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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Munzy14(m): 12:24pm On Apr 26, 2021
paulolee:
I don't do such n dnt expect her to check mine...bcoz d last time I tried it. I swore never to make such a mistake again in my life...
found out dt she was brushing an old man dt she called her deacon in church d worst was dt I once gave her 10k to sow seed in d life of dt same deacon after she told me d man asked abt me n they do pray for whenever she visits..
leta went tru her chats when I asked to mk call with her fone n found out dt d old man was her sugar daddy wey don even broke bcoz him bin lose e job n na she even de help d man life..
chaaaai dm really run me street dt year.....stella na tunder go continue dey fire u anywhere u dey..
Chai....grin
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by abimbola74(m): 12:28pm On Apr 26, 2021
Tbvxl:
It helped me a lot. I detected the bitch was cheating on me. May God punish her wherever she is
Amen and all other bitches doing same

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Laideabdulahi: 12:37pm On Apr 26, 2021
Xilsbridalhouse:

Make it loud grin let them be forming maturity there lol before I got married to my hubby, I checked all the phones of everyone I ever dated. I can’t be living in doubts. It will shock you but you’d be glad you did and if they are clean, you’d know too but most importantly you need God to choose a spouse, people change too.

Boss, highly supported.
Una no know as Naija dey now?
Humble girls are being forced to do what they r not supposed to do. Emotions sweep Dem and they give some things a trial.

Check your fiancees phone . I Wana get married But before that, checking their phone or hacking WhatsApp made me see who is who. Out of four , infact all four dey knack another dick. Except for one who did it out of emotions and being taken advantage of.

If I didn't check how would I have known.
The one that understood me the most and I love the most, and na that one fine pass, she dey work, she's hardworking, was lashing dvcks when you are not available. Even lashing her married ex.

Another was banging any guy that is good looking, responsible, working class and ready to spend or give a treat, or drop as little as 5k.

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Yaks02(m): 12:45pm On Apr 26, 2021
OnlineTechxxx:


But when you take the survey and get paid,then you can gift out the 1k$ to the poor people around you.


which survey na
Abeg
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Aarenasbaba(m): 12:47pm On Apr 26, 2021
My wife passworded her phone just because I did same.

I have the access to the phone anytime, it can even be with me for hours but I made a terrible mistake when I collected her phone cos my phone packed off.

I downloaded and application called multiple accounts and I logged in my Facebook and WhatsApp.

After a week , I got a new phone and didn't log out my messenger and Facebook from her phone. What she saw is still affecting us even though I didn't sleep with them. But what they sent to me was hmmmmmm

She can pick quarrel anytime and starts crying, just to bribe her this morning, have sent her data just to make her feel good and forget the incident that happened last night..

Keep ur phone away from ur spouse

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by KayCee92(m): 12:51pm On Apr 26, 2021
Ugandatales:


I felt like crying reading your story. Your girl is a good girl, but some men can be persistent ehn! And as she said, she needed the money. This is better than my guy that found out his girl was sleeping with three different men at the same time...and this girl was always all over the guy. I wonder how she found the time to be doing what she was doing.

Cry me a River grin
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Frankicent(m): 12:59pm On Apr 26, 2021
Mustiboy:
She was broke one time and agreed to send her nudes to one Nigerian in Canada. It was even video.

From the chat, the man had been begging her to send him nudes for over 3 months. But, all of a sudden one night, she messaged the man herself and said she was ready. The man paid her 20k.

I'm the one who deflowered this girl, and she's a really good girl. But what I saw shocked me. I never believed my girl could do such . We've been together for 3 years.

I only checked her phone out of curiousity. My girl is not the type that waka upandany, so i trusted her very much. She's a really good girl. But what I saw that she send her nudes, i want die.

I confronted her, and she was crying, saying she couldn't have asked me for the money she needed and that she was desperate. That's why she did it.


I forgave her sha, and she kept bringing up the issue for months, asking me to still forgive her and know that she's not that kind of girl.


If na me I don move ooo. You two still dating?

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by maasoap(m): 1:01pm On Apr 26, 2021
Amuluonyenaego:
yet to recover from the one I did this morning, though noting wanting but out rightly denying that she's still single maybe to keep her chats with the Indian guys going.

I don't want to be confused here, you meant your wife?
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by maasoap(m): 1:04pm On Apr 26, 2021
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Kingcalls:
Its very wrong to snoop on ur partners phone...what will u gain apart from heartbreak....alot lost their loving partners cos they foolishly snooped...what u dint know wudnt kill u...its nest it ends naturally than for u to end it with ur own hands due to snooping ... u might read it a different meaning into what u hv seen on the phone
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Seems like you're afraid to face the truth and reality. Why should you be afraid of what you might find out? The sooner, the better.

