Na Imaginary virginity OP take brainwash the guy

I no fit put mouth for dis matter , thanchu.

insignegianniga:


Why haven't you said tnis prayer on your family so you guys can escape poverty

Because it doesn't work that way. But why not send me like 50k and expect something your grandma cannot give u, then try coming to get the money through blackmail, make we see whether the prayer no go work ni?

Give him the phone to avoid problems.

Return the phone and move on. Learn from it and empower yourself. Life Na experience

sometimes i dey shame for my gender

calm down dear fear would make his plan work,chill he can't do anything,as long as you didn't force him to buy phone but return the phone or sell it and give him the money,or talk to your Madam about it so they would be witnesses,above
all pray both day and night in your heart even when you're walking and relax don't fear ntn God gat you

Ok

Please return every semblance of the 50K, he's totally not the kind of person you should be taking 50K from for free.

husseinaaa:
I met this guy 2018 in my Madam's tailoring shop while I was learning as an apprentice.

He usually comes around, he talks and jokes with everyone in the shop and we are all free with him after sometimes of showing good behaviours towards us.

To cut the story short, one day he asked for my phone number that he wants to be communicating with me, so I told him I don't have a phone I am not working yet, I am still learning and he smiled and promised to buy me a phone, which I told him if it's not just a gift he should not buy but if he wants to dash me for no reason like having intention of relationship or sex etc he should. Then he said he just meant to buy for me as a friend and I thank him.

So few days later he gave me 50,000 to buy myself a phone and I collected it and appreciated it.

So we communicate normally but just as a friend.

Last month he started asking me out, I told him am not ready for relationship because the kind of suffering and stress I pass through to survive totally made me lose interest for anything like that, he got angry and told me to send back his 50,000 to him or I should accept him. He is threatening me because he knows I cannot afford such money to pay him so I told him to give me time, I will refund it just to avoid problem but he said no time will be given that either I should give him my virginity or if I don't pay before next 7 days he will destroy my life, either by jazz or attack.

I just don't know what to do I need advice.

don't be stupid.
If u don't have the money to give him, simply remove ur SIM card from the phone and give him the phone. You girls like bringing problem to urself. U are willing to collect 50k from someone who had probably not given his mum 20k, and u expect him not to ask for something in return?
Abeg just give him the phone....in the presence of witnesses and have ur peace

The sign has been there from the beginning but u choose to ignore it.

If u are not interested u shouldn't have collected the money in the first place.

Kindly return the phone to avoid trouble.

Better return the phone.

AsherAmari:



O yeah? So who's fault is it? Is it her who was being sincere or the guy who lied? For Pete's sakes, can't you guys help a sis without attaching any strings to it? It's so appalling.

Now note,.
She didn't go asking the guy for a phone or money.
She even tried to find out the bases on which he was getting the phone for her and he lied. This alone qualifies her as a very good and responsible girl.

Now, your fellow guy wants to box her into a corner and you guys are all over the place calling the innocent girl names. Unto what now? Abeg free her.

You guys should stop wooing a woman with gifts. If she likes you, she'll date you without all the goodies. otherwise take a walk

Nobody can help a sister without strings attached. When you're not their sis, this life is give and take. Afterall how many brothers una don help.

Rubbish and entitled Nigerian b!tches

Stop collecting gifts, no one is fr Christmas

And you are using the same phone you bought with his hard earned money to type this nonsense here and still seeking for advice abi? this girl is very wicked and heartless, If that guy do you charm e go catch sharp sharp. You thought he was father Christmas when you were collecting the whole 50k from him? why are you girls with Vagina doesn't hv common sense like this? see, pay that guy his money asap or else..................

the Question is, Did you tell your boyfriend about the money he gave to you cos it's obvious you have a boyfriend..when we say women cheat more than men people go dey argue with their keypad..

