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6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by Vivien458(f): 12:04pm On Apr 19, 2021
Hello everyone, I recently made a post about my friend. He told me he actually wanted to get his girlfriend pregnant, and he wants to have a kid at 25 and also check if he is potent so when he gets to 30 the child is 5 etc.now the big issue is here. She is 21

1: the girl he thought loved him never did, as the girl has refused to keep the baby. He informed his parents and they told the lady they will train the child, but she refused. This guy's make 400k every month as an animator. He also has a shop locally etc. But still in his parents house, Self contain, but is ready to move out. My type of man grin grin

2: the girl has threatened to drink sniper and force the baby out if anyone tries to stop her. Her problem is she doesn't want to have kids at all, she has life to explore. Etc. She is still in school though.

What have we suggested?

1: the guy told her to have the baby and let her bring it to him and he will take care of the baby, she shouldn't bring a dime. She said no, she can't bear the pain of carrying that child for 9months all her friends will mock her.

2: the guy suggested to travel her outside the state and pay for a house and nobody will know, until she has the baby, and she said no, she can't abandon her school to satisfy someone else, which is the boyfriend.

3; we have told her that abortion is illegal in Naija, she says it either she aborts or she dies, we should take one.

At this point, my guy backed off, though I've been coming around to help him out with some ideas grin.

What am I searching for?

Any suggestions on how she can have a good abortion without risking her life.

Is drugs better?

Is Hospital better?

What else can we do?

I made this post on his behalf, so he is reading as a visitor
Re: 6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by thorpido(m): 12:12pm On Apr 19, 2021
grin grin You better confess so you get the right advice.

You are pregnant for your boyfriend and you don't want to keep the baby and you are looking for a safe place to remove the pregnancy,o bughi ya?

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Re: 6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by Pierocash(m): 12:16pm On Apr 19, 2021
Are you sure you are not the one.

Why trying to stagnate a young girl that is ambitious with untimely pregnancy? This is pure selfishness. Let her be through with her studies first.

What kind of witchcraft is this?

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Re: 6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by mmadu4: 12:16pm On Apr 19, 2021
dont force anyone to do anything against their will else you will regret it . tell your guy to wait for the right woman . at 21 the girl is still in her hoeing phase hence its not going to work . a guy earning 400k should not be settling with a student rather an entrepreneur like himself

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Re: 6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by francisdeacn(m): 12:21pm On Apr 19, 2021

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Re: 6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by Vivien458(f): 1:22pm On Apr 19, 2021
mmadu4:
dont force anyone to do anything against their will else you will regret it . tell your guy to wait for the right woman . at 21 the girl is still in her hoeing phase hence its not going to work . a guy earning 400k should not be settling with a student rather an entrepreneur like himself
exactly.
Re: 6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by RickieNas(m): 1:36pm On Apr 19, 2021
mmadu4:
dont force anyone to do anything against their will else you will regret it . tell your guy to wait for the right woman . at 21 the girl is still in her hoeing phase hence its not going to work . a guy earning 400k should not be settling with a student rather an entrepreneur like himself
The guy is just a selfish being, you want to marry at 25y/o and you're dating a lady who's still in school, He wants to deprive the lady the fun in school, And the guy need to pull down his shoulder and respect the girl decision.. ire o

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Re: 6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by JovialJune(f): 1:45pm On Apr 19, 2021
Your kind of guy? Op you sound like you're low key happy she isn't keeping the baby so you can have your way with him, yeah?

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Re: 6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by Nobody: 1:46pm On Apr 19, 2021
The only way I can help you is if you come out plainly and tell me u are that girl. grin

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Re: 6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by Nobody: 1:50pm On Apr 19, 2021
BadRadio:
The only way I can help you is if you come out plainly and tell me u are that girl. grin
no mind her
Re: 6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by Vivien458(f): 3:10pm On Apr 19, 2021
BadRadio:
The only way I can help you is if you come out plainly and tell me u are that girl. grin
lol, but I am not the girl in question.
Re: 6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by Oturatetuala(m): 3:17pm On Apr 19, 2021
She said she doesn't want to keep the pregnancy then allow her abort it. Which devil una be self, na by force to born pikin.

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Re: 6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by Vivien458(f): 3:38pm On Apr 19, 2021
Oturatetuala:
She said she doesn't want to keep the pregnancy then allow her abort it. Which devil una be self, na by force to born pikin.
lol. That's why he is seeking for advice. Which drugs can she take or which hospital.hoe can she go about it?
Re: 6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by Reex12(m): 3:43pm On Apr 19, 2021
Vivien458:
lol, but I am not the girl in question.
lori iro
Re: 6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by Oturatetuala(m): 4:04pm On Apr 19, 2021
Vivien458:
lol. That's why he is seeking for advice. Which drugs can she take or which hospital.hoe can she go about it?


