ireneidiva:

Too late for all this talk. I read the court wedding has taken place. She is already married. Let her carry her cross.

Spidermon:
I dey see this Kain scenario plenty

Women won't tell you the entire story. A man that isn't outrightly mad doesn't get angry without reason.

Some women (most of them anyway) don't tow the line unless they know that the man is capable of being crazy

She is already married. If she has sense, she will still enjoy the man. Even wild animals get tamed. It all depends on whether she has the required EQ

Dimma22:
it's late oga, did you read the part that says that court marriage has been done. Legally they are married already.

KallmemrB0:
did you read where She wrote court marriage is done already

LeeSantos:

she has prove and can file for annulment..
An annulment is sought when one or both of the spouses believe that there was something legally invalid about the marriage in the first place

Mindlog:


A court wedding means she is legally married before the law but she still feels not because they are yet to do the traditional and Church, which is erroneous.

CSoul:
(Created this new account to post for a sister)



Please help advice a sister in confusion.....


Background:


"I reconnected with my old school toaster who always spoke marriage and love.
Got serious in 5 months.
I've met a lot of people from his end within this period.
He shows me off.
Introduction was done and wedding date fixed."

Issues:
Traditional is barely a week away; yet she's bleeding and scared of the future because of her discoveries:

1. The husband to be has anger issues. Ok, he's all nice and good when in good mood. But once something triggers him, all hell is let loose. The trigger can be a simple missing his call(while at work/meeting). No amount of sweet talk or explanations calms him down.

2. The shocker is that he cheats/has a fuckmate living nearby. She discovered this with evidence from their chats and hasn't been herself. The chat is detailed description of their exploits right up to the present and future plans how they'll continue after he's married. (From same chat, the other lady is aware he's getting married.
He tried denying it; when it didn't work he started making excuses/begging he'll change.

3. He doesn't want any third party intervention in their affairs, not even counseling.

She's scared of the future and yet feels stuck as court marriage is done already, most preparations have been done(publicity and most of other physical arrangements), both for the traditional and wedding.


Kindly give your mature advice; she'll be reading every bit of it.
(Admin kindly push to front page)

CSoul:
(Created this new account to post for a sister)



Please help advice a sister in confusion.....


Background:


"I reconnected with my old school toaster who always spoke marriage and love.
Got serious in 5 months.
I've met a lot of people from his end within this period.
He shows me off.
Introduction was done and wedding date fixed."

Issues:
Traditional is barely a week away; yet she's bleeding and scared of the future because of her discoveries:

1. The husband to be has anger issues. Ok, he's all nice and good when in good mood. But once something triggers him, all hell is let loose. The trigger can be a simple missing his call(while at work/meeting). No amount of sweet talk or explanations calms him down.

2. The shocker is that he cheats/has a fuckmate living nearby. She discovered this with evidence from their chats and hasn't been herself. The chat is detailed description of their exploits right up to the present and future plans how they'll continue after he's married. (From same chat, the other lady is aware he's getting married.
He tried denying it; when it didn't work he started making excuses/begging he'll change.

3. He doesn't want any third party intervention in their affairs, not even counseling.

She's scared of the future and yet feels stuck as court marriage is done already, most preparations have been done(publicity and most of other physical arrangements), both for the traditional and wedding.


Kindly give your mature advice; she'll be reading every bit of it.
(Admin kindly push to front page)

KallmemrB0:
true sha but it doesn't happen easily like you think oooo

MejiLoyon:

I would have ignored you like the rest of your ilks. For non entities are meant to be kept that way. But I noticed the pained and lost soul behind the moniker. My advice... Go out, get some alcohol, try orijin, it knocks people out. Then contact sefunmihookups that you follow to get some oloshos for you. If you can't afford it DM me I'll pay. I promise. You need to release these pent up emotions. I'm believing you're a guy though because a woman will not flare up at any slight opportunity but if fate has bestowed you with the f gender then I suggest you still link up with the moniker above to get a nasty gbola to flog sense into your head as it seems you've gifted yours for a loaf of bread with aluminium condemn people.
Do have a great day. Cheers

Infrabetatech:
Where is the venue?

I want to eat wedding rice

Infrabetatech:
Where is the venue?

I want to eat wedding rice

CSoul:
Admin kindly push to front page; dire help is needed how to proceed from here

lucky999:
no one is perfect,
in this life we have to take a risk,

but if you take a risk and get into trouble, I take God beg you no mention my name

Happy married life in advance....

sisisioge:
Scary stuff...shall we pray?

Dearest Lord, Almight Father, King of the University, Maker of our paths....please help order your daughter's steps. In Jesus Name. Amen.

Dont worry, God has been called, He will get involved.

