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A relationship is not based on the length of time you have spent together, its based on the foundation you've built together. Do you have any contrary opinion on this?

The kind of things that make front page in nairaland is what I can't describe. The good things that can impact are not sent to the front page. But the things without sense are forwarded to the front page... Too bad!

EVERYONE, ESPECIALLY WOMEN SHOULD READ THESE 30 RULES FOR GODLY WOMEN-----------------
1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.(Prov 15v1)
2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you.You are each other's keeper.(Eph 5v12)
3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.(Prov 15v13)
4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.
5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because v don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.(Prov 11v22)
6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.(Gen 2v24)
7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.(Eph 5v33)
. Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.(Deut 3v28)
9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.
10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex. You must give it to him how he wants it. Sex is very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over that duty. No man can withstand sex starvation for too long (even the anointed ones) (SS 7v12)
11). Never compare your husband to your one time sex mate in bedroom, or an Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.(SS 5v9)
12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.(Prov 31v23)
13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don't do that.(Eph 4v31)
14). Don't forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.(Prov 12v4)
15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.
16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.( 1 Sam25v3)
17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don't waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave.(Luke 21v16)
18). Never base your love on monetary things.Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?
19). Don't forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him.Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home. (Gal 6v9)
20). If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always team work.(Gal 6v10)
21). Don't be too judgemental to your husband. No man wants a Nagging wife.(Eph 4v29)
22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even know that her body needs a bath.(Prov 24v27)(Prov 20v13)
23). Does your husband like a kind of cooked food?, try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food. (Prov 31v14)
24). Never be too demanding to your husband, enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.(Luke 11v3)
25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty. (Prov 31v11)
26). Don't associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.(Prov 22v14)
27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.(Heb 13v4)
28). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.(Prov 22v6)
29). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason. (Prov 31v28)
30). A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife,pray always for your husband and family(1 Thess 5v17).
AND MEN, LOVE, CARE, CHERISH AND PROTECT YOUR WIFE (EVEN FROM YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS) SO MUCH THAT SHE SEES YOU AS HER lord, Prince, warrior and king. SHALLOM

[quote author=Joavid post=35962387]Yawns.

This is like the third time and seeing this copy and paste advice on this forum.

Carry on.[/quote. Knowledge on Topics such as this could be similar but doesn't necessarily mean copy and paste like you said. The most important is that we are all learning. I will be glad to read it over and over again because the man God gives as husband will never suffer. Knowledge is profitable to direct!

WHICH OF THE CODE BEST CORRECT YOUR LIFE
AND HOW?
WORDS FROM A MOTHER TO HER DAUGHTER
ABOUT MARRIAGE ( ALWAYS REMEMBER
CODE 1-12)
1. The wife that wins all arguments with her
husband is not wise. The home is not a law
court.
2. The wife that uses sex as a weapon in the
home - placing embargo, going to bed in jeans
shorts and trousers - lacks wisdom.
3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws
of "women's rights" to insult or ridicule her
husband simply makes a fool of herself.
4. A woman that makes her home devoid of
peace through bickering, nagging and quarrels
needs help. A man should be eager to run away
from office to be at home, for that should be the
safest and cosiest place on earth for him.
5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not
mean competition. It simply means partnership.
Taking advantage of such equality to turn around
and become the de facto head of the home and
oppress the man is tantamount to playing with
fire. If you destroy your home, soon you will be
the boss of an empty home.
6. A wise wife makes the man feel so good that
he assumes that he is the head. Once he gets
that feeling, the woman gently wields her power
and the head actually turns to wherever the neck
wants without a protest.
7. A wife that does not pull herself away from
friends' influence and advice or even from the
control of her mother and father will have herself
to blame.
8. When a man is looking for a wife, he bypasses
women of different shapes and sizes to choose a
wife. But soon after childbirth, many women hide
under the excuse of childbirth to let go of
themselves. Many stop bothering about their
looks, shape, dressing, etc. Within 5 years of
marriage, people start wondering if the wife is the
man's aunt, even though she is 7 years younger.
Her defence is that if he truly loves her, he should
love her the way she is, but when looking for a
wife, he saw people like the present YOU and
ignored them and settled for the former YOU.
Today, you go to bed smelling of onions.... You
go to bed wearing grandmothers' clothes. Why
are you playing with your marriage? Love is not
about looks - we know. But looks enhances love
and marriage. There is a difference between
someone disfiguring herself and the person being
disfigured by an accident.
Please don't be complacent. As hard as it may
be, work on looking like you were when he first
saw you and began the chase.
9. If every night you are tired, sleepy, sore, down
with headache or fever, "not in the mood," you
are a joker, a serious comedian!
10. If your children suddenly become more
important to you than your husband, you need
prayers.
11. If you assume that as the woman, only you
need to be pampered and fussed over while the
man is a stone that has no emotions, you need to
be pitied.
12. A woman that has the mind of a wife does
not excite her husband. Wives are usually
complacent and presumptuous. A wife must strive
to have the mind of a girlfriend. A girlfriend is
always nicer, sweeter, more loving and always
thinking of ways to wow her sweetheart; a
girlfriend does not try to win all arguments, does
not call the man a "useless man", is not careless
about her looks or dressing, always smiles and
laughs with the man, sends the man sweet
messages and calls, etc. Are you your husband's
girlfriend in word and in deed?
LASTLY, DO NOT INFORM ME OF YOUR
QUARRELS, I DIDN’T JOIN YOU TOGETHER, GOD
DID, GO AND INFORM HIM AND HE WILL SORT
YOU OUT
morning to y'all

