is virginity a pride or lack of opportunity

I don't get it; are you ashamed of being a virgin?

@amynat,
IT IS A PRIDE JUST KEEP IT IF U ARE ONE,U MAY BE VERY LUCKY,

thanks guys because the person am dating doesn't value it, he is always like virginity doesn't mean anything this days but i love dis guy and i want to keep my virginity for him.

Proud to be one. Please sex be4 marriage is fornication which is a sin. Remember the prayer of a sinner is an abortion unto the sight of God. Know u are muslim but i bliv it is same as the xtians right? Beside u shld know that disflowerin urself will make u a sex freak. Promise u

Its a pride, its obedience to God, its refinement, its chastity, its morality, its GOOD! Don't let any man tempt you to doing what you don't want. Not because you are saving it for your husband but as obedience of God's commandment, because husbands may come and go but God remains forever.

And let me add one point, sometimes girls say they don't want to indulge in premarital sex yet they do not prevent the chances of it happening. I mean they would visit the guy's house, hug him, etc but then say no to sex. But sometimes they lose control and give in, and regret it later. I'm not saying you do anything like that but there's no such thing as too much advice. So, my sister, if you know you don't want anybody messing with you, keep away from being alone with him, stop touching him, don't let him touch you, don't do anything that COULD lead to sex, o!

Be careful o! And keep your virginity, its pride o no be lack of oppurtunity. What do you think of the beautiful girl who's still a virgin? Its not because guys aren't after her like hot-cake, she's got the oppurtunity but she CHOOSES not to give in. Keep strong, sis, and Good luck!

amynat:

thanks guys because the person am dating doesn't value it, he is always like virginity doesn't mean anything this days but i love this guy and i want to keep my virginity for him.

U want to keep it for him or from him? If it's the former, aint u with him? Anywayz, mabe he values it (but that's not the issue); the dude just wants to hit the sack, that's the only reason he's trying to "devalue" ur virginity. The truth is ur virginity is only of value to u!.

TRUE TRUE, HIS TRYIN REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY ON YOU. MAKIN OUT LIKE ITS NUTHIN TO BROADCAST ABT. IT SHOWS UR DISCIPLINED, IF HE REALLY LOVES YOU HE WOULD RESPECT THAT.

Lady Dee, I'm feeling u, let's rub mind

Keep it up!

@ topic,

Both!