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Politics / Re: Xenophobia:Nigeria Should Close Its Door On Mtn,dstv,shoprite,others—kalu by marriage1: 3:33pm On Sep 04, 2019

Nairaland / General / 13 Ways To Be In A Happy Marriage Relationship by marriage1: 11:21pm On Sep 02, 2019
There are things you must do to keep the flame of love in your Marriage Relationship to keep burning.

Marriage has its own way you should work on it so you can enjoy it. With this 13 ways, you are good to enjoy your partner.

Find them below.

1) Always remind yourself that true love is
rare, you might never find another person who will love
you this much. Put every effort you need to make your relationship a great one.

2) Always keep your words.
Don't make promises you can't keep with your partner. Be mindful of your words, it has a great impact in union with your partner.
Keeping your words will create trust in the heart of your partner which is one of the back bone of every relationship.

3) Pray for each other, let God always be the pillar of your Marriage Relationship with your partner. No union can...
https://allsinglesandmarrieds./2019/09/02/13-ways-to-be-happy-in-your-marriage-relationship/
Family / Searching For Love In The Wrong Places. by marriage1: 11:11am On Sep 02, 2019
When I really pursued God, my worries regarding relationships finally came to an end. I was no longer worried if a relationship would work out. As a matter of fact, I pulled away from many relationships so that I could clearly hear from God. I finally came to a point where I wanted all of my relationships to be divinely connected by God.

So, I began to seek Him. I mean really seek Him. I would create appointments or dates with God to set aside time where I could read and study my Word. This is where I began to truly conquer relationships. It was through His love and mercy that I finally had the ability to decipher between good and Godly choices.

Not only was I able to discern the right relationships He had for my life, I was able to build better ones. I was finally in a place where I knew how to connect with those who meant the most to me. I committed to listen more, to put my selfish desires aside and pray for my loved ones daily. I now consider my loved ones’ needs. And finally, I pray for our relationships more, simply asking God to maintain them so the devil does not destroy our connections.

Get into His Word.
During my time of getting to know God, I began to see my relationship concerns through His eyes. Before this time, my thoughts were heavy and I was often running on “autopilot.” I would allow anyone to enter my inner circle without first seeking Him. As a result, I would wonder why a business or personal connection would fail or why certain relationships did not turn out as I desired.

But then God made something very clear to me. He will not withhold any good thing from....
https://allsinglesandmarrieds./2019/09/02/searching-for-love-in-the-wrong-places/
Romance / Ladies Health/ How To Care For The Vagina by marriage1: 5:34am On Sep 02, 2019
To maintain a healthy vagina you must know what to do to avoid infection and it is equally important to educate your sexual partner on some of them to also help you help the vagina.

Here are some few things you can do or avoid.

1. FINGERING
During pre-intimacy or romance, as part of it some people insert their finger or fingers into the vagina. The question is, how many people wash their hands before sexual intercourse? Some people do not even keep their nails clean so it gathers a lot of germs and during the fingering, these germs are deposited in the vagina...leading to infection. Same thing apply to autopleasure acts or masturbation.

2. ANAL SEX
I am not here to tell anybody to have anal sex or not to but I simply want to draw the attention of those who engage in anal sex with the opposite sex that it is dangerous to have anal sex and continue having penovaginal sex. If this is done, the penis will pick bacteria from the anus and deliver them to the vagina even if you are using a condom....which will lead to infection.

3. Quest to make the vagina TIGHT
Some guys complain bitterly about the vagina of their sexual partners. They complain that it's too big and they no more feel any sensation during intercourse. Some ladies are therefore pushed to find a quick solution and in the process some use herbs or other substances in the vagina with the hope of making the vagina tight. Some of the substances cause infection or sepsis. Some of the herbs can cause the vagina to get tighter to the extent that penetration is no more possible. This will require treatment.

