, that's what people over there use to navigate their way in order not to get lost, I was like without internet how do u intend to get to ur destination when u know how stressful it was for u getting lost the other day, now the same statement she made was, I will sort myself. I was raged and said woman I will ask my friend to buy u data so u can get home easy and safe, she said no proble, that she's leaving now, I said well since i wont be able to reach you on whats app, I will definitely call you on normal call shortly to give you the data pin to load. She said no P and hung up.

Moments later, my friend had sent me the data pin, na so I begin dey call wifey oo, over 15 missed calls she nor pick. Later she called back and said her phone was in her laptop bag and her hands were frozen so she couldnt put hands in the bag to pick the call and that she didn't even hear it ring.

The issue I posted up there are issues of not being accountable, and attitude of not showing that you don't need me when its not just about that but for security and your well being knowing fully well you are new in the country and proper guidelines needs to be taken.

Another incident happened 3rd week after her arrival, we were video chatting while she was on a train station waiting for train, next thing I noticed was a guy sitting BEHIND her, the guy boldly took a peep into her phone directly, seemingly trying to see who she was on video call with, immediately i called her attention to it, she just smiled and looked back and said silently, nawa some people for this London nor go mind their business. This very day developed a story that transitioned towards few things I will be stating.

The next sunday, I called her in the morin to say hi and all that, next thing I know she dun dey go church, she nor even discuss am with me and na wetin we dn agree on sey we fo jointly choose church wey we go dey go. After church service, she call me sey that guy wey i talk sey dey peep into her phone, sey the guy that very day asked her how long shes been there for, she said, just 3 weeks, sey how come she come take know road when him don dey 3months he nver know road, sey that same guy him coincidentally meet am for the new church wey she come so, sey the guy dey look am, she comot eye, but later the guy come meet am sey are u not the one that showed me way to where I was going. Sey as him meet the guy coincidentally for church, he fit be sey he get why, maybe for job connection or what not. I nor say anything, cos coincidences arent something new in this world. Then the next day, she call me sey that same guy needs an apartment, sey na married guy with 4 kids, but him wife and 1kid dey here, 3 dey nija them nor fit come yet until house is ready, sey him dey ask her if she can help him get someone that can reference for him to get a house, ha him my wife come dey ginger me sey make i help am talk to my friend wey help us reference if him go fit help the guy too. I come sey no problem, she sey she go call the guy now and put us on 3 way call, i sey no p, i come dey wait for call, no call come and madam nor talk again, i come ring her sey hafa u nor do the three way call again? She sey the guy dey work, him nor fit talk,sey she don give the guy my number to call me later, me come sey no p, send him number I go save am down so if he calls i go know sey na him, madam nor gree send number, I come dey wonder sey wetin dey sup sef, normally I nor spose reason ahead, but me my instict dey very strong, i come begin dey put two and two together sey maybe the guy intention was never to get help but to use style dey hit on my madam maybe na why him nor wan talk to me but wan use my madam dey take communicate.

I come ask madam some some questions on previous ish, I come find out sey small lie dey, so I tackler her sey the way she take explain to me about how him meet the guy for train station nor join, she come vex sey me i come am liar, omo as we dey talk for whatsapp, i nor blv sey my madam added this guy to the call without my consent or my knowledge, so as I dey talk, the guy dey the background, i nor even know anything and the dude himself kept quiet, na after the call finish, I see am for call details sey the guy was added to the call, infact the dude even called me directky i nor pick. Now i got very angry, come call madam sey wetin dey sup, u added this dude wey talk sey him dey work him nor fit talk to the call wey me and u dey on and u didnt even notify me, ok lets agree sey if to sey u wan tell me sey u wan add the guy for call sey i nor go gree sey maybe na why u add am without my consent, at least after u add am secretly, u are suppose to talk and sey bae, since u are accusing me wrongly.

