Zionmdde:

Watch that released video and tell me that the guy looks like he is balling. Moreover do you know if the guy had presented himself to the girl as a hardworking guy

We are always quick to generalize

Exactly, that's what these idiots don't know. I know many yahoo guys whose girlfriends and wives have no idea they are doing yahoo behind many legit things they are fronting.

Whoever knew that Nigerian young guy that made Forbes list few years ago was codedly into yahoo?

Obakoolex:
Even if a girl am dating put a sleeping pill in my food just because she doesn't want me to go out or cos of her own flimsy interest, that will be the end of our relationship because I know she's capable of poisoning me one-day.

People will just see clear hand writing on the wall they will still be waiting for Daniel to come and interpret in plain English

What makes a man settle for this kind of situation with a wife is if it took sooooo much difficulty to get that particular wife.


They would forever have this heavy psychological challenge that it would be soooooo difficult to get another wife/girlfriend.

jaephoenix:

This is just plain funny!
So replying someone in a religious thread is now being disturbed by their god?
Going by this analogy, Christians are truly disturbed by allah judging by the way they flood Muslim threads so much to masturbate there. In fact, Seun had to introduce a pledge to deter christians from wanking there, still they took the pledge and continued to troop there. Even here in the general religious group, Christians like TenQ, AdvocateJare and 5 others constantly open threads about Islam.
Allah is truly the greatest for troubling these christians

Replies with antagonistic criticisms/enquires is "being disturbed".

jaephoenix:

What is the common denominator of those causing roadblocks, harassing me at night, and accusing me of having hard-ons about yahweh here? They are all Christians! So its not wrong to extrapolate here.
I have answered you here how your fellow christians are hounding muslims all over Nairaland

The common denominator of those harassing you here about yaweh is "you".


You are the common denominator.


You provoke/lure them to hound you

At times you succeeded in suppressing/bullying some.

At times you loose.

There is nothing like "fellow christians".
Or "fellow Muslim".

It's one man per head. Or one head per man.

Mind you "it's not all christians that hound Muslims". So please don't generalise and conclude.

Zxcvbnmghtr:


BIG MISTAKE.

Reno is just a stupid coward. From the very day I heard the rubbish reason he has decided his only war with obi/obidients was due to the latter's attack on his one year old daughter, I had a more follinsh impression of him.


That's what is called an alibi. An emotional excuse to do what he really wants to do.

Is he saying that he never said worse to Apc or Buhari during his tenure?

Also doesnt he provoke others online to the point where they stoop as low as insulting his child?

Why is he no longer supporting atiku online for last few months at the same time no longer attacking APC/Tinubu?

The timing is beyond coincidental.

jaephoenix:

You ignored my question and vented a completely cretarded post.
I don't remember my convo with you. Please remind me. And no have no control over where or who I converse with. And if you say I have inferiority complex, no problem. Whatever rocks your sweet boat, sir. Of course there's not much atheists in Nigeria, if there were we wouldn't be in this mess.
Imagine a psychopath projecting his psychosis on a normal person. Lol

I never profiled you and I never profiled anyone based on his believes.

But you profile anyone and everyone that mentions God on this forum.

Funny thing is that I live&relate perfectly with aetist as I do with my similar believers.

Just so you know I personally feel there are some inconsistences in the Bible. But that doesn'take me strike all the pages in it all out.

I wdnt allow aetists or gays or any sect with fewer population be in any mess.

It's not my kind of character.

jaephoenix:

Meaning christians enjoy more wealth, health, prosperity etc and suffer more sickness, poverty etc than atheists?
Really? How does this make sense, genius?

So this is where you ran to?

I thot you had stamina and endurance for back and forth gbas gbos?


We would have done this till the end of Nairaland's existence.


U are everywhere setting conversation-traps for believers of their own God.

Then when they fall into your trap, you want to pretend as if the conversation started naturally.

We know your type. You have serious inferiority complex issues.

And it feels Soo lonely not having lots of artists around you.

You are freaking bored and lonely most times.
Makes you want to engage others from other religious beliefs.


