N/B: This could be a bit lengthy, but please, read to the end.

I have been making preparations since late last year to settle down with my fiancee. I intend going to collect the marriage list this coming April to kick start the marriage processes.

My girl and I are very compatible in almost all ramifications you can think of. Honestly, she's the perfect definition of a supportive wife, well mannered and loyal to the core, just to say a few.

We now lived in different states, but we've known ourselves and have been seeing/dating each other in the same city between December 2016 and September 2019. I even made her to redeploy during her NYSC in 2018, to be close to me because of my intentions for her.

As usual, we've been praying and trying to seek the face of God to get divine revelation.

So on the 9th of this month (March), my fiancee and her mum visited a priest for normal pre marriage talk/counseling. The priest of course asked my girl some questions about me, which she answered sincerely. The priest then advised my girl and her mum to put everything in God's hand and be praying about it.

About a week later (around 16th or so), my fiancée's mother had a dream where my fiancée's hair was cut in the dream. In trying to understand the dream, my fiancee then called her cousin who is a Reverend, and the cousin told her that the dream is a bad dream, that it means "someone is trying to take her glory."

That dream compelled my fiancee and her mum to have two days midnight prayer (19th and 20th precisely) to cancel any bad dream.

Reaching today, my girl and her mum visited the priest again, to let him know about the dream. The priest then asked my girl about her understand of the dream. My girl said it means "widowhood." But my girl's mum was having a different understanding.

In summary, the priest then asked my girl if she had gotten a divine revelation, as to whether we're meant to be husband and wife. My girl said no has not.
Personally, I've fasted and prayed severally to God to show me reasons not to marry my fiancee, but I'm yet to see reasons not to.

Honestly, apart from divine validation which I'm yet to get, I'm yet to see reasons why I shouldn't marry my fiancee. And my girl have been worried since this afternoon, thereby getting me worried also.

Now my questions are:

1.) What does it mean for someone's hair to be cut in a dream?

2.) Is it 100% compulsory that one must get a divine validation to have a peaceful and happy marriage?

Please, your honest contributions will be appreciated.

Mods, please help a brother if this piece isn't in the right section.

And help send it to front page for more response.

Thanks.

lol op the kind of comments you will get down there from nairaland religion warlords will make you sleep one eyed closed tonight. aswear
Truth is that scientifically dreams are basically human mind inventing its own thoughts when the host is asleep.
secondly dont spend your life believing in false prophecies cus your mind and life will be totally controlled by what you you hear and believe.
I know you are religious but most so called PRIEST practices the bible doctrine in a different way thus injecting 5million cubic meter of fear into your soul
there is nothing wrong with your wife to be,
all the fault is in the religion you practice.
stop letting someone else dream put you in 'THINKINGNATION'
#Emanticipate yourself from mental slavery oh africans!..

Run for your life....

I'd urge you to follow your heart and your head. But most importantly your head. Sometimes the irony of a dream might be the case.

In your write up you've mentioned 2 clerics. I'm sure your fiancé, especially her mom is still not satisfied with the answer and she's still definitely going to seek more audience with other clerics. Doing such will make things worse because different clerics with different meaning to things.

You know what's best for you anyways.

Shalom!

@DoubleFingers

There are three ways to know the will of God:

1. Peace of mind

2. Divine revelation (personally)

3. The place of the prophetic

But understand this every African family once had altars that were erected to the allegiance of spirits besides that of Christ, on accepting Christ it does not automatically drive them out bkos a covenant cannot be cast instead certain activities as prescribed in scriptures would have to be carried out. Most people don't settle this part of the equation.

Hence sometimes anything good that is coming into a family those spirits will fight it by bringing false dreams or revelation.


To your second question the answer is NO a capital one, there are people whom God showed their spouses and ended up with a divorce, that's bkos while they've done well with their spiritual life, but never attended to their finances diligently, expressing love to each other in appropriate ways, establishing a place of understanding each other, learning the art of love making and great sex to satisfy each other and lasty how to manage the interference of third parties in the union.

