Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,149,854 members, 7,806,416 topics. Date: Tuesday, 23 April 2024 at 04:08 PM

What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? - Romance (9) - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? (37015 Views)

A Nairalander Tie The Knot With Old Time Course Mate 15 Years After Graduation. / What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? / Man Tying The Headgear Of His Fiancee On Their Traditional Wedding Day (2) (3) (4)

(1) (2) (3) ... (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) (12) (Reply) (Go Down)

Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by Holaomoakin(m): 5:00am On May 07, 2021
She is not done with her arrangement...
Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by AroOkigbo(m): 5:04am On May 07, 2021
TimmyTen:
She said she’s not ready. Strange but true
Another person de chop am for sure.
If that one fails, you are option 2.

1 Like

Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by Edio1: 5:15am On May 07, 2021
Money and steady income

1 Like

Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by emmaodet: 5:28am On May 07, 2021
UyaiIncomparabl:
I am still having sinister thoughts about him.

He doesn't have enough money as I want. I think I will dump him soon. I just met one Alhaji who has promised to take care of me and I have seen that he can give me what I want, which is money. He's even an American citizen. I can't put up with any broke dude. Gosh. They stink. Dry pockets. Urggh.

My birthday is soon approaching and the fool can't afford my birthday bills. He's such a disgrace. He can't even afford my bone straight hair. Is that one a man? I'm so done.

Waoooooooo
This is really really touching.
Just because he is struggling financially, you started addressing him with words like - fool, dry pocket, stinks, a disgrace. You want to dump him for an alhaji with money and even an American citizen.
This really shows there is nothing like love, love is just to fool a man.
Because he has no money, you asked is that one a man? That is, a man should be a money bag to be milked dry and dumped.
It is well.

3 Likes

Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by emmaodet: 5:33am On May 07, 2021
Eriokanmi:
Tarr. I got married inside one room apartment with our kitchen located outside the house. ..no cars, na box tv we dey use, no single chair...visitors must sit on our bed. Today, we're blessed with good things of life. Our kids attend one of the best schools in the country. We built our house in a choice location in lagos and have travelled the world.

Don't despise your little beginning. You didn't create yourself, God did so your survival mustn't be dependent on the Nigerian economy or any government. Suffice it to say I've dined with world leaders, including Barak Obama right inside the Daughters of American Revolution (DAR) Constitution Hall near the white House in Washington DC on invitation by an organisation in recognition of my business activities in Nigeria. What more can I say?

Drop any girl who's saying you must get married in a 2-bed apartment or organise a talk of the town wedding when you don't have the power or resources to do so. She won't make a good wife. We are blessed with 3 wonderful children...one girl and 2 boys.

Bro forget this motivational talk, time has changed and things are no longer the way it should be.
For every one of you who succeeded and scaled the poverty fence, we have a thousand men who didn’t make it to bro.
You are just one lucky chap.
Moreover, I will advise any woman going into marriage to go with a sense of duty and not what she wants to get out of it so that on the long run of the man didn’t make it, she won’t feel disappointed or start insulting the man for being a failure due to high expectations.

5 Likes 2 Shares

Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by Emerie22(m): 5:34am On May 07, 2021
SpecialNwa:
Husband no gree come oo..
I'm available pls DM me ���
I'm God fearing lady
From Enugu state
Base in kano...
Self employed
Thank you

How can I meet you
Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by emmaodet: 5:36am On May 07, 2021
Guyman02:
As a married man with kids, years ago I used to tease younger men to get married, I even sponsor some aspects of their wedding as a way of motivation, now that the economy has hit me hard under this regime, I just look away, anyone who wants to get married should decide by himself, I no dey promote marriage to anyone again.

Buhari's regime is not marriage friendly, one girl here even opened a thread insulting her sister's unemployed fiance for coming to their house to eat food, she won't understand what many young men of marriage age are passing through because she has her parents roof over her head.

Bro it is even not about Buhari era, I won’t advise my enemy to marry in this century.
Never!!!

3 Likes 1 Share

Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by ekwerendi(m): 6:00am On May 07, 2021
Money
I have the bride already
Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by Mustiboy(m): 7:05am On May 07, 2021
HolyTitus:
ah ah, when did my moniker became mustiboy

Who be this one
Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by Nobody: 7:20am On May 07, 2021
UyaiIncomparabl:


He's the broke one. I'm the one who feeds him, and I'm getting tired. He's just fine and has chest for nothing. He is even flashing me now sef. You can imagine the broke fool. Mscheww.
no fool he is
Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by humilitypays(m): 7:21am On May 07, 2021
UyaiIncomparabl:
I am still having sinister thoughts about him.

He doesn't have enough money as I want. I think I will dump him soon. I just met one Alhaji who has promised to take care of me and I have seen that he can give me what I want, which is money. He's even an American citizen. I can't put up with any broke dude. Gosh. They stink. Dry pockets. Urggh.