It's a psychological problem that may lead to mental problems last last.

Op. Find any secured bush around your school and farm.

U can plant cassava or Corn(during corn season).

Or yam (during yam season)

Then you would only have to bother about soups and stew from your 5k per week.

anayolity:


My dear, you see those people who sometimes say they don't carry things on their mind are the worst..... If something happens the first time depends on how serious it is, I'll give it a benefit of doubt, try it again and see.

People don't understand that someone can forget how you slapped them but not what you said to them.

Exactly.

jaephoenix:

2. Please can you show me screenshot of the specific post I was disturbed about your god, and how I am sensitive or believe in such a god. Thank you

https://www.nairaland.com/7877591/nigeria-2nd-most-prayerful-country/13#126462478

Above was when you got you first HardOn, immediately the satellite around your Di#k messaged you that some on nairaland was talking about prayers.


https://www.nairaland.com/post/126462478
This one above was when you just had to unzip your trousers


https://www.nairaland.com/7877591/nigeria-2nd-most-prayerful-country/14#126502446
Then you just cudnt handle the urge that comes with your high libido.
You have to self-service it all out as from this third reaction.


Did you notice that I haven't even bothered to ask what you believe in or what you don't believe in?

Cos I'm not in a competition/comparison with you.


But you are soooo much In that with me and sooo many God believers in here.


Sir! Go and meet those your local neighbours and address them. If you like you bottle break their heads and tell police that it's me that sent you.

Or better still "go and hustle and make some money to afford a more convenient and lawful area where such disturbances don't happen".

jaephoenix:

1.… [b]and if you hear in the news or Nairaland that an atheist beat up his neighbors [/b]disturbing him in the mornings, you'll be the first christian spewing trash that such atheist is just disturbed and envious of those Christians serving their god. This is not new. Na una way.
2. Please can you show me screenshot of the specific post I was disturbed about your god, and how I am sensitive or believe in such a god. Thank you
3. Again, asking you to give evidence of your favorite god creating the earth would lead to a dead end. So no need to continue on that particular thread of discourse

U seem to be a master of extrapolation, digressions and counterproductive accusations. As if you are looking for someone else to blame for your choices in life.

U would have to look in other people to get what you need from me.

Also me and you can do this for the next 20years of our lives or until nairaland comes to an end.
I said "deal with them". I never suggested a method you should utilize in dealing with them.

It could be dealing with them same way you are dealing with nairalanders here without violence or stuffs that would warrant your incarceration.

And you seem to have a skill to transfer accusations from one person to another innocent person.

In that your post you mentioned about people around you cashing road blocks and disturbing you with their religion.

In that same post you now counter-accused me of being the one with inferiority-complex.


Was I the one that blocked the way to your house with my religion?

No, I'm not.


But you jump on other people here whoever credits his own almighty God and the bible.

Meanwhile they are hardly/never the first to enthusiastically chatise you for worshipping your Tea-kettle in your kitchen.


What does that tell you?

You are the one that suffers from inferiority-complex.

QED....

jaephoenix:

1. Oh you switched mouth. You clearly said yahweh created everything. I pointed out deadly bacteria and you suddenly went to accusing science. Where is the consistency?
2. Please show me where I'm bothered about your god. [/b]For all I care, you can worship your doughnut, I wont quarrel with you. [b]The issue is when you wanna force me to believe it. For example, waking me up by 4am during your morning cry, sticking fliers into my car door and window, blocking roads during crusades and awareness campaigns etc. How many times have you seen an atheist do such whether in Nigeria or anywhere in the world? None. So who has the inferiority complex?

What you should do is find those particular people in your compound or next door that did all these very terrible things to you and deal with them.

Why avoid them and start picking on distant unknown innocent believers of the almighty God who I believe in?

You have lied. You have been bothered about my God from the very first few post I mentioned Him in this thread.

Your sensitivity to our God is directly proportional to our belief in Him.



As regards the correlation of science to God you try hard to hold against me.


Yeah I mentioned God when needed.