Are you sure your mother inlaw has not seen a better offer for her daughter from another bidder? Whether yes or no; leave her for good to avoid story that touches.

OP, Reading too many meanings to a particular incidents especially dreams could be confusing! Sometimes, it's just a dream! Pray to G O D, Okay!

l'm spiritually conscious of anything that l do especially taking a crucial decision like this.


Dream!!!! I must tell you that dreams don't lie except if one is daydreaming. A continuous prayers and devine grace can avert any impending evil attacks without giving in for much fears. My experience.

Which church do you attend?

Seeking spiritual direction is good cos in world that we are, the spiritual controls the physical, But Be careful with who you seek spiritual revelation from though. Naija don hard nau o.

MufasaLion:
I'd urge you to follow your heart and your head. But most importantly your head. Sometimes the irony of a dream might be the case.

In your write up you've mentioned 2 clerics. I'm sure your fiancé, especially her mom is still not satisfied with the answer and she's still definitely going to seek more audience with other clerics. Doing such will make things worse because different clerics with different meaning to things.

You know what's best for you anyways.

Shalom!

@bold, you're very correct.

Thanks anyways.

ShobayoEmma:
Are you sure your mother inlaw has not seen a better offer for her daughter from another bidder? Whether yes or no; leave her for good to avoid story that touches.

Lol

Even if my girl's mother may have seen another bidder, will she force the bidder on her daughter?

But honestly, I know my girl's mum. She's not that kind of a woman.

DoubleFingers:

@bold, you're very correct.

Thanks anyways.

You're welcome bruv!

Stay safe!

In the bible When samson lost his Hairs he lost his powers too... So your hair being cut as a man might mean that your spiritual powers been reduced tragically

For a woman however since the hair is the beauty of a woman it means that her glory had been snatched . all the same you would have to fast and pray for God's power..
it has nothing to do with you








2... Yes it is 100% compulsory because if you marry your soul mate then you are likely to have. a fruitful marriage regardless of the odds and challenges

You both can pray about it and cancel any form of death over your lives as there is power in your tongue.

As for divine revelation of spouse; He who finds a Wife has found a good thing and Obtains favour from the Lord. ( Please read this slowly again)

If your girl/ her mum refuses, bro; dnt force it.

My dear, I am a dream interpreter so I will help you on this for free.

That could have been a very bad omen had it being you married to her already because it simply means your DEATH!

Now that you are about getting married it means sorrows and hardship will befall you too after the marriage for a woman's hair denotes her husband in the spiritual world and to even think the dream came through the mum makes it a more validated dream, because it could had been better if it was any other person the revelation came through.

But since you are yet to get married to her before the mum had the dream there are still more opportunities for you to perfect things through what ever medium you believe in...

Remember, a problem known is half solved already.

Murjem:
My dear, I am a dream interpreter so I will help you on this for free.

That could have been a very bad omen had it being you married to her already because it simply means your DEATH!

Now that you are about getting married it means sorrows and hardship will befall you too after the marriage for a woman's hair denotes her husband in the spiritual world and to even think the dream came through the mum makes it a more validated dream, because it could had been better if it was any other person the revelation came through.

But since you are yet to get married to her before the mum had the dream there are still more opportunities for you to perfect things through what ever medium you believe in...

Remember, a problem known is half solved already.

Bullshīt.

Honestly, where did you people come from?

MufasaLion:


You're welcome bruv!

Stay safe!

Thanks

Lovethaa:
In the bible When samson lost his Hairs he lost his powers too... So your hair being cut might mean that you have been reduced to a rat spiritually.. you would have to fast and pray for God's power..









2... Yes it is 100% compulsory because if you marry your soul mate then you are likely to have. a fruitful marriage regardless of the odds and challenges

Hmm!

biggy00000:
You both can pray about it and cancel any form of death over your lives as there is power in your tongue.

As for divine revelation of spouse; He who finds a Wife has found a good thing and Obtains favour from the Lord. ( Please read this slowly again)

If your girl/ her mum refuses, bro; dnt force it.

