GHOST HER, that the only advice i picked on this thread!!

Happiness is free, why stressing yourself on some1 that don't give an F about u..

from your write up, it seems you are this kind of lover boy.

my advice may be hard for you but give her space n time. if you hv done nothing wrong to her, just pause calling her for now n see if she will call you back...

and wats the cramp about calling someone 20times...haha! don't you knw phone calls ethics? call someone not more than thrice, if you are important they will return your miss calls wen they see it.

then try talking to her wen you see her..let her know you dnt like this her new attitude..if she still don't change, let her be n move on!

Fedric:


I'm ready to get married .

I am rich but no one knows this and I didn't show her . Building my second house but I told her I am working as a factory guy for now and pretty tired .



I'm an internet marketer

The funniest thing is, you will still act like a toddler even when guys have told you to let go, I mean let her go for life. Never discuss a marriage plan with random girls that come your way, it will always put you in the dark side of relationship.

Fedric:
I noticed that my girl friend doesn't like to come over anymore. Of late she Dosen't pick my calls often, she picked after 20 times .

I called her plenty times yesterday but she didn't pick my call giving me silly excuses that she left her phone at home while going out.

She repeated the same thing today and her excuse was that she went to an office and she can't pick the call. She later say she have to submit the phone to the security officers at the gate and that's the law of the institute .

I never see this kind of excuses and when I talk to my sister, she was like she might have gone to a man house and don't wanna pick .

The main issue with her is she believes I complain too much and she also raises voice at me any time I told her an issue I don't like.

I'm seriously tired and I am having different thoughts .

I wanted to marry her but her attitude keeps preventing me from making such move.

I feel bad right now and I needed an advice .

I feel so bad that my thought right now is to pretend, use her, dump her and make her feel regretful of making me go through emotional pain.

Should I just let her go and I should go on my who way?

Or should I just free her and start doing as if she don't exist in my life again .

I'm not happy right now and I feel so bad .


Advice please.

You are not dumping any sh*t. She has dumped you already
The issue is , she doesn't want to open up . She just believe that with her attitude you will understand.
Don't put marriage at your front. You could even propose to her and she will reject you .
Move on , stop calling her . Kill that stupid emotion

Fedric:
I noticed that my girl friend doesn't like to come over anymore. Of late she Dosen't pick my calls often, she picked after 20 times .

I called her plenty times yesterday but she didn't pick my call giving me silly excuses that she left her phone at home while going out.

She repeated the same thing today and her excuse was that she went to an office and she can't pick the call. She later say she have to submit the phone to the security officers at the gate and that's the law of the institute .

I never see this kind of excuses and when I talk to my sister, she was like she might have gone to a man house and don't wanna pick .

The main issue with her is she believes I complain too much and she also raises voice at me any time I told her an issue I don't like.

I'm seriously tired and I am having different thoughts .

I wanted to marry her but her attitude keeps preventing me from making such move.

I feel bad right now and I needed an advice .

I feel so bad that my thought right now is to pretend, use her, dump her and make her feel regretful of making me go through emotional pain.

Should I just let her go and I should go on my who way?

Or should I just free her and start doing as if she don't exist in my life again .

I'm not happy right now and I feel so bad .


Advice please.

A man shouldn't be too emotional or gummy gummy, your affection will be taken for granted. Simply stop calling or complaining. Those things you used to do, stop it all and watch if she'll come around.

Princessogaraya:
leave her alone,I don't know why we girls don't love who love us

she will realize what she did,it will be too late for her.

many of us have ignore someone that loves us but when will meet those bad guy we will now wish to go back but no way again

life no balance, and if u check someone dey trip for the guy too... him sef go dey ignore the babe.

ThisCouldBeUs:
Bro, you are not telling the truth here because your script does not add up.

Exactly

Fedric:
I noticed that my girl friend doesn't like to come over anymore. Of late she Dosen't pick my calls often, she picked after 20 times .

I called her plenty times yesterday but she didn't pick my call giving me silly excuses that she left her phone at home while going out.

She repeated the same thing today and her excuse was that she went to an office and she can't pick the call. She later say she have to submit the phone to the security officers at the gate and that's the law of the institute .

I never see this kind of excuses and when I talk to my sister, she was like she might have gone to a man house and don't wanna pick .

The main issue with her is she believes I complain too much and she also raises voice at me any time I told her an issue I don't like.

I'm seriously tired and I am having different thoughts .

