[quote author=Adanna28 post=39660576]Majority of the time I try not to make it awkward for both of us, I usually say Thank you I'm flattered really, but I'm already taken( which is true)

Some take it in their stride and we remain friends, it the other lot of guys that I tend to get annoyed with whom think "trying harder means acceptance" they are the ones I am fully firm with.

Because it get to the point of him trying to override what I'm saying and disrespecting my intelligence.

Plus u can't force someone to be with you sha, it never lasts long. [/quote True talk, u can't force someone to be with you. .....]

[quote author=HeavenShield post=39585133]I will advise you pretty well.
There is no reason to worry. The only worry now is to Reason with yourself. hahaha.
Sit down and begin to think concrete about a good home. It is better to take your time so to avoid setting down with the wrong woman. Two things you will need to do.
1. Go back to the roots(mother or Father for advice)
2. Meet a Genuine clergy..
3. Think about the girl you loved while in school..
4. Which girl do you admire most in church..if you don't have a church, start being regular. If you can't go early, it is better you go late.
5. If you are not ready to be offended and accept annoyance, you can't marry(am sorry, but women can be annoying most times.)
6. Train your life to accept marital responsibility.
7. Pray to Jesus..
God Bless you. Wish you the best.

[Best advice to a post i ever read]

[quote]At Grahyt,

You quoted OP's post without saying anything at the end of it. Lol - sleep still dey catch you this morning?

At OP,

Check out a thread in the romance section titled ''If You Are 30+ and Single Let's Talk''. I think it might help.

Siamia a lady authored the thread and a WhatsApp chat group was created to enhance healthy friendships & romantic relationships in a safe, secure and be your brother's keeper kind of way.

Siamia vouches that members are authentic & sincere, well truth is she only said that about the men I don't know about my gender.

Read the thread first (the few pages you can) and then decide if you want to join the chat group and see where that leads to. No pressure ooo abeg just keep an open mind and explore the possibilities of friendships first.

Only tasteless and classless women will be all over you because of your job, apartment and car. Tasteful women with class (like moi ) will be more concerned with your manners, personal hygiene & grooming then your overall comportment as a man.

Me - I'm a sucker for

1. Neat men with shaved armpits, clean underwear and surroundings. That your apartment won't count if its messy & untidy.

2. Well spoken & written English which reveals a depth of intelligence (like that dude LordReed I am electronically attracted to him just for his written English too bad he's married).

3. Courteous & well mannered men amongst other things like

No offence meant bro, but I ain't really feeling your written English enough to gravitate towards you as a woman. It's good but could be better with punctuation marks where necessary. Just saying no offence meant.


[ Haba like kilode, with this hit of yours...... hope you wont make 31 single.]

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