...some women take wickedness to the highest level.

Just imagine what the man is passing through now.

emela9ja:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q8POQr0LFyM

Why men have every right to cheat on their women – Nigerian man gets tongues wagging.

...nonsense.

... Good project. Great vision. Excellent Ndigbo once again.

My main concern is all about the maintenance culture aspect of this lofty project.

post=103695502:
Below is the Terminal building of Anambra International Cargo and Passenger Airport Umueri almost ready for commissioning. Only the escalators, elevators and a carousel are awaiting installation.

Meanwhile, on Monday July 12, 2021, the Minister of Finance, Zainab Shamsuna Ahmed and the Minister of Industry, Trade and Investment, Otunba Niyi Adebayo flew into the Airport in the aircrafts shown in two of picture attached.

Anambra to the world!

...this is good. The enterprising excellent spirit of Ndigbo cannot be defeated.

Please, let's keep the legacy of this great edifice with a thorough MAINTENANCE CULTURE.

...let your cousin not forget the days of his humble beginning.

...senseless.

...this is a great masterpiece.

Full of knowledge and wisdom.

ImaIma1:


I still disagree.

So if she falls in love with a guy that is made and he's also in love with her, she should refuse the love because he is made and go for a man that is just starting up.

Don't get me wrong o. I am a realist. I like to look at things from all perspectives. I didn't marry a made man. I picked between one that I was even earning more than over the one that had successful business because of my personal conviction.

And today, he earns more than me and we are fine. But, I have close friends who married the ones that were made and they are doing fine. I didn't see anything wrong in marrying up. It is not everyone that will start small.

Money doesn't actually make the marriage, it is the two people involved that do.

...your last paragraph is a lie hatched from the pit of hell that female specie /gender used to deceive or hoodwink men into marriage.

It's when the marriage is over that the man will realized that from the woman's perspective, money is actually what makes the marriage.

Sixfeetbelle:


1) Of course they can. Never said they can't. In fact in my initial post, I said only very few will stay true to a man.

2) Where did I write this? I need to see it. The only thing to infer from what I said is that some men don't respect the bro code. The simple fact that she belongs to your friend is enough reason to send her away when she comes gallivanting. Very few men honor that code. This is akin to the 9th commandment. "Do not covet your neighbours wife."

3) Where did you get this? It doesn't appear anywhere on my post.

4) I'm an objective person. Have always been. That you think my post is gibberish doesn't make it one. You wanted me to condemn her actions and I didn't, hence your counter post. The only thing my post made was a suggestion to eradicate/diminish the problem.

What is your own solution to the problem?

...your number one answer makes a hypocrite.

Women are the gatekeepers to sex. It's natural for a man to approach a woman and it's also natural for the woman to say No.

Cheating is evil from both genders but who brought a child home is the biggest loser.

... women and hypocrisy are like twins.

Same women pleading for men to accept a cheating wife will be in the fore front advising their brothers not to do that.

Infact, it's the man's sisters that will violently reject the idea of accepting a cheating wife than the man's brothers.

Racoon:


https://www.google.com/amp/s/dailypost.ng/2020/06/26/leave-fulani-alone-stop-endangering-lives-of-yorubas-islamic-group-warns-amotekun/

...Prof Ishaq Akintola is a useful idiot.

...Arewa hypocrites.

When it comes to southern Nigeria, they will quickly divide it into 3 - SS, SE and SW. But when it comes to Northern Nigeria, boom it becomes one North.

The greatest illusion is when someone is lying to himself.

BlongTrendies:


Report them to their local elders. It's so simple.

...some of their members are very wicked set of people. They will hate you for no just cause. Too envious .

...show me that neighbor that everyone knows in the neighborhood that uses juju, spell, very wicked then I will show you a Jehovah witness person.

Mikespecialone:
Very early this morning, this monkey came out of the bush into my house. I spotted it, called two guys to kill it......

God self know, I never chop meat for long and he sent me this....Front page please

...guy why naa?

You just ate a whole human being.

So sad.

Preciousgirl:
My 30 year old brother is going to marry a 43 year old woman. The woman is never married before and has no kids but been in 7 different past relationships.

I am not endorsing this, what do you advise?

...some of you are really hypocrite. So because it's your brother now you don't want it and age is no longer just a number again.