What To Eat During
Pregnancy
Are you pregnant or planning on it? Here are
few important things you should eat during
pregnancy.
1. Green vegetables: green vegetables are
good sources of iron, vitamins, minerals and
fibre. It’s a natural source of Folic Acid that
helps the development of the baby’s brain in
your womb. So go ahead and property wash
your vegetables, cook them and eat.
2. Fresh fruits: fruits provides fibre that helps
maintain regular bowel movement while you’re
pregnant. Because they are rich in vitamin C,
they also boost your immune system. So if our
pregnant start taking fresh fruits like apples,
oranges, banana, strawberries and raspberries
today.
3. Eggs: eggs are rich in Choline which helps
in developing the memory and brain of the
baby. However, you need to be very careful in
picking your eggs. When you break an egg,
always make sure it doesn’t have a foul smell.
4. Milk: milk contains a lot of nutrients which
is essential for the growth and development of
the body for everyone. During pregnancy it’s an
ideal source of calcium, proteins and vitamins.
Calcium helps in the development and
formation of the baby’s bones. Every pregnant
woman is advised to take two glasses of milk
every day. Are you pregnant? Go get a glass of
milk!
5. Water: we all drink water regularly but
during pregnancy your body needs more water
to cope with the demands of your changing
body. Water is essential for healthy blood cells
and to keep your body hydrated and it’s also a
key component of breast milk. It serves as a
natural transporter of nutrients from your body
to the baby’s body. Every day your body will
need 8 to 10 glasses of water.
Note that eating a balanced and well planned
diet during pregnancy is very important for you,
your unborn child and your family. Now you
already know start eating and living healthy.