I wanted to marry her but her attitude keeps preventing me from making such move.

I feel bad right now and I needed an advice .

I feel so bad that my thought right now is to pretend, use her, dump her and make her feel regretful of making me go through emotional pain.

Should I just let her go and I should go on my who way?

Or should I just free her and start doing as if she don't exist in my life again .

I'm not happy right now and I feel so bad .


Advice please.

U DON SEE THE HANDWRITING...WHY ASK AGAIN?

Fedric:


I'm ready to get married .

I am rich but no one knows this and I didn't show her . Building my second house but I told her I am working as a factory guy for now and pretty tired .



I'm an internet marketer

You are being too possessive and desperate and the girl is taking you for a ride..

20 missed calls?

What the heck..

Get another girl to ease your mind off of your current relationship and try not to act so clingy and needy..

Maybe,just maybe the girl will come back to her senses..

One thing am sure of..

Acting desperate would only make things worse..

Fedric:


I'm ready to get married .

I am rich but no one knows this and I didn't show her . Building my second house but I told her I am working as a factory guy for now and pretty tired .



I'm an internet marketer

I guess you meant to write 'internet fraudster'.

why will u ever call anyone for 20times

My brother you need to try to focus more on yourself and don’t give her those attentions you have been giving her... the more you go after her the more she plays with your emotions. Just try to ignore her for sometimes and see what happens if she’s meant for you she will come back and if not she will go

Fedric:



Do you know if I needed her attention and help at that moment ?

Why will she see my 20 miss call and not call back.

Try listen to reason Guy.

Calling somebody 20 times nonstop doesn't make sense unless its really an emergency which I doubt it was.

[quote author=Carchoice post=100560937]OP don’t do this. Ghost her and never look back.


She Dey use you play and it will continue that way. She’s got your remote control.

Ghost her and suffer the heartbreak for few days, you’ll be fine. I repeat, GHOST HER!! No explanation. Don’t explain anything to her. L
I believe this is just the best thing to do, if you don't do this you may suffer this pain forever n probably she might change if she discovers you got cash n I believe that's not what u want...so just do as this guy advised....thank you

you claim to be an internet marketter but an ordinary Nigerian girl is treating you this way. She should be the one doing everything possible to keep you and not you always complainning about her. It seems you need to be schooled on how to play your games right with Nigerian girls. As an internet marketter girls are suppose to be the one hunting you not the other way round.

I feel so bad that my thought right now is to pretend, use her, dump her and make her feel regretful of making me go through emotional pain.

Oga if you pretend to use her and dumb her, she used you and dumb you too.

You fvck her, she fvck you so what’s the big deal about using her and dumb. She used you and dumb you too

Fedric:
I noticed that my girl friend doesn't like to come over anymore. Of late she Dosen't pick my calls often, she picked after 20 times .

I called her plenty times yesterday but she didn't pick my call giving me silly excuses that she left her phone at home while going out.

She repeated the same thing today and her excuse was that she went to an office and she can't pick the call. She later say she have to submit the phone to the security officers at the gate and that's the law of the institute .

I never see this kind of excuses and when I talk to my sister, she was like she might have gone to a man house and don't wanna pick .

The main issue with her is she believes I complain too much and she also raises voice at me any time I told her an issue I don't like.

I'm seriously tired and I am having different thoughts .

I wanted to marry her but her attitude keeps preventing me from making such move.

I feel bad right now and I needed an advice .

I feel so bad that my thought right now is to pretend, use her, dump her and make her feel regretful of making me go through emotional pain.

Should I just let her go and I should go on my who way?

Or should I just free her and start doing as if she don't exist in my life again .

I'm not happy right now and I feel so bad .


Advice please.

What's the emergency bro? Calling someone over 20 times

Like is she in charge of the working functions of your lungs?

Ladies don't like whining guys abeg.... You're certainly complaining too much over basically everything of which she's explained herself...

I hope you have a job?/At work, some have no liberty to receive calls... Take am easy oh

Bro I can understand if you are telling us here a real story as for me I will cry deliberately for a day like what happened to me before..... the second day o will fine somewhere I can enjoying my money eat ogufe turkey and drink malt (Alfa) From bar I will be looking for another bae thank God she never know that you have small money..... focus on what you are doing when things is done it will be like that girl doesn’t have good fortune...... (bad leg)

Aaaaarghmed:
guy na wa for you o,you too meek o,why wud you call a woman 20missed calls.i call my babe highest 2 missed calls.i love myself so much because I always act sendless,for instance if me and my babe dey talk for phone and she gets angry and cut my call,I dont get angry or vex and call back.i simply dont call till the next day ,I never ever apologize when am not at fault.i am in charge and she knows it.i have being this way right from time,I dont even read all these red pill books or things but as a man I know how to be a king in my own lane,and I cannot take nonsense from a woman

Gbam.... You don talk am finish.

