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Family / Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by naijainstinct: 9:53pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
jaxxy:Another great response |
Family / Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by naijainstinct: 9:47pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
lilyheaven:things we do for love.....no one can imagine! 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by naijainstinct: 9:36pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
somehow:This is very sacrosanct |
Family / Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by naijainstinct: 9:17pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Scarfin:true |
Family / Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by naijainstinct: 9:11pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
somehow:lol. Funny how I was just urging her to also take your advise. Bro, my eyes see shege. Thank God for my wife. I will forever adore that woman. I lost moneyyyyyy. My money, her money, money people entrusted with me. That 7m sef go be understatement. I used to receive monthly SMS charge debit of N4000+ just to show you the volume of my monthly debit transaction on gambling. I intend to write a book on my experience and how I overcame. I still feel the urge to gamble sometimes but when I think about how I almost slashed my own throat because I gave up on myself......Hmmm! |
Family / Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by naijainstinct: 9:05pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
somehow:listen to this person too |
Family / Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by naijainstinct: 8:53pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Dearlove2me:I'm so sorry about your experience. You are a good woman. I can tell from your narration. Despite your frustration, you didn't use vile words to describe your husband. You are kind, patient and calm even in the face of provocation. I can assure you 1000% that your husband is addicted to gambling. My cousin just opened up to me recently that he was in a debt of over N2m because of gambling addictions. There are 4 things that can make a man constantly broke Viz Alcoholism, Hard drug abuse, Paid pornography addiction/womanising and gambling. Out of these four, only two requires constant addiction to one's phone. If it were paid pornography or womanising, he won't always be on his phone. But with gambling, he will always be monitoring live scores, virtual simulations etc. Your husband is in a deep mess and you need to help him. He is just a stone throw away from acute depression that could lead to suicidal thoughts. I know this because I was once there. Between 2020 when COVID started through till mid 2022, I lost over N7m to gambling. My relationship was threatened but my wife is just like you, very patient and understanding. I gambled to the extent of stealing over 1.5m from my wife's account to gamble. I stopped hanging out, I was always angry. I was hostile to my wife most of the time. I was in debts. What is making it worse for your husband is that addicted gamblers are always chasing losses. They think they can borrow 200k and play safe 2 odds and quickly turn it over. But the truth is that even if he wins, he will still want to turn over again and then everything goes and the vicious cycle continues. My wife contacted GambleAlert without telling me and they started calling me. They were helpful towards my recovery. I heard different stories. Most of the worst cases were from the East. Successful young men ruining their businesses because of gambling. A dude was sacked from GTB after they found that he was losing concentration at work and had used customer's fund to the tune of N25m to gamble. Your husband needs you. I know you want to protect his ego but you need to report him to someone he can be accountable to. You are too soft-hearted so he can't be accountable to you. Confront him that you know he is gambling. Threaten to leave him (but that's not the plan). Report him to his closest sibling or most trusted among his parents. If you don't take action, God forbid you lose your husband. He has gotten to the stage where he doesn't care what happens again. He has lost his self-esteem that is why he can borrow from your friends without shame. There are a lot I would have written but time will not permit me. But most importantly in all of these, he must first be self-aware that gambling has ruined him (not is ruining) and should be committed to forgetting about all the losses because they can never be recovered. In between my chasing losses, I remember winning 1.8m but I didn't withdraw that money. I wanted it to hit 2m but it never did till I lost everything again. It's hard ooo but he can overcome. I did and I know a lot of others who did. Cheers. I respect you!!!! Corollary: I can see a lot of kids here telling you to leave your marriage. Your husband loves you and he loves his daughter but he is in a cage. Right now, he's seeing nothing but his phone, bet site and how he can hit a huge jackpot to make up for all his previous losses. Keep your ATMs away. Don't tell him about any cash inflow. The only reason you should consider leaving your husband is if he isn't showing remorse or willing to follow through with the therapy. You said he is scared you will leave him if he tells you the truth and it is the truth. Tell him he should trust you. You are just like my wife. Whatever I tell her, she agrees. But you need to be stern to get results. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Politics / Re: APGA Catholics Accuse Archbishop Of Onitsha Of Aiding Priests To Campaign For LP by naijainstinct: 6:47pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Has that not been Gringory Obi's tactics since his days as Emperor of Anambra? Divide the Christian body. Very dangerous but sly criminal 9 Likes 1 Share |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Have You Been Scammed Before?....share Your Thoughts And Experiences Please by naijainstinct: 6:44pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
AderonkeOlaniyi:Chai, and when them dey call ADULT you sef go follow stand up. Your skull be like Simon Ekpa own. Na cassava full inside. No brain. When next them dey take roll call for world class stupidity, na your name go be number 1. Na for ashawo joint, your papa for take meet your mama, na why you think say everybody mama don useless rotten finish like your own. Pele, because you no go dey alright. 1 Like |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Have You Been Scammed Before?....share Your Thoughts And Experiences Please by naijainstinct: 6:38pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
AderonkeOlaniyi:How is your father's leprosy? They don finally amputate him hand and legs? Eeyah Just remain inside that gutter abeg, make you no come infect us with una family leprosy. I get sniper if you wan commit suicide sha |
Politics / Re: Full Report Of Peter Obi & Labour Party's Petition To Elections Tribunal by naijainstinct: 5:50pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Iamgrey5:I am beginning to think Obi just wants to explore PDP's chances because it makes no sense. PDP who came 2nd is silent, LP is barking. 5 Likes |
Politics / Re: I Quarreled With My Igbo Neighbor About Yoruba People by naijainstinct: 5:38pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Axis313:Just imagine?! I was even saying 4. I give you small position, you no fit handle. You wan come make I give you bigger one. How? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Have You Been Scammed Before?....share Your Thoughts And Experiences Please by naijainstinct: 5:33pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
AderonkeOlaniyi:Where this cockroach waka comot from? Ah, na tier 4 madness be this one oo! See as poisonous saliva dey drop from your mouth as you dey talk. Tufiakwa. Better crawl back into that sewage you escaped from before I smash your dirty head with Baygon. Animal |
Politics / Re: Presidential Election Tribunal: Peter Obi's 5 Prayers by naijainstinct: 2:24pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
burp18:🤣😂🤣 Is this what they want to use to knock out APC? 🤡🤡 Dude has no problem with PDP, na just APC be their nightmare. The judges go just dey laugh for their mind 19 Likes 3 Shares |
Politics / Re: Wike Congratulates Makinde, Mohammed, Sanwo-olu by naijainstinct: 1:45pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
N3TRAL:Isn't this obvious in the way Paul and Jude wanted to kill Peter because of Lola? I'm surprised it's this same Peter that is now acting like a bigot all over again. It's an innate thing for them I guess. I am married to an Igbo woman (dad was Igbo from Abia, mum is Yoruba from Lagos) and she is so loving, respectful and considerate. Highly intelligent too. Igbos think we hate them but what we hate is their running mouth, chest beating and constant disrespect to us. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Wike Congratulates Makinde, Mohammed, Sanwo-olu by naijainstinct: 1:39pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Realadey:Amen o. Dude is sagacious. |
Politics / Re: Wike Congratulates Makinde, Mohammed, Sanwo-olu by naijainstinct: 1:37pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
12inchess:Never again. O da fi eyin t'egun fi so. 1 Like 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Wike Congratulates Makinde, Mohammed, Sanwo-olu by naijainstinct: 1:34pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
iamdapsyj:Will love to see😁😁 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Wike Congratulates Makinde, Mohammed, Sanwo-olu by naijainstinct: 1:34pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Yagier:I love that guy like I love my own brother 5 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: It’s My Turn To Be Senate President - Orji Uzor Kalu Declares by naijainstinct: 1:20pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
aieromon:I'm seriously rooting for Akpabio. 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: How Eze Chinedu Mozie Was Attacked, Injured In Lagos On Orders Of Oba Afeez by naijainstinct: 1:09pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
GeneralPula:Simple as ABC 2 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Yoruba's The ''fulani's'' Of Southern Nigeria by naijainstinct: 12:58pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