4. DOUCHING
Some parents, when bathing for their baby girls put warm water in a milk tin or dip a towel in the warm water and pour the water through a hole made beneath the tin or squeeze the water out of the towel into the vagina of the baby. This is sooooo WRONG as it can damage the hymen.
Some parents also insert ginger or pepper or both into the vagina of adolescents as a form of punishment. This is sooooo WRONG as it can lead to infection.

Some people are use to bathing by adding dettol or other detergents to the water and they put this solution inside the vagina with the help of sponge or towel or just the hand with soap to clean the vagina. This is soooo WRONG as it will change the normal flora in the vagina, leading to infection.

5. USE OF WATER CLOSET
Some people have the habit of not sitting on the seat of the WC when using it so they end up urinating on the seat. The possibility of picking infection when using it in that condition is high. Don't let your pant be at the thigh level when using the WC especially the public ones as the inner of the pant may rub the surface of the WC. Where the water is not running and people have used but have not flushed and you don't have any choice but to also use it, use enough toilet roll to cover before using the WC to avoid any splashes on the vulva.

6. WASHING AND DRYING
Develop the habit of disinfecting your panties frequently...depending on the number of pants you have. Keep exclusive panties to wear whenever you are menstruating and don't mix those panties with your regular panties. Pay particular attention to those panties when washing. Ensure that the panties are made of cotton and are dried in the sun or well ironed to kill germs.

7. CHANGE OF SANITARY PADS
Some people try to economize the use of their sanitary pads so during the period they tend to still wear the pad because there is little or no blood. This is soooo WRONG as it can lead to infection.

NB: If there is any bad scent from the vagina or there is a discharge coming from the vagina then it might be an infection which you have to have it treated.

Help save the vagina by ensuring that you get the message to as many friends as possible. Help save the vagina by getting the message to your sexual partner or sisters..
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Romance / Re: Photo Of A Slim Man With His Big-Sized Bride by marriage1: 5:31am On Sep 02, 2019
Which of this is the correct answer for this marriage?
A) Arrange Marriage
B) Contract Marriage
C) Marriage with ulterior motive
Romance / 12 Ways To Identify The Right Person To Marry by marriage1: 10:53pm On Sep 01, 2019
Marriage is like going to the market to buy garden egg . it may look very fresh and good but the inside may be the inhabitant for maggots.
( Court before marriage)
When you presume that everything is alright, you may end up eating maggots and regrets will be the other of the day.
One thing is to court, another is to be in a relationship with the right person because courting the wrong person can be hurting and complicated.
COURTING WITH THE RIGHT PROCEDURE:
1. Friendship.
2. Relationship..
3. Relationship = Courtship = Engagement.
4. Marriage.
Each stage will make way for the next step, which will enhance your relationship. Do not overlook any stage.
THE RIGHT MENTALITY BEFORE COURTING:
1. Court with purpose.
2. Court with love or....
https://allsinglesandmarrieds./2019/09/01/12-ways-to-identify-the-right-person-for-marriage/
Family / Five Ways To Make Any Man Love You. by marriage1: 1:00am On Sep 01, 2019
1) RUN WITH HIS VISION.
A help meet must understand that her duty involves helping her mate actualize his vision.
You are there in his life to help him succeed, to work and walk with him,
Just as he is in yours to do same for you.
Don't become his competitors.
Don't become his contender.
A lot of women today are fighting their husbands and his dreams which is negatively affecting their Marriage.
When he says let's do THIS, you say let's do THAT
When he says YES, you say NO.
When you keep opposing him because you think he is dumb, or he offended you, or whatever, then you are not his help meet and you drawing him back which will negatively affect your Marriage.
Are you his HELP MATE or HELL MATE?
Don't be used by the devil to bring down your Husband's Vision.
Some Women have pulled their husbands down from GRACE to GRASS,
Some Women have destroyed their husbands Ministry, chased his business friends away, even gone to His office to fight and cause issues.
Some Men have lost their Jobs and helpers because of the Woman they married.
Don't be that kind of Wife.
When he brings ideas, when he brings plans, support him.
Even if it will inconvenience you temporarily even if it means you don't get the iPhone you asked for. Support Him.
Many Women agreed to plans that discomforted them, plans they didn't like but that sacrifices made their...
https://allsinglesandmarrieds./2019/08/31/5-ways-a-woman-can-use-to-win-the-heart-of-her-husband/