My birthday is soon approaching and the fool can't afford my birthday bills. He's such a disgrace. He can't even afford my bone straight hair. Is that one a man? I'm so done.
Judging by this your post right now, anybody that believes you are a female ought to be shot right on the anus at close range.



You be guy, who knows how many guys you have deceived that u are a female on this platform shocked cheesy cheesy

3 Likes 1 Share

Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by humilitypays(m): 7:28am On May 07, 2021
Eriokanmi:
Tarr. I got married inside one room apartment with our kitchen located outside the house. ..no cars, na box tv we dey use, no single chair...visitors must sit on our bed. Today, we're blessed with good things of life. Our kids attend one of the best schools in the country. We built our house in a choice location in lagos and have travelled the world.

Don't despise your little beginning. You didn't create yourself, God did so your survival mustn't be dependent on the Nigerian economy or any government. Suffice it to say I've dined with world leaders, including Barak Obama right inside the Daughters of American Revolution (DAR) Constitution Hall near the white House in Washington DC on invitation by an organisation in recognition of my business activities in Nigeria. What more can I say?

Drop any girl who's saying you must get married in a 2-bed apartment or organise a talk of the town wedding when you don't have the power or resources to do so. She won't make a good wife. We are blessed with 3 wonderful children...one girl and 2 boys.
Your words are really encouraging and sound so beautiful.


But to be honest with you brother, time have changed so bad. Maybe as a result of overpopulation and useless consecutive leaders of many years combined destroyed Nigeria's economy and made the youths Hopeless and helpless.


Many people share your story of grass to riches but not so many were lucky as you and others, including myself. I always thank God for my case cos mine was God's mercy and favour not that I am the smartest.


I have far more smarter friends who have done all humanly possible yet they struggle to survive.


Our present life now is more of divine favour, God's mercy and luck than hard work and perseverance.


In fact we should even encourage more Nigerian youths to stay single to control our overblowing national population.

But the issue is while the Southern youths are shying away from marriage due to economy difficulties, the Northern youths are breeding millions of children without plan for them angry

3 Likes

Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by AlphamaleTech1(m): 7:57am On May 07, 2021
Na dat stupid Desmond Olusola Elliot dey stop me. The man don go use toilet block the road wey link to my girl street.

3 Likes 1 Share

Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by AlphamaleTech1(m): 8:02am On May 07, 2021
UyaiIncomparabl:
I am still having sinister thoughts about him.

He doesn't have enough money as I want. I think I will dump him soon. I just met one Alhaji who has promised to take care of me and I have seen that he can give me what I want, which is money. He's even an American citizen. I can't put up with any broke dude. Gosh. They stink. Dry pockets. Urggh.

My birthday is soon approaching and the fool can't afford my birthday bills. He's such a disgrace. He can't even afford my bone straight hair. Is that one a man? I'm so done.



Are u rich yourself? U av blood running in your veins just like every other living being, so y can't u be as rich as u want as well.
Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by Chidexsco8448(m): 8:12am On May 07, 2021
I) Money
II) She's still in her skills acquisition school rounding up nxt year... hopefully till then

1 Like

Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by Futuremom: 8:26am On May 07, 2021
I believe you are a gang star.. Do you think this your reasoning will last till you are old.. I sorry for you or your up coming mother and child tufia
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright.....a real niggarrr ain't doing dating not to talk of marriage......marriage is full of shit...
Most people are scared of the Problem and wahalar that comes with marriage....the shit scares the hell out of them

Marriage na scam i swear.....
a real niggarrr won't do that shit.....baby mama sure me die....too many problems and wahalar in marriage
a real niggarrr will now be in the same roof with one particular pussy for God knows how long
The thought of that shit scares the hell out of me
Coupled with the fact that she won't be allowing me to live my life on the fast lane anymore...she won't allow me smoke my weed, bang other pussy, drink enough bottles.
Not to talk of the fact that my dickkk won't be getting excited for her anymore because my dickkk is used to her already...the love will no longer be there...but we will continue to be pretending that we still love each other probably because of our kids and what society will say
She go dey quarrel and advise me like a mother, sister and wife make i stop those things like alcohol, smoking weed, banging other pussy or make i reduce am..if i nor hear she go come go report to my mum or daddy..or probably person way I dey fear pass for my family...those ones go come call me for family meeting...see wahalar

Damnnn.......mmmmm...he who finds a wife..finds real dope problem and wahalar..and he doesn't know what he has put his hand into
Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by wildikeman(m): 8:44am On May 07, 2021
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright.....a real niggarrr ain't doing dating not to talk of marriage......marriage is full of shit...
Most people are scared of the Problem and wahalar that comes with marriage....the shit scares the hell out of them