@bold, of course, I won't

DoubleFingers:
N/B: This could be a bit lengthy, but please, read to the end.

I have been making preparations since late last year to settle down with my fiancee. I intend going to collect the marriage list this coming April to kick start the marriage processes.

My girl and I are very compatible in almost all ramifications you can think of. Honestly, she's the perfect definition of a supportive wife, well mannered and loyal to the core, just to say a few.

We now lived in different states, but we've known ourselves and have been seeing/dating each other in the same city between December 2016 and September 2019. I even made her to redeploy during her NYSC in 2018, to be close to me because of my intentions for her.

As usual, we've been praying and trying to seek the face of God to get divine revelation.

So on the 9th of this month (March), my fiancee and her mum visited a priest for normal pre marriage talk/counseling. The priest of course asked my girl some questions about me, which she answered sincerely. The priest then advised my girl and her mum to put everything in God's hand and be praying about it.

About a week later (around 16th or so), my fiancée's mother had a dream where my fiancée's hair was cut in the dream. In trying to understand the dream, my fiancee then called her cousin who is a Reverend, and the cousin told her that the dream is a bad dream, that it means "someone is trying to take her glory."

That dream compelled my fiancee and her mum to have two days midnight prayer (19th and 20th precisely) to cancel any bad dream.

Reaching today, my girl and her mum visited the priest again, to let him know about the dream. The priest then asked my girl about her understand of the dream. My girl said it means "widowhood." But my girl's mum was having a different understanding.

In summary, the priest then asked my girl if she had gotten a divine revelation, as to whether we're meant to be husband and wife. My girl said no has not.
Personally, I've fasted and prayed severally to God to show me reasons not to marry my fiancee, but I'm yet to see reasons not to.

Honestly, apart from divine validation which I'm yet to get, I'm yet to see reasons why I shouldn't marry my fiancee. And my girl have been worried since this afternoon, thereby getting me worried also.

Now my questions are:

1.) What does it mean for someone's hair to be cut in a dream?

2.) Is it 100% compulsory that one must get a divine validation to have a peaceful and happy marriage?

Please, your honest contributions will be appreciated.

Thanks.

Mods, please help a brother.

Divine validation is important if you are a believer, however it may not always come in a spectular way- like open visions, tranches etc its likely to come as deep seated peace and conviction...

blinking001:
Run for your life....

copied your pics... thanks

LMS1:
lol op the kind of comments you will get down there from nairaland religion warlords will make you sleep one eyed closed tonight. aswear
Truth is that scientifically dreams are basically human mind inventing its own thoughts when the host is asleep.
secondly dont spend your life believing in false prophecies cus your mind and life will be totally controlled by what you you hear and believe.
I know you are religious but most so called PRIEST practices the bible doctrine in a different way thus injecting 5million cubic meter of fear into your soul
there is nothing wrong with your wife to be,
all the fault is in the religion you practice.
#Emanticipate yourself from mental slavery oh africans!..

@LMS1, I'm not the over religious type, but I believe in God.
Personally, I'm not really bothered if not for my woman.

Truth is that scientifically dreams are basically human mind inventing its own thoughts when the host is asleep.

I agree with you on this your point, sha.

Melancholy:
l'm spiritually conscious of anything that l do especially taking a crucial decision like this.


Dream!!!! I must tell you that dreams don't lie except if one is daydreaming. A continuous prayers and devine grace can avert any impending evil attacks without giving in for much fears. My experience.

Which church do you attend?

Seeking spiritual direction is good cos in world that we are, the spiritual controls the physical, But Be careful with who you seek spiritual revelation from though. Naija don hard nau o.

Exactly my thought too. @DoubleFinger prayerfully follow this. The bible says: He that findeth a wife findeth a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord. My brother, nothing dey happen. I was once in your shoes but I am in 7 years marriage now. The devil does not like marriage right from the start. Refuse to be discouraged and continue to pray.