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Family / Re: Housewife Pregnant For Stepson In Nasarawa, Caught In Bed Having Sex by marriage1: 12:57am On Sep 01, 2019
You wrote it and it's clear.
So it's called a tale of abomination.
Family / Re: 29-Year-Old Mother Of 4 Dies After Abortion, Impregnated By 25-Year-Old Boyfrien by marriage1: 12:35am On Sep 01, 2019
She died because of infidelity.
Had it been her husband was the one that pregnanted her, they would not think of abortion so is infidelity that killed her.

Voice of....
https://allsinglesandmarrieds.

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Romance / 5 Ways To Win The Heart Of Any Man You Love by marriage1: 12:23am On Sep 01, 2019
There are so many things or ways a woman can win the heart of her husband and the happy Marriage she want will be there, the intimacy she will also be there. You will hardly be happy in your Marriage if your husband is not happy with you.

With this five simple tips, you have won his heart 100%.
1) PRAY FOR HIM.
One of the things every real wife does for her husband is to pray for him and also pray with him.
Pray for him to excel in the office,
Pray for him God protection and for him not to fall into Temptation.
Pray for his safety.
Pray for his Ministry
Pray for his Health, a wealthy man is a healthy man.
Do you know that God honors the Prayer of a Wife over her Husband? Don't cease to pray for him.
Don't allow him pray alone
Don't allow him carry the fire alone. You should be by his side, to complement it, so the burden will not be too much for him.
You can see vision for your husband,
You can give him prophecies too.

Don't be spiritually complacent and leave the praying and fasting only for your husband,
As he's speaking in tongues, be replying in tongues too.
Let him see in you a spiritual companion and not just a physical companion and will see how that improves your home and his spiritual life.

2) BLESS HIM.
Proverbs 18:21 says that; "Death and life are in the power of the tongue and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof."

This is almost a similar as praying for him, but still different.
Instead of laying curses on him,
Instead of abusing him,
Heap blessings upon his head on daily basis. He's your husband and not a boyfriend should you are thinking he may leave you and start dating another girl.
Draw him close to your bosom and bless him as a Parent blesses their Child.
Kiss his forehead and decree over him "because you Married Me, you will not fail, you will talk where your mates are talking, our children will be great Men and Women" that's why he is your.....
https://allsinglesandmarrieds./2019/08/31/5-ways-a-woman-can-use-to-win-the-heart-of-her-husband/
Romance / Re: No Responsible Man Will Marry A Lady/woman That Show Her Unclad Inthe Internet. by marriage1: 10:47pm On Aug 31, 2019
Don't spoil for this ladies, they are advertising their assets

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Religion / Re: RCCG Church Built Under High Tension Mast In Lagos (Video, Photos) by marriage1: 10:43pm On Aug 31, 2019
Where is Lagos State Building Control Agency LASBCA oo
This is more than dangerous o.
How can a reasonable human being build church here just to tempt God if he will save them should this high tension start deal with them.

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Nairaland / General / In This Ember Months!!! by marriage1: 10:39pm On Aug 31, 2019
About four years ago in the year 2015 about 5.30 am exactly this day on August 31st 2015 God saved one of my daughter in the lord in a ghastly motor accident....
We talked early that morning on phone which I instructed her to forget about the first bus which she has paid for the ticket to leave that early from Abuja to enter Third bus not Even Second Bus......

