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Trapnews:

[s]Mumu, keep deceiving your self, you think you know everything about men, including your husband. I know your type, your husbands marry secretly outside to seek the happiness they require while forming angel at home, many men have created two families outside because of your shallow thinking. It is easier for a man to have 2 separate wives and never possible for a woman to do same. Why not avoid that and submit to your husbands to avoid all these stories that has been leading to suicides. You compelled your husband to change and you think he's happy about that, continue, your husband's new wife is closer than you ever imagine , i dey wait[/s]

the most stu..pid post ever. You just narrated the lifestyle of your family, unfortunately, you think all men are like men in your family including you, who has no regard for women, hence, made your women lose their dignity. Sorry to burst your burble okemkpi

mrk74:


Thanks.

We won't break apart. An concerning the nagging it's not what I can expect of me. My kind of nag has been that I've said I don't like this, she acknowledges and in some cases promises to adjust but doesn't. So I remind her when she does it again. At the 4th time, she may get a lecture. Lol. But I don't like it. I think that 1 or 2 times should be enough for someone to make adjustment. Or if you have a problem adjusting then say it and we have a discussion and arrive at a compromise.

I believe we will get there sha. I've already made up my mind not to make a complain more than once.

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You are only interested in her adjustment and not yours. Compromise in marriage is for both parties. It's not a one sided thing else it won't last. Take your time and ask her who she really thinks you are, if she opens up, you will discover what you also need to work on. Stop being a dictator. Listen to her suggestions sometimes. Overlook minor things. Don't complain too much. Then, all will fall in place. I keep telling people including my hubby that MARRIAGE REQUIRES EFFORT FROM BOTH HUSBAND AND WIFE, it's NEVER a One-sided thing. I thankGod my hubby now understands and has made huge adjustment just like I did, my home is more like heaven on earth now. WORK ON YOURSELF.

kaboninc:
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. See them. Birds of a feather

figment232:
Bottomline is for a wife to make her husband happy. Op wants to be happily married and he truly deserves it.

op deserves to be happy and wife doesn't deserve it huh!! Wife should make her husband happy while she stays unhappy cos of hubby huh!!! You try. Arrant rubbish!!!! You are just like the op. Tyrants and dictators at home who will never lead their home well yet want all their dictates to be obeyed accordingly. Arrant rubbish!!!!

obeying you ke, she be your pikin? @mrk74 no offence ... You sound so much like a dictator. Always imposing your ideas on her and will not like to accept hers at any point in time. You are the one who needs serious adjustment on the way you exercise your headship, before you start complaining. If you exercise your headship in the right way, she'll do what pleases you even without much talk. Work on yourself. Read books, bible(if you are a Christian), etc so you can learn the best ways to exercise headship.

Good move by the neighbors. This is an eye opener cos there are too many of such cases around us. Never knew such law exist.

Chai We eat everything. Why

pinkguy:
So people are very senseless hw can wife of one time Lecture , deputy governor, governor ,vice president ,president will not afford $15;ooo,ooo go check ur present vice president asset declaration hw much he have has lawyer n mere commissional

Tell the buffoons calling her names. That was a good move by mama peace. This fraudulent body called EFCC, buhari's tool has overstepped their boundary. Its high time somebody stood up against them.

Glory12345:
Actually this is my first post on nairaland,I'm a comment reader and a post reader and I have observed how people do things here and I feel I should share my story,please don't criticise me or anything, I just need your help or advise,and please do read carefully to understand,and i am also sorry if i dont type this well,i'm not much of a writer.Thanks in advance

There's this guy I met at 3chub Ikeja,I actually went to ask if there was any standard rechargeable fan because i have been scammed alot by all these "fairly used" rechargeable fan,so i decided to buy a new one because they sell home appliances there,even though people say fairly used items are better which I chose to decline because this is 2016,and this buhari regime doesnt accomodate an extravagant spending.

I work in Lagos but I stay in mowe,and the electricity there isn't too good so that's why I'm getting the fan so even when the gen is off,i would have an alternative,so when I got to the store,the sales ambassadors offered me different brand rechargeable fan,but i later got a syinix rechargeable fan,because I was impressed with the number of months the warranty covers so I purchased it with my ATM card since I just came to inquire and not buy and I was cashless,I had to just use the POS *I'm only explaining all if these to give you a clearer understanding of the issue on floor*

After purchasing the fan,there was this guy that came to buy a gas cooker and we happened to meet and we both exchanged contacts with eachother and few months later we developed feelings and we had a relationship and we were doing the normal relationship vibe,until this week,he started acting up because I said no sex until marriage...he's a very nice person anyway,he helped me in so many ways(advices,financially,physically) but just because I said no sex until marriage,he's acting up already,although I have my reasons for abstaining until marriage anyway but my story is sad,and I don't know who to tell and I feel more comfortable telling people online because someone that knows me physically might not say the truth to me,because they don't want to hurt me,please I need matured comments even if it will hurt,just tell me

Although we aren't kids,but I'm just troubled because I love him a lot and I don't know what to do.

I'm a loner right now

Babe, hold on to what you believe. Don't compromise it for any reason. If he really loves you he should respect that. Many men have waited till the wedding night at the request of their wife-to-be and more are still doing it. So what's the big deal with him? While my husband and I were still dating I told him same thing and he respected it till we got married.

To those shouting 'you accept financial help yet refused to have s..e..x with him' I want to ask, since when does financial assistance you give your wife-to-be became equivalent to s..e.x? Did she tell him she was a se..x hawker? Did he ever explain to her that the money he was giving her was in exchange for s..e..x, yet she continued to accept his financial assistance? Smh for generation of these days. Everything revolves around sex. That's why se..x has no value anymore in today's world like before. Twisted generation!!!!

hilarious thread.

Yeah I need this. Been ignoring it lately.

that's my man......Jona Jona. Love him to bits

As if they have something better to offer.

Only a fool will vote APC after they have failed the masses woefully.

nextprince:

This is lame. Have u ever seen a mermaid or a dragon? Are they not in the dictionary?

You are the lame one. Cos you've not seen it does it mean it's not or was never existing? Yes I have seen a mermaid.

Seun:
Religion strikes again. Look, witches don't exist. There are no witches. That's why accused witches never fly away. Nobody deserves this.

If witches don't exist there will be no such word in dictionary. Why is the word In dictionary? Will there be a word for something that doesn't exist? Think again.


Btw The treatment meted out on her was too harsh tho'.

Wow so inspiring. think I'll use some of
Of these words to compose mine for my baby by December when we gonna celebrate our anniversary.

Happy wedding anniversary babe

This is becoming too rampant.

A pity.

Terrible!! Seems the man in the second to the last pic is crying. Sad.

His opinion. As far as it's not condemned in the bible, it's not a sin. Though the bible emphasized the need for us to be modest. Modest dressing, modest makeup is acceptable.

Thought she was 38 last year abi she forgot her age? https://www.nairaland.com/2547875/funke-akindele-celebrates-38th-birthday#37271532

Deefuray:


The boobs of that lady tho..... Olympus has fallen

see who dey yab person boobs!!! With those tiny mosquito legs of yours Wey dey shape like 'k' you dey yab too. Smh

Just like the story in nollywood movies.

Congrats to you op. Marriage is sweet o. It all depends on what you put in it.

W

None!!

We are solidly behind you my hero. We are watching how this plays out.

Chinese ke.. Smh

Seun:
Nobody practices abstinence before marriage. Those that claim to be abstinent, if you investigate, are often doing everything except penetration.

What happens if I tell you I never did any of them before I got married? If you or some people can't abstain, it doesn't mean others can't.



Yes, it's realistic.