Salt06:


Divine validation is important [b]if you are a believer, [/b]however it may not always come in a spectular way- like open visions, tranches etc its likely to come as deep seated peace and conviction...

@Salt06,
Of course, I believe in God na!

But, my brother, if it is deep seated peace and conviction like you said, I'm more than convinced with a very very relaxed mind alloyed with peace that she's my wife.

Moreover, I'm not the type of guy that is swayed by "love" or overhype of emotions, thinking it's love... No!

I see reasons to love a woman.

Murjem:
My dear, I am a dream interpreter so I will help you on this for free.

That could have been a very bad omen had it being you married to her already because it simply means your DEATH!

Now that you are about getting married it means sorrows and hardship will befall you too after the marriage for a woman's hair denotes her husband in the spiritual world and to even think the dream came through the mum makes it a more validated dream, because it could had been better if it was any other person the revelation came through.

But since you are yet to get married to her before the mum had the dream there are still more opportunities for you to perfect things through what ever medium you believe in...

Remember, a problem known is half solved already.

Hmm!

But what if... what if the dream is just an irony of the reality?

spice123:

Exactly my thought too. @DoubleFinger prayerfully follow this. The bible says: He that findeth a wife findeth a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord. My brother, nothing dey happen. I was once in your shoes but I am in 7 years marriage now. The devil does not like marriage right from the start. Refuse to be discouraged and continue to pray.

Thanks, bro.

Melancholy:
l'm spiritually conscious of anything that l do especially taking a crucial decision like this.


Dream!!!! I must tell you that dreams don't lie except if one is daydreaming. A continuous prayers and devine grace can avert any impending evil attacks without giving in for much fears. My experience.

Which church do you attend?

Seeking spiritual direction is good cos in world that we are, the spiritual controls the physical, But Be careful with who you seek spiritual revelation from though. Naija don hard nau o.

@Melancholy, my woman and I are Catholic.

Thanks for your input.

DoubleFingers:
N/B: This could be a bit lengthy, but please, read to the end.

I have been making preparations since late last year to settle down with my fiancee. I intend going to collect the marriage list this coming April to kick start the marriage processes.

My girl and I are very compatible in almost all ramifications you can think of. Honestly, she's the perfect definition of a supportive wife, well mannered and loyal to the core, just to say a few.

We now lived in different states, but we've known ourselves and have been seeing/dating each other in the same city between December 2016 and September 2019. I even made her to redeploy during her NYSC in 2018, to be close to me because of my intentions for her.

As usual, we've been praying and trying to seek the face of God to get divine revelation.

So on the 9th of this month (March), my fiancee and her mum visited a priest for normal pre marriage talk/counseling. The priest of course asked my girl some questions about me, which she answered sincerely. The priest then advised my girl and her mum to put everything in God's hand and be praying about it.

About a week later (around 16th or so), my fiancée's mother had a dream where my fiancée's hair was cut in the dream. In trying to understand the dream, my fiancee then called her cousin who is a Reverend, and the cousin told her that the dream is a bad dream, that it means "someone is trying to take her glory."

That dream compelled my fiancee and her mum to have two days midnight prayer (19th and 20th precisely) to cancel any bad dream.

Reaching today, my girl and her mum visited the priest again, to let him know about the dream. The priest then asked my girl about her understand of the dream. My girl said it means "widowhood." But my girl's mum was having a different understanding.

In summary, the priest then asked my girl if she had gotten a divine revelation, as to whether we're meant to be husband and wife. My girl said no has not.
Personally, I've fasted and prayed severally to God to show me reasons not to marry my fiancee, but I'm yet to see reasons not to.

Honestly, apart from divine validation which I'm yet to get, I'm yet to see reasons why I shouldn't marry my fiancee. And my girl have been worried since this afternoon, thereby getting me worried also.

Now my questions are:

1.) What does it mean for someone's hair to be cut in a dream?

2.) Is it 100% compulsory that one must get a divine validation to have a peaceful and happy marriage?

Please, your honest contributions will be appreciated.

