If the child likes you, if you’re nice to the child, that’s no insurance against false accusations. It probably makes you MORE of a target. These children are more likely to have mental and emotional problems.

Social workers know that children in these situations are more likely to be abused by their mother’s lovers, so they’ll be more likely to believe you are a culprit. Even if you are ultimately cleared of false accusations, the mere accusation can ruin your life. This reason alone should eliminate single mothers from your consideration.

First it will start off with having to pay for babysitters, and then she will want to have “dates” on which the child(ren) will come along.

So not only will you not be getting sex, but you’re going to have to hang out at expensive restaurants to pay for the child’s meals and entertainment.

Depending on what is happening with the child’s biological father, how much time the child spends around you, paying for the child, and buying gifts for the child (think birthdays, Christmas, etc.), you can end up getting tagged for child support.

All it takes is some judge or government official picking YOU to pay for the child’s needs rather than taxpayers. Finally, if you marry her, you will DEFINITELY be paying more.

A woman who has given birth can never have a body close to what she had before carrying a child. This is not saying that having a child isn’t worth it, but this is not about YOU having a child. That child is hers, not yours. Her body was changed by something that is of no benefit to you.

You don't want to end up divorced. Especially since women are more likely to file for divorce, marrying a divorced woman means you are more likely to end up divorced from her. Second marriages have a higher failure rate than first marriage.

Marrying a woman with minor children gives you about a 70% chance of getting divorced. And that's legal divorce. Some people stay legally married, but miserable.

She has demonstrated already that she doesn’t know how to effectively use contraception OR otherwise doesn’t make good choices because she made children with the wrong guy (most likely), and has demonstrated that she WANTS to be a mother as she kept the child.

Once a woman is a mother, she is less reluctant to avoid pregnancy. She may WANT her child(ren) to have a sibling, and you don’t want to end up being Daddy.

It doesn’t matter what she says as far as “I don’t want another child” or “I can’t get pregnant” or “I’m using contraception” or “I wouldn’t ask anything of you.” Women lie or change their minds about this sort of thing all of time, and even if she doesn’t, a court can make you be Daddy, financially anyway.

A single Mother’s schedule is never open. Single mothers are the kind of women to always cancel dates at the last minute. Something always gets in the way of a man spending time with her. It’s hard to have a relationship with her because she’s never there.

Usually in a relationship the man winds up DEAD LAST. Behind, her kids, her job, the car, the kitchen sink, the stopped up toilet.

Even the dog gets more attention and affection than a man involved with a single mother. Any man who gets involved with a single mother winds up a fifth stringer in a relationship. And he rarely ever gets called up to play.

A single mother is one of the biggest narcissists on the dating scene. She often thinks that a man has to drop everything in his life to be part of hers and her kids.

They’re so selfish they don’t think a man has needs, wants or a life of his own. He’s just supposed to be there to give her everything she wants in life.

Single mothers cannot form an intimate connection with a man because her feelings are invested in other people. Usually her primary focus is on her children. In addition to dedicating herself to her children, most single mothers have given their hearts to someone else- their children’s father.

And those feelings she still has for him will always prevent her from getting closer to you. There will always be some distance between a single mother and the new man in her life.

A man just doesn’t deal with a single mother. He deals with her ex or her baby daddy as well. And this guy is always hovering around like a helicopter looking to cockblock you. Some of these guys still think they have a shot at getting back with her.

Others just don’t want to see her happy. A lot of these dudes want to fight over her. Seriously, it’s a game they’re playing with each other. And they’ll be playing that game with each other until their children turn 18 or 21. Head for the exit. It’s just not worth dealing with this fool and his insecure bullshit.

When dealing with a single mother you also deal with Kids. Kids who still in their little heart of hearts think that Dad will come back and love them. Seriously, GET THE HELL OUT OF THERE!

They will act out to keep you from getting closer to mommy. They will make accusations against you to get you in trouble. Again, it’s just not worth dealing with the bullshit to get with a female.

There are four billion women in the world. You can find a quality female who doesn’t carry all this baggage or give you this much grief.

Single mothers think because she had a baby out of wedlock the world owes her EVERYTHING. And she thinks she’s the one who deserves the best. Even though she’s usually collecting welfare, food stamps, or child support, in her eyes she’s still supposed to be treated like she’s a queen because she popped a kid out of her vagina.

In their deluded distorted vision of the world, men are still supposed to take her out to the finest restaurants and buy them lots of expensive stuff. And he’s supposed to take care of her kids too, buying them whatever they want while taking a blind eye to their bad behavior.

Single mothers still thinks she’s as sexy like she was before she had a baby. Only she doesn’t understand how her body has changed. In some cases for the worse.

Single mothers are the type to try to squeeze themselves into sexy outfits like low-rise jeans and cropped T-shirts to show off their belly button, not seeing the muffin top and stretch marks squeezing out over the top of their pants.

They’re the type to stuff themselves into slinky spandex dresses, (not aware of that gut, and the cellulite on their asses) and head out to the club. She thinks men are supposed to run up on her offering to buy her drinks.

And because a few thirsty simps step to her, she thinks she’s still got it. But the only people who wants what she has to offer are scavengers at the bottom of the social scene.”