If it's another guy who asked us this question, girls could have been preaching to us how love it's the ultimate and not age.

Hypocrisy everywhere.

...where is AMETOKUN?

MrBrownJay1:


the above is the definition of being a cheap golddigging pay as you go olosho.... you dont find a man attractive but if he spends money/gifts on you, suddenly you find him attractive and will value him as a possible mate?!?!?!?

...this is the summary of how most Nigerian women behaves.

Money gives them INSTANT AND AUTOMATIC FEELINGS for you.

oluwaahmed:
Apart from greedy hoes that ask their BF for money like tic-tac-toe most Nigerian ladies don't have the independent capability their counterparts abroad have. This is because of our culture. From the day a Nigerian lady is born she will be dependent on her parents up till after her university graduation. Even after she gets work she will now still be asking her guy for money and will wana contribute little or nothing even after she's married to the family upkeep. However abroad as a lady you can start working from junior high or even after graduation from senior high. This is because of the independent nature of their culture. They are thrust with a sense of responsibility at an early age & they know going to college is expensive so its a responsibility they do for themselves without necessarily needing their parents. Although one can say that its because there are plentiful jobs and numerous student loans that a secondary school graduate can get a job that pays minimum wage which he/she can use to pay for rent and utilities. They do not need to ask you for money when dating cos they know everyone is hustling to make ends meet.

...everything you said here has been neutralized by the fact that you admitted that "even when Nigerian girls are working they will still be demanding money from their boyfriends"

So it's not a matter of financial independence for Nigerian women rather STRUCTURAL ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY SYNDROME (SEMS) . This is the difference between Nigerian women and their counterpart from abroad.

It's a sad development.

Ariza:
Oga Toks is barely trying to build a castle in the air by dishing out this advice.

Take Money and Sex out of Nigerians relationship and watch it fall. Men spend to show affection and feel complete while women open legs to show affection and feel complete in Nigerian relationship. Now advising one to withdraw which isn't even possible is like suggesting to the other to close legs. Lol

Until Nigerians get the true meaning and purpose of relationship, they may never get it right.

...excellently summarized.

SweetCunt97:
Twisting it to suit yourself huh? Stay there and form stingy and a better caring man will take her away.

...and tomorrow another better caring man will take her away again.

See, women are the ones that made themselves as an object for sale.

NevetsIbot:
I really must say that I'm not Impressed with what a few Nairalanders are saying. Especially the fact that some of it is coming from ubunja. Sighs


You mean to tell me that you'd have sex, satisfy yourself and get up whether or not she's satisfied? That's the height of selfishness. It's also even more saddening because these thoughts just show how much you guys have sexually objectified ladies. All y'all just want to do is cum and stand up.... With someone you're supposed to be in love with!!!!!


Stop trying to twist the bible support your claim. The Bible also asked a man tk love his wife... And to love, you must act it. Senseless bigots. These people are human beings too. They may have a lot of shortcomings but it does not make almost all of them useless.



For the record.. This is coming from someone who's not new to the world of female. I'm no woman wrapper but I try to do what's right..... There is no guarantee that your virgin girlfriend will not cheat on you. Just the same way people differ in characters, libido differs too in people.


As long as she's not a prostitute and isn't laying the pussy up to the next guy who comes for her, I have no right to judge her. It's her body. She's an adult and is responsible for her choices.


Y'all can take your traditional thoughts about female subjugation and shove it up your azzz. Cretins

...A woman shouldn't lie on the bed like a log of Benue woods unhinged, unmovable expecting an IMMACULATE SEXUAL SATISFACTION TO HAPPEN.

Manner stopped from falling from the sky since 25 BC.

WORDWORLD:


My dear brother, VIRGINS either male or female have high expectations about sex. THOSE WHO MASTURBATE THE MOST ARE VIRGINS. THEY GOT SEXUAL FANTASIES.

In REALITY, most people's first sexual encounter comes with DISAPPOINT and they tend to ask in their minds ISN'T SEX OVER RATED? With such a mind set unchanged over time. A once a virgin lady (true Life story) became tempted to see if the grass is greener on the other side. She seduced a young boy of 16 living in the neighbourhood just to have a taste of what another Pen!s feels like. Adventure went wrong, the boy was too immature to keep their sexual affair a secret one, the cat was let out of the bag eventually to everyone's surprise.