She agreed,,
Something Terrible happened that year!!!
Same first bus which she could have entered from Abuja had an accident at Kogi State and almost all the passengers on board died....

Second bus has a fault on the road which delayed passengers on the board!!!
Thank God that She did not die in Mber periods!!!
Thank God she harkened to the voice of God to obey what could have happened!!??
I pray for you,Disasters happening in this Mber periods will never come near you or your house holds...

You are protected...
Your coming in and going out in this Mber periods shall be a blessings,,
From.....
https://allsinglesandmarrieds.
Romance / Re: My Ex Wants Us Back, What Do I Do? by marriage1: 9:05pm On Aug 31, 2019
ddugeri:
I will just cut the long story short, I have been dating this girl for long, (5 yes) so I got to know she was double dating , I confronted her and the outcome led to breakup, I moved on, even though it wasn't easy, after like 6 months, I found love again.
She now wants us back, and am already in another relationship, and I love the both of them, am just in a dilemma, please your suggestions.

The important thing you should know in every relationship is, what exactly do you want in a woman? You must be focused on what you want in every woman you want to date or you want to marry, that's very crucial.
This ranges from her breasts size, for those that like it big, does she have your size or if you are the type that likes it small, is it the size you want? And also her character, temperament, her approach to things, does she really love you?
She cheated on you because by double dating because you are not enough for her or probably you are not the kind of man she want so she decided to keep another man by the side.
She is back to your life because the guy has disappointed her.
Now that you are in another Relationship and she want to be in your life again, it's very crucial that you are focused with what you want in a woman, if actually she has those quality.
Also don't forget that a cheater will alwAys cheat, even if you give the person the whole men in Nigeria, she will still cheat.
From.....
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Romance / Rape Oo by marriage1: 8:40pm On Aug 31, 2019
What is your opinion?

She knocked the door. I kept quiet
she pushed it and came in. I kept quiet
she came inside the room. I kept quiet
she sat next to me on my bed. I kept quiet she smiled at me. I still kept quiet
she romanced me. I still remained quiet
she undressed herself. I kept quiet
she removed my shirt. I kept quiet
she kissed me deeply. I kept quiet
she removed my trouser and boxers. I kept quiet
she climb on me. I still remained quiet
she started riding me slowly and softly. I
kept quiet
she continued with the practice. I kept quiet
after all she dressed up and went away. I kept quiet
now she's here telling me that she's
pregnant guys what should i do??
From...
https://allsinglesandmarrieds.
Romance / 9 Mistakes The Single Makes Before Marriage. by marriage1: 7:05pm On Aug 31, 2019
1) Romantic and intimacy. How romantic is your partner? A relationship can not be enjoyed if the Partners don't have romantic attraction to each other and also when they don't put their intimacy in the top priorities. We all want to greatly enjoy our partner in bed but what would you do that after Marriage you find out that he's a one minute man or impotence? God forbid and that's why you should make findings before there will heartbreak and also how deep is the feeling he or she has for you is? Does he or she care about sending you love messages, calls you at least 3 times a day, had a romantic Chat with you, dropping love notes to you too. If it doesn't exist now, it can't exist in Marriage.

2) Kitchen activities. One of the best way any woman can win the heart of her man is through good food. Research has it that 80% of men that eat good food cooked by their wives find it difficult to eat outside their home and also don't believe that another woman is better than his wife in anything. Simply put, it's difficult for another woman to be attracted to him.
As a woman, you should know his favorite meal. This is what him your man.

3) Vision statement in your Marriage.
• Be specific. A vision statement should have specific goals. Vague goals
equal vague results. Quantify as much as possible.
• Be positive. A goal is something you want to have, not something you
don’t want, so focus on the positive.
There are many ways to...
https://allsinglesandmarrieds./2019/08/31/the-mistakes-the-singles-makes-before-marriage/
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Guys Drop Ur Number And Let The Ladies Call (hook Up Someone Pls) by marriage1: 11:00am On Aug 30, 2019
Recognize the true love you have been searching for, who he is, and if truly you are after his heart.

