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He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by husseinaaa(f): 4:02pm On Mar 19, 2021
I met this guy 2018 in my Madam's tailoring shop while I was learning as an apprentice.

He usually comes around, he talks and jokes with everyone in the shop and we are all free with him after sometimes of showing good behaviours towards us.

To cut the story short, one day he asked for my phone number that he wants to be communicating with me, so I told him I don't have a phone I am not working yet, I am still learning and he smiled and promised to buy me a phone, which I told him if it's not just a gift he should not buy but if he wants to dash me for no reason like having intention of relationship or sex etc he should. Then he said he just meant to buy for me as a friend and I thank him.

So few days later he gave me 50,000 to buy myself a phone and I collected it and appreciated it.

So we communicate normally but just as a friend.

Last month he started asking me out, I told him am not ready for relationship because the kind of suffering and stress I pass through to survive totally made me lose interest for anything like that, he got angry and told me to send back his 50,000 to him or I should accept him. He is threatening me because he knows I cannot afford such money to pay him so I told him to give me time, I will refund it just to avoid problem but he said no time will be given that either I should give him my virginity or if I don't pay before next 7 days he will destroy my life, either by jazz or attack.

I just don't know what to do I need advice.

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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Xenry: 4:08pm On Mar 19, 2021
When a guy starts to give you what he won't give to his fellow guys, just know that he would be expecting from you what his fellow guys wouldn't be able to give him.

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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by BlueSparks: 4:09pm On Mar 19, 2021
husseinaaa:
i met this guy 2018 in my madams tailoring shop while I was learning as an apprentice.

he usually come around he talks and joke with everyone in the shop and we are all free with him after sometimes of showing good behaviours towards us. to cut the story short, one day he asked for my phone number that he wants to be communicating with me, so I told him I don't have a phone am not working yet I am still learning and he smiled and promised to buy me a phone, which I told him if it's not just a gift he should not buy but if he wants to dash me for no reason like having intention of relationship or sex etc he should. then he said he just meant to buy for me as a friend and I thank him.

so few days later he gave me 50,000 to buy myself a phone and I collected it and appreciate it.

so we communicate normally but just as a friend.

last month he started asking me out I told him am not ready for relationship because the kind of suffering and stress I pass through to survive totally made me lost interest for anything like that, he got angry and told me to send back his 50,000 to or I should accept him. he is threatening me because he knows I cannot afford such money to pay him so I told him to give me time, I will refund it just to avoid problem but he said no time will be given that either I should give him my virginity or if I don't pay before next 7 days he will destroy my life. either by jazz or attack.

I just don't know what to do I need advice.


Greedy thing. Don't return it. I pity you.

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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Uprightness100(m): 4:10pm On Mar 19, 2021
This is why we Admonish all and sundry to Have Genuie Relationship with JESUS.
In matters like this, you Confidently and simply use Matthew 18:18 to treat his Matter.
If he tries anything, he will pay with his life.

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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Xenry: 4:11pm On Mar 19, 2021
That man sef no get better goal in life, 50k just like that. sad
Asswear, If I'm a girl, I for don make am tey tey! shocked

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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Nobody: 4:11pm On Mar 19, 2021
Na everytime una dey need advise for this Nairaland.
But the boy no normal sha.

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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by LeeSantos(m): 4:17pm On Mar 19, 2021
1bit brain, he's a father Christmas to dash you money? he no get sister or mother?

when last have your family members giving you free money?


you don't want sex, you don't want relationship and you collect free ₦50k. you funny die. just can't stop laffng. Na wha oh.

ogbeni if you know what's good for you. return the money or return the phone. and when you are doing that make sure there is more than one eye witness.

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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Xenry: 4:18pm On Mar 19, 2021
Give him the phone or give him the damn money. You should have known what he wanted from the beginning!

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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Humblebloke(m): 4:19pm On Mar 19, 2021
undecided
Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Fahdiga(m): 4:19pm On Mar 19, 2021
Involve the police. Women too like free things

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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by FairlyUSEDpussy: 4:21pm On Mar 19, 2021
Ahhhhhhhh.......
Virginity bawo??

How stupid could someone be
What if he found out u ain't a virgin nkor??

Did he buy the phone cos he loves u or disvirgin u

You self.........while u still holding on to the mobile return the phone asap and don't be greedy.........

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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Ketapu: 4:22pm On Mar 19, 2021
If your story is true, report to the police immediately, showing them the evidence(s).

It is only someone that is alive that can defend himself/herself.

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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by FairlyUSEDpussy: 4:25pm On Mar 19, 2021
Ahhhhhhhh.......
Virginity bawo??

How stupid could someone be
What if he finds out u ain't a virgin nkor

Did he buy the phone cos he loves u or to disvirgin u

You self.........while u still holding on to the mobilereturn the phone asap and don't be greedy.........

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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by dermmy(m): 4:26pm On Mar 19, 2021
A guy you are not dating gave you 50k and you collected it just like that and I'm sure you had a phone but you lied to him that you didn't have one.

What did you use the 50k for? You can still return his money if you have such amount or give him the phone and let him sell it.