Single Mothers never take responsibility for their actions. The situation they’re in is always the fault of that “no good man”, “these damn kids” their mother or someone else.

They never take any time to do any self-examination or make any efforts to change their lives. They’re still looking for some "Rich Incredibly Handsome Man" to put on a cape and play Captain Save-A-Hoe, sweep her off her feet and take her out of the troubling situation she created for herself.

A single mother will be the sweetest thing when a man first dates her, but a few months into a relationship she turns into a NUTJOB. A man will usually see glimpses of this when she chastises her kids when he first meets them.

During that meeting she’ll yell at them and bully them to get them to act right while praising a man like he’s an angel. It’s all an act. Heaven will turn into Hell around the six-month mark.

Once a single mother gets a man settled into her life, she starts verbally abusing him and mocking him as she projects all that pent-up rage from those previous failed relationships onto him. And it’s usually around this point that most men realize why this woman is single and why it’s time for him to hit the exit door.

Because a single mother always sees herself as a victim of society, she’s always talking about her problems. And she always has a new trouble to bring everyone. There’s never a good day in the life of a single mother because there’s always some new crisis about to emerge in her life.

The reason single mothers need the drama is because it makes them feel important. It makes people pay attention to them. And when "Captain-Save-A-Hoe" is doting on them trying to solve their problems it makes them feel an artificial sense of value.

They need that value to deflects people’s attention from how pathetic their lives actually are.

Manipulative In most cases, a single mother has no interest in a man she’s dating. In a lot of cases she’s just using a guy as a pawn.

Deep down in her heart of hearts she believes that if she’s seen with someone else who sees her as valuable that he’ll see her as valuable and take her back. In other cases when she’s not trying to get a rise out of Baby Daddy she’s playing the sympathy card using a guy to get gifts, free dinners and free drinks out of him.

To a single mother, The men in her lives are just human ATM machines where she whispers a sweet nothing in his ear like a PIN number and money comes out of his wallet. And because she’s a drama queen who loves to play the victim, the Single mother plays to men’s emotions to get them to react in the way she wants.

It’s not common for a single mother to tell her man man about her baby daddy so he can go fight him. Or pit two baby daddies against each other. Many a man has wound up either dead or in prison because a single Mother played the victim card.

It’s how she gets what she wants. It’s how she manipulates people. It’s how she takes care of her kids. It’s how she survives in this world. Single mothers lie. And they LIE ALL THE TIME.

They lie to men about their age, their height, their weight, how many kids they have, the job they do. On top of the lies they tell to others, they lie to themselves. They lie about how beautiful they are. They lie telling themselves they’re still a catch. They lie telling themselves they still have a chance with a good man.

They lie telling themselves that their lives will be happily ever after one day. The horrible truth is without those lies most of those single mothers would realize how pathetic their lives are. How they have no options in the dating scene. That they’re at the bottom of the barrel in the dating scene and the only men who want them are pathetic Manginas and thirsty Simps.

A single mother has more issues than Time and Newsweek combined. And when she’s looking for a man, she’s not looking for an equal caring partner. She’s looking for a "Pullman Porter" to take care of her kids, and clean up her messes with her children’s’ father.

Reasons why you should never date a single mother is because, not everyone is going to accept your relationship with a single mother. Some people will have their opinion like it is not right for you and so on. If you're mentally prepared for it, then you can still go ahead with it.

They decided to be a single mother and ended up their marriage for reasons. You need to think about it, maybe they are not as perfect as their appearance.

Mynd44:
OP, Who hurt you?

Mynd44:
OP, Who hurt you?

Mynd44:
OP, Who hurt you?

Mynd44:
OP, Who hurt you?

WriterNig:
Curled from this thread.

Here I've compiled a list of reasons why you shouldn't date or marry a single/divorced mom;


1. Being around the child(ren) exposes you to false charges of abuse:


2. You WILL have to pay more than if you date a childless woman:


3. Her body is Deteriorated:


4. Second Marriages have a higher failure rate than first marriages:


5. You don’t want to father a child in such mess:


6. Never Available:


7. YOU are NOT a priority:


8. Thinks the world revolves around HER and ONLY HER:


9. Emotionally Unavailable:


10. The ex/Baby Daddy is ALWAYS THERE:


11. Her kids are working AGAINST YOU:


12. Her kids will HATE YOU:

13. Entitled Attitude:


14. Distorted Self-image:


15. Always the VICTIM:


16. Jekyll & Hyde Personality:


17. Drama Queen:


18. In most cases she’s dating to make her Baby Daddy jealous:


19. Dishonest. A single mother is a LIAR:


20. Carries Baggage, baggage and more baggage:


21. Not Everyone is Going to Accept It:


22. Their Previous Marriage Ended For Reasons:



SOURCE



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Peachbloom:
And these are the same reasons why women should NEVER MARRY A DIVORCED MAN/ A SINGLE FATHER.

An additional reason for women, the divorced man never got closure from the ex wife. They will always compare you to her all the time.

Dalil8:
Op why u copy my post, no come give me credit?

mytime24:
So wat abt single fathers


Oooh, i forget say dem b saints