Play boy or play girl might have made you to lose interest in love thinking that true love doesn't exist but actually true love exist.
Here is how to recognize it.
https://allsinglesandmarrieds./2019/08/30/simple-ways-to-recognize-true-love-from-your-partner/
Romance / How To Recognize True Love by marriage1: 10:53am On Aug 30, 2019
How do you recognize real true love? After being deceived by artificial love, it finally dawned on me. Love is gentle. Love is kind. Love is patient and love is not easily provoked. Love doesn’t seek to hurt. I would add, real love uplifts, protects, compliments, and seeks the best no matter what. Love is not perfect, but love is forgiving. Love is not always agreeable, but when you truly love, you are always willing to work it out. More importantly, love is more than lust and doesn’t change because of feelings. “True love” loves no matter what!

Real love recognizes real love.
Many times people find themselves in relationships that do not demonstrate true love. Whether it is an abusive, ungodly, or hurtful relationship, we have to recognize that this is not of....
https://allsinglesandmarrieds./2019/08/30/simple-ways-to-recognize-true-love-from-your-partner/
Romance / Re: Missing Boyfriend by marriage1: 11:51pm On Aug 29, 2019
Zinny25:
lol,u r not correct
he's right here with me, sleeping in my arms

go and hug transformer

cheesy cheesy cheesy
Romance / How Long Did It Take You To Forget This? by marriage1: 11:50pm On Aug 29, 2019
Hello romantic guys,
What is the most annoying atituted you have gotten from your partner?
Tell us, others want to learn
Sports / Re: Kanu Nwankwo Shares Throwback Photo, Says "Discipline Will Take You Far" by marriage1: 9:11pm On Aug 29, 2019
Nigeria Legend of football.
Apology Kanu

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Romance / Re: Desperate Mother Hunts For Boyfriend For Her Single Daughter (pics) by marriage1: 9:07pm On Aug 29, 2019
Husband's are scarce that's why and the available is no where to be found.
Romance / Re: Missing Boyfriend by marriage1: 9:02pm On Aug 29, 2019
I saw him, I saw him in ShopRite lekki some days ago but unfortunately with a beautiful damsel and I don't think you are the one.
This morning I saw him at
https://allsinglesandmarrieds. where he was writing apology letter he will send to you.
Romance / Re: I Need Serious Relationship by marriage1: 8:56pm On Aug 29, 2019
Your face alone has scared them away oo grin grin
Celebrities / Re: BBNaija: Enkay Rocks Bum Shorts As She Steps Out In Style After Eviction by marriage1: 8:40pm On Aug 29, 2019
She want to inform companies that she is good to be in their bill board.
Romance / The causese of Sexual Abuse by marriage1: 8:36pm On Aug 29, 2019
How well do you know your girl child?
How far how you educated her about sex?
You own your girl child the Right to be morally be informed about her body, her menstruation, her privates and how to relate with the opposite gender to avoid unwanted pregnancy.

It will be disasterious if the society teach her about sex instead of you.
Here are the [b]#15 sex education [/b]you should give you girl child to protect her from abuse.
https://allsinglesandmarrieds./2019/08/29/15-child-education-to-give-your-child-to-protect-her-from-being-abuse/
Family / Re: Please Have Mercy On Your Children by marriage1: 4:59pm On Aug 29, 2019
15 education you owe your girl child to protect her from being abused.
As a parent, don't allow the society to do your job on your girl child, impact can be disasterious and it will affect her whole life.
Find out more...
https://allsinglesandmarrieds./2019/08/29/15-child-education-to-give-your-child-to-protect-her-from-being-abuse/
Family / 15 Education To Give Your Child To Protect Her From Abuse by marriage1: 4:53pm On Aug 29, 2019
You own your girl child the Right to learn everything she needs from you as her parent before she becomes a woman.