You no want relationship, You no want Sex yet you collect 50k from someone just like that thinking his your mugu...now see your life you are the real mugu even if you tell police they will still mock you and advice you to return the phone or his money back

Girl like later later turn to the dry bones that was dropped under bridge in Ajah a while back or the pretty girl that ran mad displaying her toto every. I can picture you in one of those scenario in no distant future.

Zzor:
The senslesness started from him who goes about gifting what he can't afford to ladies and using it as a tool for blackmail, I wish I can borrow this case.Let me see if he would ever get a penny back,nonsense and Ingredients

If you know you're NOT ready for intimacy or relationship why did YOU collect the MONEY.....

Some ladies and greediness...

You better RETURN the money and HOLD your PEACE..

If what happened is truly as you narrated.i won’t overly judge as been greedy nor stupid you were simply very naive and you could not discern from a Greek gift and a genuine gift and good person from a poser and a snake.

This is would be a lesson for you that if it’s too good then there’s something else attached..so next time be wary of gifts from men especially when there’s no strings attached and you don’t have any serious relationship or some familial bond with the person that sum “50k” is huge so you shouldn’t be taking such money from an average,struggling guy when you’re offering him nothing in return.


The guy is defo and idiot and a simp plus really infantile who gives a gift willingly,without coercion or manipulation and no explicit demands or request for the receiver then turn around to blackmail and threaten the person to give back the gift or give up her body that’s so low and cheap.


You can’t take the threats lightly we have got beasts leaving amongst us and there’s no limit to the evil some people are capable of on the other hand it could just be an empty threat just to unsettle you.

Inform people close to you and mutual friends or acquaintances and involve them and try and appeal to him...if they’re not able to prevail on him and he’s not giving you time to come up with that money return the phone for your sanity and peace of mind and your dignity Cos at that point it doesn’t make any sense to keep a gift the giver doesn’t want you to have...you need to uphold your self-esteem and respect.

If he insists only wanting the money(50k) back then report him to the police on the grounds of threat to life(violence,physical and Sexual assault)then the Police would do the needful and take it up from there.


Lastly let your safety,peace of mind,sanctity and sanity supercede you material wants,needs and desires to avoid situations like this in the future.Afterall not all that glitters is gold not a lot of people are as they seem or appear,the perception is a far cry from the dark and stark reality.

Don't bother ursef
He can't do you no harm. He just want to take advantage of you . confide in someone in case he trys something funny

Uprightness100:
This is why we Admonish all and sundry to Have Genuie Relationship with JESUS.
In matters like this, you Confidently and simply use Matthew 18:18 to treat his Matter.
If he tries anything, he will pay with his life.

Pastor Joromi Jomi joro .Wetin consign the Scripture and this ?.Wic Bible school u go self .Tell her to return the phone to the Dauda the sex guy/look for his money.Read her excuses over and think.Life nor get duplicate

Xenry:
When a guy starts to give you what he can't give to his fellow guys, just know that he would be expecting from you what his fellow guys wouldn't be able to give him.

Ibrahim Hussena num: 444 on nairaland scammers list

Kebbiprince:

Nobody can help a sister without strings attached. When you're not their sis, this life is give and take. Afterall how many brothers una don help.

Rubbish and entitled Nigerian b!tches

Stop collecting gifts, no one is fr Christmas

Oboy, we needs to be very carefully with those Nigerian Vagina girls. I don't give out my kobo to them without genuine reason.

Xenry:
That man sef no get better goal in life, 50k just like that.
Asswear, If I'm a girl, I for don make am tey tey!

Can you imagine ooo, I never give my wife 50k to buy phone talk less of girl that never assure me of dating me chaiiiii...... that girl shouldn't return the phone or refund the money it just a threat he can't do anything

husseinaaa:
I met this guy 2018 in my Madam's tailoring shop while I was learning as an apprentice.

He usually comes around, he talks and jokes with everyone in the shop and we are all free with him after sometimes of showing good behaviours towards us.