And science wen needed.


God created the earth and all scientific reactions that takes place in it are all as a result of the world he allowed to become after the first Sin committed on Earth.

You can worship your Ogun and Frying pan if u want to, I can never bother you.


But don't show traits of envy when others worship their own God.

syntekelite:


Fyi being silent is different from quiet, There is a big diff and the op was talking about the quiet type of character not the being silent type, being silent is a tactic for whatever purpose the person intends( which are the kind of people you had interactions with). While being quiet is natural for some people cos they were born that way so stop confusing both.. a naturally quiet person has nothing to do with character its just like being an introvert or a glutton so you cant judge such person generally cos good or bad exists in any type of character..
Am naturally quiet mr nairamaniac and i have none of the traits u mentioned above cos me being quiet has been from a kid that even my mom kept telling me i had to change but why i cldnt is cos we are who we are.. a lot of relationships ended cos of that cos once you talk too much am out of your life and i dont gossip in fact everyone tells me their secrets cos they have found out that they will never hear it from anyone else..i hate people who gossip and i broke up with someone close fr jst that reason..
We are quiet doesnt mean we dont talk but we listen more than we talk esp with people who have high intellect, my homies know that once they start talking about girl escapades and irrelevant stuffs am gone..i prefer being alone reading ,playing chess, black jack or poker.. so you got it all wrong..

Your shots went over to bar.


I'm reffering to those that are DELIBERATELY- SILENT over issues just as the OP Refered to.
Being silent entails a conscious effort.
Meaning "even when you are capable of speaking, you chose to deliberately stay silent".

You are reffering to those that are QUIET in Nature or by virtue of Deformity&upbringing.
For sure anyone can be quiet by nature.


Did you hear the Op talk about imbeciles here in this post?

Even in my own quote you requoted, I never used the word "QUIET" in that post.

So Sir, if you are quiet by virtue of upbringing or imbecililty or mental issues, you shouldnt even contribute to this Thread in the first place.

jaephoenix:

Some posts ago, you were certain it was your god that created everything on earth. Then I reminded you about some of the bad stuff he created, and in a heartbeat you switched the creation stick from yahweh to science. All by yourself.
By the way do you know I pray to my phone everyday, and it has given me riches. Even though I don't get millions, its still enough. My phone is a wonderful god. Sounds familiar?

There is no switch of mouth here from me.
God supercedes everything on earth including science.


U are on same boat with me.


Same way to pray to your phone and you phone is your God.

Is same way I pray to my own God I believe in.


I'm not arguing against you believing in your phone as your God.
So why the fuss from you about me believing in my own God?

Worship your phone let me worship my own God


Meanwhile why do aetist usually have problem when we christians believe in our own God?


It seems to be becoming like inferiority-complex or envy.


Meanwhile we christians don't even take it seriously whenever you all show us even if it's Iron or stone to be your own God or belief.

anayolity:


Walai, this is soooo me, I'll rather keep shut and walk away

If you cannot express yourself without hurting who offended you, it means you are worse than your offender.

Or have a worseoff problem than he/she does.


Meaning in hindsight(after you have been offended) , you had deserved the offense that you experienced from your partner.

anayolity:


Nahhh that's not, I may address the issue there and then if I find it very relevant to respond, I have a very terrible temper that no one knows about and the things I say when I'm angry are very crazy.... So if I see it's not important to talk because of the tension or things that are irreparable when the heat dies down.... We can always talk about it with a clear head

Well it's best as you know how to handle your own temperament.

I see nothing wrong in talking about things with a clear head.
Infact I do that too.


But just pray not to jam those kinds of idiots that would still chatise you for "habouring issues in your mind over a period of time".


Those are the worst kinds of idiots.
No matter your kind manner of bringing up the past issues. They would still see you as evil for storing it in your mind for period of time.


Most women&men are like that.

anayolity:


Walai, this is soooo me, I'll rather keep shut and walk away

You would walk away completely silent from the marriage/relationship?


Or you would walk away from the kitchen to the bedroom?