Don’t allow the society to teach her what ordinarily is her right to learn from you.

1) Teach your girl child about menstruation, the care and how she should always protect herself during and after. And also how to relate with the opposite gender during this time to avoid unwanted pregnancy.

2) Teach your girl child about the importance of her Relationship with God. God should be her most priority in everything, everywhere and in every decision she might be involved. Why she should not play with fellowship in the church, or...
https://allsinglesandmarrieds./2019/08/29/15-child-education-to-give-your-child-to-protect-her-from-being-abuse/

Romance / This Man Was Caught In The Act by marriage1: 8:51am On Aug 29, 2019
At a joint yesterday evening, a man came in with
his
girlfriend and ordered drinks and fish. They were
drinking and holding hands while the lady rested
her
head on the guy's shoulder. They both were
having
fun, until a woman walked in with a baby not more
than 4 months. She dragged a chair and joined the
man doing ROMANCE with his girlfriend. The girl
stared
at the woman with surprise while the man was
dumbfounded.
Then the woman called the Bar attendants "please
give me a bottle of malt and Fresh fish" and they
served her. Then her baby started crying, she fed
her
baby and continued eating. She now called the bar
attendant to call people in the kitchen which he
did,
then she ordered for two fresh fish (point & kill),
they
told her its N2,500 each, she ordered for two and
also
ordered for 3 full mortars of Isi-ewu at N4,000
each. They prepared and packaged all for her.
She then ordered for 7 cans of malt which they
gave
her. All this while the man was scared that the
woman would create a Scene at the joint, while the
girl he came with was no longer comfortable.
When
she was about to go, the bar man said "Please
madam your money" and she replied "My husband
here will
pay". She quietly dropped her baby on her
husband's
laps and went with her Goodies home.
People there started laughing and talking, while the
girl now fully ashamed quietly left the joint with
head
bowed. The man then asked for the bill, which
obviously was more than what he has in his
wallet.
He was however lucky to have ATM card which he
gave to the bar attendant to withdraw money.
When
the guy came back, he settled the bill and left
there in
SHAME.
Protest can be done in a peaceful manner and the
full aim and impact achieved. The woman didn't
make
noise, but her actions effectively spoke for her.
DID SHE DO RIGHT OR WRONG?
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Romance / 14 Ways To Please Any Woman And Her To Love You More by marriage1: 5:56pm On Aug 28, 2019
1) Bath with her. It absolutely romantic when you bath with your woman especially when you option to bath her. Don't make her to feel shy, right in the bathroom admire her body, her Womanhood, tell her how beautiful she's in her birthday suits. Play with her endowment for some minutes before bathing her. Every woman loves it and you can also give her the opportunity to bath you too.

2) Give her surprise gifts. No one will deny been happy for receiving a surprise gifts from either a family member, a friend, a colleague, or from a partner.
Buy her favorite fruits or her favorite snacks or her favorite wears especially when you know that she needs them. Waiting for her to always ask you for it doesn't make you romantic and a caring man. In as much you are capable of doing it, do it for her unaware, it shows she is after your Heart.

With all these mentioned above, you can win the heart of any woman, due to the fact that she has seen how...
https://allsinglesandmarrieds./2019/08/28/14-best-ways-to-please-any-woman-and-make-her-to-love-you-more/
Family / What To Do When Your Marriage Or Relationship Is Failing. by marriage1: 9:39am On Jul 16, 2019
Your relationship or Marriage is failing because you are not doing what you are supposed to do for your woman.
Your wife is giving you some nasty character because you are not doing the right thing.

Doing the right thing is about giving her sex so many times a day.
Taking her around the world is not enough for her because there are things she qant from you that you are not providing for her.

It will interest you to know what your woman truly want from you.
shocked
https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2019/07/what-does-every-woman-want-in-man.html?m=1

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