I have added the guy to this call so he can clear me out, but she didnt, she just added the guy and the dude himself kept quiet and didnt say a word until I hung up. I got very furious and told her this is the highest level of see finish and dragging in the mud, wetin u want that guy to dey feel like now? She said shes sorry that she only wanted to clear herself, I was now like even if u wanted to clear urself, if that the best way to go about it, the person who is the subject matter is the best person u need to introduce to clear u out? Later on i just bone the matter come apologise sey make we move on, na so she come begin dey yarn plenty, sey she call the guy that my hubby said that the way we met is unreal, sey the guy sef come talk sey wow, so your husband already thinks am sleeping with you, but i cant blame u though, u know u have a big back side, so thoughts like that from him is likely not a surprise, i was hmmmm to hear that, i come tell madam sey if na true this guy talk this thing, shouldnt u already know he has corny itentions, she said well she too dey wonder cos the two times wey them meet she nor wear wetin fit show her bkside so how d guy come take know. The matter end there, next day madam still dey worry me sey shey I go still help d guy, I was like I cant even talk to him, u dun useless me already for him presence, she dey claim sey she nor do anything wrong by adding him to the call, sey the guy know of agency wey fit help me get better job if i arrive, and sey the guy talk sey if me fit connect am to my friend to reference am for house, him go link me up fr the agency. I talk sey i nor dey interested. Omo I weak. Guys I need advise on how to handle issues over there, cos me nor dey take nonsense for nija here, but for there, one needs to chill, but then should it now be sey because we dey live for country wey give woman power, make woman come use that opportunity come dey fumble?

You are very insecure.
She is an adult, when you get to the UK you will find out that everyone has to find their feet. One cannot afford to sit down, waiting for someone to make decisions for you when you have your own working brain.

Better change your mindset, because you will definitely have problems as it is termed abuse for an adult not to be allowed to make their own decisions.

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Health / Re: High BP At A Young Age, What Could Be The Cause by lolaluv1(f): 1:24pm On Aug 25, 2022
Best you go to a hospital. Don’t become a statistic of those who slumped while playing football…
Family / Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by lolaluv1(f): 9:07pm On Aug 20, 2022
Vyvyanvyvy:

Thanks am going to pick him up this Sunday I will bring him to the house and let him do his worst. I pay the rent if he is not happy then he has to leave me with my children . This thing has been stressing me my bp is already high which is not good for my pregnancy I need to be alive for my children and I won’t let him stress me anymore

What a woman! cheesy cheesy

You are a joy to read. Very polite yet very firm.
May you live very long to eat the fruit of your labour/sacrifices... kiss

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Investment / Re: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by lolaluv1(f): 11:14pm On Jul 23, 2022
yMcy56:

You may have to exercise patience for now......till all these response to increased MPR and Nigeria's deficit news died down, and market shows some signs of stability at least.

As for UCAP, it depends entirely on you and your objective for buying it.
From observation, UCAP has been showing some resilience in the face of the sell offs. Good Q2 result has also helped to prevent steep dumping in the stock so far...,..but like I said, it entirely depends on you and where you intend to invest the fund if you choose to sell it. Just make sure such investment will give you more value for your money.

Thanks dear. smiley
Investment / Re: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by lolaluv1(f): 2:19pm On Jul 22, 2022
Hi @yMcy5

Please do you have any stock recommendations for a sister? smiley smiley

And is it a good time to sell UCAP
Travel / Re: General UK Visa Enquiries - Part 5 by lolaluv1(f): 2:15pm On Jul 22, 2022
peace2peace:
Any May 12 bio? Still waiting!

What the?

I hope you have escalated?
That is a long time to be waiting for a decision...
Travel / Re: General UK Visa Enquiries - Part 5 by lolaluv1(f): 8:16pm On Jul 05, 2022
The importance of studying work policy
Travel / Re: General UK Visa Enquiries - Part 5 by lolaluv1(f): 2:54pm On Jul 03, 2022
SeaTrade:
Hello house,good morning.
Okay so a friend of mine didn't put his bank statement in the online form he filled for UK visa,
I don't know if it's okay?
He's hoping he's gonna do that when he goes for biometrics/interview to hand over his passport?
Na just online form e don fill at this point.

What type of service did he select at TLS? Because for self-service, statement should be uploaded online before the interview.

I am not so sure though. Wait for others' opinions...
Travel / Re: General UK Visa Enquiries - Part 5 by lolaluv1(f): 2:50pm On Jul 03, 2022
adelforreal:
Congrats

Thank you. Wish you the best.
Travel / Re: General UK Visa Enquiries - Part 5 by lolaluv1(f): 4:19pm On Jul 01, 2022
Please what is the range of B.A tickets flight money?

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