One of the greatest headaches of many young
ladies in relationship is the issue of sex. While
they find themselves entangled in love, they also
would not want to offend God by fornicating.
Meanwhile, most young men of today are always
demanding sex before marriage as a proof of
love. If a lady denies her boyfriend (fiance) sex,
he tends to think she either does not love him or
she is seeing another guy. And this throws the
lady into so much confusion. She genuinely loves
the guy but wouldn't want to give in to sex. If
she denies him, she may lose him and if she gives
in too she disobeys God. Sorry to our ladies.
Gentleman, please know that it is absolutely a lie
from the pit of hell that if your fiancee does not
give you sex it shows she doesn't love you. How
can you use sex as a LOVEOMETRE? Have you
never slept with ladies you didn't truly love? If
you haven't then let me tell you that many people
are having sex with people they never love. And
the men are themselves the worst culprits.
If sex is a proof of love then we have to conclude
that prostitutes love all the men they sleep with.
If sex is a proof of love then we have to go about
sleeping with our best friends and even family
members to show how deeply we love them.
Even married couples, do not have sex to prove
their love. They rather have sex because sex is
part of marriage and it is meant for both
procreation and recreation - child birth and
enjoyment. Don't you know that there are married
couples who are not genuinely in love but they
still have sex as a matter of duty or just for
cover-ups?
Surely, sex plays a major role in love affairs. But
Eccl 3:1 says, "For everything there is a
season..." It is never the right season to have sex
in a relationship. This is because sex is a blood
covenant between husband and wife not boyfriend
and girlfriend. Gen. 4:1 says, "Adam knew his
wife". It does not say "Adam knew his girlfriend".
Stop going that far with the lady. If you want to
know about a woman's love for you sex is never
the answer. Leave her alone to serve God right for
your own sake if you truly want to marry her.
Song of Songs 2:7 says, "I charge you, O
daughters of Jerusalem, by the gazelle...that you
AWAKEN NOT LOVE UNTIL IT IS TIME".
The gazelle is a very swift animal. It runs at least
96 km per hour. Bible compares romance to the
gazelle. If you start romance at the wrong time
you may crush because you will not be able to
stop it from running your life at top speed. So
until you are married, don't AWAKEN LOVE. Sex
has been the main reason for most broken hearts
and disappointments.
Sex is called love-making because it involves the
body, soul and spirit. Do you want your soul and
spirit to be tied to somebody who is not married
to you? Can you stand the consequences, Mr.
Young Man? Hear the Bible:
"O my son, O son of my womb, O son of my vows,
DO NOT SPEND YOUR STRENGTH ON WOMEN,
YOUR VIGOUR ON THOSE WHO DESTROY
KINGS." (Prov. 31:2)
Sex before marriage can destroy you, even your
Christian life. The funny thing is that it is the
Brothers in Christ who are always worrying the
Sisters in Christ for sex. So God says, "My
son...son of my vow". You are a son of God so
don't waste your energy on women. You should
rather be teaching her chastity and help her serve
God well.
Seeking love from sex is like looking for Jesus in
an empty tomb. Take it easy. When you marry
you will be fed up with sex. Your wife will be
chasing you with it and you will be running away,
saying, "Oh I'm tied, why?". Take time okay, there
is more sleep after death. How many rounds do
you want? Wait patiently. It will soon be laid at
your doorstep and you will notice how stupid it is
to chase sex when you are not married.
If you want a woman to prove her love to you,
allow her some space to be herself. Do not force
your will on her or control her. Her love, by
nature, will push her to do things that will signal
to you that you are her top priority. She will be
ready to marry you, than just have

One of the greatest headaches of many young
ladies in relationship is the issue of sex. While
they find themselves entangled in love, they also
would not want to offend God by fornicating.
Meanwhile, most young men of today are always
demanding sex before marriage as a proof of
love. If a lady denies her boyfriend (fiance) sex,
he tends to think she either does not love him or
she is seeing another guy. And this throws the
lady into so much confusion. She genuinely loves
the guy but wouldn't want to give in to sex. If
she denies him, she may lose him and if she gives
in too she disobeys God. Sorry to our ladies.
Gentleman, please know that it is absolutely a lie
from the pit of hell that if your fiancee does not
give you sex it shows she doesn't love you. How
can you use sex as a LOVEOMETRE? Have you
never slept with ladies you didn't truly love? If
you haven't then let me tell you that many people
are having sex with people they never love. And
the men are themselves the worst culprits.
If sex is a proof of love then we have to conclude
that prostitutes love all the men they sleep with.
If sex is a proof of love then we have to go about
sleeping with our best friends and even family
members to show how deeply we love them.
Even married couples, do not have sex to prove
their love. They rather have sex because sex is
part of marriage and it is meant for both
procreation and recreation - child birth and
enjoyment. Don't you know that there are married
couples who are not genuinely in love but they
still have sex as a matter of duty or just for
cover-ups?
Surely, sex plays a major role in love affairs. But
Eccl 3:1 says, "For everything there is a
season..." It is never the right season to have sex
in a relationship. This is because sex is a blood
covenant between husband and wife not boyfriend
and girlfriend. Gen. 4:1 says, "Adam knew his
wife". It does not say "Adam knew his girlfriend".
Stop going that far with the lady. If you want to
know about a woman's love for you sex is never
the answer. Leave her alone to serve God right for
your own sake if you truly want to marry her.
Song of Songs 2:7 says, "I charge you, O
daughters of Jerusalem, by the gazelle...that you
AWAKEN NOT LOVE UNTIL IT IS TIME".
The gazelle is a very swift animal. It runs at least
96 km per hour. Bible compares romance to the
gazelle. If you start romance at the wrong time
you may crush because you will not be able to
stop it from running your life at top speed. So
until you are married, don't AWAKEN LOVE. Sex
has been the main reason for most broken hearts
and disappointments.
Sex is called love-making because it involves the
body, soul and spirit. Do you want your soul and
spirit to be tied to somebody who is not married
to you? Can you stand the consequences, Mr.
Young Man? Hear the Bible:
"O my son, O son of my womb, O son of my vows,
DO NOT SPEND YOUR STRENGTH ON WOMEN,
YOUR VIGOUR ON THOSE WHO DESTROY
KINGS." (Prov. 31:2)
Sex before marriage can destroy you, even your
Christian life. The funny thing is that it is the
Brothers in Christ who are always worrying the
Sisters in Christ for sex. So God says, "My
son...son of my vow". You are a son of God so
don't waste your energy on women. You should
rather be teaching her chastity and help her serve
God well.
Seeking love from sex is like looking for Jesus in
an empty tomb. Take it easy. When you marry
you will be fed up with sex. Your wife will be
chasing you with it and you will be running away,
saying, "Oh I'm tied, why?". Take time okay, there
is more sleep after death. How many rounds do
you want? Wait patiently. It will soon be laid at
your doorstep and you will notice how stupid it is
to chase sex when you are not married.
If you want a woman to prove her love to you,
allow her some space to be herself. Do not force
your will on her or control her. Her love, by
nature, will push her to do things that will signal
to you that you are her top priority. She will be
ready to marry you, than just have

