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vichel, i follow your talk because you are very correct. but i rather tell her to stay off than me leavin my job 4such.

she gets angry seeing you with any girl, she always wants to know your in & out, she gives you a kiss & hugs you when coming in & when leaving for home after work not wanting to know whether you like it or not. and all she does for you makes you kind of like her more & more but she is 2years older than you are. can you be her lover?

fredsmith, so u won go dey kiss free mouth haha. well, go with ur girl too so that as u kiss other ladies some other men kiss urs like that too.

na wa o, naija guys una dey o. infact ladies r in trouble, see talks about ladies. easy o but i think i would go your way drayslide

well, it's nt a normal thing for any normal man to do but some normal ladies do it. as for guys it nt too common but i see it as madness.

Uju,
(Uju4eva: I know, I know, boys should admittely go to the girl and ask them about their relationship. But many boys talk about me being ugly and everything,  and is that their sign of liking me, or what? And what else, do they stare alot, I mean what?)
1who likes u wouldn't see u as an ugly girl, he would like u with ur faults & such guys look inside of u (ur heart). Believe in urself & be good, u r beautiful.

Getting to know ur lover killed ur ex lover because he loves u & thinks nothing should stand between u & him, how would u feel. Is it really worth it? is he not supposed to want ur happiness at all times if he really loves u even when u r nt with him?

I think i should show love but not as much as i feel 4her, until i am convinced that she share the same amount of love with me & above all ardors the respect i have 4her. with love comes respect.

omo u mean o
"woo!
i can't stand it even if its on the soul of her feet. God forbid nobody tries it with me." well, me too i wont dare stand it.

But ladies in the house, could you let us guys know why some of you abuse real love. most of all when the guy has invested somuch love in you, you turn it to be a advantage over him. I believe that love is a man's solution & loving is a woman's solution.

I don't know what the western culture has brought into us. I don't know if am wrong o, but i can't stand it.

I agree with u abbey02, bt most of them think it's a way of showing how strong they are over their guys. well, i had such problem & chose to call it off, because i feel love should be 100% & 50 - 50 from both sides. That's why i am scared of showin how i feel about who ever is next.

well i believe u, but u know some guys like doing their things 100% & i think that was my weak point. don't u think ur girl will take it to mean u've gotten someone else & choose to kick her aside, u know ladies can be funny some times.

Some times i feel it's not right to show a lady how much u truely love her because they end up abusing or taking advantage of it against you.

hmmmmm Busta, i know you will love to know that your guy can die for you. so why saying guys are not worth dying for, no talk like that abeg. you want make we vex? some are worth it just like some ladies too.

my brother i feel your talk, if hand shake pass elbow know say na another thing o.
you both have no choice but to let love have it's way because you cant stop it.

when you are with another girl you kind of see the contempt on her face (jealous). she will always be pleased to take your calls & atend to you. she does things you rarely see her do to oher guys for you or to you. she shows concern and wants to know about how you are and where you are at any moment. always intrested in pointing out the qualities in you to you or her friends. trys as much as possible to stop you from doing things she doesnt like. Ladies, hope i am correct?

not realy but i think you can get me back to me, brother.

Have you ever loved someone so much that you don’t believe you can last one day without her, have you ever invested you whole heart to someone you love so much that you can’t think straight without her on your mind, have you ever kissed someone with great passion that you feel you’ll loose you breath if you stop, have you ever loved someone that you feel so much pains seeing her sad even for no just cause. When you love someone with all your heart it is with no limitations, you while love her together with her faults so as to make her change from them because without love you can’t make a positive change in a woman and remember what ever changes you impact in her is also to you advantage because you will love her the more when she meets up with the qualities you want in her. Let who so ever betrays you love be, for one day she while plead to get such care and love like yours. When you love, love with your whole heart but reserve the strength with which you can rise again when you get disappointed, and remember without disappointments you will never know how it feels disappointing someone that loves you. So if you don’t know, this love is never good at 99% but best at 100%.