Or from main house to boy's quarters?

I guess everything is reformatted whenever you physically change location ?
Wonderful

She insults you in the dinning front of her relatives.


You walk away to the bedroom, then it's like it never happened cos it's a brand new location?


Or maybe she would never ever come to your new found location?

highchief1:
I get u bro.I have been married for over 15yrs and somehow it’s working for me.like I earlier said ppl are wired differently.I [b]can be with u and u have 1bn and I need 200 naira to survive I won’t tell u.[/b]I’ll rather die than complain.I’m not an easy person.

Hmmm! So if your wife hammers 1billion naira today today, you won't discuss with her on what and what could be done with part or all of the money for the betterment of herself or the family?


You would just keep quiet and ignore the good news like you are watching it all on TV?

jaephoenix:

1. Its of no use asking you to prove your god gives natural resources. Even though there's absolutely no proof, it doesn't stop you or other religious kooks from saying their favorite sky daddy created everything.
By the way, if you say your skydaddy created everything, then he's an arsehole for creating anthrax, Ebola, Lassa etc
2. Youve been praying for close to 70 years for this country but it keeps getting worse year after year. A sensible person would ask questions why, but not you lot. You guys are wonderful souls

My first convictions about the existence of God are through the things I have asked of him and he has given to me or done for me.


Even if I don't get a million more things of what I get, I hold on to the ones I have gotten.

The world is prone to harzards and outbreaks due to biological and scientific reactions.

As a believer I only know the power of the Lord is above all those things.

highchief1:
I understand you.ppl are bad you will deliberately hurt someone and be expecting them to come and be settling issues.I just leave you to your conscience that if u have any.Most of the time people who hurt me they come back and apologize without me even complaining.

You are still extrapolating and digressing from the TOPIC.

This topic specifically reffers to people/someone you are in a RELATIONSHIP with.

Not some random persons that would be passing-by, hurt you and come back to apologize.

Would you be okay to allow your wife insult you in public, go by and later come back to apologize to you?

The answer would be "where is she GOING-BY-TO"? or "COMING-BACK-TO"?

When you both stay in the same house and take care of the same home, workers and children?

Its a different ballgame when there is RELATIONSHIP involved

And you are still not adhering to the Topic.

talk2hb1:


I guess you are not good at listening to people, how will they express themselves to others but not you?

Quiet People are not Silent to begin with, quiet people express their opinions it’s just that you are not listening to them. When you are not being listen to what do you do, you go silent till when they are ready to listen to you!

Yes, they would express themselves to others rather than you that upset them.
Cos they are too angry to even discuss with the very person that upset them. That usually happens alot.

The TOPIC emphasizes on SILENCE, SILENT PEOPLE. Not on QUIET-PEOPLE.

It talks about complete DELIBERATE SILENCE.

highchief1:
im not sure I carry face.for example you may not just see me again.I’m very lazy when it comes to talking.I also believe everybody know what they are doing.you that messed me up so you did it so I’ll come and be talking plenty talk.carry ur wahala go I don’t have time.that’s my way of life.Cureently I don’t think I have enemies.just doing my thg.I can be called an introvert

Anyone can easily do these things you say here to a passerby or someone you are not building a future with.


If someone unknown slaps me from a moving bus, I doubt I would think beyond that very day about the incident.

But if it's someone you are sharing a future with, a family with, money with, love with, I doubt your proffer solution of "carry your wahala go", albeit in silence would be your reaction.

Sheistoopretty:
Go girlllllllllllll

Its better than ending up with a B®oke Wr3tched Nigerian man

Why are you exposing your mother to the public this way?


No one knew till now that she married a broke wr3tched Nigerian.

phemmyfour:
That's the way it should be. A man should be a man of few words. Only talk when it's necessary and your partner will come to understand that you're not a parrot.

Hope you realize that the topic here is saying "silence"(not talking at all) ?

It's okay to talk in few words rather than complete silence.