[quote author=ahsekeena post=35896137]I was hoping u would say this.

I was wondering how does a woman put asunder when the man and wife still remain married. And in some cases the wife never finds out that the husband is cheating. And if a woman should decide to divorce her husband on the grounds of infidelity,would u say the mistress has put the marriage asunder? Cos I believe in a case like this,the woman herself has put her marriage asunder with her own hands.


You are really clear and right in what you said, I still believe that the ladies involve are the end lossers of the whole game. Therefore, they should consider their personal integrity, dignity, and self esteem. Nomatter what you do as a lady to seduce, entice, allure, or distract a married man he is married and there is nothing you can do about it. Look for your own. Whatever seed we sow, we shall reap!!! Don't give what you can't take. God is watching!!!!

Midehi:
good one; but its like you have the best experience.

Knowledge rules bro, I don't have to experience it to know what is going on in the contemporary world we live in. We must continue to advice one another as ladies!

ADVICE TO YOUNG GIRLS
The moment you agree to date a married
man,
you agree to be a second class woman
and every
second class person is classified as a
person of
lower values.
Now look at it this way.
If he is with you and his wife calls, he lies
that
he is still in the office or on an official
assignment. u dare not interrupt his
conversation
or quarry him but you can't call him when
he is
at home.
...... My sister you be toy?
He sneaks you from his car into his hotel
room
but gives his wife his entire home.
...... My sister grow up please
He visits you at home and you introduce
him to
friends and neighbors as your boyfriend
thereby
blocking your chances of getting a genuine
suitor
yet you don't even know the name of the
street
where he lives.
..... My sister how long will you continue
to
sacrifice your future?
He takes you out and buys you assorted
types of
alcoholic drinks yet he will never allow his
wife
taste even a bottle of alcoholic drink,
common
sense should tell you he is only doing that
to get
you drunk so he can truly destroy you in
bed.
.... My sister Na your body good pass for
experiment?
He gets you pregnant and gives you
money for
abortion but when his wife gets pregnant
he
celebrates and gives her money for
antenatal and
baby things.
....... My sister remember he is already
raising his
family oh
Just in case you don't know, he describes
your
reactions during sex when he is with his
friends
but will never mention whatever happens
between
him and his wife.
..... My sister na your matter dem take
dey drink
beer
He gives you a few cash and you're happy
not
knowing that whatever money he gives
you is
what he calls "Body no be firewood
allowance" (Crumbs from the wife's table)
You have his picture on you phone and
ADVICE TO YOUNG GIRLS
The moment you agree to date a married
man,
you agree to be a second class woman
and every
second class person is classified as a
person of
lower values.
Now look at it this way.
If he is with you and his wife calls, he lies
that
he is still in the office or on an official
assignment. u dare not interrupt his
conversation
or quarry him but you can't call him when
he is
at home.
...... My sister you be toy?
He sneaks you from his car into his hotel
room
but gives his wife his entire home.
...... My sister grow up please
He visits you at home and you introduce
him to
friends and neighbors as your boyfriend
thereby
blocking your chances of getting a genuine
suitor
yet you don't even know the name of the
street
where he lives.
..... My sister how long will you continue
to
sacrifice your future?
He takes you out and buys you assorted
types of
alcoholic drinks yet he will never allow his
wife
taste even a bottle of alcoholic drink,
common
sense should tell you he is only doing that
to get
you drunk so he can truly destroy you in
bed.
.... My sister Na your body good pass for
experiment?
He gets you pregnant and gives you
money for
abortion but when his wife gets pregnant
he
celebrates and gives her money for
antenatal and
baby things.
....... My sister remember he is already
raising his
family oh
Just in case you don't know, he describes
your
reactions during sex when he is with his
friends
but will never mention whatever happens
between
him and his wife.
..... My sister na your matter dem take
dey drink
beer
He gives you a few cash and you're happy
not
knowing that whatever money he gives
you is
what he calls "Body no be firewood
allowance" (Crumbs from the wife's table)
You have his picture on you phone and
saved his
number as "My Sweetheart" yet your
picture can
not be found on his phone and your
number is
saved on his phone as generator
mechanic or
refuse disposer.
....... My sister you be learner?
PLEASE give yourself a proper
reevaluation Today.
If you agree or support this update comment
Gud morning house.
.saved his
number as "My Sweetheart" yet your
picture can
not be found on his phone and your
number is
saved on his phone as generator
mechanic or
refuse disposer.
....... My sister you be learner?
PLEASE give yourself a proper
re evaluation Today.
If you agree or support this update comment