See, most marriages in Nigeria are based on the guy/girl being obligated to get it done, not because they found soulmates they couldn't live without. That's why companionship, stability, sex and everything inbetween is rated before Love. By the time the marriage commences, there would be a dire need for a missing link which is usually a third party(side chick or side bobo) that acts as the calmer of the union. He or she fills that void that would be there because husband and wife couldn't perfectly sync. These 3rd parties then become the glue that keep the marriage going. Looks like your glue is already defined, question is....do you want to play along to keep everyone happy or you want to keep looking until you meet someone that would tick all your boxes? Sweetheart, it's one hell of a Moraforrkking decision to make. Trust me, I know.


Good luck.

Ishilove:
This one is hard o...

ireneidiva:

Too late for all this talk. I read the court wedding has taken place. She is already married. Let her carry her cross.

mmadu4:
this marriage of a thing is overrated seriously nothing special .

madridguy:
3. He doesn't want any third party intervention in their affairs, not even counseling.

bjprodint1:
When i left b otrix,i went into another relationship,even introduction date was fixed.he shows me off too,but wen he is angry he threatens me with knives and cutlasses,den begs later.i even reported him to ogbaku police station.police did nothing.my father insisted i marry him.i got pregnant.let d relationship.had an incomplete miscarriage went in for emergency evacuation.i almost died.i av my peace and freedom now.now d fool is stalking me.cc foodqueen,u ones asked him why i deactivated,was expecting him to give an answer.this is d answer. Marrying a person who has anger management isue is a big mistake.

bjprodint1:
When i left b otrix,i went into another relationship,even introduction date was fixed.he shows me off too,but wen he is angry he threatens me with knives and cutlasses,den begs later.i even reported him to ogbaku police station.police did nothing.my father insisted i marry him.i got pregnant.let d relationship.had an incomplete miscarriage went in for emergency evacuation.i almost died.i av my peace and freedom now.now d fool is stalking me.cc foodqueen,u ones asked him why i deactivated,was expecting him to give an answer.this is d answer. Marrying a person who has anger management isue is a big mistake.

CSoul:
(Created this new account to post for a sister)



Please help advice a sister in confusion.....


Background:


"I reconnected with my old school toaster who always spoke marriage and love.
Got serious in 5 months.
I've met a lot of people from his end within this period.
He shows me off.
Introduction was done and wedding date fixed."

Issues:
Traditional is barely a week away; yet she's bleeding and scared of the future because of her discoveries:

1. The husband to be has anger issues. Ok, he's all nice and good when in good mood. But once something triggers him, all hell is let loose. The trigger can be a simple missing his call(while at work/meeting). No amount of sweet talk or explanations calms him down.

2. The shocker is that he cheats/has a fuckmate living nearby. She discovered this with evidence from their chats and hasn't been herself. The chat is detailed description of their exploits right up to the present and future plans how they'll continue after he's married. (From same chat, the other lady is aware he's getting married.
He tried denying it; when it didn't work he started making excuses/begging he'll change.

3. He doesn't want any third party intervention in their affairs, not even counseling.

She's scared of the future and yet feels stuck as court marriage is done already, most preparations have been done(publicity and most of other physical arrangements), both for the traditional and wedding.


Kindly give your mature advice; she'll be reading every bit of it.
(Admin kindly push to front page)

CSoul:
(Created this new account to post for a sister)



Please help advice a sister in confusion.....


Background:


"I reconnected with my old school toaster who always spoke marriage and love.
Got serious in 5 months.
I've met a lot of people from his end within this period.
He shows me off.
Introduction was done and wedding date fixed."

Issues:
Traditional is barely a week away; yet she's bleeding and scared of the future because of her discoveries:

1. The husband to be has anger issues. Ok, he's all nice and good when in good mood. But once something triggers him, all hell is let loose. The trigger can be a simple missing his call(while at work/meeting). No amount of sweet talk or explanations calms him down.

2. The shocker is that he cheats/has a fuckmate living nearby. She discovered this with evidence from their chats and hasn't been herself. The chat is detailed description of their exploits right up to the present and future plans how they'll continue after he's married. (From same chat, the other lady is aware he's getting married.
He tried denying it; when it didn't work he started making excuses/begging he'll change.

3. He doesn't want any third party intervention in their affairs, not even counseling.

She's scared of the future and yet feels stuck as court marriage is done already, most preparations have been done(publicity and most of other physical arrangements), both for the traditional and wedding.


Kindly give your mature advice; she'll be reading every bit of it.
(Admin kindly push to front page)

Dupsierae:
Better don’t make such mistake..marriage is forever..a man with anger issues can kill and at the end blame it on his anger..

Pls be wise

naturefellow:
Divorce Irreconcilable differences?