To cut the story short, one day he asked for my phone number that he wants to be communicating with me, so I told him I don't have a phone I am not working yet, I am still learning and he smiled and promised to buy me a phone, which I told him if it's not just a gift he should not buy but if he wants to dash me for no reason like having intention of relationship or sex etc he should. Then he said he just meant to buy for me as a friend and I thank him.

So few days later he gave me 50,000 to buy myself a phone and I collected it and appreciated it.

So we communicate normally but just as a friend.

Last month he started asking me out, I told him am not ready for relationship because the kind of suffering and stress I pass through to survive totally made me lose interest for anything like that, he got angry and told me to send back his 50,000 to him or I should accept him. He is threatening me because he knows I cannot afford such money to pay him so I told him to give me time, I will refund it just to avoid problem but he said no time will be given that either I should give him my virginity or if I don't pay before next 7 days he will destroy my life, either by jazz or attack.

I just don't know what to do I need advice.

eat thou not the bread of him that hath an evil eye............

HappyCreative:
I'm confused. Does no one ever buy gifts for their friends? Why are you giving a gift of you expect something in return.

Why are men buying gifts for women, just so they can have sex with them? Have you got no personality? That is shameful. If this is the only way you can operate, go find a prostitute.

Men

Everyone has what he wants, what u think is ideal doesn't count. There is no free thing anywhere just know that

FairlyUSEDpussy:


I knew u were typing something useless........
Why wouldn't she return the mobile even after getting threatened

Why una dey reply this weyrey girl?

LINTUNE:
y do u gals feel, swearing in the midnight while naked, is only potent for u guys, why do u even think the universe or heavens can shake for your sakes, simply cos u a woman..my dear open ur fucking eyes, this is not nollywood...if u like go to the moon , naked a d swear from now till eternity, nothing will happen... believing as a woman, those ppl ought to give them those things, just like that, nothing goes for nothing in life..

bro! Na long story. Let an idiot give me a gift on a 'no string attached' condition and then later try to manipulate and threaten me.. I'll show him that 'NO SHIT WILL HAPPEN'. I Did it before.. And i'll do it again!.
once again.. Your response has justified The self entitled mentality of Nigerian girls who believe once they give s£x, money should follow.. As there is nothing like free sex. Afterall.. Like you stated earlier.. 'NOTHING GOES FOR NOTHING'.

Madam,if it is giving him 10k for 5 months,beta find even if it is nanny/house help, compound cleaner,do it and pay him off to avoid story dat TOUGH

husseinaaa:
I met this guy 2018 in my Madam's tailoring shop while I was learning as an apprentice.

He usually comes around, he talks and jokes with everyone in the shop and we are all free with him after sometimes of showing good behaviours towards us.

To cut the story short, one day he asked for my phone number that he wants to be communicating with me, so I told him I don't have a phone I am not working yet, I am still learning and he smiled and promised to buy me a phone, which I told him if it's not just a gift he should not buy but if he wants to dash me for no reason like having intention of relationship or sex etc he should. Then he said he just meant to buy for me as a friend and I thank him.

So few days later he gave me 50,000 to buy myself a phone and I collected it and appreciated it.

So we communicate normally but just as a friend.

Last month he started asking me out, I told him am not ready for relationship because the kind of suffering and stress I pass through to survive totally made me lose interest for anything like that, he got angry and told me to send back his 50,000 to him or I should accept him. He is threatening me because he knows I cannot afford such money to pay him so I told him to give me time, I will refund it just to avoid problem but he said no time will be given that either I should give him my virginity or if I don't pay before next 7 days he will destroy my life, either by jazz or attack.

I just don't know what to do I need advice.

Return the phone, and i suggest next time, don't collect gifts from anyone, even if its your boyfriend.

collecting a gift means you owe the giver a favor.

I'm here for the comment..... By the way I'm ogbeni.... And so ogbeni...





I wouldn't advice u succumb to his threat... Rather report him to the person that was not aware of the 50k u collected from him without working for it.


Rem its 3* 3 of Nigeria minimum wage

Don't fall for his treek,but however I will suggest you report him to your madam or someone around you that can talk to him