6ty6ix:
copy and past

. At least we are learning. Wisdom is profitable to direct.

AVOIDING A BAD MARRIAGE.
After salvation, the most important choice you will need to make is who to marry. This choice is so important that if you miss it, you will suffer for long, if you get it right then you will enjoy forever. A bad marriage can affect every other area of your life. This subject is so important, so many married people are hoping to be single again so as to make the right choice. If you are single please don't just be in a hurry to get married, you have the best opportunity to prepare for it. For two people to come together to live in peace harmony, they must agree spiritually, mentally and physically. Just like an elephant cannot marry an ant so also a believer cannot marry an unbeliever. If an elephant marries an ant how would they live, if an EAGLE marries a fish where would they live? You must look for a Godly man or a Godly woman to marry, nothing can beat this. The devil's primary target is the family. He knows that everyone belongs to a family and if he can make two wrong people meet then he has succeeded in affecting the community and nations negatively. Don't let your age and the pressure of the moment push you to make wrong decision, the pressure in a wrong marriage is far worse. God has somebody for you but you must set your priorities right. What do you need in a woman? What do you need in a man? Marriage is not about what you want, it is about who you need, that will make you better while you make him better. It is about destiny. That is why you must know your PURPOSE before you get married. Genesis 2:18. You must pray before you choose. God knows the best person for u, it is only wise to seek His will. It is very easy to know God's will when sex isn't involved. The moment sex is involved & u want to know His will then He will blank u out Why? because u have broken His first Law of NO SEX before marriage. If u have had sex in the past then u need to repent totally & stay away from each other for sometime then u can seek the face of God. ur marriage wont be hell on earth ur marriage will b honorable in the name of Jesus Christ. Don't marry for sex, don't marry because u are of age, don't marry because u are getting old, don't marry because you are lonely don't marry because u need some1 to suport u financially don't marry because ur mistake ”got pregnant” don't marry bcus u don't want to lose the person, don't marry because of family pressures don't marry bcus u like d idea of marriage & admire every wedding gown u see, don't marry because all ur friends are getting married don't marry for pity sake But get married bcus u want to fulfill destiny. Get married bcus u want to be a help mate. As a man, get married bcus u want to fulfill ur purpose God will help u in choosing, Pls let His will be done. Amen
Pls 4ward to the singles u love

Pictures

Today is indeed a wonderful day in the life of the corps members serving in Sokoto State especially the Batch B corpers. The long awaited four months outstanding state allowance was cleared today by the state government. Corps members serving in sokoto are fully loaded with 16,000 richer than other corpers in other state that are not receiving anything from their state of deployment. Batch Bs can now see transport money back to their verious states.

Ddddon on point!