She broke down in tears only to mutter this words " I SWEAR I NEVER EVER HAD SEX BEFORE I GOT MARRIED. THE TRUTH IS I CANT GET TO UNDERSTAND WHY SEX FEELS SO AWFUL. I DID THIS OUT OF CURIOSITY. I AM VERY SORRY".

We all felt very sorry for her. Cases like this are real.

What Sixfeetbelle is telling us is that there is more to just marrying a VIRGIN thinking that and so, it AUTOMATICALLY GUARANTEES FIDELITY. Their is so much more to it. Infact the real test of 'ABSTAINANCE' is after that first sex in marriage after being disvirgined. THAT'S WHEN THE VEILS COVERING YOUR EYES BEFORE LETS GO AND YOUR MIND BECOMES A BATTLE FIELD AGAINST SERIOUS TEMPTATIONS, BECAUSE THAT IS WHEN YOU START FEELING SEXUAL URGES YOU NEVER FELT BEFORE, AND START SEE THE WORLD IN A DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVE WHICH IS MORE SENSUAL, THE VEILS ARE NO MORE THERE, THAT INNOCENCE HAS BEEN TAKEN AWAY.

...You guys keep on talking bullshit.

Is there anything like "male virgins"?

Please give an insight either in the Holy book, historical book, scientific and biological excerpts where males are referred as virgin.

Virginity is ONLY associated with women. Period!!

TheMohican:


Every generation of women have had those with high libidos, even your grandmother might have, this is the first generation where women are honest about it.

...honest about hypocrisy?

Same women that told us that THEY DON'T LIKE SEX. Don't be deceived.

Adanne7:
If as a man you are not a virgin...Uncle you don't deserve a Virgin. Karma is a Bitch! You wanna marry a Virgin then you also stay a Virgin. I shake my head for you guys... '' you cant go around swimming difference Oceans! And yet want to marry Virgins'' you can't reap where you didn't sow... God is not a Baba ijebu....Men you better change oo...

...Agreed . And a rich man should marry a rich woman while a poor girl should make sure that she marry a poor guy.

Fair enough?

Vick4rill:
hope this ass licking will not put shit in your mouth

...Is it your asslicking?

Ariza:
I hope I'm safe.

...you are very safe my dear.

Just that I want to know you more. If possible we can discus aside this platform.

Just attracted by your level of intelligence, sense of humor .

Yes something good and big can come out of nairaland. Impossibility is nothing.

Ariza:
In all fairness,with the way things are going in Nigeria and the world at large. I will raise no eyebrow if the rich marry the rich and the poor marry the poor. With the absence/ limited existence of selfless/true love and the level of self-centeredness and fake love displayed by people, i will not urge anyone to make unnecessary sacrifice as a proof of love.

..please Ariza where are you from?

Ariza:
Lol see my life no hard oooo, on some other thread we(buka and I) will continue logical discussion where we stop. I can't fry my brain over inconsequential arguments. Read through the thread and see if I typed anything wrong especially the one she quoted to rant. . If person wan play, we will play. If she wan fight I no get time. Lemme just carry myself and go.


This life I can't kill myself ooo.

... I like your sense of humor. You are very intelligent too.

Ariza:
That's your headache to deal with, I don't give a hoot.

When you are ready to make sense, let me know.

...This is not fair naa.

I'm beginning to like you but you are making me to exercise caution.

Ariza:
In all fairness,with the way things are going on Nigeria and the world at large. I will raise no eyebrow if the rich marry the rich and the poor marry the poor. With the absence/ limited existence of selfless/true love and the level of self-centeredness and fake love displayed by people, i will not urge anyone to make unnecessary sacrifice to prove love.

...excellent.

Romanoff:


Inexperience?

Rotfl. Kindly keep your advice to yourself cause it ended in insults. My fiancé has become my best friend even though he knows my bestie. My bestie is also engaged to be married.

I might not see my bestie every day, I haven't even seen him in months but we are still very close and it has been platonic all these three years.

I know the crowd I roll with, they are like minded people like me. We don't go about thinking of how to sleep with each other but how to elevate each other spiritually, in our careers and business and psychologically.

Likes attract likes.

Bye.

...don't worry UNAWARE can beat even the strongest. Keep swimming in pride.