Ladies, this goes out to you all too. Search your selves and make sure you will understand us just as genuine as our hearts are. I know that some of us can be stupid but there are ones who can love so much and be seen as stupid by some of you. How about that?

in such case you realy have no choice but to let go if that love is there. you'll only wish him or her happiness, because you will never be happy knowin that he or she isnt happy where ever he or she is. for some one you love, i think you will have to take such pains just not to make things had for him or her but always make him or her undersatnd why you have to do so. when u love someone you can face hell for that person's joy if he or she is worth it.

well, some guys suffer the same problem of not geting true love in return from loved ones. I am a victim of such too but have chosen not to give my heart hope of being loved for free. I chose to show real love and care to every one around me, being as humble and calm as possible. This in turn makes people feel intrested in knowing who this much talked about guy is, at work, home, school etc. and i believe it's because i made that decision. at a time i started feeling quilty of not taking girls who act for a more serious relationship serious. then i cleared my mind taking my time to look inside of them all to see who realy has this true love for me in heart. now i have friends who act as to love me for who i am but i dont want to make a mistake of picking the wrong person. so lets not only believe the problems may all be from the other person but check ourselfs. LAURYN, there must be someone out there for you & please dont generalise poor love in guys. we have true love but scared of not loving the wrong one. Control your emossions never let it rule you, OK?

just as i steped out of my office this afternoon i saw a car paked beside the fence. its bonnet is of a diffrent make and colour, same as the 4doors and boot cover. its head and rear lamp sets and side mirrows broken.
just as i was taking a look at all it's features a very tall man whom i feel is the ownner came along and forced the driver side door open, he tried to start the car but couldnt. he then came down and pulled a rope i felt was just left on the care and the bonnet opened b4 he could start the car. he ran into the car and drove off, as he drove off i saw a stiker writen boldly "MIND YOUR BUSINESS". my friends i couldnt laugh but to mind my business.

just as i steped out of my office this afternoon i saw a car paked beside the fence. its bonnet is of a diffrent make and colour, same as the 4doors and boot cover. its head and rear lamp sets and side mirrows broken.
just as i was taking a look at all it's features a very tall man whom i feel is the ownner came along and forced the driver side door open, he tried to start the car but couldnt. he then came down and pulled a rope i felt was just left on the care and the bonnet opened b4 he could start the car. he ran into the car and drove off, as he drove off i saw a stiker writen boldly "MIND YOUR BUSINESS". my friends i couldnt laugh but to mind my business.

Remmzy u r right, it's nt encouraging at all. she felt it would be as fair as she is, bt failin 2 rem dat every part of nija is affected with d stigma of our bad politics. Rem. d stock exchange woman is doing very well because she understands d system, a system we all knw is very bad. Every Politician in Nigeria is a potential criminal, so if u cnt be a criminal better nt to join them.

well i choose using pears because of d viscosity. so no probs trin out other 1s. (nt as a further solution, just answering jala's joky ques.)

If u can open d laptop, bridge d CMOS(BIOS) batt to drain its effect on d board, disconnect d HDD, floppy drive & CD drive. then power it on while d batt is still bridged 4 like 1.5mins. then copple it back & go back to setup when it's abt booting & set all d necessary setings 4d laptop, save changes & alow it to boot. If dis prob still continue try to change d momory chip, clean d fan & apply some pears baby oil in d joint of d fan. while applying d oil be very careful & make sure it doesnt spill.

No problem,thank you.

plz Asiwaju, stop taking things too personal, u r a man. if i say that computing probs does nt end what's wrong with that. if u seem to knw it all in computing then u can as well teach us hw to put an end in computing probs. rem. who ever writes a virus prog, will always perfect it to counter d solution against his virus prog. so that solution may nt be all abt it. & i promise u, i will nt be part of this "winxp shut down" prob talk again.
thanks.

Hello, plz problems in computing does not end. u may think u have d solution 2d problem u have @hand,but u may not. even if u have let others feed frm it. i will also be glad learning frm others' view abt this kind of problem. so, i dnt advice we stop it. ok? & mind u all, 4those using win2000 d same problem has just started shuting down win2000 OS. so u see, we still have it around. thanks.

hello, there are several thing that can cause ur pc shutdown. it could be the memory chip; when infected by virus, could be the pc's power supply bt the main thing that can cause that in winxp is virus via d net. i believe urs starts by 1st showing u a message saying something like "windows is shutting down, all unsaved job will be lost. shut down inisiated by system authority, i cant clearly rem." what u'll do is to install "winxp service pack2 with advanced protection" and while instaling it, disconnect it frm any kind of network, most of all d net. after that go to ur control panel=>performance & maintenance=>administrative tools=> double click on services and scroll down to rpc(remote procedure call) double click on it & select recovery on d 3 options where u'll fiind "restart computer" select "take no action"instead. on all 3 options.