If dem talk say Nigerian girls are useless Una go dey vex. See your life now. ladies like you are easy prey for ritualists. Collecting free money from someone you had no relationship with. undecided

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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by FairlyUSEDpussy: 4:27pm On Mar 19, 2021
Zzor:
Empty threats,don't give in to the useless fool,involve your madam and let everything be public,also publicly declare that should anything happen to you he should be held responsible. You just dy fear for nothing, no be today we start chop men money ooo even babalawo,pastor,imam money join and common kiss dem no see kikikikikikiki,all na empty threats but involve your Oga to be on the safer side as e be say you never chop liver lol

I knew u were typing something useless........
Why wouldn't she return the mobile even after getting threatened

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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Aksnoopy: 4:28pm On Mar 19, 2021
Zzor:
Empty threats,don't give in to the useless fool,involve your madam and let everything be public,also publicly declare that should anything happen to you he should be held responsible. You just dy fear for nothing, no be today we start chop men money ooo even babalawo,pastor,imam money join and common kiss dem no see kikikikikikiki,all na empty threats but involve your Oga to be on the safer side as e be say you never chop liver lol
Eleribu, Hoelosho! undecided

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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by LeeSantos(m): 4:30pm On Mar 19, 2021
Zzor:
Empty threats,don't give in to the useless fool,involve your madam and let everything be public,also publicly declare that should anything happen to you he should be held responsible. You just dy fear for nothing, no be today we start chop men money ooo even babalawo,pastor,imam money join and common kiss dem no see kikikikikikiki,all na empty threats but involve your Oga to be on the safer side as e be say you never chop liver lol

Na so, e go choke you ode. you go chop the won wey you no go get head take chop again. dey form wisdom, knowledge and understanding for there. Na only u be chopist, men money chopper.

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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Telstar: 4:38pm On Mar 19, 2021
Zzor:
Empty threats,don't give in to the useless fool,involve your madam and let everything be public,also publicly declare that should anything happen to you he should be held responsible. You just dy fear for nothing, no be today we start chop men money ooo even babalawo,pastor,imam money join and common kiss dem no see kikikikikikiki,all na empty threats but involve your Oga to be on the safer side as e be say you never chop liver lol
SMH for you. Are you really okay? Not every threat is empty.

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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Telstar: 4:45pm On Mar 19, 2021
husseinaaa:
i met this guy 2018 in my madams tailoring shop while I was learning as an apprentice.

he usually come around he talks and joke with everyone in the shop and we are all free with him after sometimes of showing good behaviours towards us. to cut the story short, one day he asked for my phone number that he wants to be communicating with me, so I told him I don't have a phone am not working yet I am still learning and he smiled and promised to buy me a phone, which I told him if it's not just a gift he should not buy but if he wants to dash me for no reason like having intention of relationship or sex etc he should. then he said he just meant to buy for me as a friend and I thank him.

so few days later he gave me 50,000 to buy myself a phone and I collected it and appreciate it.

so we communicate normally but just as a friend.

last month he started asking me out I told him am not ready for relationship because the kind of suffering and stress I pass through to survive totally made me lost interest for anything like that, he got angry and told me to send back his 50,000 to or I should accept him. he is threatening me because he knows I cannot afford such money to pay him so I told him to give me time, I will refund it just to avoid problem but he said no time will be given that either I should give him my virginity or if I don't pay before next 7 days he will destroy my life. either by jazz or attack.

I just don't know what to do I need advice.
Hey, you made a mistake to have accepted money from him. If you had accepted phone, it would have been so easy for you to return. Think wise next time.

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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Nobody: 4:46pm On Mar 19, 2021
FairlyUSEDpussy:


I knew u were typing something useless........
Why wouldn't she return the mobile even after getting threatened
Why will she return it when he made it clear to her that it was a harmless gift

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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by dermmy(m): 4:49pm On Mar 19, 2021
LeeSantos:
1bit brain, he's a father Christmas to dash you money? he no get sister or mother?

when last have your family members giving you free money?


you don't want sex, you don't want relationship and you collect free ₦50k. you funny die. just can't stop laffng. Na wha oh.

ogbeni if you know what's good for you. return the money or return the phone. and when you are doing that make sure there is more than one eye witness.


You dey mind the op. Women of virtue and uprightness are scarce in present day Nigeria. Look at what this harsh economy has reduced our ladies to.

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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by dermmy(m): 4:51pm On Mar 19, 2021
Zzor:
Why will she return it when he made it clear to her that it was a harmless gift

Only a cheap lady takes such harmless gift. How do you Nigerian ladies think these days? Do you people still have sense? It's like this harsh economy is really messing up with your brains.

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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Nobody: 4:55pm On Mar 19, 2021
dermmy:


Only a cheap lady would take such harmless gift. How do you Nigerian ladies think these days? Do you people still have sense? It's like this harsh economy is really messing up with your brains.
The senslesness started from him who goes about gifting what he can't afford to ladies and using it as a tool for blackmail, I wish I can borrow this case.Let me see if he would ever get a penny back,nonsense and Ingredients

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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by dermmy(m): 4:57pm On Mar 19, 2021
Zzor:
The senslesness started from him who goes about gifting what he can't afford to ladies and using it as a tool for blackmail, I wish I can borrow this case.Let me see if he would ever get a penny back,nonsense and Ingredients

We know your type now. That's why many ladies keep disappearing as a result of money ritual. The Mosdii you hate so much is justified today.

