I walk out of my house, wear expensive clothes..hold and expensive phone with a bearded baby face and smell like wealth. I turn I see the feminine gender staring with lust, 20s-60s it doesn’t matter, they stare and I know they are thinking who is this fine ass man looking like wealth? But alas I am BROKEN! Being single since 2017, had sexxx just twice with a normal girl that wasn’t paid for twice since then, FACT! I literally have no crushes, I never admire any female outside sexual fantasies and I just pay for it if I am so pressed about konji. I don’t see girls like girls anymore, they just look like cheap stalkers in my eyes who want to rob me or scam me. It gets worse with each year, I just cannot admire any woman anymore, no desire or lust or feelings. I just ignore the whole lot of them who notice me and just get irritated to even be wanted. What the Bleep has happened to me

Not only you. A lot of guys out there feel the same way.

You know when you've exhausted the little emotions you have on the wrong ones, heartbroken and you have absolutely no energy to start the dating process all over again. Your goals and aspirations are staring you in the face and you don't have time for games.

You just wanna be happy but then, too many fake people out there. Just focus on being a better version of yourself.

You don't have to date anyone for now, infact you don't have to get married. Just do what gives you peace of mind and genuine happiness.

And as for love, you may finally find it when you least expect. Just make friends and don't attach anything else to it.
You'll be fine.

Nothing happened to you. Change that mindset,stop seeing girls as people who wants to scam or eat your money, learn to love. Get attracted to one,learn her character and flaws, free up yourself from the bondage you have put yourself into.

Mental health issue.

Prettydevil:
I walk out of my house, wear expensive clothes..hold and expensive phone with a bearded baby face and smell like wealth. I turn I see the feminine gender staring with lust, 20s-60s it doesn’t matter, they stare and I know they are thinking who is this fine ass man looking like wealth? But alas I am BROKEN! Being single since 2017, had sexxx just twice with a normal girl that wasn’t paid for twice since then, FACT! I literally have no crushes, I never admire any female outside sexual fantasies and I just pay for it if I am so pressed about konji. I don’t see girls like girls anymore, they just look like cheap stalkers in my eyes who want to rob me or scam me. It gets worse with each year, I just cannot admire any woman anymore, no desire or lust or feelings. I just ignore the whole lot of them who notice me and just get irritated to even be wanted. What the Bleep has happened to me

you simply do not have any reason for leaving this life

its not about women...but about what they where made for

i met my current fiancée and it was like i met a bunch of solutions to life long problems

again .its not about women...but about understanding why we have women in this life

There's something broken in you that needs to be fixed... You are broken emotionally that's why you are attracting emotionally broken girls also..

As for me all the girls i have dated have wanted to spend money on me instead of the other way around..

Mine is similar to your case

Make I no talk

A lot of people are broken in this country. Emotionally, psychologically, mentally and physically. There are millions of very pretty but damaged girls. They are usually moody, unhappy for no reason, violent etc. Being in a relationship with them is usually very toxic.

Unfortunately, our mentally health institutions are nothing to write home about and mental health is still stigmatised.

It's ok to feel that way bro coz the word love is a mirage. They only love you if it's beneficial.
Know this and have peace of mind

Ugly boy talk.

Chloraseptic:
There's something broken in you that needs to be fixed... You are broken emotionally that's why you are attracting emotionally broken girls also..

As for me all the girls i have dated have wanted to spend money on me instead of the other way around..

Deborah98:
Nothing happened to you. Change that mindset,stop seeing girls as people who wants to scam or eat your money, learn to love. Get attracted to one,learn her character and flaws, free up yourself from the bondage you have put yourself into.

Why should we learn to love when each time we get heart break again?

Sammy07:


Why should we learn to love when each time we get heart break again?

omo na de matter I dey discuss now with some paddies... It's well,our hearts will cling to the one who will never hurt nor break it.

Deborah98:
omo na de matter I dey discuss now with some paddies... It's well,our hearts will cling to the one who will never hurt nor break it.

Like seriously.
Its just look somehow.
When someone has genuine love, no double dating, caring and give you all you want.
Den you decide to ditch him.

It do hurt, honestly
ESP the years wasted.

Sammy07:


Like seriously.
Its just look somehow.
When someone has genuine love, no double dating, caring and give you all you want.
Den you decide to ditch him.

It do hurt, honestly
ESP the years wasted.

yeah it hurts same thing is applicable to we ladies,it does happen to us, just forget whatever may have happened in the past,trust me you'll meet someone somewhere someday who won't think of hurting or leaving you for a second.

It's ok to feel that way bro coz the word love is a mirage. They only love you if it's beneficial. Know this and have peace of mind

Cokahot:
Ugly boy talk.

You've seen me before to know I'm ugly?

zed7:
A lot of people are broken in this country. Emotionally, psychologically, mentally and physically. There are millions of very pretty but damaged girls. They are usually moody, unhappy for no reason, violent etc. Being in a relationship with them is usually very toxic.

Unfortunately, our mentally health institutions are nothing to write home about and mental health is still stigmatised.

Is there any institution in this country that’s something to write home about? Just a rhetorical question

Those men that have about 3 girls on speed dial abeg try release one or two for the less privileged

Take time out away from relationships and sexual interaction with women, maybe around 3 years. Tough but easily doable.
You might not meet the right woman after your sabbatical but you'll be able to cope better.
Also, don't expect women you come across to be perfect or even "reasonable", and yes I have female relatives too.

Prettydevil:
I walk out of my house, wear expensive clothes..hold and expensive phone with a bearded baby face and smell like wealth. I turn I see the feminine gender staring with lust, 20s-60s it doesn’t matter, they stare and I know they are thinking who is this fine ass man looking like wealth? But alas I am BROKEN! Being single since 2017, had sexxx just twice with a normal girl that wasn’t paid for twice since then, FACT! I literally have no crushes, I never admire any female outside sexual fantasies and I just pay for it if I am so pressed about konji. I don’t see girls like girls anymore, they just look like cheap stalkers in my eyes who want to rob me or scam me. It gets worse with each year, I just cannot admire any woman anymore, no desire or lust or feelings. I just ignore the whole lot of them who notice me and just get irritated to even be wanted. What the Bleep has happened to me

Wow. How did this start?

I think you need to form real emotional connections with women. With women who don't lust after you or only want you for your money. Hard to come by though. Your best bet is to start with friendship and be smart with filtering women.

From a woman's perspective, it's similar. It's hard to find men who truly love them beyond their body.

OP stay away from porn and masturbation.