Marriage na scam i swear.....
a real niggarrr won't do that shit.....baby mama sure me die....too many problems and wahalar in marriage
a real niggarrr will now be in the same roof with one particular pussy for God knows how long
The thought of that shit scares the hell out of me
Coupled with the fact that she won't be allowing me to live my life on the fast lane anymore...she won't allow me smoke my weed, bang other pussy, drink enough bottles.
Not to talk of the fact that my dickkk won't be getting excited for her anymore because my dickkk is used to her already...the love will no longer be there...but we will continue to be pretending that we still love each other probably because of our kids and what society will say
She go dey quarrel and advise me like a mother, sister and wife make i stop those things like alcohol, smoking weed, banging other pussy or make i reduce am..if i nor hear she go come go report to my mum or daddy..or probably person way I dey fear pass for my family...those ones go come call me for family meeting...see wahalar

Damnnn.......mmmmm...he who finds a wife..finds real dope problem and wahalar..and he doesn't know what he has put his hand into


Damn nigggaaaar! What's good. Men I second what you are saying o. Marriage?? Fvck that shit mate
Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by Ingredient88(m): 8:49am On May 07, 2021
Dreyton36:
Having your own family and seeing your kids grow is amazing and boosts your hustling spirit

So what's stopping you from tying the knot with her ?
Let's hear from y'all

P.s I'm married with 4 beautiful kids
2boys and 2girls
not financially buoyant.... For now.

1 Like

Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by Nurseonduty(f): 9:33am On May 07, 2021
::

2 Likes

Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by bammydhele(m): 9:51am On May 07, 2021
Nah money ooo; coz if money dey, I'm 100% okay with her and ready to marry
Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by Adesh619(m): 9:54am On May 07, 2021
Because, I don't believe in relationship anymore and to CROWN � it all, Ba Kudi "NO MONEY!"
Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by Ishilove: 10:06am On May 07, 2021
humilitypays:
Judging by this your post right now, anybody that believes you are a female ought to be shot right on the anus at close range.



You be guy, who no how many guys for here u don deceive that u are a female shocked cheesy cheesy
The imagery embarassed
Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by bayocanny: 10:30am On May 07, 2021
MinahTee:
Afraid of what comes after marriage,
Some people I knew before their wedding who were fat don have long neck.
I dey fear ooo
I no know wet in I go meet for there���������

Are you a Senegalese?
Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by Ceufinish: 10:31am On May 07, 2021
Jarman411:
Na money she get. She no sabi fVCK. Who wan de with who no sabi forever. No be me oo

Marry her and teach her. Or were you born with your bedroom skills
Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:31am On May 07, 2021
AlphamaleTech1:




Are u rich yourself? U av blood running in your veins just like every other living being, so y can't u be as rich as u want as well.

Mind your damn business. Gosh. angry
Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by bayocanny: 10:34am On May 07, 2021
omolola12345:
My parents are not in support of it
Why?
Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:35am On May 07, 2021
Nurseonduty:
The guy is wasting my time seriously... Almost 4years already ��

Gosh. Why are there so many stories of time-wasters parading as men?

Dump him like a hot pot, girl. He will date you until the 6th, 7th, 8th year and may not marry you. When it gets to the 12th year, he will tell you how he doesn't think you both can work out anymore. Be wise.
Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:36am On May 07, 2021
humilitypays:
Judging by this your post right now, anybody that believes you are a female ought to be shot right on the anus at close range.



You are guy, who knows how many guys you have deceived that u are a female on this platform shocked cheesy cheesy

How about we start the shooting from your anus? angry
Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by Bestmanedet(m): 10:37am On May 07, 2021
Money is the problem
Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:39am On May 07, 2021
emmaodet:


Waoooooooo
This is really really touching.
Just because he is struggling financially, you started addressing him with words like - fool, dry pocket, stinks, a disgrace. You want to dump him for an alhaji with money and even an American citizen.
This really shows there is nothing like love, love is just to fool a man.
Because he has no money, you asked is that one a man? That is, a man should be a money bag to be milked dry and dumped.
It is well.

The I am that I am, Jehovah Nisseh, Jehovah Jireh, El-Shaddai, Kings of kings and Lord of lords knows that I didn't read this your epistle! angry
Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by bayocanny: 10:39am On May 07, 2021
Erojepromise:
You Neva see how kwantri be? undecided
Cute
Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by Aaaaarghmed(m): 10:40am On May 07, 2021
If you are dating a woman and she no get pride you are lucky,I am not lucky meeting good ladies.pride wan kill my own woman.just too proud.to apologize na issue.well I have decided to just leave my life one day at a tỉme ,

(1) (2) (3) ... (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) (12) (Reply)

What's The Worst Thing A Woman Has Done On The First Date? / On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition / Couple's Ooni Of Ife Inspired Pre-wedding Photos

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 52
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.