LOVE IS SOMETIMES UNRECIPROCATED! Love is sometimes unreciprocated- this is a fact of life and nothing to lose your self-esteem over: When two people interact, one person may feel a connection while the other doesn't. Consider a classic example below: Good day Sir. I've known this guy for a while now and we have become good friends. We shared our likes, dislikes, aspirations, and everyday stuff, in conversations that went on for hours. When I developed romantic feelings. For him, I let him know. He didn't say anything, but his actions showed that he felt the same way. A few weeks ago, he started avoiding me and refused to pick my calls. He no longer texts me. I am confused and worried. Please I need your advice. This all too common story is a warning to ladies; do not be quick to jump to conclusions. The turning point was when she expressed her feelings for him. What did he do? She wrote, "He didn't say anything, but his actions showed he felt the same way." What actions did he display? Guys please be careful not to withhold verbal commitment yet shower care and attention. It appears he was stirring fires even though he was not ready for commitment. We often act deceitfully in relationships by sending signals we are unwilling to back up. Some guys often lead a girl on to have sex with her, and some girls do the same for monetary gains. This is sad! What should she do? I will tell the answer bluntly; kill the fire and give him space. There are two possible scenarios. First, he may be asking for time to process his feelings to decide if he wants to pursue the relationship further, or second, he has already bolted. In either case, she cannot afford to sound too desperate, lose her self-esteem, and thereby invite disaster. If this is your story too, keep your options open and don't hold on to him tightly. Unrequited love hurts, but the pain will pass. Be patient with yourself and learn from this encounter. Maintain your identity, hang-out with other friends, and recover your zest for life. Whatever the outcome, you will be better equipped to handle it. I see you at the top already. Amen

misssclassy:
[color=#000050]Maureenbest. What's your problem?
You just created this same thread about 20mins ago. Why the need to create another? [/color]

. Is not intentional, I was trying to post another one. Sorry about that!

YOU CAN ONLY LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF. We see our world through our orientation and perspectives. We rise by how we first treat ourselves. If we live in the past, we drag people into our past. If we live in the possibilities of the future, we project people into that future. We can only make our world by the standards of how we make ourselves. How can you set out to make friends when you are not friends with yourself? If you do not love you, how do you expect us to love you? And how would you love us to love you when you keep feeling useless? Don't become a foot mat then complain when folks step on you! Are you carrying emotional wounds from a childhood of abuse, neglect, and shame? It is criminal to hate yourself because of the incidence and people of your past. The beauty of relating with others is lost when we allow suspicion and fear destroy our inner man. No wonder we respond with such anger, envy and jealousy. Your environment could have molded you but you don't have to remain in that mold. Your previous relationship could have abused you but you don't have to remain abused for the rest of your life. Stop carrying about the corpse of a dead relationship. Bury it! Decide to love yourself, and sooner or later, others will love you. People's opinion of us could be learning points on our journey of life, but they should never dictate our pace. No man should have the final say about your life. Begin today to admire yourself and appreciate your qualities. Take in the lessons of this write up and strive to understand them. You are destined to blossom like a rose. Get on our facebook group or like our page and get all the information you need. Change is possible if we desire change, irrespective of cost. Learn from your mistakes. Rise up, dust yourself, and soar!!!

YOU CAN ONLY LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF. We see our world through our orientation and perspectives. We rise by how we first treat ourselves. If we live in the past, we drag people into our past. If we live in the possibilities of the future, we project people into that future. We can only make our world by the standards of how we make ourselves. How can you set out to make friends when you are not friends with yourself? If you do not love you, how do you expect us to love you? And how would you love us to love you when you keep feeling useless? Don't become a foot mat then complain when folks step on you! Are you carrying emotional wounds from a childhood of abuse, neglect, and shame? It is criminal to hate yourself because of the incidence and people of your past. The beauty of relating with others is lost when we allow suspicion and fear destroy our inner man. No wonder we respond with such anger, envy and jealousy. Your environment could have molded you but you don't have to remain in that mold. Your previous relationship could have abused you but you don't have to remain abused for the rest of your life. Stop carrying about the corpse of a dead relationship. Bury it! Decide to love yourself, and sooner or later, others will love you. People's opinion of us could be learning points on our journey of life, but they should never dictate our pace. No man should have the final say about your life. Begin today to admire yourself and appreciate your qualities. Take in the lessons of this write up and strive to understand them. You are destined to blossom like a rose. Get on our facebook group or like our page and get all the information you need. Change is possible if we desire change, irrespective of cost. Learn from your mistakes. Rise up, dust yourself, and soar!!!