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Mustiboy(m): 1:07pm On Apr 26, 2021
Frankicent:



If na me I don move ooo. You two still dating?

We're still together, stronger than before.

But her continual talks about marriage may make me dump her soon. I'm not ready for any commitment yet.
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Laideabdulahi: 1:10pm On Apr 26, 2021
Frankicent:



If na me I don move ooo. You two still dating?

And what is wrong with him still dating the girl.
What you should first aske is, is her face part of the pics sent?
Probably , it may not, that's why the guy is still dating her after forgiving.

For me she is still better than another girl claiming faithful or loyal and lashing 4 guys (including a married man) at the same time. Worse of it all, she blames it on you whenever she is caught that you didn't give her attention nor allow her come during the weekend.
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by maasoap(m): 1:13pm On Apr 26, 2021
charlesucheh:
Don't just try it.

Y'all keep respecting each other's privacy till you get married to avoid unnecessary gbas gbos!!!

You don't want to leave some things to chance until it is too late. Gbas gbos while dating is better than gbas gbos in marriage. Discovering that you have married an olosho won't be funny, and they hardly quit.

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Frankicent(m): 1:13pm On Apr 26, 2021
Mustiboy:


We're still together, stronger than before.

But her continual talks about marriage may make me dump her soon. I'm not ready for any commitment yet.


Lol they all want to marry ASAP
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Laideabdulahi: 1:14pm On Apr 26, 2021
Mustiboy:


We're still together, stronger than before.

But her continual talks about marriage may make me dump her soon. I'm not ready for any commitment yet.

I have said this before.
Some of these girls, it is when they are caught with " evidence(s) , they their loyalty comes out and is permanent.
Especially when you catch her or them without touching their phone. This comes when u hack and monitor from your own device.

If you never catch Dem, sorry.
That's why it's good to check their phone.

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Laideabdulahi: 1:16pm On Apr 26, 2021
maasoap:


You don't want to leave some things to chance until it is too late. Gbas gbos while dating is better than gbas gbos in marriage. Discovering that you have married an olosho won't be funny, and they hardly quit.

All these guys when oil dey their head.
Your head is there baba

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Kingcalls: 1:18pm On Apr 26, 2021
maasoap:


Seems like you're afraid to face the truth and reality. Why should you be afraid of what you might find out? The sooner, the better.

What will happen will happen whether u snoop or not... if they love u truly , they will stay... snooping can't prevent someone from cheating... I think its only simps insecure people, and jobless people that snoop... if u know ur worth , y should u snoop??
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Mustiboy(m): 1:18pm On Apr 26, 2021
Laideabdulahi:


I have said this before.
Some of these girls, it is when they are caught with " evidence(s) , they their loyalty comes out and is permanent.

If you never catch Dem, sorry.
That's why it's good to check their phone.

True
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Laideabdulahi: 1:20pm On Apr 26, 2021
Kingcalls:


What will happen will happen whether u snoop or not... if they love u truly , they will stay... snooping can't prevent someone from cheating... I think its only simps insecure people, and jobless people that snoop... if u know ur worth , y should u snoop??


Lori Iro

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Tvoice: 1:24pm On Apr 26, 2021
What I saw was inconclusive, just like nigeria election, am still investigating, becos am still in shock .

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Dthrone: 1:25pm On Apr 26, 2021
OnlineTechxxx:


But when you take the survey and get paid,then you can gift out the 1k$ to the poor people around you.

Give me the update now
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by maasoap(m): 1:26pm On Apr 26, 2021
Aarenasbaba:
My wife passworded her phone just because I did same.

I have the access to the phone anytime, it can even be with me for hours but I made a terrible mistake when I collected her phone cos my phone packed off.

I downloaded and application called multiple accounts and I logged in my Facebook and WhatsApp.

After a week , I got a new phone and didn't log out my messenger and Facebook from her phone. What she saw is still affecting us even though I didn't sleep with them. But what they sent to me was hmmmmmm

She can pick quarrel anytime and starts crying, just to bribe her this morning, have sent her data just to make her feel good and forget the incident that happened last night..

Keep ur phone away from ur spouse

Can you be sincere that you didn't ask for it?
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Aarenasbaba(m): 1:28pm On Apr 26, 2021
maasoap:


Can you be sincere that you didn't ask for it?
Ask for what
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by maasoap(m): 1:31pm On Apr 26, 2021
Kingcalls:


What will happen will happen whether u snoop or not... if they love u truly , they will stay... snooping can't prevent someone from cheating... I think its only simps insecure people, and jobless people that snoop... if u know ur worth , y should u snoop??