Mods, please help a brother if this piece isn't in the right section.

And help send it to front page for more response.

Thanks.

better advice ur girl not to feed that negative thought. Besides its not like anyone will live forever

Mustiboy:


Bullshīt.

Honestly, where did you people come from?

have you seen one before! 'a bullshit'... never doubt a Revelation... so stop judging from your myopic understanding about life.

SweetCunt97:
better advice ur girl not to feed that negative thought. Besides its not like anyone will live forever

Hmm!

Sure, we won't live for ever. But nobody wants to die young.

Thanks for your input, though.

DoubleFingers:
N/B: This could be a bit lengthy, but please, read to the end.

I have been making preparations since late last year to settle down with my fiancee. I intend going to collect the marriage list this coming April to kick start the marriage processes.

My girl and I are very compatible in almost all ramifications you can think of. Honestly, she's the perfect definition of a supportive wife, well mannered and loyal to the core, just to say a few.

We now lived in different states, but we've known ourselves and have been seeing/dating each other in the same city between December 2016 and September 2019. I even made her to redeploy during her NYSC in 2018, to be close to me because of my intentions for her.

As usual, we've been praying and trying to seek the face of God to get divine revelation.

So on the 9th of this month (March), my fiancee and her mum visited a priest for normal pre marriage talk/counseling. The priest of course asked my girl some questions about me, which she answered sincerely. The priest then advised my girl and her mum to put everything in God's hand and be praying about it.

About a week later (around 16th or so), my fiancée's mother had a dream where my fiancée's hair was cut in the dream. In trying to understand the dream, my fiancee then called her cousin who is a Reverend, and the cousin told her that the dream is a bad dream, that it means "someone is trying to take her glory."

That dream compelled my fiancee and her mum to have two days midnight prayer (19th and 20th precisely) to cancel any bad dream.

Reaching today, my girl and her mum visited the priest again, to let him know about the dream. The priest then asked my girl about her understand of the dream. My girl said it means "widowhood." But my girl's mum was having a different understanding.

In summary, the priest then asked my girl if she had gotten a divine revelation, as to whether we're meant to be husband and wife. My girl said no has not.
Personally, I've fasted and prayed severally to God to show me reasons not to marry my fiancee, but I'm yet to see reasons not to.

Honestly, apart from divine validation which I'm yet to get, I'm yet to see reasons why I shouldn't marry my fiancee. And my girl have been worried since this afternoon, thereby getting me worried also.

Now my questions are:

1.) What does it mean for someone's hair to be cut in a dream?

2.) Is it 100% compulsory that one must get a divine validation to have a peaceful and happy marriage?

Please, your honest contributions will be appreciated.

Mods, please help a brother if this piece isn't in the right section.

And help send it to front page for more response.

Thanks.

Now Loss Of Hair In D Dream Means Loss Of Glory Or Power. She Could Av D Dream Probably Because She May Be Losing Herself Or Wearing-out Over Life Issues. Dis Doesn't Imply Dat Both Of U Aren't Meant 4 Each Other.

Why can't you just pray and be at ease?

Counselling, is it mother and daughter that go for it? Or the intending couple? Looks to me like someone was already looking to forment trouble.

Plus this priest you keep referring to, a Catholic priest or one of those false prophets?

Yes, I believe in listening to God, but God speaks to us in different ways. Do you know how God speaks to you?

If you're sure you hitherto had peace in your heart regarding this girl, then all is well.

Breaking off a relationship on some unverifiable dream is just too whimsical.

I say, someone is deliberately trying to forment trouble.

DoubleFingers:


@Salt06,
Of course, I believe in God na!

But, my brother, if it is deep seated peace and conviction like you said, I'm more than convinced with a very very relaxed mind alloyed with peace that she's my wife.

Moreover, I'm not the type of guy that is swayed by "love" or overhype of emotions, thinking it's love... No!

I see reasons to love a woman.

That's good. if your fiancé holds same conviction then you can fast and pray in agreement and undo the plans of the enemy