ibedun:


Professor of business studies
Your WIFE don seize your green card?

you are obviously a very worthless person, Honesty I never memorized your username because I care less about you - trolling in a faceless forum. I only care about getting information and debating ideas here - and I try to contribute to threads than petty quarrels with people I don’t know and most likely will never meet in life - But for you to memorize my username and use it to stalk me in a faceless forum shows how useless your life is- you have an unpaid full time job on your hands stalking me on nairaland and good luck doing it as I perpetually live in your head rent free.

Kebbiprince:

Perfectly said bro

Thanks

meobizy:
He gains respect from society. If the female is beautiful, he garners the praise of males who wonder how he caught the woman. Being married strikes a lot of people as a sign of responsibility, this ensures quick consideration for loans in cases.

Lol, I'm shocked no one has actually been able to mention the merits of marriage to a man except some assumed theoretical fairytales, wow

ImaIma1:


As I said, when maturity comes, marriage doesn't have to be explained or justified.

its not compulsory to marry don’t take it personal because people now see the problems in it

Saintdan0421:


Oops, Mr atheist now playing the victim anyway enjoy your night.

You are proof that etiquette is not religion-based. Someone can be religious and still be mannerless.

Yes I’m atheist, I’m glad that I’m putting through on etiquette

meobizy:
He gains respect from society. If the female is beautiful, he garners the praise of males who wonder how he caught the woman. Being married strikes a lot of people as a sign of responsibility, this ensures quick consideration for loans in cases.

After gaianinf respect then he goes back to his problems.
It’s just the ego game after all, no benefit in the end

cococandy:
should we change the topic of the thread to my damaged womb?

Uhn

Lmao, top thread.

FatherOfJesus:
You are proof that etiquette is not religion-based. Someone can be religious and still be mannerless.

Yes I’m atheist, I’m glad that I’m putting through on etiquette

Lmao, says a person who you don't believe God exist, why don't ya show some respect to God before talking about 'manners'... It's a new month so take a chill or better still a pill to relieve your pains.

FatherOfJesus:
its not compulsory to marry don’t take it personal because people now see the problems in it

Of course it's not by force to marry. Marriage is not for everyone. Not everyone has the patience and selflessness to build one.

Besides, it is better not to venture into what you don't understand.

Emotion without reason lets people walk all over you; reason without emotion is a mask for cruelty

ImaIma1:


Of course it's not by force to marry. Marriage is not for everyone. Not everyone has the patience and selfishness to build one.

Besides, it is better not to venture into what you don't understand.

Marriage is not also a factor that determines whether a man is mature or not. The society made it seem so.

Saintdan0421:


Lmao, says a person who you don't believe God exist, why don't ya show some respect to God before talking about 'manners'... It's a new month so take a chill or better still a pill to relieve your pains.

you believe in god and still talk without etiquette. Speaks volume

FatherOfJesus:
Marriage is not also a factor that determines whether a man is mature or not. The society made it seems so.

But one major factor needed for marriage is maturity. If not, a man can beat his wife to death because she didn't make his pap the way he wanted it.

ImaIma1:


But one major factor needed for marriage is maturity. If not, a man can beat his wife to death because she didn't make his pap the way he wanted it.

Maturity from the man’s end and gimmicks from that of the lady.
Abeg, can you marry a matured man without money?

If maturity is the key then we have a lot of matured men in the village who don’t have money, go and marry them. Maturity without money in a marriage is useless abeg, na eternal suffering.

FatherOfJesus:
you believe in god and still talk without etiquette. Speaks volume

Jeez even bitches aren't this lousy.

FatherOfJesus:
Maturity from the man’s end and gimmicks from that of the lady.
Abeg, can you marry a matured man without money?

If maturity is the key then we have a lot of matured men in the village who don’t have money, go and marry them. Maturity without money in a marriage is useless abeg, na eternal suffering.

Seems you are skilled at jumping into conclusions.

My comment clearly didn't say maturity from only the man. And neither did it say maturity was the only factor for marriage.

But apparently, you have preconceived notions about an institution that you are obviously blank about.

You gain nothing!

Simps are destined to be caged in marriage by feminists. Please allow them to fulfill their destinies, it's a natural thing.

For children, get a baby mama to do that for you.

After enjoying your single life in peace, you can still later marry for retirement purposes when you hits 65-70yrs for her to cater for your old age.

My grandfather remarried at 106yrs to a 44yrs older woman to take of him after the death of his wife. Men don't have biological clock, they can marry at any age.

That's how alphas do!

ImaIma1:


Seems you are skilled at jumping into conclusions.

My comment clearly didn't say maturity from only the man. And neither did it say maturity was the only factor for marriage.

But apparently, you have preconceived notions about an institution that you are obviously blank about.

Ladies do not marry for maturity sake, these days it doesn’t even play a major role. What matters now to ladies is that man that has the financial capabilities to meet her needs.

Saintdan0421:


Jeez even bitches aren't this lousy.

Good to know that this is coming from a believer

FatherOfJesus:
Ladies do not marry for maturity sake, these days it doesn’t even play a major role. What matters now to ladies is that man that has the financial capabilities to meet her needs.

Obviously the ladies you know. One shoe doesn't fit all.

Cutie09:


FatherOfJesus i expected more from you sir you suppose lead the way now morally

lol, ha person wey woman never do something dey carry marriage for head.
Wahala wey pass wahala.

FatherOfJesus:
Good to know that this is coming from a believer

Lol, ya fingers are damn so itchy, well its d last time i'll be replying you. Get busy dude.

cococandy:
okay. E pass like that?

E no pass o.
- Olosho
- Borehole pussy
- Evening newspaper
- Damaged womb

Alright! Can we now focus on the topic?

maureensylvia:
Alot
More money
Better sex
Good health
Less depression
Should I continue?


Meanwhile read my signature

Alot=nothing
Better sex=wack sex
More money=Less money
Good health=Bad health
Less depression=Complete depression


Since I was in 14 I learnt that girls mean entirely opposite of everything they say and you just proved it right again

pocohantas:


E no pass o.
- Olosho
- Borehole pussy
- Evening newspaper
- Damaged womb

Alright! Can we now focus on the topic?

that’s how you know which one of them are losers

I saw some of the comments and am just scared to marry.

Bornsinner7:
Nothing! Nothing!!

The woman gains everything.. her title changes from Miss to Mrs.. the man remain Mr before and after marriage..

If anything should happen in the marriage.. the law favours the woman for the kids to be with her while the man goes back to bachelorhood

It is finance? you hear ratio like 90/10.. 70/10.. 80/20 where the man takes the bigger responsibility..

It is sex?? the ladies just lay there and the man does the work like an unpaid slave.. no pleasure just thrust thrust then cum.. sometimes he has to beg the entire family and even the king of her village before he can even taste it

Oh my goodness

I will always be baffled at how single people are the most opinionated about marriage.

Ishilove:
I will always be baffled at how single people are the most opinionated about marriage.

Is that claim true? Are single people the most opinionated?
Do you have evidence

omonnakoda:
Is that claim true? Are single people the most opinionated?
Do you have evidence

The comments on this thread are evidence enough.

Ishilove:

The comments on this thread are evidence enough.

Not necessarily
You already have observation bias and are seeing what you want to see
Everyone here is opinionated .
Where is your marriage certificate?