BiggestB0y:They know what they are doing. They are introducing bigotry to the Younger naive Yoruba population. They want us to be divisive they way they are in their region. If we don't counter their narratives online and offline, I am worried the next generation of Omoluabis will be full of religious bigots. Currently, all governors in SW are Christians. Even Adeleke, you can't tell whether he is Christian or Muslim, and we don't care. This children of hate will not see this ooo, that despite the population of Muslims in SW, we voted based on competence of individual candidates. I am a Christian but rooted for Tinubu and his MM ticket because I know they will deliver. Obi succeeded in pitching the Christians against the entire country. A lot of Christians in the SW voted Obi but because he still didn't win, all Yorubas are useless. Then when they saw the unity of Yorubas, they come with the Yoruba Muslim, Yoruba Christian narrative. Honestly, these sub-humans will pollute our region if care is not taken. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: What I Saw About Tinubu by naijainstinct: 11:56am On Mar 21, 2023 |
XY23:Yes, judging from his antecedents alone, he will do excellently well. He has a great track record of working with seasoned technocrats to bring rapid development. My prayer was hinged on the OP's assertion that some politicians will highjack his government. God forbid! But as for Tinubu, I trust his leadership skills and will choose him over Obi in another 600 years from now. |
Politics / Re: Kaduna State Held LG Polls In 2018 And In 2021 Using Electronic Voting Machines by naijainstinct: 11:51am On Mar 21, 2023 |
Solsix:Before I do, here is a link to show you that at least 50% of the world's elections are termed controversial. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_controversial_elections Now to your question, and solely based on my own opinion, I will rate the Presidential 50% and the Gubernatorial 70%. My reason for the above percentage is that the presidential was marred with voter intimidation in all geopolitical zones of the country, underage voting in the North/South East, ballot snatching in many parts of the country and electoral malpractice by all the 4 major parties in that election. Worse was the failure of INEC to upload results in real time to the iREV. For the gubernatorial, elections started and ended on time unlike during the presidential. Also, results were uploaded as soon as possible on iRev and everyone could access it. Voter intimidation were reported in Lagos only. Ballot snatching were reported in very few states compared to the presidential elections. Electoral violence was reported in some states but seemed to be lesser than during the Presidential (taking Lagos off the equation). This is evident in the way more opposition have conceded defeat and congratulated the winners compared to the presidential elections. Like I said, this is strictly my opinion. |
Politics / Re: Yoruba Are The Nicest People Ever by naijainstinct: 11:25am On Mar 21, 2023 |
lorenzobanks:Honestly, more neutral Yoruba youths are beginning to become radicalised cos of these provocations. It won't be business as usual anymore. And it's sad. |
Politics / Re: What I Saw About Tinubu by naijainstinct: 11:12am On Mar 21, 2023 |
Yamiriflathead:To be fair, he did predict Obi's defeat. However, I do not agree with most things he wrote up there. Even though, his past predictions have had over 70% accuracy. By God's grace, Nigeria will and must work under Tinubu's administration. 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Tinubu Will Win 2023 Presidential Election But by naijainstinct: 11:02am On Mar 21, 2023 |
poiZon:I just stumbled on this post. Very objective analysis way before Tinubu picked his running mate. You should be a political analyst Sir |
Politics / Re: I Quarreled With My Igbo Neighbor About Yoruba People by naijainstinct: 10:11am On Mar 21, 2023 |
Rikkely:During OBJ's tenure, they were compensated with the Senate Presidency. But guess how they handled that? We ended up having up to 4 SPs within 8 years. Face it, you are not mature enough to hold sensitive national positions. Always divisive and bitter. 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Have You Been Scammed Before?....share Your Thoughts And Experiences Please by naijainstinct: 9:47am On Mar 21, 2023 |
AderonkeOlaniyi:and you are a useless person. If you speak I'll of Nigeria, evil will never depart from your household. Amen |
Politics / Re: Kaduna State Held LG Polls In 2018 And In 2021 Using Electronic Voting Machines by naijainstinct: 8:47am On Mar 21, 2023 |
Solsix:Always? Like the 2020 US Presidential election? Stop deceiving yourselves! There is no 100% free and fair election anywhere in the world. Degree of transparency varies and are higher in some places than others but absolutely fair? LMAO 3 Likes |
Travel / Re: Canadian Express Entry/Federal Skilled Worker Program - Connect Here Part 11 by naijainstinct: 8:44am On Mar 21, 2023 |
bekayy:❤️❤️❤️ 3 Likes |
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