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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Polynek(m): 5:00pm On Mar 19, 2021
mtcheew, rubbish, gift wey u 4 avoid to avoid problem. Now u don enter 4 wahala. Simply return d fone nal, which other advice do u want again. Or U want some people to motivate and give u reasons why u shouldn't return it ahbi.

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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by OluwaLina1(f): 5:56pm On Mar 19, 2021
First it was fragrance,now turn to fireee....

harmless 5ok from just a guy friend ?...you should've removed like 20k and give him the remaining balance

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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Powerfly(f): 6:00pm On Mar 19, 2021
Moral of the story! -
1) Never ever collect anything even if it's a lift from an average Nigerian Man, because they are just a replica of a typical Nigerian politician.

2.) Never take Nigerian men for their word. Infact whenever they something, just understand it as the opposite in meaning.

Op if na me eh! Shingbai!! The maga for no smell. Make him do him worse!.
I'll go down on my knees in the mid night after taking my bath with warm water and say a simple prayer saying " dear father in heaven, i hand over this case to you to judge righteously!.. If i ever collected the money gift knowing and aggreeing to any ungodly intention and then acting like i'm innocent, then let my life speak nemesis upon nemesis. But if i'm innocent then let (his name) fire consume him and his evil intentions. Then enter house go sleep because the bagger can do no sh*t.!!
If i jam that kind father xmas, e for don be for the idiot.

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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by FairlyUSEDpussy: 6:13pm On Mar 19, 2021
Zzor:
Why will she return it when he made it clear to her that it was a harmless gift

Okay then........
The greedy girl...........sud hold on to the mobile till she get waylaid and raped Ooo........

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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Tregmas: 6:29pm On Mar 19, 2021
husseinaaa:
i met this guy 2018 in my madams tailoring shop while I was learning as an apprentice.

he usually come around he talks and joke with everyone in the shop and we are all free with him after sometimes of showing good behaviours towards us. to cut the story short, one day he asked for my phone number that he wants to be communicating with me, so I told him I don't have a phone am not working yet I am still learning and he smiled and promised to buy me a phone, which I told him if it's not just a gift he should not buy but if he wants to dash me for no reason like having intention of relationship or sex etc he should. then he said he just meant to buy for me as a friend and I thank him.

so few days later he gave me 50,000 to buy myself a phone and I collected it and appreciate it.

so we communicate normally but just as a friend.

last month he started asking me out I told him am not ready for relationship because the kind of suffering and stress I pass through to survive totally made me lost interest for anything like that, he got angry and told me to send back his 50,000 to or I should accept him. he is threatening me because he knows I cannot afford such money to pay him so I told him to give me time, I will refund it just to avoid problem but he said no time will be given that either I should give him my virginity or if I don't pay before next 7 days he will destroy my life. either by jazz or attack.

I just don't know what to do I need advice.
report him to police

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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 6:31pm On Mar 19, 2021
husseinaaa:
i met this guy 2018 in my madams tailoring shop while I was learning as an apprentice.

he usually come around he talks and joke with everyone in the shop and we are all free with him after sometimes of showing good behaviours towards us. to cut the story short, one day he asked for my phone number that he wants to be communicating with me, so I told him I don't have a phone am not working yet I am still learning and he smiled and promised to buy me a phone, which I told him if it's not just a gift he should not buy but if he wants to dash me for no reason like having intention of relationship or sex etc he should. then he said he just meant to buy for me as a friend and I thank him.

so few days later he gave me 50,000 to buy myself a phone and I collected it and appreciate it.

so we communicate normally but just as a friend.

last month he started asking me out I told him am not ready for relationship because the kind of suffering and stress I pass through to survive totally made me lost interest for anything like that, he got angry and told me to send back his 50,000 to or I should accept him. he is threatening me because he knows I cannot afford such money to pay him so I told him to give me time, I will refund it just to avoid problem but he said no time will be given that either I should give him my virginity or if I don't pay before next 7 days he will destroy my life. either by jazz or attack.

I just don't know what to do I need advice.

Just in case, and I mean just in case.....how many times would you have to bang him to clear your 50k debt? I'm not insinuating anything. Far from it. But it's always good to consider all options and expect the unexpected. The number of times will depend on your pedigrees though. 10 times? 20 times?

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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by zakkyzakes: 6:35pm On Mar 19, 2021
Zzor:
Empty threats,don't give in to the useless fool,involve your madam and let everything be public,also publicly declare that should anything happen to you he should be held responsible. You just dy fear for nothing, no be today we start chop men money ooo even babalawo,pastor,imam money join and common kiss dem no see kikikikikikiki,all na empty threats but involve your Oga to be on the safer side as e be say you never chop liver lol
you're prolly a male or a deprived teen a'int no way a grown up adult's thinking this way no way...... wait you're a male catching cruise joor.

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