Every Relationship is subject to abuse if only one person's interest is the focus Of the relationship! A parasite seeks its own interest to the detriment of another. It does not matter whether its profit, pleasure, and plans, will hurt its victim. A parasite holds on to its victim and continues with its objectives despite the victim's cry. In a parasitic realationship, one party makes demands of the other without due regard to the course and cost to the other party. When the primary focus of a relationship is on financial or sexual gains, or a status change, these selfish desires will eventually produce a rotten pot of soup. The beauty of a relationship is showcased when both parties have common goals and strive towards attainment of their goals for their mutual benefit. My friend, if you are so in love with her, and. She does not love you in the same way, please let her go if you claim you are not a parasite someone who apprecriates you is on the way. Amen. Lady, if it's truly love and not lust, don't apply manipulative means to secure his heart. A simple way to make sure that you are not a parasite or the victim of a parasite in your relationship is to ask yourself constantly, "what do I contribute to this relationship? What is my value and how am I valued?

Please I would advise that Nigerian youths should learn to be positive in everything. This idea of being negative in your conversations, criticisms and advise doesn't speak well of u at all. Somebody took a picture of himself to show his fans, all you could see is show off. You didn't even see the beauty in the picture. No wonder we are not growing, when we are only attracted by the negative side of life of being jealous, envious, arrogant and pride, how do we grow? Out of the abundant of heart mouth speaketh and as a man thinketh in his heart so he is! What are my saying? Celebrate good things, be positive at all course, see the brighter side of things, be constructive in your comments and learn to be happy. That's why the whites are different from us, they celebrate their celebrities, and they also see significant reasons from every insignificant view. The fact that u are not there, doesn't mean u won't be there. Learn to appreciate good things and don't compare, so that u will attract good things too. May God help us to remain the young minds we should be!

It is all for good. Nigeria is working, and we are going to progress along with Nigeria. Transformation all the way. Gej till kokoroko!!!! I love this success!!!! Please APC learn to love this country everything can not be politics, its for our own good.

In my candid opinion, I have never seen the saviour of this country both the present leadership and the forth coming. If Obasanjo can have the boldness to castigate and criticize another after all his bad rulership. Then it will be hard for any president to learn decency. Hence they will all come out and sound like saints. The most award wining corrupt leader is busy accusing another person of being corrupt. God save this Country!!!!

Wow! It shows how important women are. People are busy taking notes of their activities. I have learn one or two things now. Thanks bro for this expose'. Ladies must be wise to invest in things that matters. Wisdom is proffitable to direct.

You have your personal opinion, but please speak for yourself and not generalising any of your statement. Am very sure u don't even have your PVC. Imo must move forward. And we are ready to make that change that is constant. Emeka all the way!!!!!!

If sex is proof of love, prostitutes would have been happily married. If sex is the destination, then true love is the only road that gives you great sex, contentment, and lasting happiness. All other roads lead to rape, incest, pornography, and masturbation, with disillusionment and discontentment. A man can have sex, take a shower, and move on. To him, it was just sex and nothing more. A man can have sex with a picture, a TV screen, or a hole in his mattress. To him, it was an avenue to orgasm and nothing more. If sex is available and affordable, the average man will have sex anytime and anywhere, except he has some morals. Ladies, sex is not proof of love. That's why a guy can beat up a lady and have sex with her immediately afterwards to makeup! A guy, saint or sinner, always approaches a lady with the hope for sex. He wants it now, later or in the future. It's just a matter of when. True love utilises self control to wait long enough to demonstrate and confirm long term commitment before demanding gratification. A man who still depends on father and mother for support, succour, and a sanctuary is not ready to cleave to his woman. "I will marry you", is not the same thing as "I have married you". Sex can provide a brief escape from loneliness and boredom, but it will always leave you empty when it is fuelled by lust. Please stop using the promise of marriage as an escape route to have sex. The promise of marriage on the condition of sex is a manipution to give you a shell without the snail!

Everybody is entitle to his own opinion...God help our country!

Imolites are together, Politics may generate different opinions from different people hence their ability to make their choices in voting in an election. Everybody may not like u doesn't mean u are not loved by people. Rochas Okorocha is the best governor imo state has ever seen. We love him.