Someone who is already cheating, how can snooping prevent it again? My point here is that you didn't get the gist, it is to enable you know who you're dealing with, not to prevent them from being who they truly are.

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by maasoap(m): 1:32pm On Apr 26, 2021
Aarenasbaba:

Ask for what

What they sent to you of course.
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Goldenfinger: 1:36pm On Apr 26, 2021
kissare you guys still together
Mustiboy:
She was broke one time and agreed to send her nudes to one Nigerian in Canada. It was even video.

From the chat, the man had been begging her to send him nudes for over 3 months. But, all of a sudden one night, she messaged the man herself and said she was ready. The man paid her 20k.

I'm the one who deflowered this girl, and she's a really good girl. But what I saw shocked me. I never believed my girl could do such . We've been together for 3 years.

I only checked her phone out of curiousity. My girl is not the type that waka upandany, so i trusted her very much. She's a really good girl. But what I saw that she send her nudes, i want die.

I confronted her, and she was crying, saying she couldn't have asked me for the money she needed and that she was desperate. That's why she did it.


I forgave her sha, and she kept bringing up the issue for months, asking me to still forgive her and know that she's not that kind of girl.
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Richieniit: 1:42pm On Apr 26, 2021
Trust abi illusion grin
youngmo001:
I no dey check girl phone and she too shouldn't check mine.

Why?.

*no heartbreak
*make trust still dey.
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by femysmart01: 1:42pm On Apr 26, 2021
She came to visit me for a couple of weeks. Something tipped me off and i bugged my room everyday i go to my 12hour shift.
Brethren, i heard the good, the bad and the ugly. women are not all the same but the difference between them is not much.

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Goldenfinger: 1:42pm On Apr 26, 2021
.my guy also,,the girl love am die, but she still dey do corner marking.... women hard to understand jor
Ugandatales:


I felt like crying reading your story. Your girl is a good girl, but some men can be persistent ehn! And as she said, she needed the money. This is better than my guy that found out his girl was sleeping with three different men at the same time...and this girl was always all over the guy. I wonder how she found the time to be doing what she was doing.

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by biggy26: 1:43pm On Apr 26, 2021
Mustiboy:
She was broke one time and agreed to send her nudes to one Nigerian in Canada. It was even video.

From the chat, the man had been begging her to send him nudes for over 3 months. But, all of a sudden one night, she messaged the man herself and said she was ready. The man paid her 20k.

I'm the one who deflowered this girl, and she's a really good girl. But what I saw shocked me. I never believed my girl could do such . We've been together for 3 years.

I only checked her phone out of curiousity. My girl is not the type that waka upandany, so i trusted her very much. She's a really good girl. But what I saw that she send her nudes, i want die.

I confronted her, and she was crying, saying she couldn't have asked me for the money she needed and that she was desperate. That's why she did it.


I forgave her sha, and she kept bringing up the issue for months, asking me to still forgive her and know that she's not that kind of girl.
Bad move on her part, no matter what. But really great you forgave her, I believe she is really sorry.

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Xilsbridalhouse(f): 1:43pm On Apr 26, 2021
Laideabdulahi:


Boss, highly supported.
Una no know as Naija dey now?
Humble girls are being forced to do what they r not supposed to do. Emotions sweep Dem and they give some things a trial.

Check your fiancees phone . I Wana get married But before that, checking their phone or hacking WhatsApp made me see who is who. Out of four , infact all four dey knack another dick. Except for one who did it out of emotions and being taken advantage of.

If I didn't check how would I have know.
The one that understood me the most and I love the most, and na that one fine pass, she dey work, she's hardworking, was lashing dvcks when you are not available. Even lashing her married ex.

Another was banging any guy that is good looking, responsible, working class and ready to spend or give a treat, or drop as little as 5k.
Sounds like you were cheating too or at different intervals?
Check o! But the truth is, the moment your instinct starts telling you to check your partner’s phone, there is definitely something fishy to watch out for.

If he or she uses a password you don’t know, RED Flag!
Phone usually on SILENT-Red flag!
You hardly see the phone lying down carelessly - RED Flag!
Drops phone immediately you enter lol - Red Flag!

Etc

There are good people out there and if you are a good person, God will reveal these things to you but be very sensitive as well.

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by ofiko123(m): 1:45pm On Apr 26, 2021
I don't have a partner so I don't have any experience checking a partners phone...
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Xilsbridalhouse(f): 1:45pm On Apr 26, 2021
chinchonglee:

Yeah sis!
How can u not have the password to your partner's phone

I broke up with a girl cos she refused giving me her password but she has mine and checks my phone frequently.
If we both can have access to our phones, i think we are jst deceiving ourselves. Its best we move on.
It’s a good reason to break up trust me. What’s the point of being in a relationship when you both keep secrets away from each other?

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