Whenever I decide to keep total silence, the woman should just know I already on my secrete way out of the relationship, which wouldn't take more that 1 or 2 weeks of GOODBYE-SEX-SOUVENIR.

syntekelite:


The right word you were looking for is silent people are calculating and deep it has nothing to do with being mean cos even happy good talkative people can be mean

Most silent people are cowards and gossips.
Cos those things they don't tell you, would be told by them to third and forth-parties.



Better believe this and know peace.

They are gossips and backstabbers.

They always want to wait for the perfect climax of the issue to express themselves.
When they don't eventually get that climax, they deliberately create the climax.

Some men actually think being More-mean brings them more respect and fear from their partners&friends.

It's just really silly and eventually self-deceiving.

I'm talking from high experience of being at the receiving end in few occasions.

highchief1:
me I no sabi address issues sha.if u misbehave I go Dey look u.I don’t talk my countenance towards u will show u weda I’m happy with u or sad

For a guy that's a very girly and bitchy thing to do.
Meaning "you would be CARRYING FACE".
Or expelling NEGATIVE ENERGY to your surrounding.

As a man, you should only put up the angry face for the very day/moment the issue occurred.

Doesn't mean you should force smiles. But address other matters that a necessary without bitchy-attitude or carried-over aggressions.

Samantha124:
I'm usually silent when I'm angry... I can't shout and if I attempt to speak when I'm angry, I'm gonna say harsh things that I might end up regretting.

U should learn to be angry with someone's action rather than with the person. Especially when you are building a relationship.

Two has become one.


It's like wanting to cut off your own leg becos it's in pains. U wdnt do that to your own leg, would you?

So why hurting someone cos he offended you, and you claim to want to be whole with the person?


I for one, I speak out but very calmly and respectfully.
And even when I'm forced to say the hurtful-truths, I still say them politely.

I tend to want you to be convinced you represent all i feel of you. Like if I feel my partner is silly or stupid.

I must find a way to convince her politely that "she is silly or stupid".

Woodshot:
You still can't give enough reason why It's the best website in Nigeria. But I must give you your flowers and props because this time around you didn't sound dumb like on your last sponsored post where you said something along the lines of. Cheaper Cars For Nigerians As Dollar Crashes To N1000 To Naira by Carmartng:

That post was very dumb. But did he say "naira crashes". Or "Dollar crashes"?

Okortor:
Happy 70th birthday to a first class monarch and happy 7th anniversary to one of the few classy king (OBA) we have in Nigeria.

this OBA must be a STRONG MAN, 77, only the wise will understand. May Kf

continue to guide you sir.......

Are you trying to say that the OBA is a Black Ax member?

Wealthoptulent:

Knock engine sho gbo!
Let me tell u a story.

My friend uses 2007 corolla, so he gave in to idea to take his kids to school, park there & take N200 bike to work place. To save cost of N1,500

Unfortunately right I front of school gate where e parked, dem moved his BRAIN BOX for him corolla, purchased new one 110k, technician collected 15k + transport.
E save N1,500 to take large 130k, e wise or e dumb?

They would had stolen his brainbox at any other place.

Probably the car wasnt secured enough. Which would have been the case anywhere else.

jaephoenix:

1. Corrections, Yahweh didn’t give Nigeria oil. Its a natural resource which many other irreligious countries received.
2. Part of the prayers people pray is for Yahweh to change the leaders mind so these oil dollars get to them. But guess what? Yahweh has ignored that part of the prayers. He doesn't just give a praying fvck about where the money goes.
3. How exactly does Yahweh punish those corrupt politicians/leaders?
Last I check, they live in big mansions, drive the exotic cars, get the best women, have kids schooling abroad, have access to best healthcare etc

God is the giver of all things.

Natural resources are blessings from God, irrespective of the beliefs of the citizens in those countries.
And those that believe in God in those Countries still give him the Glory for those blessings.

As much as we pray for God to change the mind of the leaders, so that the oil money gets to us. We also pray for other means, like allowing us to have the right-leader on Top.

As much as the wicked leaders are enjoying.

We pray they change their ways either through Love or pains.

JaneYave:
That's better. One love 😍