I won't advice her to take drugs.
Re: 6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by Vivien458(f): 4:10pm On Apr 19, 2021
Oturatetuala:



I won't advice her to take drugs.
report is she is 6wks down
Re: 6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by Oturatetuala(m): 4:16pm On Apr 19, 2021
Vivien458:
report is she is 6wks down

Let her go to a good private hospital that's all
Re: 6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by Oluwaricky88(m): 4:17pm On Apr 19, 2021
please give me your friend contact. . I can. assist him in the business.... (400k monthly no be beans)

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Re: 6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by Nobody: 4:31pm On Apr 19, 2021
Vivien458:
lol, but I am not the girl in question.
hehe... u suregrin
Re: 6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by Ekejoestar(m): 5:29pm On Apr 19, 2021
francisdeacn:
Deal with her like this


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1AWXJ0T52XE

Girl was about to freak out grin grin grin
Re: 6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by ChiefSosa(m): 5:39pm On Apr 19, 2021
wink

Re: 6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by emitheo(m): 5:39pm On Apr 19, 2021
The simple thing to do is a D&C...no 2 ways about it. The lady needs to be allowed to make her own decision.
Re: 6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by Heineken(m): 6:00pm On Apr 19, 2021
BadRadio:
The only way I can help you is if you come out plainly and tell me u are that girl. grin
cheesy grin grin bro badradio long time sir. How's it going? Bro you asked me to send you a mail since. I did..Maybe you've not checked your mail bro...
Re: 6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by indodon(m): 6:21pm On Apr 19, 2021
Madam if you get belle tell us make we know as we go take help you..































No come here come dey give us lamba
Re: 6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by conscienceman4(m): 7:25pm On Apr 19, 2021
Don't remove that baby and regret it later in life
Re: 6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by GeneralPula: 7:30pm On Apr 19, 2021
Problems that can unleashed from relationship go enter 10,000

You go sha dey hear ham in different style..

Abi wetin be this like this..
Re: 6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by larryking540: 7:35pm On Apr 19, 2021
Vivien458:
Hello everyone, I recently made a post about my friend. He told me he actually wanted to get his girlfriend pregnant, and he wants to have a kid at 25 and also check if he is potent so when he gets to 30 the child is 5 etc.now the big issue is here. She is 21

1: the girl he thought loved him never did, as the girl has refused to keep the baby. He informed his parents and they told the lady they will train the child, but she refused. This guy's make 400k every month as an animator. He also has a shop locally etc. But still in his parents house, Self contain, but is ready to move out. My type of man grin grin

2: the girl has threatened to drink sniper and force the baby out if anyone tries to stop her. Her problem is she doesn't want to have kids at all, she has life to explore. Etc. She is still in school though.

What have we suggested?

1: the guy told her to have the baby and let her bring it to him and he will take care of the baby, she shouldn't bring a dime. She said no, she can't bear the pain of carrying that child for 9months all her friends will mock her.

2: the guy suggested to travel her outside the state and pay for a house and nobody will know, until she has the baby, and she said no, she can't abandon her school to satisfy someone else, which is the boyfriend.

3; we have told her that abortion is illegal in Naija, she says it either she aborts or she dies, we should take one.

At this point, my guy backed off, though I've been coming around to help him out with some ideas grin.

What am I searching for?

Any suggestions on how she can have a good abortion without risking her life.

Is drugs better?

Is Hospital better?

What else can we do?

I made this post on his behalf, so he is reading as a visitor

this your story has k leg o,,,it doesn't seems like a story that has taken place in reality but still under actualization
Re: 6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by GOFRONT(m): 8:03pm On Apr 19, 2021
Well, as for me, I truely love my girlfriend.....The only ish that can separate me and her is Pregnancy
Re: 6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by PrimadonnaO(f): 8:08pm On Apr 19, 2021
You're coming here to ask strangers how to abort somebody's child! undecided

And the so-called man is going to be reading comments. All of you are just really irresponsible and terrible!


Madam OP, who are you in the story exactly? Why are you so involved in this affair?
Re: 6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by Twelfthman: 9:14pm On Apr 19, 2021
Pls don't abort the baby... She can put her school on hold, most schools allow it as long as one makes it official. Then she should go have the baby. When done she is free to resume her schooling while the guy family take care of the baby...

I don't support ABORTION.
She shouldnt commit more sin by killing the baby.
This is the one of the consequences of premarital sex so she should deal with it. It pathetic, Ladies should be more careful cus y'all are the ones that suffer most in this kinda situation...

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Re: 6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by Vivien458(f): 9:17pm On Apr 19, 2021
PrimadonnaO:
You're coming here to ask strangers how to abort somebody's child! undecided

And the so-called man is going to be reading comments. All of you are just really irresponsible and terrible!


Madam OP, who are you in the story exactly? Why are you so involved in this affair?


my best friend. Childhood friend
Re: 6wks pregnancy Advice Needed For A Girl Going Crazy by flokii: 9:17pm On Apr 19, 2021
It's either OP is the pregnant girlfriend or hanty has had enof of friendzone and is eager to have the guy all to herself..

Whichever one, make una dey try fear God o.

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