Euouae:
Good people are averagely smart,

The believe too much in fictions, that they forget to face reality squarely.

Good people are not dynamic... One way traffic

Good people can barely read in-between the lines and swiftly act

Even Jesus was a good man and why he could be killed. Imagine Jesus had the character of Tompolo, He would have japa!

mariahAngel:


Don't say things you have no deep knowledge and understanding of.

Euouae:


You are buttressing what I am saying.

One way traffic. Not dynamic... Fictional

Goalnaldo:
My condolences brother.

Plebian:
Take heart. Cry. You'll be fine.

Richy4:
Please Accept my condolence...Death is the meal everyone old and young, strong and weak, Good or bad people must eat someday..

I will suggest that you do not throw an accusing fingers on anyone at the moment....Please for the sake of anything you hold sacred, do not believe the pastor....

If you really want to know the cause of your mum's demise, autopsy report is the way to go..If the reports says that the cause of death is unknown, then you can think otherwise.... The cheapest way some Nigerian go about the cause of death is to blame someone because it cost nothing...And there's gonna be a native doctor or pastor that will affirm to that....Those people have destroyed so many homes and families..

This is the time to come together as one family... as you said, your mum is a gentle person, She will desire a peaceful event...please let her event be as she was known for (gentle and a peaceful person)... Once again accept, my condolence..

bayocanny:


I appreciate your submission, God bless you.

meobizy:
Sorry for your loss, OP. Life is never constant. Good and bad happen to everybody. You’ll hit other high and low points during this journey called existence. My way of coping with disappointments is to always expect the worst in situations — that way I’m never caught off guard.

bayocanny:
The death of my biological mother made me thrown out this question, "why do bad things happen to good people?".

Since last year, my mom has been down with strange illness. We took her to the hospital, done necessary check up and all, doctor prescribed different medications which she took accordingly, yet not significant improvement.

Most importantly, why do God allowed bad things to happen to Good people?

bayocanny:


Thank you.

cococandy:
OP so sorry for your loss.
But I have to tell you that just because they couldn’t diagnose her doesn’t mean someone killed her. That thought could hinder your healing process by filling you with anger and helplessness.
Sometimes illnesses defy diagnosis. It’s a huge loss that will take time to heal. Sorry love