As a Man, always see yourself as a King and a god.

Fedric:
I noticed that my girl friend doesn't like to come over anymore. Of late she Dosen't pick my calls often, she picked after 20 times .

I called her plenty times yesterday but she didn't pick my call giving me silly excuses that she left her phone at home while going out.

She repeated the same thing today and her excuse was that she went to an office and she can't pick the call. She later say she have to submit the phone to the security officers at the gate and that's the law of the institute .

I never see this kind of excuses and when I talk to my sister, she was like she might have gone to a man house and don't wanna pick .

The main issue with her is she believes I complain too much and she also raises voice at me any time I told her an issue I don't like.

I'm seriously tired and I am having different thoughts .

I wanted to marry her but her attitude keeps preventing me from making such move.

I feel bad right now and I needed an advice .

I feel so bad that my thought right now is to pretend, use her, dump her and make her feel regretful of making me go through emotional pain.

Should I just let her go and I should go on my who way?

Or should I just free her and start doing as if she don't exist in my life again .

I'm not happy right now and I feel so bad .


Advice please.

Make una dey forget all this una funny talk of "I wanted to marry her..." person wey no want or send you naim you wan 'wanted to marry'! Funny guys really plenty for this nairaland o. So you need soothsayer to tell you say d babe no send you again en? Some guys go just dey fall their hand for small small girls! Imagine someone calling a girl up to 20times in one day! O boy, people dey o! Ur mata don pass advice o... na maturity and self-respect you need

@ Op that lady never loved you or the right word would be respect. Trust me I have been there.It just that she does not know how to tell you so as for them not to be at fault later on.Ladies do that always especially the ones you thought are quiet and well mannered. My advice just dump her and
get a better one with empathy and respect.

Tohsynetita1:

get a WhatsApp tracker or phone tracker and get all she has been keeping from you

tracker! , how?

Fedric:
Lot of things has happen where I start begging her after telling her what I don't like she is doing .


I'm a gentle guy and I like people to treat me cool and likewise will I do so but she has made me a complain master and she still make me feel bad after raising my complaint .


I'm not happy right now as I feel she is seeing someone else and also the fact that she don't respect me as I want .


At list playing maturity and saying sorry when ever you go wrong is what I ask for

.....My brother free the girl.She they collect dick outside.

ThisCouldBeUs:
This thread is a joke

i like his jokes...nah only him dey always have relationship problems...very good marketer indeed

you too they lie jare...im a rich guy.. na the lie cos the girl to run away from you... if person get money money no dey hide no mater what!

Fedric:


I'm ready to get married .

I am rich but no one knows this and I didn't show her . Building my second house but I told her I am working as a factory guy for now and pretty tired .



I'm an internet marketer

Guy move on. She met someone else.

braunny:
why will u ever call anyone for 20times

Exactly my thoughts..... Calling several times without an emergency shows an insecure, oversensitive person... Not healthy

parkervero:

Stop calling her. If I were you, I will begin to check out on another girl to fill her space and gradually replace her for life.

Where is your value when you keep calling a girl 20 times? That's stupidity na. A girl should miss you not you to keep behaving like a kid.

Distance make a heart grow fonder.

Best Advice so far... That first Paragraph don kill am

Being in a relationship isn’t bad but achieving goals in life is the prettiest and it’s worth focusing on.
Don’t waste your time on unhealthy relationships. Learn how to move on strongly

There are better days ahead of you

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I am so sure this one na pikin you still be.

For you to be complain about woman matter upandan

If you truly understood the frequency at which women brain operates you will not evev spend one second bordering yourself over their matter

Focus on what you want to archive as a goal

l can beg for sex but I can't beg for love or marriage. if a woman loves u, nobody will tell u

Bro free her, she is no longer Interested you. Trust me she is already seeing someone else.. Majority of our ladies don't value good things (This also applies some guys..)..they always have their eyes on someone that is ready to use them and then dump them like a piece of sh***...

Please let her go, stop calling her.. You need to really work on your low self esteem..